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Glad to see quality content again
/r/TheRedPill19/06/21 05:27 PM
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2015 was the year I found this subreddit. Absolutely amazing. I still find good stuff here and there when I visit every so often (I’ve internalized most of TRP at this point), but it’s a mere shadow of what it was like in ‘15. I was one of the young men TRP saved. I still have a long ways to go, but at least I know how to get where I want and accurately troubleshoot issues on my journey. Thank you from the bottom of my heart TRP.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/21 04:35 AM
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Coffee shops and downtown are my places to cold approach. Anywhere you see an attractive woman really
/r/askTRP26/06/18 12:21 AM
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It's what happens afterwards that matters. Talk to everyone. Acquant yourself with the whole damn class over the next few days. Find the people worth being seen with, and those who are not and act accordingly. Join a club/sport. You got this, just do not dare retreat into your shell and act like some future school shooter that had to transfer due to bullying.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 12:19 AM
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Cold approach. Go out and start conversations with everyone, and I mean everyone. I'm talking young (keep it over 18), old, men, women, rich, homeless. Learn to get people to like you from just meeting you and having fun conversations. Your GF will probably respect you for it too unless you deliberately talk to cute girls in front of her.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 12:16 AM
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I would have stood my ground and tried to have a method of evidence to sue if it came to it. I would have said something like "Dude you need to chill, we're all just trying to have a good time here." I think you got serious way too fast. Remember, a wolf does not trouble himself with the opinions of sheep. Knowing MMA doesn't make him any less of a bitch, treat him like someone who is too young and naive to understand. As long as you are mature about it, the situation probably won't escalate to …
/r/askTRP26/06/18 12:08 AM
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Never rule out a possible case of crazy
/r/askTRP26/06/18 12:04 AM
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You could call it emotional abuse. Just like how you could call women wasting time of beta orbiters and using them as emotional tampons "abuse." You have to remember that most people outside of the TRP community will not look kindly upon TRP strategy and values. I have a couple personal quotes that I think are related to this situation. The first is "The guilt of manipulation is lighter than the burden of a missed opportunity." The second one goes "Sometimes a manipulated man (woman) is a happy …
/r/askTRP25/06/18 11:59 PM
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I started going on a 3 mile run with a friend every morning. I do pushups right when I wake up to get the blood flowing and pull-ups after running. I'm also getting off of my Juul/Sourin Air and switching to a mod with lower nicotine concentration. Also sleeping earlier and waking up earlier. I get about 8 hours of sleep a night and am trying to get it up to 9 this summer break. Finally, I'm starting to learn how to use Microsoft Excel and am seriously considering starting a business with some r…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/18 06:25 PM
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Say anything. See what works best for you through first hand experimentation and experience. Don't be afraid to fail.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 02:53 PM
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After I started replying later (because I got busy) the girl started replying even later. Anything I should be worried about? Shit test?
/r/askTRP17/05/17 03:26 AM
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Genius, thanks guys
/r/askTRP17/05/17 03:25 AM
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Works for me
/r/askTRP10/04/17 07:29 PM
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What's a good place to do this? I'm really busy the next couple weeks so I'd prefer a high traffic area I can stay at for one chunk of time.
/r/askTRP10/04/17 06:05 PM
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Opinions on cold approach to random people at my school? Or should I stick with "friend of a friend" connections? I'm fairly known around the school (I'm on student gov).
/r/askTRP10/04/17 04:17 AM
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I would ask a hot sophomore but I don't know a whole lot. The one I have in mind is likely taken (she's a 7/8). Would you recommend me to cold approach random sophomores at my school and ask them? I feel like it might paint me badly if I did that at my own school considering that quite a few people know me and know of me
/r/askTRP10/04/17 03:01 AM
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I carry myself more or less like I am, but if I'm being objective, no. I'd say I'm probably between a 5 and 6 looks wise if I want to be conservative
/r/askTRP10/04/17 02:57 AM
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Been there, read the side bar.
/r/askTRP27/03/17 03:54 PM
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Well it works, I can attest to that from experience. Just watch out for the major bullshit PUAs, they get you a number but no date
/r/askTRP25/03/17 01:30 PM
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A good rule of thumb would be to ask yourself: What would Chad do?
/r/askTRP25/03/17 01:29 PM
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"Normal". There you have it. Do you really think any woman, let alone a single mother in her late twenties, can be considered normal in our logic? NO. And I know the people who replied to your post are being awfully harsh but they are not wrong. It's best for you to just move on with your thoughts. There are weird people everywhere, if you always try to take your time to figure them out, you'll never get anything else done. Leave the figuring out to the shut in omegas
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 11:46 PM
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Send a PM with your Kik
/r/askTRP04/01/17 03:36 AM
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Give a reason for them to want you around. Unique humor is a good one. For example, people like me for my satirical/sarcastic/dry humor.
/r/askTRP04/01/17 02:46 AM
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Coffee? That's usually a go to option.
/r/askTRP04/01/17 02:44 AM
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Aye man I've got a kik group of TRP guys in high school. If you wanna join let me know. Anyways, you're right dude. If you're an adult like most of the people on here, you don't wanna text much. But girls our age literally live with their phones on them at all times so you can make the gamble of trying to build rapport over text. It's a risk though. I usually do alright for a time, but start making mistakes and fucking up after a while.
/r/askTRP04/01/17 02:42 AM
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Become a Sigma like me. Roamers end up getting attention because they're usually absent. Therefore it's seen as special when you do show up. It gives you more options as far as social circles go, and the mystery can attract. You have to be pretty unique and very enjoyable to be around though. Honestly being a proper Sigma can be harder than being a proper Alpha.
/r/askTRP02/01/17 03:31 AM
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Never share Red Pill with those who will not understand
/r/askTRP02/01/17 03:28 AM
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You've done everything you can. All you can do is go on knowing you're making the most of yourself. Many people can't even do that, and you deserve some respect for making something of the shit you were given to work with.
/r/askTRP02/01/17 12:44 AM
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You have to want it. You have to want to change. You have to want a better life. If you don't want it enough, then you won't have the motivation to start. I struggle from procrastination, lack of concentration, and lack of motivation at times. But I was unhappy with myself and wanted to be better, and it was more than enough to kick start my change. So here I am. Try to find some others that are serious about Red Pill. I'm more of a Sigma, so I can solo things, but for others - especially curren…
/r/askTRP02/01/17 12:42 AM
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You use it to your advantage. You are one of the few that realize perception is not reality. Most others still believe perception is reality. I use it to make myself look good and make others look bad if it works in my benefit (Machiavellian Theory).
/r/askTRP02/01/17 12:37 AM
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My methods of meditation are what help me concentrate on my homework to actually get it done. So pretty damn important.
/r/askTRP02/01/17 12:35 AM
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Put value in your time. Your time is valuable. Sitting across from a girl who is just on her phone and killing conversation is not worth your time. Therefore, cut your costs and go do something worth your time instead. It's her own fucking fault for being a bitch.
/r/askTRP01/01/17 06:38 PM
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This is good. It means your brain is subconsciously making her less desirable because she isn't worth your time.
/r/askTRP01/01/17 05:01 PM
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I'm no expert on TRP, but I'd say I'm fairly practiced with cold approach. I could try my best to give you some advice on that.
/r/askTRP01/01/17 02:10 PM
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Bro do what I do and cold approach at malls, coffee shops, downtown, etc. Just go up to like 10 people every time you go out. I usually have a number rate of about 40% and a first date rate of about 10%. So if you're about the same as me, you'll average at least one date for every 10 people you approach. The people I approach are all strangers btw.
/r/askTRP01/01/17 01:47 PM
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Let it go dude. Always remember that even though your mind doesn't want to believe it, there are not only more fish in the sea, there are more fish in the sea that are sexier and cooler than the last. I see the girls in my life as fish I find in a deep sea exploration, you'll always find something more exotic and beautiful than the last. It's just a matter of time. And time is something you and I have a lot of.
/r/askTRP01/01/17 03:29 AM
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I used to be BP and thought some unicorn of a woman would love me for who I was. I suppose it might be different for me since I have tendencies of the dark triad, but I just told myself this and came to terms with it. "Life's a bitch, and the best way to get back at it is to beat it at it's own game." I also fed myself a bunch of narcissistic and Machiavellian shit and honestly that helped me a lot. I don't live for the love I'll get. Honestly, more and more my life is about how I'm going to be …
/r/askTRP01/01/17 01:24 AM
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I struggle so hard with this
/r/askTRP01/01/17 01:06 AM
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Nice. Now turn today's hindsight into tomorrow's foresight.
/r/askTRP01/01/17 01:01 AM
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I'm 17 and I can't wait to get a firearm next year.
/r/askTRP31/12/16 04:31 PM
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Exercise/sports, reading, writing, learning an instrument, going out to cold approach...There are so many different things you can do. Congrats for deciding to cut out video games btw. That's a big step in the right direction.
/r/askTRP31/12/16 03:55 PM
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Ghosting then
/r/askTRP31/12/16 02:29 PM
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If you really were over her, you wouldn't have sent her any texts. A bitch like doesn't deserve the thought or time of another text. People ask me how I have such little faith in humanity and am so cynical. Shit like this is what confirms me time after time that my view is the right view on life to have. Obviously this bitch was just using you as someone to text when she wants to talk and was just stringing you along the whole time. You gotta move on though, women like this aren't worth any more…
/r/askTRP31/12/16 02:21 PM
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Anything and everything. The key is to not think and just write. You're basically spilling your thoughts onto paper so that those thoughts no longer clutter your mind. You could literally write about how you can't concentrate on reading and how it's frustrating. Make sure it's with pen(cil) and paper though. Using an electronic device for your writing won't help as much, if at all.
/r/askTRP31/12/16 02:07 PM
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Sorry, I abbreviated soft next. Didn't mean for it to confuse anyone
/r/askTRP31/12/16 01:59 PM
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Nobody really knows. If you find out, let us know.
/r/askTRP31/12/16 06:27 AM
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Listening to audio books can work, though they aren't ideal. Have you ever tried writing? In my experience, writing about random things that are on your mind for a few minutes helps to get me in the mode to concentrate.
/r/askTRP31/12/16 06:25 AM
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Sounds like you're longing for an LTR to me.
/r/askTRP31/12/16 06:19 AM
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I do cold approach every now and then as a hobby (it's really fun to me). I'm 17 so I can't go to bars and clubs, so I visit shopping malls (food court and waiting areas are usually best), and coffee shops mostly. I've also tried just walking around downtown. But then again, I'm in the US so things might be different.
/r/askTRP31/12/16 03:58 AM
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I worded that poorly. I mean that as long as they're strangers, do whatever, but tread lightly when it comes to girls in your circle. You don't need a shitty reputation following you. As for being twisted...The world is twisted dude. I have narcissistic and Machiavellian tendencies to an extent so it's easier for me, but the first part to not caring is acting like you don't care.
/r/askTRP31/12/16 03:54 AM
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I just ignore it because I know those feminists spew bullshit. I don't make my TRP and pro male views public. When some liberal wants to rant about feminism, I either act like I'm listening, or leave. Life's a game, and playing the game is a bitch. But you have to play to win, and there's nothing more satisfying than beating someone at their own game after they try to disadvantage you in numerous ways. Prove to those feminists you're so much higher up than them that you can still win with your d…
/r/askTRP31/12/16 03:48 AM
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Fellow Asian guy here, I feel you on that dude. Improve myself more and watch if things change: keep lifting and learning new things, meet new people, basically... Always do this. Never stop improving yourself. If you stop improving, it means you've become perfect. It's impossible to be perfect, so keep improving. No excuses or breaks. No attention on Tinder makes sense. Tinder works best for white guys. But I do cold pickup at malls, coffee shops, etc and my first date rate is like 14% so far (…
/r/askTRP30/12/16 05:29 AM
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Honestly I don't think a number is super necessary until things actually take a step ahead. Snapchat has a messaging service which can substitute texts for a time.
/r/askTRP30/12/16 03:31 AM
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Same here. One thing that's different from my experience is that you can build a certain amount of rapport over text since all the bitches our age are all over their phones. We should stay in touch and share any stuff we come across regarding TRP in HS
/r/askTRP30/12/16 02:22 AM
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Maybe practice on your own time? If you practice it gives you a better mentality and helps you to improve. That's what I did for basketball.
/r/askTRP30/12/16 12:35 AM
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I would have just went with it. Unless it's a big deal, I would advise against killing stuff like that, even if it is a little stupid. I mean think about what would have happened if you nailed it again? You might be at least somewhat closer to nailing one of those chicks. At the very least, you should have diverted attention. Bottom line, this situation reminds me of cold pickup because if you try, you have at least a chance at something good happening. You don't try, and there's no chance.
/r/askTRP30/12/16 12:29 AM
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Charismatic. You're a natural. I needed to go out and cold approach for a while before I could be like how you are now.
/r/askTRP29/12/16 11:49 PM
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Sounds to me like your texts were pretty fucking dry and boring. If you're trying to build rapport through text (which is actually somewhat viable if you're in high school), then you can't be asking go to questions that every orbiter in the world asks like "What did you get for Christmas?" Alpha means having the mentality that you are "the catch" and you have other options, not acting like you're her douchebag brother. If you are in high school like I am, shoot me a message and I can try to elab…
/r/askTRP29/12/16 11:49 PM
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Because it's hard to tell yourself "You're being a dumbass and you're doing it all wrong." Even when it's true. I struggle with this sometimes but I remind myself that the people here probably have way more experience and have done it all before. Therefore, my opinion is probably not worth jack shit compared to them. Problem solved
/r/askTRP29/12/16 10:07 PM
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Trying to build rapport over text is always a risky move (which I'm guilty of gambling on). Try to limit conversations over text because you should have more important things to do with your time. Especially with texts, it's better to say less than you should rather than more. I'd say to ghost at the very least. Probably would be best to just forget about her.
/r/askTRP29/12/16 06:43 PM
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Funny, because I asked a girl out on Christmas Eve for the hell of it and she said yes. She either isn't into you, or isn't into you enough to go out on Christmas Eve. Either way, it's probably time to move on.
/r/askTRP29/12/16 06:34 PM
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Ik most of you will say just drop her and talk to some other girls Because that's what you should ideally do. But I feel you bro, oneitis sucks. I'd say that the next best thing is to get yourself a couple plates and possibly soft next this chick.
/r/askTRP29/12/16 06:28 PM
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I used to be super awkward with shitty self esteem the first year of high school and turned it around. You already took the hardest step: Finding out you don't like how you are now, and vowing to change for the better. Personally, changing up my wardrobe (getting my own style) and exercising were probably the two biggest factors that helped kick start my change and boost my self esteem. I saved up cash to buy the types of clothes I wanted (brand name/skate apparel/preppy), and set aside time to …
/r/askTRP29/12/16 06:17 PM
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Personally, I'd text her the evening of the day after. Depending on how good your impression was, she's either thinking of you, or not thinking of you. Either way, I'd say it's better to send the first text while you're still somewhat fresh in her mind. And btw, the whole "trying not to screw this one up" mentality is exactly what screws me up most of the time. Abundance mentality is not overrated dude. Having one or more plates just changes your aura and girls dig that.
/r/askTRP29/12/16 05:57 PM
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Any tips on building rapport?
/r/askTRP28/12/16 05:21 AM
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People call me a dick/asshole, but still like talking/hanging out with me. Go figure
/r/askTRP28/12/16 04:31 AM
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I'm in the same boat as you dude. I grew up a Christian conservative, and that's the kind of family I want later. But if devout Christian women are the type you want to marry, then why aren't these the type of women you're looking into? Obviously, devout Christian women wouldn't say yes to giving a random blowjob or sex to a stranger they met online. Well...at least I'd think so. I get you might want to mess around and have plates and shit like that, but isn't the point of dating - especially at…
/r/askTRP28/12/16 04:29 AM
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I'll make a mental note to never use that line again. You're right, it suggests I don't see myself as someone worth making time for and just someone to call on when you're bored.
/r/askTRP28/12/16 01:55 AM
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I had heard from somewhere to set up the second date ASAP. Maybe I shouldn't rely on info unless it's TRP approved. I just have a hard time with the whole push-pull dynamic and I end up fucking it up. I get sort of antsy if something isn't scheduled and organized ASAP so this doesn't help when I'm trying to stay laid back and indifferent. I'll keep what I did right and change what I did wrong and move on unless she does something to reach out. At the very least, cold approach has become fun to m…
/r/askTRP28/12/16 01:50 AM
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I've pretty much been thinking that I screwed this up and that I should put any energy towards meeting more girls rather than trying to salvage this wreckage. So yeah, I'm thinking of not reaching out for a few days to see what happens. I'm trying my best to not give a fuck about this anymore. Honestly I'm glad to be racking up the experience and making the mistakes now so that when I go to college next year I'll be set.
/r/askTRP28/12/16 01:42 AM
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I said "Do I look like I have a YouTube channel?" And laughed a bit before I went on from their as if she never said anything.
/r/askTRP23/12/16 05:33 PM
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Dude, I'm not dull. I could tell you were joking. I mean "a man who has feelings"? Come on
/r/askTRP20/12/16 02:33 AM
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Hahaha, oh god. She's studying psychology, not literature.
/r/askTRP20/12/16 01:24 AM
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Would you recommend another text (which may not deliver), or a solid phone call/voice mail?
/r/askTRP20/12/16 01:22 AM
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Lol it's a POM beanie
/r/askTRP10/12/16 03:26 PM
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It's not really one of those parties where you can just take them to another room. My parents are home, and I don't have a car. I'm thinking of closing the deal, but not the night of.
/r/askTRP10/12/16 02:35 AM
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Yeah I'm in HS and we're supposed to come in holiday attire. So I'm going in a Christmas sweater (don't worry, I can pull it off), khakis/jeans, and a Pom beanie. Not trying to stick out in a weird way
/r/askTRP10/12/16 02:29 AM
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Should I go for the number in the middle of the party or towards the end? Or should I stick with Snapchat, since girl's more readily give that out?
/r/askTRP09/12/16 11:57 PM
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Thanks for the advice man. That article was super enlightening. (But it also sucks that it's true since I'm a city boy who's into white chicks) I'm going to this holiday party this weekend and the girl is going too. I'll follow your advice and talk with the other girls that are gonna be there and limit the attention I pay to her.
/r/askTRP08/12/16 03:40 PM
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Honestly, every girl better than a 5 in my grade has very little down time, and because of the whole social setting, I don't want to be seen with a girl lower than a 6. Yes, I think I can be picky at school because I go out and pickup chicks every now and then, and school chicks are pretty much just for school dances and a social status boost. As for wasting my time, I've never interacted with this girl outside of school aside from a few snapchats (which stemmed from her commenting on my story),…
/r/askTRP08/12/16 03:27 PM
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