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FINE AF FRIDAYSromancingthevoid/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 12:17 PM
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I'm so sorry. I don't think you can help someone who doesn't want to be helped, and doesn't see problem. You're just hurting yourself. I think you should let your sister-in-law know you're happy to help her when she's ready to leave, give her your details and then cut contact and live your life. I wish every woman could leave their abuser but I know I'm powerless. It sucks.
/r/ExRedPill08/07/21 10:51 PM
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If they believed woman were humans with internal complexity, I don't think they'd be able to treat them like TRP teaches them to without internal conflict if they have an iota of humanity left.
/r/ExRedPill19/06/21 09:11 AM
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I almost never shave my legs, but I love wearing heavy make up because I like alternative style and have before I ever considered whether I was "attractive to men" or not. I love the dichotomy because it confuses. If anyone has an issue with it, well guess what? Leg hair IS feminine because it grows naturally on the female body. Are men really straight if they find the actual female body disgusting? Men aren't attracted to women anymore, they're attracted to a cartoonish, pedophilic, transhuman …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 11:31 PM
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Men love fucking with women and experimenting on us. They think they're so "logical" and "scientific".
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 10:14 PM
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Women are brainwashed into bouncing between two states - fearful and anxious lonliness and the fear and anxiety of being with a man. We'll never get rest and peace until we turn lonliness into solitude, but it takes a mountain of deprogramming and grieving the idea of romance that's shoved down our throats. It's hard, painful work but I do believe it's the path to a satisfied life for women (unless you win the lottery and meet a HVM, but a lifetime of vetting doesn't sound peaceful to me).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 11:55 AM
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Men are so cheap it's embarrassing 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 12:34 PM
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45-50% of pregnancies are unintended. https://www.cdc.gov/reproductivehealth/contraception/unintendedpregnancy/index.htm
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 12:11 PM
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You're so wise for your age. I'm 28 and if I could take back every relationship or casual encounter I've had with a man I would. They did not benefit my life and now I'm basically single by choice. Also, good on you for standing up to your pick me mother. Mine also pressures me into trying to be with men by saying there are good men out there, but she spent her life with my father who abused her (he even hit her while she was pregnant in the stomach). I look at their relationship as an example o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 07:44 PM
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Great point about successful men. A man is as faithful as his options. Whenever I start to think about relationships with men, I just remind myself that if this guy was rich and famous he'd trade up at the first opportunity. Men don't love us like we love them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 05:38 AM
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There's a Twitch streamer I've watched called Destiny (a guy) who once said women have two categories of men - ones they would fuck and ones who they consider friends, and those two groups never overlap. Men just have an order of which of their female "friends" they want to fuck first. Stay woke.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 01:08 AM
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Explains why they have such big egos. They're living in a fantasy world where every woman wants them and then that's reinforced by porn.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 11:30 PM
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Ouch, that's so true. Never heard it put like that. Gotta process that I used to put myself on the meat market as a free prostitute when I was on OLD 🤡😩🥺 thank you, I'll never go back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 11:00 PM
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Wow, I had a kinkmeisaha friend who told me about how she saw a man do this to his girlfriend once and how "hot it was". So much for "safe, sane and consensual" only. Also, the fact that myself and you have either seen or heard a second-hand story about a guy grabbing his girlfriend's neck in public is chilling. I wonder if it's more common than I thought.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 08:55 AM
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A LOT of those women probably thought having sex with him would end in a relationship/commitment and there's a 100% chance he knew that and did it anyway. Who wants to be with a man like that? Promiscuous men are the damaged goods they accuse women of being. I feel like most women who have high body counts are vulnerable and tricked by sexpos liberal feminism or predatory men. They're victims. Edit: typo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 02:47 AM
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Yeah, it's supposed to be a gift.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 02:16 AM
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She makes more than him and he said the only reason he won't leave is they're going to combine incomes. What a fucking gold digger 🤣 and he can't even fork out $20k ONE TIME for the woman he loves to give her the perfect ring. I hope she dumps the scrote and buys a ring for herself anyway.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 01:38 AM
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Back in the day I dated a guy and at first when we went to dinner he was very respectful and would only order vegan or we'd go to a fully vegan restaurant. Slowly he'd want to go to normal restaurants and started ordering vegetarian. I said to him I wouldn't kiss him if he's eating dairy because I think it's nasty. We also saw each other every one to two weeks because of our physical distance. I told him how easy it would be for him to just eat vegan around me and eat whatever every other fuckin…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 12:58 AM
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I wasn't prepared 😣🔥🔥
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 10:35 PM
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I got a bad gut feeling about that staged kiss at the end too. Dunno if it's just my gut telling me how she's screwed if anything happens to him or he leaves and the dependency and desperation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 10:44 AM
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True! It sounds like he just works and she does literally (almost) everything else for at least three people? I'd rather my own job and the household labour of only myself :) Edit: I put (almost) because I don't want to make an unfair assumption that he does no domestic labour.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 08:04 AM
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Exactly. She literally states he has access to all of the accounts. She doesn't even have an escape fund if things go South. Cute couple, but not for the lifestyle for me personally and everything on social media looks good from the outside. I do love the point about all these alt-right trads wanting a bangmaid but not expecting to provide the entire household income though haha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 08:01 AM
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Writing a list helps you: a) remember your huge, long list of extremely high standards 💅 b) keeps you accountable because it's there in black and white when you are tempted to do the pick me backslide Word documents and spreadsheets are good for easy access and editing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 01:07 AM
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Yup, sounds like him and his mother would be a great couple. She can be the cool girl for him and leave OP alone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:24 PM
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Men get into far more car accidents than women, but still go on about how women are bad drivers. They'll take the opposite of the truth and use it as a basis for hating women. The "logical" sex, everyone. I'm a misandrist because they pull shit like that. They deserve it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 06:09 AM
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Or too cheap to date and impress!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 12:50 AM
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It's all about making a woman an extension of himself. As soon as she shows any desires of her own that aren't what he approves of it'll break the fantasy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 12:47 AM
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Thank you so much for sharing this - this is so enlightening for a young woman who hasn't been in a physically abusive relationship before. It's an insight into an abusive man's mind that I wouldn't have gotten anywhere else and I'm going to add it to my mental inventory if I ever end up needing it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/06/21 04:01 AM
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The two things that stop me from pining over men are reading Reddit and remembering that my dildo will never betray me like a man can and I get an orgasm every time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 08:31 AM
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Yeah, I don't know how a woman can love a man like that. Absolute fucking creep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/05/21 08:29 AM
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I feel this! It took me 7 years to stop pining over a narcissistic PUA. It took that many years to forgive myself for being naive because I was only 19 when I met him. I had no idea how much childhood trauma I had and how vulnerable that made me to being victimised. By realising how society and our parents program us, only then was I able to have sympathy and understanding for my pickme self instead of self-hatred and disappointment at how "stupid" I was. It's hard sometimes to love myself fully…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 11:44 AM
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Teach guys about consent? One of my rapists told me the first time we had sex, "If you don't like something, just say no." Well, I said no and he didn't care later on. He knew what consent was, but rapists love violating consent. They don't care. That's my one criticism of this clip.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 02:18 AM
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If we think the world is going to get better by "teaching men and boys about consent" we are well and truly screwed as women. Why would they care? This world is made for them and they love sex work, desperate pick mes begging for their dysfunctional dicks and vague boundaries. They know, they don't care. I agree with you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 02:15 AM
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What the FUCK. Your brother? That's so creepy 🤢
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/05/21 12:24 AM
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Two NVMs I dated in my pickme days had The Game by Neil Strauss on their shelf/Kindle. That's like the OG PUA book and at the time I knew what it was about but I was still so desperate at 19 that I ignored it and the first NVM destroyed me mentally and SA'd me. I took me 7 years to get over him and heal my trauma bond to him. The second NVM was poly (he had a wife), cheated on me and stopped putting in effort as well as more and more just treating me like a sex object (trying to push my boundari…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 08:04 AM
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True, I bet he only did them once too try and get sex and then never again. And she probably does 99% of all the childcare and other domestic duties.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 06:37 AM
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Mother nature has got me wanting a muscular, taller, 10/10 handsome, rich provider with a thick dick...I really can't help it 💅👀💦😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/05/21 01:57 AM
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OMG 🔥🔥🔥 love this idea for the sub!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/21 11:00 AM
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This is me! I was an 'unattractive' loner during school and then I grew up and got hot and cool as fuck. I even had people admit they liked me as a person but it wasn't cool to talk to me back then, cowards. I leveled up. I even ended up sleeping with the brother of a guy who bullied me and I thought that was hilarious. The guys who I crushed on who called me ugly to my face couldn't even hold a candle to me now and good riddance!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 08:10 PM
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Reddit hates women that won't bend the knee! It's a male dominated site. It really puts it in perspective when they ban us though. Most popular relationship or women's subreddits are pickmeisha training grounds where they teach women to humiliate themselves by chasing guys. It makes sense that they hate us 😣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/21 12:24 PM
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I told a friend that I was happy single and I wouldn't change that unless the guy made my life significantly better. She proceeds to tell me that I would actually be happier with anyone and not just someone who was that amazing, rather than alone. Another night she started recommending guys she thought I could date. I only knew of one of them but it was the most horrific suggestion. I realised then that she didn't have my best interests at heart and she was just wanted me to be with ANYONE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 09:49 AM
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Blessed to not have a man in my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 06:56 AM
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Any interaction with a NVM/LVM when they reveal themselves beyond a block and delete is cringey. That's NOT the idgaf Queen energy I'm here for 👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 10:38 PM
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Jokes on him, I don't want the human species to continue 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 02:48 AM
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Me too! I think the hardest thing for me was giving up sex with men. Until I got a Vixskin dildo from Vixen Creations - they're the most realistic I've tried. And my dildos will never manipulate me, stealth off a condom, cheat on me, lie to me or film me in a vulnerable position without my consent 🥰 every need a woman has can be fulfilled with a little creativity and knowing yourself. And there are always (non-pick me/bdsm) romance novels which have been sexistly maligned...probably because they…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 02:17 AM
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