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| 2 | Stop trying to find love during a pandemic 🧚♀️I know a guy who sounds like he’s holding onto a relationship during the pandemic because there are less options out there otherwise. Also a bad move for anyone in general, but in his case likely manipulative and I feel bad for the woman involved. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/10/20 07:00 PM |
| 4 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered: October 7 2020I have a “hobby” friend I thought was closer than he was but turns out COVID is a perfect excuse to slow down those friendships, at least until they prove more worth your time or you decide to cut it off completely. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/10/20 04:38 PM |
| 3 | Gaslighting in popular psychologyI wouldn’t necessarily call it useless, more like it’s a tool better used when framed/delivered from a person-centered orientation. But no one therapeutic approach fits all anyway! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 03:39 AM |
| 8 | Gaslighting in popular psychologyI am a counselor in training who SPECIFICALLY works from the axis of trusting my female clients in situations when it comes to males, while using CBT and narrative therapy primarily. I’m so glad for FDS coming into my life when going to school. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 11:18 PM |
| 2 | FDS, crushes, and redirecting your resourcesTook a long and hard lesson to learn this myself with a “friend” not a coworker, but same thing. Glad to see this post so it reminds me of the growth journey! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 03:50 PM |
| 2 | Scrote knows attractive women are out of his league because he can’t meet their standards, but tHeY’re fInE iN pOrn 🤡I can actually understand the suspicion toward men who look TOO good. A lot of them (especially in cities) know it and will be trash accordingly. But that’s because men manipulate more than woman do. However you don’t accept a man who can’t groom and look decent! It’s just a gut instinct thing you build. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 06:38 PM |
| 6 | “You are a woman, so you must be illiterate about heavy metal”.As a fellow heavy metal fan I totally get this 🤦♀️ so cringe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Deleted a text tonightI really needed to hear this reminder today. Thank you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/08/20 08:50 PM |
| 1 | "Why You Need To Be A Bitch" Is Such a Great Ted Talk! Thought About FDS While Watching.Being honest about why you’re calling someone a bitch (aka I’m jealous of her...) is a great reframe. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/08/20 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Two types of guys to avoidThe worst are the narcissistic hot guys that mask as nerdy intellectuals. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/08/20 04:11 AM |
| 9 | Has anyone else encountered the white collar city fuckboy type of LVM?Solid post. And this can apply to smaller cities as well. My ex has a lot of these traits. He is at the top of his game in the area, and he knows it — that’s also why he won’t leave. It would be too scary to go to the bigger city and act like a small fish in a big pond. That in itself is a pretty LVM mentality. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 04:41 PM |
| 1 | I’m in shockSomeone start a go fund me for her to get a lawyer on his ass | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/08/20 05:13 AM |
| 1 | Unconventional red flagsHahaha I heard a “joke” from my ex when I told him I used to ride horses along the lines of “you’re not a horse girl right?” (I guess cuz they have a stereotype). So funny 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 10:43 PM |
| 2 | Unconventional red flagsIt’s suspect because if you’re not even appearing in his stories at least, and all his best friends are, you’re easy to swap out for another girl. This is from experience. The guy’s IG started off as a personal one, morphed into a business one for video stuff, and he used that as his big excuse. This is especially true if the person has a high follower count. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 08:31 PM |
| 32 | Unconventional red flagsSays he’s a private person, but is active on his “business” Instagram posting his boys (who just so happen to work in his industry) but only you when you’re complimenting his work (ie accompanying him to an award ceremony). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/08/20 04:04 AM |
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