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romofrolo/r/MGTOW08/06/17 03:54 AM
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Brother, you might be on the wrong sub if you want to keep your head in the sand. Most of us here have experienced this behaviour and I've never been able to find any evidence that it isn't the norm. Hell, I was even with one chick who eventually admitted she didn't really know her count but it was at least 300 and she was only 21. Always had 3-5 guys on the hook so she could have sex whenever she wanted if her current one was busy. Feel bad for any guy she ends up conning into marriage.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen29/06/20 06:37 PM
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I was about to right when her dad got sick and then I just felt too sorry for her to leave
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 01:59 PM
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It was a massive red flag. But I held onto hope like a chump. Never again.
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 11:09 AM
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Well I hope to fuck that i never have to go through anything remotely like this again. But yes I expect most things after this will seem trivial in comparison. I had the hardest time getting into Ark but I'm sure I'll find something else to feed this into
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 11:08 AM
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And yes I'm sure by now that she was over it the last several times we were hanging out the week before
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 11:06 AM
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How do you recommend finding said poon? Its been many years since the last time I was looking to meet women
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 11:05 AM
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They can't experience it. Emotionally stunted shitbags
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 11:03 AM
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There's such a massive gulf between theory and practice. I've known this was a thing for a long time but I didn't truly know it until it happened. I always imagined we'd just break it off amicably and take a few months to sort things out individually and move on with our separate lives. That's likely how it would have gone if I had ended it but I didn't and gave her the opportunity to set up her branch and do things on her terms.
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 10:26 AM
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Wow that's a fucking trip. Makes so much sense of everything.
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 10:22 AM
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Oh I'm well aware. That's why a lot of this anger is directed at myself for being an idiot. She was my best friend with common interests that I would do tons of other shit with and didn't want to lose that connection. Never realized that connection meant nothing to her. Should have got a dog instead.
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 10:15 AM
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She stopped being your gf 3 years ago You know, I actually said something to this effect a few times and she'd always bust out the water works about how's she's trying so hard to work through her issues and if I just give her more time blah blah bullshit. I hate myself for falling for that.
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 10:02 AM
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Not picking up would be the most satisfying fucking thing. The anger is back and I'm just shaking with rage right now. Have to resist it though.
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 09:11 AM
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Well that's the appeal of self-destruction. It's a good distraction. But no, I've already got a few sports injuries and would rather not relive that kind of pain.
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 08:56 AM
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Hope is really the worst of delusions. If I ever succumb to it again I hope I'll have the sense to put myself out of my misery. Being happy alone is the goal and I'm going to do everything I can to make that happen.
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 08:53 AM
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She refused to say she wanted kids until she had that guy in place. That's what burns. I should have ended it years ago but she always said she didn't want kids. I think just to string me along. But yes, the next few months are entirely about me and healing. Fuck everything else.
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 08:50 AM
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Haven't actually been to the gym in a couple years. I was too drained by all the bullshit. You're right, it's probably time to go back and just start pushing myself.
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 08:44 AM
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Yeah I don't think there's a definite truth when it comes to diet, just whatever works for us individually. I actually agree re: high carb vegan. I do really like tofu and the fake meat. I've tried a lot of diets over the years. There's just that subjective quality aspect. Even though I don't think keto should be as healthy, I can't argue how it feels when I did it. Definitely felt way better than the vegan diets. And as someone now floating around 33% bodyfat and feeling terrible, feeling good …
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 08:37 AM
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I think you nailed it. This is some top level truth here. Just need to keep myself focused and not revert to my dumbass bluepilled ways.
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 08:30 AM
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Thinking I got off lucky with kids/alimony thing. It's heart breaking to realize women do not love the same as men. I think this is where a lot of my pain is coming from.. it's not just her, it's the realization that they're all this way and everything I was taught growing up is just a fantasy. It's the pain of finding out you're not in the reality you thought you were.
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 08:26 AM
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Fucking brutal but no longer surprising... god damn these bitches
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 08:24 AM
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the truth is that women are unable to give and receive love in the same way that men can. Women will pretty much do anything at anytime that they perceive to be beneficial to them. It's hard-wired into their brains. Their reduced capacity for abstract thinking and rationality also ensures that they will not feel guilt for their decisions or the pain they cause. This is the truly hard pill to swallow. But there it is. Raw truth. I just want the pain to subside..
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 08:20 AM
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Yeah there's a lot of natural instincts to fight these days. I think it'll be a lot easier though after this kick in the teeth.
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 08:14 AM
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You've made a lot of really good points. Thank you so much for talking to me. Eating well This really struck a chord. I was doing keto/zero carb back in 2010 and that was probably the healthiest I've ever been. She was an omnivore when we met but about a year in we decided to go veggy together because of factory farm bullshit. I was just going to continue that because I'm used to it/habits/momentum/whatever. But fuck that and fuck her. I'm going to get my health back by whatever means necessary.…
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 08:12 AM
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Really going to have to focus on isolating the emotions I think. re: trump/anti-trump, I'm canadian so typically I just sit back with my popcorn and laugh at the crazies ;)
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 07:59 AM
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This actually made me laugh really hard. The one thing she actually seems incapable of is treating her employer like this. But this makes a huge amount of sense to me. Only difference is that employers 1. Kind of expect this and 2. When an employee swings away it generally doesn't leave the company in ruins. But women don't care if it's unexpected or what devastation they leave behind.
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 07:56 AM
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I really, really appreciate what you've said here. I'm going to be coming back to it for a while. SHE'S NOT WORTH IT. I need to remember this.
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 07:50 AM
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Not looking forward to months of this tbh. I wish reading this would prevent the woulda coulda shoulda but I know I'll be doing it anyways. at least you didn't get married/have kids Definitely appreciating this already though
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 07:47 AM
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I guarantee you she will be pregnant within a year I'm definitely going to follow up with you on that, with how fast she's moved I wouldn't be surprised it if was by the end of summer. She has not broken you for life, she's opened your eyes for life. I really needed these words, thank you.
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 07:44 AM
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you are in the right place on this forum I can't even say how much all of these comments mean to me. A few hours ago I was a wreck but reading these words and having these conversations has helped more than I can say. I'm truly grateful for this community. Realizing it's not your fault might make it easier to let it go. I'm going to be working on this for a while. I blame myself for virtually everything and it's going to take some work to undo that. Your own desires, goals, hobbies and passion A…
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 07:38 AM
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Ha. No she is never getting near my dick again. She's gone, I'm gone. Ghost mode engaged. Starting the business is the dream to follow ;)
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 07:31 AM
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in sum i see em like 15 days each year This is so brutal. I'm really glad that you found yourself again but holy fuck... I just want to give you a hug
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 07:29 AM
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3 years is in no way normal Don't I know it. We've had a few hard conversations about it but she'd always shut down. Some crap about possible sexual abuse as a kid. Pretty sure at this point that it was all a lie to get me to stick around without pushing. she is annoyed that someone else will reap the benefits of her raising me to become a men No shit that's eye opening. I feel for you man. Selfish people are gonna be selfish. Can I rephrase that as girls will be girls? I don't think it's sexist…
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 07:25 AM
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Ain't that some shit. Thanks for sharing. Incredibly potent and truthful.
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 07:19 AM
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Thanks brother, I'm never giving up my freedom again. Think it's going to be a while before I can properly enjoy it though
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 07:18 AM
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Realizing that more and more throughout the night and reading some of these other horror stories. Wish emotions responded to logic. I'm still just rage and pain
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 07:05 AM
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lmao, I meant the 19-24 y/o plowing ;) Not sure how to read the motorcycle part..
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 07:04 AM
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Will definitely let the anger flow.. but I'm not sure how I feel about #2. I've developed some serious issues from gaining a bunch of weight and the ex refusing sex. I feel like I'd just disgust every woman. I get that I'd be paying them essentially to ignore that but I feel like I'd be putting them through a disgusting experience nevertheless. Maybe I should just go for it, what's the worst that can happen?
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 07:02 AM
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That's the dream right there. I hope I have the strength to follow you
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 06:56 AM
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I'd high five if I could. Pretty sure I need to lose 60lbs before that's an option for me though
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 06:54 AM
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It's definitely prudent to plan financially for a long life. I see too many old women working in grocery stores to do otherwise, but any life I get after 60 is just icing on the cake. I have no idea what my life will look like in 30 months, never mind 30 years. Right now the instant joy idea is very attractive. Some form of enlightened hedonism. I've focused on delayed gratification for too long. I was confident that putting in the effort would pay off but it all turned to shit anyways. If I don…
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 06:52 AM
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I don't have to deal with anyone's shortcomings ever again. This is some liberating shit.
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 06:43 AM
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Fuck that kind of truth hurts. But you're absolutely right.
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 06:41 AM
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I don't know if I'm in the right state of mind to be reading this but it's getting more attractive. I should really just come back to this when I'm sober.
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 06:12 AM
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Cancer doesn't really care about those ideas. Lost 4 people to liver, lung, skin, and breast cancer who otherwise were extremely healthy. Each was completely shocking because they were otherwise very healthy. Right up until BOOM STAGE 4 YOU HAVE A WEEK OR TWO TO LIVE
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 06:11 AM
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Well she wasn't fucking me for years but was still on my gravy train. Hope to fuck that she wasn't fucking someone else but I wouldn't be surprised at this point
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 06:07 AM
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I just want to feel numb tomorrow, not sure I can focus beyond that
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 06:06 AM
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lol, well if the opportunity comes up I may just take it. Doubtful that it will though
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 06:04 AM
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That's a pretty good idea. Thanks man
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 06:03 AM
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I imagine after my 60s I'll have most things figured out and not have a lot of changes after that. But also I take nothing for granted as far as life-span goes. I've lost 14 close people in the last decade and with the exception of my grandfather who was 96, everyone else was under 70. Most were under 50. It's given me a bit of a skewed perspective on longevity.
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 06:02 AM
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Even if I was the vengeful type, using and discarding another girl won't fuck my ex. She'd never even know.
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 05:53 AM
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they don't feel the pain men do, they don't have the same amount of empathy men do, and they certainly do not LOVE like men do God isn't this the fucking truth. You're comment actually really helped (at least for the moment). I don't blame the new guy at all, he's me 6 years ago. I understand him. And I'm realizing I can't blame her either, she's just being a woman. But I know I'm going to blame myself for a while. I'm always extremely hard on myself for my fuckups and this is probably the bigge…
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 05:50 AM
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Fuck no. no dating. I mean move on with my life. Figure out what to do with the next 30 years. I have no idea right now.
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 05:41 AM
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Knowing her as I do now I feel really bad for the new guy. I have no idea what to set for goals, I haven't been on my own in forever and don't know what to do with myself. Thinking new job and new city for now. She's the only reason I'm still in this town, everyone else I know has moved on.
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 05:40 AM
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"Happy wife, happy life" Fuck that idea so much. I'll never give another one an ounce of control. If I'm ever with another one I'm doing whatever the fuck I want and showing them the door if they don't like it.
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 05:37 AM
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God I don't know if I could stand it with kids or alimony involved. That'd be the case where I know I'd do something incredibly stupid. Think it's going to be a while before the pain and rage subsides enough to experience peace... looking forward to that though.
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 05:35 AM
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Part of me really wants to do that kind of weird revenge thing but I'm not fucking cold enough for that. Think I do want to try a night with someone else to see if that can get me some mental distance from her though. Of course that might be a terrible idea.
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 05:34 AM
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That's exactly my plan. Fuck her. Only sticky bit is she has some photos that I really want back so I need to communicate with her for that but I'm going to keep the contact extremely brief and then ghost.
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 05:31 AM
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I just can't believe how half the population is incapable of real empathy. She could go on and on about that shit but I don't think she's ever actually experienced it to know what she's talking about. Fuck her
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 05:27 AM
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Really doesn't feel like it but I'm sure I'll realize that eventually...
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 05:26 AM
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This is a great reminder, thank you. I honestly do feel bad for this next guy even as I'm being jealous af. Having a break in the suffocating feeling and really don't want it to come back. I'm just rocking between pain and rage and numbness. It's stupid but all I want right now is to get laid again, it's been so fucking long and my right hand isn't cutting it anymore. edit also that book looks really interesting. I'll probably read it tomorrow.
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 05:23 AM
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Don't take the simp way out and try to make feels work again. I've got to make this my focus going forward or I know I'll just fall backwards and fuck myself over
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 05:19 AM
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So much truth it hurts. Thanks. I'm sure things weren't helped by me encouraging her to get fit, she lost about 25lbs and is so fucking hot now. Probably has no idea how to deal with all the new attention.
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 05:18 AM
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Holy fuck man. Thank you for sharing. I'm so glad you're recovering. I've gained about 60lbs the last couple years from all the shit and I could easily see gaining another 60 doing as you did. I've had maybe 6oz of rye the last half hour which seems to be doing it's job but I have to remember tomorrow not to just keep having more.. if I can resist. I've lost quite a few people to death but this hurts so much more. Actual betrayal. Trust completely shattered. Fuck. I'd love to hear more about you…
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 05:15 AM
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Thank you brother, I only hope I can get beyond this pain soon. I don't know how to bear it right now. But you're right. It has to fade eventually and I can move on.
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 04:22 AM
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Thank you for these words. They actually are making me cry to reread and I can't even tell why
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 04:20 AM
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Fuck that story is far worse than mine. I guess things can always be worse. Thanks for sharing that. I think I'm just going to go get drunk for now.
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 04:19 AM
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Yeah I wish I had gotten this lesson earlier. We're 32 now. Just feels like such a waste of my life. Anyways I think I'm going to buy a motorcycle next week and take off for a bit.
/r/MGTOW08/06/17 04:06 AM
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If only they were easier to find in real life..
/r/MGTOW07/06/17 04:14 AM
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I feel bad for Europe. Rich cultures with long and deep history being destroyed. It's like watching someone drip paint thinner on a van Gogh. So sad. For North America it's just history repeating itself, after the previous dominant people with a rich culture was destroyed and made into a minority in their own land.
/r/MGTOW16/05/17 04:00 AM
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I can't wait to be able to take the bike out... We still have snow here so have to wait a few more weeks yet
/r/MGTOW25/03/17 05:55 PM
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