| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 25 | THIS -> You're Probably Not Really a Nice Guy - YouTube | rondeline | /r/seduction | 02/11/12 08:34 PM | |
| 12 | Yes, you CAN fake it, until you make it. Body language affects your mind. | rondeline | /r/seduction | 06/10/12 06:24 AM | |
| 2 | Going to help you fellas out, here's the Sexiest Man Alive... Earl Okin - My Room | rondeline | /r/seduction | 25/10/12 06:09 PM | |
| 1 | Could you be more confident? | rondeline | /r/seduction | 27/12/14 01:59 AM | |
| 1 | What a creep! | rondeline | /r/seduction | 12/03/13 04:35 PM |
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| 2 | They're people.No lies. Be straight and clear with your intentions. | /r/seduction | 04/02/17 02:08 PM |
| 1 | How to tell a girl my time is too valuable to deal with flakiness without coming across like a dick?You should be so busy with so many other women that you should barely noticed she flaked, or even less, actually care. You cant go negative. You can only pretend like it didnt happen. Personally i wouldnt have responded and i would have gone out to meet other women.. In fact, my date spots were alway near places and at times where i could meet other women, in the unlikely event my date bailed. Thats how it's done. | /r/seduction | 17/01/17 01:49 AM |
| 5 | [FR] First approach ever. I never felt so proud of myself.Exactly. There yes, no, and maybe if I'm drunk. Green, red, yellow... Although I guess hb10 sounds better than saying there was this amazing green light shitting at the mall flood court. | /r/seduction | 11/12/16 06:04 PM |
| 1 | Video of the Australian senator trying to use the word mansplaining and getting shut downThis is not the full video | /r/PussyPassDenied | 26/10/16 05:30 PM |
| 6 | Approach her at her apartment, or school?School man. Don't be sweating her around her apartment. You missed your opportunity to ask for her phone number. Lesson learned..don't do that again. No number, no future. Knocking on her door risks coming off creepy. | /r/seduction | 27/08/16 08:30 AM |
| 4 | "Can you hold my bag?"I can respect a playette for that. | /r/seduction | 06/07/16 03:42 PM |
| 3 | "Can you hold my bag?"She does care about him...enough to make him her territory. | /r/seduction | 06/07/16 01:28 PM |
| 3 | Looking for something casual? Here's why you shouldn't say "I'm not looking for a relationship right now."You're missing a big component...it's critical to know -when- to say this. You don't say it after you hooked up! | /r/seduction | 25/04/16 10:54 PM |
| 1 | fear of women stopping me from approaching and seducingDo you have like overwhelming anxiety? Do you avoid talking to other women, even those you're not even attracted to? Do you have any worries about going to a party? Do you have avoid groups or going places by yourself? If you think you know logically, you have to man up and just approach, but your body is reacting aggressively with stress to the point that you prefer to avoid than approach, then yeah, you might want to talk to a psychiatrist or therapist...+ find a decent dating coach that walk … | /r/seduction | 26/03/16 07:52 PM |
| 4 | fear of women stopping me from approaching and seducingBro Science right there. It depends. Some people do need extra help when you have serious anxiety/panic attacks. It's not because they logically know they need to man up, it's that their body wired up to avoid women like they're the plague or hungry tiger and their biology seriously gets in the way. I would find a therapist if I'm avoiding engaging women, even those I'm not remotely attracted to or have irrational/excessive fear of groups or talking to strangers. There's definitely stuff that ca… | /r/seduction | 26/03/16 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Does everyone has to struggle this much to get women ?I come off as needy when talking to girls , of course, i don't have girlfriend or friends who are girls. Any tips to improve ? Well, how do you think you come off as needy? | /r/seduction | 08/07/15 01:44 AM |
| 1 | Does everyone has to struggle this much to get women ?Are you comfortable in your own skin? Do you like you? Do you work hard to avoid being perceived needy? Are you fun to be around? Do you limit running your mouth when you have critical thoughts about yourself or those around you? You focus on what's great about being alive? Do engage strangers with a sense of positive curiosity? Do you have good hygiene? Are you usually relaxed and in control of yourself? If any answers are consistently "no", then you might need to check your own shit because th… | /r/seduction | 07/07/15 11:55 PM |
| 3 | IS late teens-mid 20s the best time to get with girls?Actually, your prime is between 29 or so until your 40s for so many other reasons than what you listed. | /r/seduction | 25/05/15 01:54 PM |
| 13 | When you meet Tinder girls who say "I met other guys but they just wanted to hook up"Seems like you have a big ego yourself. Come on now, it makes perfect sense. What if their tinder date turns out to be some gross, disgusting guy...do they want to have to explain that's the reason they dont want to hook up? Absolutely not. What if the guy is hyper sensitive twat, telling him he's disturbing levels gross could be frankly, dangerous. Sooooo...they just say that they're not interested in hook ups and reserve the right to change their minds if your cool. But if your bitching about … | /r/seduction | 18/05/15 01:56 AM |
| 1 | When you meet Tinder girls who say "I met other guys but they just wanted to hook up"Plausible deniability. Look it up. Ladies need that. They want their out, if you're an idiot, that's not going to be painful to drop you. You're job is to reassure that you won't disappear if you do end up hooking up. Get it? | /r/seduction | 18/05/15 01:51 AM |
| 1 | How many of you actually fuck 4's-5's?I dipped into a 3.248 once before. It was actually quite pleasurable. Uh..anyone who rates women on 1 to 10 scale needs to work on some personal improvement. Your 10 is my 3. Try and prove me wrong. You can't. So, drop the measuring bar, it's deeming to you, more than anyone else that lands on your scale. You either want to or not, and then a 'maybe' with some shots of liquor. That's it. Green. Yellow. Or GTFO Code Red. | /r/seduction | 05/03/15 08:51 AM |
| 1 | What do you do if all your guy friends are taller and better looking than you?Why is it bru"v"? | /r/seduction | 18/08/14 12:16 AM |
| 1 | What do you do if all your guy friends are taller and better looking than you?Why is it bru"v"? | /r/seduction | 18/08/14 12:15 AM |
| 2 | What do you do if all your guy friends are taller and better looking than you?What's a manlet? | /r/seduction | 17/08/14 04:36 PM |
| 2 | I think I broke her...I guess that hits a little close to home. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/14 04:19 PM |
| -1 | I think I broke her...Sure, it's easy for cute ones, I'm not so sure for the ugly ones. I had problems getting laid until I realized it was my own bullshit hangups and limiting beliefs that had my jerking off too much. Once I got that into gear, stopped being depressing asshole, exercised, ate better, took chances, stopped accepting bullshit, etc. etc. blah blah blah...surprise, surprise, I had more ass than I could handle. I don't know the problems most of you face on the daily basis, I'm not saying it's easy for ev… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/14 02:47 PM |
| 0 | I think I broke her...Let me see if I got this one. TRP has two levels I think... There's the guys that just want a drama free life, removing neediness from their behavior and charting down a less common life with a perspective of clarity and awareness. Aaaand, then there's the rest of them that just can't seem to pass up any attempt to rub in whatever point of view they have because they feel under siege from a life full of opportunistic misandry. 'bout right? I'm calling this dudes dinner conversation the latter. S… | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/14 02:35 PM |
| -42 | I think I broke her...Why does it matter how times she rubbed her lady parts with some other dudes parts? Think about this, how often do you shake other men's hands? Granted there are risks with sexual promiscuity, but how many of you motherfuckers don't care how many women you hook up with, right? And you could probably get Ebola with a long handshake. My point is that no one likes someone that bends over and let's others use them, but I'm not prepared to say that if I slept with a thousand women, that I would have … | /r/TheRedPill | 07/08/14 02:08 AM |
| -43 | If a woman doesn't date short guys, that's okay because that's a preference. But if a man doesn't date obese girls, he's shallow.Bullshit. That's how you guys are think "they" understand equality. This is weak, self-validating bullshit. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/14 04:45 PM |
| 0 | If a woman doesn't date short guys, that's okay because that's a preference. But if a man doesn't date obese girls, he's shallow.OK, thanks for stating the obvious but its weakness to bitch and moan about that kind of petty shit. | /r/TheRedPill | 21/04/14 04:27 PM |
| 4 | Dissolving the EgoCould you elaborate what hamstering means please? I don't understand the connotation. Thnx. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/04/14 04:36 AM |
| 1 | Seduction is SalesOk, sure, in sales you do have to find the problems that you can solve. But how does that work in terms of seducing women? | /r/TheRedPill | 01/04/14 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Seduction is SalesYou can't convince someone to buy something they inherently don't want. That's the pushy salesman that never sells and turns everyone off. Done. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/14 10:28 PM |
| 1 | Seduction is SalesAnd men don't care about women looking good? | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/14 12:45 AM |
| 1 | Seduction is SalesThat's not sales. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/14 12:45 AM |
| -8 | Seduction is SalesYou need to find another company to work for then. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/14 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Seduction is SalesThere's so much that's wrong with this that I don't know where to begin. Selling is not negging, that's just one weak, douchey, needy way of selling and the only thing you're right about is that corporations like to bullshit you with fear because they're products are dog shit and they know it. Don't neg, unless you're dog shit and that's all you have to offer. | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/14 12:39 AM |
| 1 | Feminist writes piece decrying 300 Movie for "unrealistic male body standards", actual men show up in the comments to lambast her as the weak and projecting woman that she truly isWait a minute. I don't see how complaining about this is manly. Sorry. | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/14 02:42 AM |
| 1 | Engaged guy decides he's mentally ill and irrational because he's secretly never trusted any woman and ends his engagement over it. Turns out his fiancee cheated. r/relationships straps on their white armor anyway and rushes to save the fair maiden from this sick deranged monster.Eh, maybe I missed your point but I didn't read that. I just read a pretty judgmental perspective of gym members. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/14 04:04 PM |
| 3 | Engaged guy decides he's mentally ill and irrational because he's secretly never trusted any woman and ends his engagement over it. Turns out his fiancee cheated. r/relationships straps on their white armor anyway and rushes to save the fair maiden from this sick deranged monster.I was making the point that he was looking a men at the gym in a judgmental way...instead of just working out. Your point well taken. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/14 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Engaged guy decides he's mentally ill and irrational because he's secretly never trusted any woman and ends his engagement over it. Turns out his fiancee cheated. r/relationships straps on their white armor anyway and rushes to save the fair maiden from this sick deranged monster.This is a pretty dumb comment. Men that are paying attention to what other men do in the gym sound like weak bitches to me. Go ahead, get enraged. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/02/14 12:18 PM |
| 0 | Simple number close for girls who are at workGot it. Yeah, that's good. | /r/seduction | 07/11/13 08:35 PM |
| 3 | Simple number close for girls who are at workOh. Ok. That's better. | /r/seduction | 07/11/13 08:35 PM |
| -16 | Simple number close for girls who are at workNice idea, but it's pretty stupid to get involved with women at work. So. There's that. | /r/seduction | 07/11/13 06:17 PM |
| 1 | The 3 Second rule and why its so important to follow it.Have you ever counted 3 secs when walking into a bar? It goes by fast. | /r/seduction | 03/11/13 12:03 AM |
| 1 | The 3 Second rule and why its so important to follow it.Too bad that it's not actually a practical rule, but nevertheless, it's a good idea to attempt to follow it. It's more like a guideline, when possible. | /r/seduction | 02/11/13 08:27 PM |
| 3 | Don't let the game define youWelcome to the process of self-discovery. When you have an imbalance, it's like a listing ship. You have to shove things in the other direction to discover where/when you can get into better balance. That doesn't mean it all works, all the time, nor that you should be applying "alpha" behavior like a gorilla. Correcting bad habits is a process of evolving who you are. By the time you are fairly decent at meeting women that interest you, you can finally get to deeper levels of understanding about… | /r/seduction | 12/10/13 05:54 PM |
| 4 | A good response when a girl asks you to buy her a drink!THIS. It is a woman's pickup line. Not a good one. | /r/seduction | 19/09/13 01:48 PM |
| 1 | A good response when a girl asks you to buy her a drink!They're usually broke, young 20 somethings that do that to each other. | /r/seduction | 19/09/13 01:47 PM |
| 6 | A good response when a girl asks you to buy her a drink!Uh, that's an assumption. Someone women won't find that attractive at all. It's really your choice how to handle that for the best possible outcome for yourself. | /r/seduction | 19/09/13 01:46 PM |
| 8 | A good response when a girl asks you to buy her a drink!All your downvoters are missing your point...they're probably the very chumps that kept buying women drinks until they found out, "oh shit, I don't actually have to?!" And now they're overreacting angry men who NEVER buy women drinks. | /r/seduction | 19/09/13 01:44 PM |
| 5 | A good response when a girl asks you to buy her a drink!That's fun, but makes you sound cheap. | /r/seduction | 19/09/13 01:42 PM |
| 1 | A good response when a girl asks you to buy her a drink!There's better ways to handle that but I suppose if you have NO interest, why even say "nah"? Just walk away. | /r/seduction | 19/09/13 01:42 PM |
| 10 | A good response when a girl asks you to buy her a drink!And clearly that didn't go anywhere for you, did it now? You know you're kind of being a bitch yourself, calling out a bitch. I'm not saying she wasn't deserving of reprimand, but who are you to chastise her for it? And you still wanted her number after she's been a bitch to begin with? Really? Come on man. | /r/seduction | 19/09/13 01:40 PM |
| 40 | A good response when a girl asks you to buy her a drink!Just to be clear guys, this is a big red flag for me. This pretty much always disqualified someone out of my interest because anyone that doesn't have enough self-respect not to ask someone they don't know well to buy them a drink, is probably someone I'm not going to want to deal with. With rare exception, if there has already been a good deal of banter between us and she's just signaling this as a way to say, "hey, so what's the next step here? Are you buying me drink or what?" So, with that, … | /r/seduction | 19/09/13 01:37 PM |
| 2 | Is being easy-going attractive?"I would think it was your way of trying to sleep with me." "Are you trying to seduce me? Cause its not working bro!" "Cool man." "Whoa. Quick, this man need medical marrijuana attention!" "Only if we can cuddle afterwards." Say nothing and slowly get up and back away. | /r/seduction | 17/09/13 02:15 PM |
| 9 | Is being easy-going attractive?Not if I'm in the room, son. Being alpha as fuck all the the time will make you my bitch in shorter time than you can say amog | /r/seduction | 17/09/13 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Is being easy-going attractive?Generally once someone steps into trying to cause disrespect, I turn on the ignore button. Usually a clear "cool man" is enough I'd they keep pressing me...and then a massive backhand to the face if they take it further. I haven't had to do a backhand. | /r/seduction | 17/09/13 01:57 PM |
| 1 | A simple tip given to me by a friend, works wonders.I love your shits. | /r/seduction | 15/06/13 12:18 AM |
| 1 | A simple tip given to me by a friend, works wonders.Please keep your shits to yourself or dispose of them properly. | /r/seduction | 14/06/13 07:32 PM |
| 1 | A simple tip given to me by a friend, works wonders.Do they enjoy wrestling with black bears too in their spare time? | /r/seduction | 14/06/13 07:22 PM |
| 1 | A simple tip given to me by a friend, works wonders.Sure, I'll give you that. I mean, tons of women like football too. And there'll be a ton of more guys that like the sport and can talk about just like you can, that you'll be competing with..too. I'm saying, if you want to pick up women...there's better "verticals", way better. | /r/seduction | 14/06/13 07:21 PM |
| 1 | A simple tip given to me by a friend, works wonders.Men with sticks on skates beating each other just doesn't have enough of an appeal for most women. You might found a woman or two that is into it, just like you could find a tranny that's into it, too. :) It's important to have a passion for something. That's key. But you would do well expanding beyond agressive sports as part of repertoire, if you're looking to meet women (you are subscribed to Seddit aren't ya?). What I'm saying is, most women could give two shits about hockey. Fun to watch th… | /r/seduction | 14/06/13 07:19 PM |
| 1 | A simple tip given to me by a friend, works wonders.Heh, why get mad when you can just beat her. That's a joke people. That's not the way, kids. | /r/seduction | 14/06/13 07:15 PM |
| 1 | A simple tip given to me by a friend, works wonders.Yeah, for sure. It's good to pay attention to that for bonding purposes. | /r/seduction | 14/06/13 07:12 PM |
| 2 | A simple tip given to me by a friend, works wonders.Yes. Exactly. The important thing is to get into something you like and learn how to express that part of you. Your passion for it. Just don't try to shove it down someone's throat. Too many guys fall into that needy ass shit and just kills everything. Now, some skills, tricks, things about life, are more interesting than others, or rather, they demo better than others. The german dialect guy is going to have a hard time compared to the magic man but even the magic dude better have a good, quick… | /r/seduction | 13/06/13 10:07 PM |
| 5 | A simple tip given to me by a friend, works wonders.Yeah, not a good idea unless they ask and you can keep it short, sweet, and punchy. | /r/seduction | 13/06/13 10:03 PM |
| 2 | A simple tip given to me by a friend, works wonders.Getting crazy mad is so attractive. | /r/seduction | 13/06/13 10:02 PM |
| 4 | A simple tip given to me by a friend, works wonders.The point is not the paper crane dude. That's just an example. | /r/seduction | 13/06/13 10:01 PM |
| 26 | A simple tip given to me by a friend, works wonders.Dude, they were into you because you demonstrated you were into something on a passionate level beyond the average. I can talk about fungus and make it sound like it's the most amazing phenomena in the world because guess what, it fucking is if you do a deep enough dive. Chicks dig passion. | /r/seduction | 13/06/13 09:59 PM |
| 0 | A simple tip given to me by a friend, works wonders.Man, that sounds like a rocking party. Look out, party animals on Reddit. | /r/seduction | 13/06/13 09:54 PM |
| -1 | A simple tip given to me by a friend, works wonders.I think in the order of sports chicks like to pretend they enjoy watching or hearing about hockey is at the bottom. | /r/seduction | 13/06/13 09:53 PM |
| -2 | A simple tip given to me by a friend, works wonders.Really? You can't be serious. | /r/seduction | 13/06/13 09:51 PM |
| 2 | A simple tip given to me by a friend, works wonders.Slow your roll professor. Not everyone wants to learn something goofy. A receipt? Rules to a sport? Jesus christ, that's a sure way to bore them to death. Only if they ask and maybe then only if it can be taught a couple of minutes. I've seen hundreds of goofballs trying to become a pedantic know-it-all at the bars all time just end up getting tooled hard for not know when people just are interested in what they're peddling. It's a nice idea, but it doesn't singularly work wonders. | /r/seduction | 13/06/13 09:49 PM |
| 36 | first cold approach last night. went terrible.That's reaction seeking, needy thing to do and not a good idea. She's under no obligation to carry on with a stranger if she doesn't want to. | /r/seduction | 08/06/13 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Wisdom from Psychopaths. "The trick is to stop your brain from running on ahead of you."Not any that stand out. I tend read the Economist and they don't use bi-lines. :) | /r/seduction | 13/01/13 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Wisdom from Psychopaths. "The trick is to stop your brain from running on ahead of you."Well, true enough that I was hopeful at the onset... Writer of the article just didn't do such a good job for me. | /r/seduction | 12/01/13 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Wisdom from Psychopaths. "The trick is to stop your brain from running on ahead of you."And what? That's to be admired? That's ridiculous. These guys are murderers with no conscience. They don't have the best planning skills because clearly they were caught. | /r/seduction | 11/01/13 03:59 PM |
| 1 | Wisdom from Psychopaths. "The trick is to stop your brain from running on ahead of you."I can appreciate some of that myself. Don't get me wrong, I can appreciate a good writer that sets the scene up well as you say. But he lost me with the excessive use of adjectives throughout the whole piece. It SEEMS like he's gotten better at writer because I checked out his book reviews and a quite few of them commented on his convoluted way of writing. I did that about half way into the "scene setting" thinking, this guy might be pretty cool. The whole article I'm left with a tid bit on crea… | /r/seduction | 08/01/13 04:14 PM |
| 1 | How do I get rid of this mindset?Figure out how to enjoy the failures more than the wins. | /r/seduction | 02/01/13 07:39 PM |
| 2 | First Date Flake- A Guide on How to ProceedHmm... alright, fair enough. There could be some work to improve here but I see where you're intentions are so that's cool. The important thing is to not overly sweat the details about whether or not she has a valid excuse. Perhaps rewriting that portion might make sense. I DO 100% agree with the gist of your comment here and yes, for someone totally green to this world, this could be pretty beneficial regardless of my "rant". :) | /r/seduction | 20/12/12 04:34 PM |
| 2 | First Date Flake- A Guide on How to ProceedI'm with this guy. | /r/seduction | 20/12/12 04:26 PM |
| 3 | First Date Flake- A Guide on How to ProceedThat sounds ridiculous and silly...but it has worked before for me. So i can't say that it doesn't. Haha! | /r/seduction | 20/12/12 04:16 PM |
| 3 | First Date Flake- A Guide on How to ProceedEh.. I bet it's somewhere in the way you asked. I wouldn't have asked if she was still up for doing something tonight. I would have just told her... "hey, I'll be x bar by 7pm ..stop by woman or I'm giving away your drinks to strangers." Something like that is much better than a puppy question.. "hey, are you still like into me? Do you still want to hang out? Are you cool with that? Can we be friends too?".... I'm not saying that's what you SAID..but that's what you're implying with "Hey, still … | /r/seduction | 20/12/12 04:15 PM |
| -6 | First Date Flake- A Guide on How to ProceedDid we read the same guide? Where is that emphasis? I completely agree with you in that THAT is absolutely key to avoid flakes. But that's no where in this guide. | /r/seduction | 20/12/12 04:11 PM |
| 1 | I am uncomfortable talking myself up/talking about myself. Bragging?Nah. You're fine. If she asks about your life dude, no need to hide either though. One suggestion is make sure you express what you're passionate about and what motivates you. So if it's the work you do, and she's asking, share what excites you about it. That's not bragging that's being real. Bragging is championing your accomplishments as if everyone you meet gives a shit. No one cares for unsolicited namedropping, bling flashing kind of nonsense. That's usually interpreted as a sign of immatur… | /r/seduction | 30/11/12 09:06 PM |
| 1 | Met girl over Facebook, two days later we have a first date. She spends the night but I can't F-close..LMR?Exactly. | /r/seduction | 30/11/12 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Met girl over Facebook, two days later we have a first date. She spends the night but I can't F-close..LMR?Right. That being said, if she's offering token resistance it's likely the an indicator she's much more into you than she's letting. Alternatively, ONS are well, just ONS. Most of those will be just a fun one night hook up and than the inevitable, somewhat awkward follow ups that never go anywhere. Guys should experience the spectrum and then they come around to realize...it's not all that. You got laid with some drunk chick last night in the bathroom? Great. And, I took crap this morning. That'… | /r/seduction | 30/11/12 09:00 PM |
| 2 | Met girl over Facebook, two days later we have a first date. She spends the night but I can't F-close..LMR?Exactly. Patience = Non-Needy If you don't have patience, then you probably don't have a lot of women in your life. I would be on a 4th date with one woman in the early afternoon and that evening I would go see one of my close lady friends for some relief. So, I never cared... how ever long she needed to become comfortable with me would fine with me, not that I would of course, sit around waiting for her. The only time drop some chick for delaying gratification was if I met one of those bitches … | /r/seduction | 30/11/12 08:55 PM |
| 1 | Met girl over Facebook, two days later we have a first date. She spends the night but I can't F-close..LMR?What's the rush player? If you got other women in your life, you find this token resistance quaint and amusing. Just enjoy the time with her and hey... maybe you should be teasing her to. Chillax. Sounds like she's into you. | /r/seduction | 30/11/12 08:46 PM |
| 1 | What ONE change gave you the biggest improvement?Becoming less reactive to any negativity directed my way. | /r/seduction | 25/10/12 06:42 AM |
| 1 | Tips for a dominant smile?Smile more. | /r/seduction | 11/10/12 10:42 PM |
| 2 | Tips for a dominant smile?Well, no one likes to be around a Debbie Downer, so if people are telling you to "cheer up" or asking you if you're mad, then you're not doing something right. In fact, just avoiding negativity all together is a good first step for most guys. Establishing dominance is also not merely about "not smiling" or coming up with a special way of smiling. It's about more of how you lead things, how you express what you feel with confidence and conviction, and a lot about not being needy or "outcome indep… | /r/seduction | 11/10/12 10:41 PM |
| 2 | How douchey do I have to be exactly?Confidence IS important, but not MOST important. I meet a lot of "confident" men that unravel when their confidence is questioned or when they start to undo themselves by becoming needy and reactive. Leadership qualities are equally important. There's plenty of confident ment walking around in this world, waiting for life to happen to them. They have no determination, no creative leadership energy, no ambition or passion, little or no motivation. Leadership and confidence is a damn good start. T… | /r/seduction | 06/10/12 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Yes, you CAN fake it, until you make it. Body language affects your mind.Ah. Yeah it looks like it was, but not in Seduction. | /r/seduction | 06/10/12 09:54 PM |
| 1 | How douchey do I have to be exactly?Arrogance is not the same as confidence. An arrogant man, judges others in a negative fashion with disdain those that do not have the same opinion (frame) that he has worked to create. His perception of self-importance is usually out of whack with reality and that comes with a lot of negative side effects that comes with having to put in the effort to keep this image of himself going. Whether the opinions expressed are about himself or the world, or merely the moment at hand, it doesn't matter t… | /r/seduction | 23/09/12 10:35 PM |
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