roland0fgilead Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	31 Traits Every Attractive Man Should Have It made me get in my head even more saying "oh shit I need to act cool and comfortable" when I actually was around beautiful girls. That became a problem. Haha, I had much the same issue! "Oh shit, I need to act confident!" when it turns out I was actually projecting more confidence by just being myself. People could see past the insincerity. I think something like "act confident" is bad advice because it only provides a 'what' with no 'how' (e.g. maintain eye contact, smile, engage and pursue c…	/r/seduction	02/11/16 09:33 PM
3	Use their name as often as possible Unless you just saw American Psycho as a couple I've found American Psycho to be a great date movie, depending on the girl.	/r/seduction	05/03/16 11:25 PM
0	Have you ever had a tough encounter of her boyfriend or another pretender? If you had mentioned in you original post that you're in Russia I would have worded my original post differently - I'd have opened my response with "I'm unfamiliar with your culture, but here's how I would have handled it in the States." I do hope that someone responds with info that's more tailored to your situation - regardless of where we're at, we're all here for the same reason, after all. Best of luck, brother.	/r/seduction	25/12/14 05:41 AM
0	Have you ever had a tough encounter of her boyfriend or another pretender? In that case, you failed to provide enough information for anyone to give you relevant advice. I - and most of seddit, I assume - issue advice assuming the person asking is in the US. I know fuck-all about Russian culture so I can't provide any insight relevant to your situation.	/r/seduction	25/12/14 05:24 AM
-1	Have you ever had a tough encounter of her boyfriend or another pretender? That's the outlier. Don't assume someone is a threat until they give you a very good reason to think they may be one. Let's face it - if they're on the hook that bad they're probably not the kind of guy who's going to take a swing.	/r/seduction	25/12/14 04:26 AM
1	Have you ever had a tough encounter of her boyfriend or another pretender? Ignore them. They're no threat to you. If they make passive-aggressive comments (and usually that's all they'll do) just let them roll off of you or deflect the remark. All they're going to do is make themselves look needy and desperate.	/r/seduction	24/12/14 08:28 PM
45	FWB is starting to feel used. Advice? The terms of the relationship were set and now she wants to change the deal. If she can't stick to those terms, tell her that's not what you're looking for and walk away. Done and done, on to the next one.	/r/seduction	14/09/14 06:04 AM
2	changed approach, instant positive response. blows my mind. It's still a better response than he got before. If she's going to flake there's only so much that can be done about it. There's no sure-fire way to guarantee that a girl will show up for a date. After a certain point you just have to make the plans and hope for the best. I look at it this way - if she's going to make plans and then not show up without the courtesy of notifying me, I don't want to date her anyway. That's just shitty behavior regardless of gender.	/r/seduction	09/09/14 01:29 PM
3	How pickup is like improv: An improvisers perspective on seduction. Acting naturally doesn't come so naturally to some people. Learn the basics and repeat until they become second nature while throwing in some personal touches - that's basically the synopsis for both seduction and improv.	/r/seduction	12/08/14 11:38 PM
1	Five Reasons She Isn't Into You Sorry, but this article is shit. If you spend enough time with a girl she’ll like you, and if you get her to a sex location she will fuck you. This line alone killed it for me. It's a flawed mentality. The whole piece reads like someone trying to sell something.	/r/seduction	04/07/14 03:19 PM
1	I'm increasingly becoming interested in one of my attractive female friends/ wing woman. Not sure how to proceed. I agree with what you're saying completely. There's a huge difference between a one night stand/casual dating and a long term relationship. Most of the advice and theory on this sub is designed for the former and horrible for the latter, but the one constant is being honest about your intentions.	/r/seduction	22/06/14 11:15 PM
1	I'm increasingly becoming interested in one of my attractive female friends/ wing woman. Not sure how to proceed. I disagree. If OP escalates out of the blue she could see it as him just trying to put another notch in his belt. Since they're clearly quite close already, it would probably be best for them to just talk it out.	/r/seduction	22/06/14 08:50 PM
7	After the age-old debate, and first-hand experience, "calling vs. texting" - this is what I've found. Agreed. I don't care if it's from a stranger or my best friend - voicemail is annoying.	/r/seduction	20/04/14 11:55 PM
26	Just a little tip when you have eye contact. Counter clockwise for me, or counter clockwise for her?	/r/seduction	15/02/14 11:30 PM
1	Good movie to watch when a girl is staying over? I'm glad someone said this. Hell, just the other day I had a date with a girl and we watched Lord of the Rings. Her suggestion!	/r/seduction	15/02/14 03:58 PM
2	Why do girls think I'm gay? I encountered a very similar situation last night. I met a friend of mine at the bar, and after a few drinks she admitted that she had liked me for a while and it was too bad I'm gay. I laughed it off and told her she must have me mistaken for someone else. I always take that question as a sign of interest.	/r/seduction	01/02/14 06:04 PM
9	Does a dude with a stutter have any chance at all? I do the same thing. If I start tripping over my words I stop and say something like "wow, words are hard" and carry on. Most people don't even seem to notice it and nobody's ever pointed it out.	/r/seduction	30/12/13 03:49 PM
3	"Just say hi" I usually approach and open with "hey, how's it going?" and continue from there. If a girl is interested in talking with you, she'll see that you're making conversation and play along. There's no secret phrase that guarantees success - approach, open and chat.	/r/seduction	23/12/13 06:50 AM
6	[Serious question] What's the main reason you believe you don't have a girlfriend/boyfriend? I'm 22, no college education, no car and a dead-end job. I don't really have much to offer. It keeps me from even trying.	/r/seduction	07/12/13 09:17 PM
2	A Beginners Guide for What to Say Either way it earns my downvote.	/r/seduction	12/11/13 12:21 AM
39	I just cut myself off from reading all "pickup" related material and did the 100 set challenge in one month. OMFG Most guys don't seem the grasp that The Game is NOT written as a guide. It's more of a tell-all memoir.	/r/seduction	04/11/13 01:04 AM
3	I AM TIRED OF THE SHALLOWNESS OF THE GAME. I AM A SENSITIVE UNIQUE FLOWER AND I WANT REAL CONNECTIONS WITH WOMEN :'( The rationality doesn't have to make sense to you, me or anyone else - it only needs to make sense to the guy who has convinced himself of it.	/r/seduction	14/10/13 08:34 PM
1	Help dealing with suddenly being attractive? There's nothing wrong with blushing. If it happens at the right time it can show a bit of sensitivity behind the machismo. When it happens, it's alright to seem flustered for just a moment, then roll it off and get back to your game. A girl will often feel more comfortable around you when she sees that she is able to illicit that subconscious emotional response.	/r/seduction	04/10/13 12:24 AM