| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 127 | Starting with nothing. How to make friends and meet women casually? | rook218 | /r/seduction | 27/04/13 03:52 PM | |
| 21 | [FR] Met two girls at a hostel (Lessons: A good wingman, staying outcome independent, don't be an 'emotional slut', logistics) | rook218 | /r/seduction | 22/03/13 02:12 AM | |
| 2 | Dear Seddit: Help me find excuses to get out of my living room on the weekends. | rook218 | /r/seduction | 22/04/13 02:39 AM |
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| 2 | Judge orders woman to walk 30 miles, the length of trip, for bailing on cab fareI think it should be required to be shot with pepper spray before you are allowed to carry it. Shits no joke | /r/PussyPassDenied | 30/05/15 05:33 PM |
| 0 | first cold approach last night. went terrible.At that point you've already been shot down. Might as well make it seem like it's on your terms and move on | /r/seduction | 09/06/13 04:21 AM |
| -3 | first cold approach last night. went terrible.EDIT: Roger, got it. Apparently this was wrong. I want to leave it up so that other people know that it was wrong. I'm no expert (I'm also kind of an asshole), but I would have said something like "Really, you're gonna start texting while we're in the middle of a conversation?" Generally speaking, she would try to apologize and make excuses for being rude. Then SHE is trying to make ME like HER, instead of the other way around. | /r/seduction | 08/06/13 06:29 PM |
| 1 | I'm hitting up 2 big bike rides in a few hours, there will be tons of cute girls at these events. Anyone care to throw me some guides or advice on how to not be so meta?Take charge. Learn some routes and suggest the group follow them. Talk to girls but lose the friendly overtones. Let the girls you talk to know that you want sex/ romance/ whatever it is you really want. Be confident, take a leadership role, be fun, be in the moment. Basically all the stuff you are supposed to do anyway, but on a bike instead of standing up. By the way, where are these bike rides? | /r/seduction | 26/05/13 04:42 PM |
| 2 | I'm hitting up 2 big bike rides in a few hours, there will be tons of cute girls at these events. Anyone care to throw me some guides or advice on how to not be so meta?I think it's an auto correct of beta | /r/seduction | 26/05/13 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Starting with nothing. How to make friends and meet women casually?I like your style. Bar games (shuffleboard, darts, etc) are pretty big up here so that could be a good transition. | /r/seduction | 28/04/13 03:15 PM |
| 2 | Starting with nothing. How to make friends and meet women casually?That's fucking genius, and a great second step. I'll absolutely remember this once i get a good group going. | /r/seduction | 28/04/13 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Starting with nothing. How to make friends and meet women casually?I'm actually a 2LT. I was lucky to work at Brigade for a while so I got to know a lot of other 2LT's who went to different Battalions than the one I'm in now, so that's helpful. I don't want my entire social network to be contained within work though, and I'm looking to expand out a little bit and make some civilian friends. Good advice though, it's appreciated. | /r/seduction | 28/04/13 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Starting with nothing. How to make friends and meet women casually?Your confusion is understandable, i didn't write that part very clearly | /r/seduction | 28/04/13 03:37 AM |
| 2 | Starting with nothing. How to make friends and meet women casually?Yes! That might be my main issue with going out to the bars by myself. I tend to head out around 10 o'clock when everyone is starting to congeal into groups. Thanks for the insight. | /r/seduction | 28/04/13 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Starting with nothing. How to make friends and meet women casually?That's been on my list for some time. Definitely gonna look up places to do that in the city. | /r/seduction | 28/04/13 02:24 AM |
| 2 | Starting with nothing. How to make friends and meet women casually?I've messaged other sedditors from the map, all of them said they were out of the game for one reason or another. I could give that another shot though. I went on OKC and POF both, had a bad experience with both of them (especially POF). I did my best, got advice on sending the right messages, and after two months all it did was give me a sort of Facebook Effect where I would get a little 'buzz' off getting replies and have a sort of 'withdraw' when there were no replies. Went on a few dates, no… | /r/seduction | 28/04/13 02:23 AM |
| 4 | Starting with nothing. How to make friends and meet women casually?I've tried this before, with mixed results. I love going to hostels and trying to make friends that way and it's really easy and really fun. The problem is (predictably) everyone goes away after a day or two. My usual strategy is go to a hostel, buy a bunch of beer, meet some cool people, go out to the bars together. It works well, but again, the people leave too soon. When I go to the bars by myself, I guess I give off a creepy vibe or something. I ask people questions, joke around, etc. but I … | /r/seduction | 28/04/13 02:18 AM |
| 1 | Starting with nothing. How to make friends and meet women casually?I try my best, but I could definitely improve that aspect of my interpersonal tact. | /r/seduction | 28/04/13 02:14 AM |
| 1 | Starting with nothing. How to make friends and meet women casually?They all just got back from a deployment to Kandahar (I got to the unit too late to deploy), so they're pretty fucking tight right now | /r/seduction | 28/04/13 02:12 AM |
| 3 | So my friend and I have this bet about her last relationship.Why did she have an end date in mind? | /r/seduction | 22/04/13 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Dear Seddit: Help me find excuses to get out of my living room on the weekends.I tried meetup for a while. I don't like their way of doing things. Instead of just letting you go to meetups, you have to become a member of the group first. Then you start getting emails every time someone in the group farts, and even when you uncheck all the boxes, your preferences reset every three days or so. But thanks for the tip, maybe I'll give it another try. | /r/seduction | 22/04/13 02:58 AM |
| 6 | Are monogamous people more satisfied?At first I kind of thought you were being a dick about monogamy, but then I read the article and you pretty much summed it up. Sorry for thinking you were being a dick. | /r/seduction | 08/04/13 03:36 PM |
| 3 | Hey i asked a girl to get together this weekend but the thing is I have no idea what to do.Too low on money for food from a grocery store? If you need something completely free, you could use your meal plan to grab food and bring it outside or just take a walk. If you don't need to be outside, invite her to a party (that you know you won't have to stand in line for). | /r/seduction | 05/04/13 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Hey i asked a girl to get together this weekend but the thing is I have no idea what to do.Picnic? Make up some sammiches and buy a pie or something. I | /r/seduction | 05/04/13 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Different situation here!Well, seems like you already know the right answer but you're afraid to pull the trigger. Nut up and go for it EDIT: Also, get her phone number and develop a more personal/ non-group relationship with her but avoid being the nice guy friend. Or just forget about her, or bite the bullet. | /r/seduction | 24/03/13 11:00 AM |
| 1 | Different situation here!22 year old guy here. I was hooking up with a girl who was 9 years older than me for a while. 2 years isn't "older than you." You're in the same age group. Her being slightly older is irrelevant in this case. The big thing to worry about is how your friend will react. Run it by him first to make sure he's ok with it. I had a friend who once locked himself in a bathroom, screaming for hours and breaking shit because someone made out with his sister at a party. Granted, that's extreme. But still. … | /r/seduction | 24/03/13 10:22 AM |
| 1 | Do. Not. Deal. With. Shitty. Women. Period.What threads are you referring to? | /r/seduction | 10/03/13 08:19 PM |
| 0 | 77 years and it's all still valuable and valid. And the whole thing's on Wikipedia too.I will take full responsibility for being a douchebag toward you. But at this point, I'm not trying to convince you so much as i am just trying to see what your point even is. You say you want cold, hard, numbers. What numbers? What data and statistics do you want? It's impossible to know what you're talking about. I'm taking personal responsibility for trying to change my worldview against what society has told me is appropriate. Yes, society plays a massive role in how people view the world. T… | /r/seduction | 03/03/13 06:30 PM |
| 2 | 77 years and it's all still valuable and valid. And the whole thing's on Wikipedia too.I AM taking personal responsibility, by reading a book that will help me to undo the wrong lessons that I have been taught. | /r/seduction | 03/03/13 08:56 AM |
| 2 | 77 years and it's all still valuable and valid. And the whole thing's on Wikipedia too.Yes I see how it works both ways. But I don't see your point on that. No matter which way you see it, it's the same exact point. What did you mean by that? And what the FUCK numbers do you want to see? What would numbers about anything actually prove? Come on man, you don't make any sense | /r/seduction | 03/03/13 03:48 AM |
| 3 | 77 years and it's all still valuable and valid. And the whole thing's on Wikipedia too.Because we live in a society that advocates hiding your feelings. If you make a big sale, you have to remain calm instead of dancing around, which you may feel like doing. If you cry after something tragic happens, you're a pussy. People who show affection and genuine care for you are either too attached or are just crazy in general. This book says, "Hey, it's alright to show that you give a shit about other people. Since you may be out of practice after hiding it for decades, here's a helpful h… | /r/seduction | 02/03/13 08:08 PM |
| 5 | 77 years and it's all still valuable and valid. And the whole thing's on Wikipedia too.I have had a discussion with this guy, I will sum up his perspective for everyone else. 1) He hasn't read the whole book so he doesn't really know what it advocates. Even though it advocates being genuinely interested in people and changing your entire mentality toward others, this guy seems to think it's about lying through your teeth and using cheap 'social hacks' to manipulate people. 2) He was lucky enough to grow up in an environment that fostered these social skills naturally. So, everyone… | /r/seduction | 02/03/13 08:04 PM |
| 5 | 77 years and it's all still valuable and valid. And the whole thing's on Wikipedia too.Then you're confused. Dale Carnegie advocates ACTUALLY giving a shit, not pretending. Maybe you would have a firmer grasp if you actually read it, instead of shitting all over it because you instantly disliked the concept. | /r/seduction | 02/03/13 07:59 PM |
| 11 | 77 years and it's all still valuable and valid. And the whole thing's on Wikipedia too.It's not cherry picking when you completely and illogically contradict your own opinion on a very fundamental level. I can see RIGHT through it when people are genuinely kind to me and interested in me; that's why I surround myself with people who are genuinely kind to me and interested in me. It makes sense, stop insulting my intelligence. | /r/seduction | 02/03/13 07:34 PM |
| 5 | 77 years and it's all still valuable and valid. And the whole thing's on Wikipedia too.And I'll bet, that when these people are engaged with you and follow your lead, you feel pretty good about yourself and the other person? If anyone tried this psychological manipulation on me, i'd just walk away. Give me a break, I can see right through people like this. -You, about 30 minutes ago Chapters of the book: Become genuinely interested in other people. Smile. Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves. Talk in terms of the other person's interest. Make the other per… | /r/seduction | 02/03/13 07:17 PM |
| 1 | I've scheduled a text for a girl for 14:30 EST on an opportunity I kind of blew, Line checkThis turned out to be a pretty big wall of text but I hope it helps you. I was in the same situation as you this summer, man. The same exact situation. I'm an army dude and I was on a post called Fort Leonard Wood for a four month training course. The post and the surrounding area was easily 85% dudes, and the women off-post were so jaded by living near Soldiers that they were basically off limits. In my class we had about 10 females, four of them bangable, and one of those girls was single. So … | /r/seduction | 23/02/13 04:52 PM |
| 1 | I've scheduled a text for a girl for 14:30 EST on an opportunity I kind of blew, Line checkI'm not gonna lie, from what i can tell your "different kind of attraction" is classic one-itis. Go balls to the wall until she literally tells you to stop talking to her, then move on. That's what this community is all about. That's what I did this summer and ended up getting the girl. The only cute, single girl in my class that had about 20 single dudes. | /r/seduction | 23/02/13 04:13 PM |
| 1 | I've scheduled a text for a girl for 14:30 EST on an opportunity I kind of blew, Line checkIs this a serious post? "Please rate my text message before I send it out?" The answer is fucking send it and hope it works. If it doesn't, oh well. Get another girls phone number and send another text. | /r/seduction | 23/02/13 03:37 PM |
| 6 | The 20 Rules For First DatesIt advises that you not spend any money at all. If for whatever reason you must spend money, keep it cheap and pay the tab. I'm sure you already understand that. Not all of the advice is made to be used simultaneously. This is more of an 'if-then' map. | /r/seduction | 18/02/13 08:48 PM |
| 13 | The 20 Rules For First DatesFrom How to Win Friends and Influence People, you're supposed to get the other person talking about themselves, and their interests, for them to like you and be comfortable with you. So the first point is pretty good. I saw on the OKCupid blog that a man's past relationships are among a woman's lest preferred topics to discuss. Not sure how scientifically rigorous that was though. Being sexual is an obvious one for people who are knowledgeable on what this community teaches. Paying the tab shows… | /r/seduction | 18/02/13 06:41 PM |
| 9 | Why solo travel can and will help you!Or at the very least, a dining area that allows alcohol. I stayed at a hostel in Portland a few weeks ago that didn't allow alcohol on site, that was a buzzkill | /r/seduction | 16/02/13 07:05 PM |
| 8 | How I killed my One-itisThen why are you here? | /r/seduction | 15/02/13 06:01 PM |
| 5 | How to approach girls on a dancefloor? [college]I would dance near her, have a blast dancing, and then she would generally start to kind of back into me. A light tap on the hip and next thing you know, BOOM, we're dancing together. From there, keep your hands on her hips, start to lead her movements, run your hands down her thighs and her sides, be real sensual about it. My patented move is to run my fingers down her arms and interlock fingers with her in a position that is akin to reverse hand-holding. | /r/seduction | 27/01/13 02:30 AM |
| 1 | I'm going to try and break every limiting belief about your looks there is. Let's do this.When I have even one or two beers in a low light environment I get cross-eyed. Is there a niche of girls who like guys who can't see straight? | /r/seduction | 28/10/12 09:14 PM |
| 17 | Something I realized about texting yesterday: Reverse the mentalities.I would recommend getting rid of the jew fro | /r/seduction | 21/09/12 05:06 PM |
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