romantasaurushex Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	CMV: You can't claim that women are as capable as men if you support menstrual leave policies Generally heathy people don’t get sick for a few days each month like clockwork I agree and whilst most women experience some kind of discomfort each month with their period they also generally take an NSAID and carry on with their day, like most people would do with a regular headache. Most women don’t have disorders like endometriosis or fibroids that cause debilitating pain and/or excessively heavy bleeding that often do require sick leave.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/23 02:57 PM
1	CMV: You can't claim that women are as capable as men if you support menstrual leave policies You haven’t provided evidence to substantiate your claim that most women aren’t allowed to or don’t use sick days for menstrual pain. Able to =/= allowed to so I’m not going to speak to that however the evidence that most women attend work is literally already in a comment upthread. This literally says only 13.8% of women reported being absent during their period.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/23 02:18 PM
0	CMV: You can't claim that women are as capable as men if you support menstrual leave policies about 93 percent of women outside reddit don’t agree The study absolutely agrees with u/RocinanteCoffee’s point that most women work during their period. The study only discusses reduced productivity, which is not the same as a reduction in the quality of their work.	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/02/23 02:03 PM
8	No, women have not "left men behind and upped their standards", they have left themselves behind and there are few worthwhile modern day women to date long-term How about instead of attempting to derail with a whataboutism you actually address the points in the thread. OP didn’t have the integrity to engage in good faith after his response to my comment had him arguing a point I wasn’t making because he wasn’t about to be calm and logical enough to actually read the comment properly before popping off.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/23 09:41 AM
15	No, women have not "left men behind and upped their standards", they have left themselves behind and there are few worthwhile modern day women to date long-term Right! The cognitive dissonance in these men attempting to claim that they’re some expert on the collective secret inner workings of women whilst failing to grasp the concept that being attracted to and valuing a human person as a whole is not the same thing as assigning most her value based on how conventionally attractive the outer squishy meat shell layer is. It’s creepy as hell.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/23 05:10 AM
6	No, women have not "left men behind and upped their standards", they have left themselves behind and there are few worthwhile modern day women to date long-term Of all the things THIS is your hang up? No my first paragraph is my real hang up but since you ignored that and chose to only comment on my second paragraph (still either ignoring or failing to see the nuance of) I’ll explain what I meant by that particular part. If the MOST important thing to a man when choosing a life partner is his potential wife’s PHYSICAL attractiveness I sure hope he’s prepared for an increasingly lonely and unsatisfying existence as the aging process simultaneously stops …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/23 04:27 AM
19	No, women have not "left men behind and upped their standards", they have left themselves behind and there are few worthwhile modern day women to date long-term These posts almost always conflate OLD success with relationship success. I find the mental gymnastics they display in order to “prove” that “modern women” are to blame for their inability to find women who meet their TRP/trad-wife expectations for an LTR on an app synonymous with hookup culture and meaningless connections rather than recognising that those women generally wont utilise OLD because of the incompatibility with their own values fascinating. I never know whether to laugh or cry when…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/01/23 03:00 AM
0	The Blue Pill doesn’t exist. you actually watch these romcoms and notice just how much they conform to pretty rigid ideas of masculine expression and identity Men direct around 75% of the films coming out of Hollywood and those men are the ones dictating Hollywood’s portrayal of masculinity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/22 05:18 AM
5	Women: Can you expand on or give examples of men not "getting it"? If the guy was going to follow you home it wouldn’t matter what he said or didn’t. The idea that him saying something to you is the deciding factor is kinda weird. She was pretty clear that it’s about how he handles rejection that is the deciding factor. I would bet most women have more than one personal example of when a man has become threatening and abusive purely once they’ve been told no. Schrödinger’s asshole. I’ve gotta say man, you’re really doing a great job at demonstrating with every …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/22 01:21 AM
29	Women: Can you expand on or give examples of men not "getting it"? Lots of men only focus on getting sex and not having sex. We see on PPD how frequently these types of dudes trot out the “high male n-count is an achievement” or “no man wants a woman who’s been used up/ran through” or “sex is easy for women to get so if they let guys fuck them they’re sluts” rhetoric. Seems to me the men who subscribe to that type of mindset see sex as something that’s “done to” a woman rather than shared with a woman.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/11/22 12:50 AM
2	Multiple questions about makeup and shaving My partner and I often laugh about how clueless he was regarding precisely this super early on in our relationship. He’d taken me to the movies for our 3rd date and mentioned that he loved that I wasn’t wearing any makeup, which I chuckled at and said if I really wasn’t wearing any he’d think I was under the weather. I took him axe throwing for our next date and knew I’d sweat so I didn’t wear any makeup at all. He, as predicted, asked if I was feeling unwell because I was “very pale”.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/22 04:47 AM
4	Multiple questions about makeup and shaving Guys say they don’t care about makeup, and they may actually believe that, in part because they don’t always recognise what is makeup and what isn’t. That is PAINFULLY accurate. I’ve come across so many men who will rant about preferring a “natural no makeup” woman and then as evidence show a picture of a woman who has perfected the “no makeup” makeup look without recognising she’s wearing 10 different products.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/22 04:16 AM
1	Men mistaking casual compliments for flirting may be a bad thing, but it's not their fault. Nope, not a lie at all. A compliment about a choice/achievement/action you’ve made is intrinsically better than a compliment about something you have no control over and isn’t personal.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/22 03:19 PM
4	Men mistaking casual compliments for flirting may be a bad thing, but it's not their fault. Way to miss the point. Women value compliments from other women because 99% of the time those compliments are about a choice we have made (rather than a generic “you’re beautiful) and/or given freely and without expectation of any sort of follow-up.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/22 02:52 PM
-1	The idea that “if you were truly good looking/socially savvy you wouldn’t be struggling” is a huge fallacy here. Due to women’s inflated egos, even attractive men struggle. We are as horny as men, we just have different criteria as whether we satiate that ourselves or share the experience with someone else. Why would we risk being unsatisfied sexually when I can just open my bedside drawer and have a selection of things guaranteed to get me off? If dudes like you stopped seeing sex as something that’s done to a woman and started realising it’s something shared between two people, you’d be a lot happier and you’d get laid more often.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/22 12:28 AM
20	Women saying they wear make up, get plastic surgery, and dress sexy for themselves and not for attention or to attract men? It’s insane to me that so many dudes on here can’t wrap their heads around this. Women do different things in different situations for different reasons. That should not be a contentious statement.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/22 12:18 AM
1	Women saying they wear make up, get plastic surgery, and dress sexy for themselves and not for attention or to attract men? Humans, regardless of gender, aren’t always logical and our motivations and desires aren’t static.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/22 12:11 AM
2	Are older women really jealous of younger more prettier women? He started balding in his early-mid 20’s and was shaving it entirely before he turned 30 apparently, which was well before we met.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/09/22 01:55 PM
11	Are older women really jealous of younger more prettier women? but I’ve always assumed it just because, unlike me, she cared about her looks in the first place I think you’re right. My (34F) partner (36M) is struggling with ageing (quite badly at times) whereas I am not bothered at all.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/22 10:46 PM
3	Sexual ignorance is better for long-term partnerships I must’ve got distracted by all the massive chad cock I was taking and missed that part.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/22 12:27 PM
1	women like rogues not particularly alpha men You’re missing where he said “exciting”. Whilst the action is subjective, we all know what it feels like to be excited. People can be ambitious and confident AND boring. Charisma is a massive factor in having any kind of successful social interaction. Outside of the dating world we all know people who feel wonderful to be around and seem to naturally draw others to them.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/22 10:41 AM
11	Sexual ignorance is better for long-term partnerships You’d be much more surprised since you clearly have absolutely no idea.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/22 06:23 AM
3	Sexual ignorance is better for long-term partnerships You said it’s a fact, proven by every study done on dating apps, that women will “get fucked for years” then settle for some dude who doesn’t satisfy her and end up divorcing him. You haven’t provided any data but have referenced dating app studies and attempted to apply the same findings to women across all demographics without considering the selection bias of the sample population. The other commenter said over 60% of adults in the US are married or living with their SO. If 60% (+ whatever th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/22 04:44 AM
6	Sexual ignorance is better for long-term partnerships So there is no data to prove your statement is a fact.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/09/22 04:07 AM
2	How much do you think a man has to earn annually to make up for having a below average penis or below average height, if it's at all possible to do so? Do you understand how dangerous, literally, that would be for women? Maybe take accountability yourself and stop blaming women for the problems you create for yourself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/22 07:50 PM
4	How much do you think a man has to earn annually to make up for having a below average penis or below average height, if it's at all possible to do so? What are we half assing exactly? What the fuck do porn stars, who are generally cast by men and watched by men, have to do with what I said?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/22 04:11 AM
3	How much do you think a man has to earn annually to make up for having a below average penis or below average height, if it's at all possible to do so? Women have no fucking clue about dick sizes Yeah, it’s difficult for us to be accurate when so many blokes tell us their 5” dick is 7” and add a few extra inches to their height as well. We aren’t getting out a tape measure and asking you to prove it. Dudes who lie are contributing to this issue the most.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/09/22 02:33 AM
3	What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell Women only say they want men over 6ft tall with 8” dicks because men so frequently exaggerate their measurements. We don’t whip out a tape measure to confirm but our mind has created a reference point that is inaccurate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/22 07:05 PM
3	What's your unpopular opinion about women? Something you truly believe based on lived experience, but would get down voted to all hell So women are assholes when they refuse to give men they don’t find attractive a chance. AND Women are assholes if they give men they don’t find physically attractive a chance in the hopes of getting to know them and building attraction from there. Alright then.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/22 06:00 PM
3	What do you think about the Mario Batali case and false rape allegations against men ? One of the most important things we can do for rape victims is to punish false accusers so the true victims can have an easier time. Except it would likely have the opposite effect and result in more victims refusing to report the crime to law enforcement. How do you think a “false accuser” should be determined? What evidence would be required to prosecute someone for making a false accusation?What would be the specific charge? Would a not guilty verdict in a rape case automatically result in an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/22 03:19 PM
1	BBC statement on men being trapped in ukraine As opposed to your actions of checks notes bitching at women on reddit?	/r/MensRights	14/04/22 01:14 PM
1	If you are feeling down for some weeks should your gf leave you or should she support you? The right therapist and therapy style (CBT, DBT, ACT) will help you to develop better self awareness and strategies to overcome some of your past struggles and will arm you with better coping mechanisms for the future. Therapy is hard work and is so much more than just talking to someone. It can be difficult and confronting, but you really get out of it what you put into it.	/r/seduction	07/04/22 04:20 AM
1	If you are feeling down for some weeks should your gf leave you or should she support you? I am genuinely sorry that’s been your experience and I hope that you find better partners in the future.	/r/seduction	06/04/22 09:49 PM
13	If you are feeling down for some weeks should your gf leave you or should she support you? OP, please do not listen to this terrible advice. These kind of notions are EXACTLY what is meant by toxic masculinity. This is a perfect example of what feminists mean when they say the patriarchy hurts men as well as women. Therapy is important and if you’ve been feeling depressed for an extended period of time you should probably seek some medical help. You should also be able to talk about your mental health with your SO openly. Discussing your depression does not inherently mean you are “se…	/r/seduction	06/04/22 08:53 PM