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roparker2014/r/askTRP25/07/14 12:21 AM
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If you're wealthy, then pretty much anywhere. Broke westerners who go to somewhere like Eastern Europe or Thailand, thinking that they will be looked on as wealthy and therefore a good catch - usually end up disappointed (or being used as a whore's mobile cash machine for a while until you're sucked dry). Averagely well-off people will probably be able to pick up a "wife", but good luck keeping her with you after she's married and got residency/got pregnant and wants to take the new, dual-nation…
/r/askTRP26/07/14 07:46 PM
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Not sure I would call this "hating", just a little joke on her part surely?
/r/askTRP26/07/14 07:41 PM
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Looking at the other posts on that thread it is quite clear that it is NOT a feminist sub in any way - it just seems to be a place for spouting whatever you want. So it does not meet my criteria at all. But thanks for trying.
/r/askTRP26/07/14 10:05 AM
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So convince me - find me feminist commentary online which is comparable in any way with "women have no capacity for self improvement" I.e find me a thread somewhere were feminists are claiming some universal general "truths" such as "all men are evil rapists" or something. The good thing about this thread in comparison to most of the others where this debate takes place, is that this one is NOT a matter of opinion - either these places exist, or they don't.
/r/askTRP25/07/14 11:56 PM
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I was thinking more along the lines of the sort of comments we see on TRP all the time - such as: "Women, be it learned or ingrained, have no capacity for change or self-improvement." from Women are incapable of change "Not pussyfooting around this one. Title is literal." from thread "Women want to be raped by a high value man" "It's important to remember that you are your wallet, cock, and fists. Everything else is the silver medal to her." - from the thread "The role of an RP man in an LTR" I …
/r/askTRP25/07/14 03:47 PM
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Exactly.once you're called on that sort of shit its over.if she was willing to let you get away with it,she wouldn't mention it even if she did notice it.
/r/askTRP25/07/14 11:57 AM
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So ... did anyone manage to find anything that matches the criteria yet? Just a forum/message board, whatever, where people make comments like "Women are the superior gender because ..." or "women should always take the lead in relationships/business/politics because..." Just one example would be good!
/r/askTRP25/07/14 10:46 AM
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You don't knock women of the pedestal though. Most of the posts here are about how to attract women, and how to keep them. 'woe is me, womeniz are evil' could practically be the subtitle of this sub. Man the fuck up. Talk about sports, cars, guns, martial arts ... just stop talking about fucking women all the time. That's all. I'm out. I'm not even really a member here, I just came in to look around over the last few weeks because I'm interested in the ideas behind the philosophy. I'm not sticki…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 01:55 AM
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Well to be totally honest, as I'm not here to troll, I'm genuinely here to find out more about TRP, which I find interesting... That's pretty much what I have been doing for the last 10 years. And it's worked out ok, thanks. I consider myself a feminist in that I believe in the basic principle that men and women should have equal rights in society. To me, that's all feminism is. If you believe that, you're a feminist, and if you don't, you aren't - simple as. I'd say I've lived my life by femini…
/r/askTRP25/07/14 01:41 AM
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Can you explain what is anti-men about any one of those r/feminism threads? For example the one about Saudi women being allowed to vote, or FGM in Iraq? How is discussing those issues anti-men? And one more time ... If all of it is anti-men, why are all the threads primarily about women? While at the same time, TRP which apparently is about men improving themselves - nearly all the threads are, again, ,about women! Please explain.
/r/askTRP25/07/14 01:31 AM
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It's hard to see TRP as pro-man when, as I pointed out in my previous post, most of the threads are about women. In contrast, on the popular feminist forums I found, most of the threads weren't about men. They were about issues involving women around the world - FGM, forced marriage, sex education in schools, etc. If TRP is pro-man, there should be more stuff about fast cars, and guns, and martial arts, and sports. All you get is everyone saying "I lift" but no actual discussion of the sport/dis…
/r/askTRP25/07/14 01:19 AM
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Sorry perhaps I wasn't clear, I am looking for internet communities, forums etc - the important thing is that we can see the discussion going on - where ideas like female dominance/male inferiority are openly discussed/condoned. I checked the first few examples on that list and they do not fit the criteria at all. Think "feminist equivalent of TRP" I actually took your advice literally as well and Google'd feminist forums. The top results which are open, are mumsnet feminist issues forum, and r/…
/r/askTRP25/07/14 12:56 AM
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Do you have examples please? I can't find them myself.
/r/askTRP25/07/14 12:50 AM
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"Red Pill reading" is basically just learning to parrot what someone else said. If you have a scientific and enquiring mind, go to the sources and make up your own opinion.
/r/askTRP24/07/14 10:18 PM
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Fucking hell - how do you argue with it? If you don't know how to argue with it ,how do you even know you WANT to argue with it? It might be great! You don't fucking know though, because you don't know how to argue with it. Look, sorry if that was patronising. Read up on it a bit (start here http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Feminism )See if you agree with it. If you don't agree with it - why not? That, my friend, is your argument right there - the reason that YOU disagree with it.
/r/askTRP24/07/14 09:14 PM
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Sorry dude but relationship is fucked. You pushed too far, too fast. The fact she is accusing you of emotional blackmail already means its gone too far. Unlike what a lot of idiot on here will tell you, not by any means will ALL girls respond well to TRP, a lot will actively hate it. Sorry but you applied it to the wrong one. Check back here when it's over and let us know I was right, please - I give it a month tops.
/r/askTRP24/07/14 09:04 PM
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Yeah I guess it pretty much is, when you're in your teens/20s.
/r/askTRP24/07/14 08:58 PM
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It actually isn't strange at all for 30+ women to go out for work colleague drinks or girls' nights out. Sure you party a little differently as you get older (a nice quiet bar or restaurant and don't worry about the noisy club full of kids) but getting to 30 doesn't stop anyone (men or women) from enjoying socializing.
/r/askTRP24/07/14 09:29 AM
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That isn't common sense at all. That's your prediction of how she will act based on your own opinions, prejudices, world view, etc. Plenty of people marry virgin girls when they are young, only to end up cheated on, too... because the girls start to wonder about what they missed out on, when they get to 25 or whatever, and want to experience some of the fun that they decide they missed in their youth. "Everyone else got the chance to be young, free and single but I never did, because I settled w…
/r/askTRP24/07/14 08:44 AM
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The problem with this line of thought, is that you also have to feel that if a man puts on, say, a suit, to look sharp and professional - he is lying. Or if he puts on a cool t-shirt to look stylish and laid back, he's lying. Or decides to wear contacts instead of glasses, he's lying.
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 02:12 AM
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Nah, that implies some sort of habitual behaviour, this is the first time I've done it. Nice way to sidestep every point I raised and not have to come back with a counter though. Well, I say nice - it's pretty much the same as everyone else on here's way of doing it - just fall back on weak plays like "imply he is a white knight". You ever wonder why, considering people in TRP apparently pride themselves on their scientific, logical minds -they fall apart whenever someone confronts them with rea…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 10:21 PM
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Hmm well I've never heard anyone say "unpleasant" is a synonym for "tough" before. I'm gonna take a stab in the dark here and say you're quite a young woman. Under 25. Your taste in men will change as you get older. At least I hope so - I honestly don't know any women over 30 who say they are attracted, in actual real life and not in a "reading 50 shades of grey and he seems pretty hot" way - to men who are any of those things I described. Another thing - if "rude" is synonymous with "blunt", th…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 09:49 PM
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Perhaps true when you're a teenager, but once they start to mature women very quickly get bored of those traits, no matter how good looking a guy is (ok I guess maybe if you are Johnny Depp/Brad Pitt-good-looking and women genuinely get weak at the knees just by looking at you - but that's like the top 1% in terms of physical looks!
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 05:59 PM
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Most men don't find it difficult to find a sex partner though. I'm 35 and have had several. > 80% of my male friends of my age are in committed relationships at this point. As far as I know, not one of them is still a virgin. Yes, if you are unpleasant, arrogant, rude, overbearing, narcissistic etc you might have problems. But most "normal" people are able to pair off and mate quite easily.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 05:50 PM
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Where your Monopoly analogy falls apart though, is that we have agreed (I think) that men get away with promiscuous behavior more than women. So there has to be some "advantage" on the Monopoly board, for men, to represent this? Your analogy makes it look like ALL the cards are stacked in favor of women. Yet in this instance (promiscuity) we have identified an area where men have a distinct advantage, in the eyes of society (males and females). Regarding your lock analogy - this simply backs up …
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 05:31 PM
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Do you postulate that this is due to some biological difference, or is it due to social conditioning?
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 04:43 PM
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See, here you seem to be distinguishing between "men", "women" and society - the latter of the three is composed entirely of the former two. I've read some research recently that shows women are just (if not more) guilty of slut-shaming than men are. So - if men, and women, are both condemning of promiscuous women, it can't be accurate in any way to say that "society" is accepting of them. For what it's worth, I still think men get far more of a pass, for promiscuous behavior, than women do. In …
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 04:33 PM
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Do you have statistics from a reliable source which back up that claim?
/r/askTRP23/07/14 04:24 PM
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And it also doesn't apply to female sexual behavior - if what the poster says above about "Women who sleep around with many partners usually aren't very highly regarded by men." is true. So in effect the dilemma here is - (and it's something TRP has to get to grips with, because at the moment its contradicting itself a lot). Only one of these statements can be true - 1- "Due to feminism, traditional social rules for women no longer apply and they can get away with whatever they want" (Pussypass)…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 01:52 PM
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You don't think maybe she was just short of bus change and angling for a free ride home?
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 09:56 AM
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This is a strange comment to make, as I thought the general consensus on here was that women can get away with whatever they want due to society? a "pussy pass" right?
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 09:15 AM
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Try again in English please?
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 08:51 AM
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Dude, are you serious? "They play the dating game and lose because women are instinctively repulsed by androgynous she men. Being rejected repeatedly, is a painful experience that leads some to soul searching and seeking out the advice of other men. " If this sub is supposed to be about positive masculinity why do so many of the people that post here (such as the OP) sound like whiny pussies? Most guys don't have a problem getting laid or getting a date. Stop pretending like you are some kind of…
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 12:44 AM
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Almost sounds like putting pussy on a pedestal to me, sorry.
/r/TheRedPill22/07/14 09:20 AM
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Well yeah ... "Grown men" tend not to socialize at parties/clubs - those are full of teenagers. We go to nice bars, pubs, restaurants etc. But if you have taken that into account, then I feel sorry for you. What is fun? Sitting home on the internet or Playstation for hours alone? If your social group is "a bunch of drunk idiots" then try finding some decent friends?
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 11:23 PM
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Right. Are you sure you aren't confusing your own feelings with those of all men? Most of my male social group certainly wouldn't consider that all the socializing they do is "with the sole purpose of sex" - even the single ones!
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 02:56 PM
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No - I'm not looking for anyone been happily married for 10 years. You will find the traits you are looking for in a woman (as a potential LTR) alter considerably as you mature yourself. When you are looking for someone to settle with (as long as you've had your share of fun in your teens/20s) you will find that a compatible personality far outweighs a perky set of breasts. Your wife is probably the person you will spend more time with than anyone else in the world. The need for constant sex wea…
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 02:12 PM
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Actually yeah ... sorry. It's pretty much standard advice across the human race to "avoid crazy people". Sorry :( The only way this will ever change is if there is a greater understanding of mental illness in society, to reduce the stigma. Unfortunately threads like this will do absolutely nothing for that particular cause.
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 09:45 AM
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You just contradicted yourself. You said women just go out to have a good time - such as by meeting "a good looking guy or someone well connected". Then you said men don't just go out to have a good time - they usually go out to meet a woman. So why is going out as a woman to meet guys "just having a good time" whereas going out as a man to meet women is "having an ulterior motive"?
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 09:38 AM
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I know that. I'm saying the OP has them confused. Not that they are the same thing. The process he is describing - undergoing pain throughout life, learning from it, hardening - is something that all men and women go through as part of the process of growing up. The progression (in the case of females) is not "feminine to masculine" but "immature to mature". I expect OP is young. It is perfectly natural for a younger man to find traits associated with younger women more attractive (girlishness, …
/r/TheRedPill21/07/14 12:33 AM
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You seem to be confusing feminine for childlike.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/14 11:37 PM
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This is just wrong sorry. There are no studies which show men "handle" mental illness better. There is no measurable difference in recovery rates, compliance rates (how they stick to their treatment), readmission rates (to mental health wards) between males and females. The only noted difference is the far higher number of mental health issues which result in suicide among males than females (male schizophrenics for example are several times more likely to take their own life than female schizop…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/14 11:35 PM
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Of course I do. This one just isn't a very good one. Have a think about it, particularly the "cost" part.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/14 11:07 PM
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He never tried BEING a feminist though, did he? I think that would be the "polar opposite" people are trying to paint him as. Being a failed TRPer doesn't make one a feminist... particularly if you go on to write a diary which spends most of its time slating feminism. It isn't hard to see why people have drawn parallels.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/14 04:59 PM
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If you go through life thinking of women in the way you do cars, you are destined to remain forever alone.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/14 04:57 PM
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Sorry I will be a bit more blunt than my previous reply as it seems I miscommunicated slightly. Assuming that the "top 10% [of men] fuck 90% of the women" is just retarded. Just consider the logistical implications, for a start.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/14 10:51 AM
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Have a read up on what people on this board and other male-centered communities (i.e PUA) consider masculine character traits, and characteristics/attitudes which women consider attractive.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/14 10:47 AM
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I was being sarcastic because the thought process exposed by your post is very unscientific. Asking people to "imagine" data, and then telling them what you are sure it will tell them. Bad thinking which leads to things like confirmation bias. I thought logic, rationality and a respect for scientific process was valued here.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/14 10:45 AM
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This is just called being young. As you get older (25 or so) you will find women start to want a much more balanced range of characteristics from men, and will often hate the cocky, arrogant type of men, due to their experiences in the past. Quiet, intelligent, educated and hard working men are the "unicorns" of the male population by the time they get to their mid 20s, in the minds of women.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/14 10:19 AM
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Yeah - totally agree. Most of the posters here come across as basically the male equivalent of the most extreme man-hating, self-victimising professional radical feminists. A lot of TRP theory is fine. A lot of the people those theories attract, however, are not ... and they aren't socially/genetically equipped to pull it off. (Look at what you get in "the real world" when a low social value/"aspiring alpha" attempts to "fake it"- read the party chapter of Elliot Rodgers diary... the bit where h…
/r/TheRedPill20/07/14 09:10 AM
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Do you? I certainly never did, the few times I dipped my toes into it.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/14 09:08 AM
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He only hated them because he tried to become one - did everything he was told - got the looks, car, superior attitude down, etc - but still failed to have any success. Read his diary - it's pure "wannabe alpha" (I.e TRP).
/r/TheRedPill20/07/14 09:06 AM
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If they have an unpleasant personality or are socially awkward, they can be as tall or as good shape as they want and easily go without pussy.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/14 08:37 AM
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And men give most of their attention to prettier, bigger breasted women. Perhaps the sexes aren't as different as the average poster here seems to assume?
/r/TheRedPill20/07/14 08:34 AM
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"Imagine the data from this website confirming that the top 10% fuck 90% of the women out there. I'm sure it does." lol. And this, gentlemen, is how a scientific mind works /sarcasm.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/14 08:32 AM
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Sadly, yes I do. I am very well informed on the subject. Care to explain why you think otherwise?
/r/TheRedPill20/07/14 08:29 AM
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No because that in no way was Hitler's defining characteristic. In fact I don't even think it was particularly widely known and Hitler certainly never made speeches about it or anything.The most obvious thing about both ER and TRP, to the casual observer, is the anti-feminist stance.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/14 08:26 AM
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No, you are incorrect. Read his diary. There's a chapter where he goes to a party and deliberately starts "acting cocky" - basically being a dick - it's clear he's studied RP/PUA / whatever. If he was blue pill he would have been going up to the ladies and politely offering to buy them drinks or something.
/r/TheRedPill20/07/14 01:16 AM
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The answer is very simple - but you won't like it. Elliot Rodgers spends most of his "manifesto" railing against feminism. Which is pretty much most of what goes on here, no matter how many times people say "TRP is about self improvement, not hating women". You only have to scan the titles of the first page of threads to see that TRP and Elliot Rodgers are very much in alignment. I read Stormfront regularly, too (I am not a racist, I read it purely for lulz) and the exact same thing happens ther…
/r/TheRedPill19/07/14 11:23 PM
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Of course not. No one is "entitled" to sex with anyone.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/14 12:26 AM
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Nah, when you get past the kid stage of just chasing pussy, you want far more from a woman than just sex, I promise. Not sure what your second sentence means.
/r/TheRedPill19/07/14 12:19 AM
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"The bottom line is, on average, what men want from women is sex" This may be true when they are young but generally as you get older, other stuff like companionship becomes more important for most people.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 08:29 PM
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Yeah it's a bit hysterical isn't it? Not very TRP ...
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 07:31 PM
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Exactly how bad is the personal hygiene of the girls you are fucking?
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 07:30 PM
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Yes, if it's actually discussion rather than just prompting all of us here to pat each other's backs and say "lol at those beta losers nothing like us eh?" That isn't discussion. Discussions should contain at least one point of contention otherwise its just idle chat.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 05:09 PM
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To be fair I don't see her claiming she was sexually harassed in that article, where are you getting that from? At the most, she said he acted inappropriately.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 04:39 PM
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How come I know so many built, good looking guys who are eternally single because they are basically dicks with no interest beyond themselves? These guys often do well in their teens / early 20s when we are all basically just fucking whoever we like the look of, but they usually end up on the shelf and lonely when they get older and people are looking for more substantial qualities in a relationship partner - intelligence and earning potential, for example?
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 04:27 PM
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The terms Alpha and Beta come from the study of animal mating habits, no serious research has ever attributed them to human behavior. Human mating psychology is far more subtle and nuanced and the terms have no real meaning - most humans display traits ranging from alpha to beta, and they waver over time. This isn't the case in the animal kingdom where one male will be alpha his entire life until he is deposed. Also, it is his position at the top that makes him Alpha, not his behavior or traits.…
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 10:23 AM
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Don't meet many attorneys into MMA. Seems like someone trying to construct a fantasy.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/14 10:01 AM
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This is just talking about movies though. The quarterback DOESN'T always date the head cheerleader. Equating real life to a stupid Hollywood teenage feelgood movie with Zak Effron is just dumb.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 05:57 PM
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I didn't mean kill literally. More that they would go to extreme effort to attain it. For a lot of guys, a 6 would be pretty incredible. When I was a teenager I was pretty much over the moon if I got laid with anyone at 5 or above.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 05:41 PM
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Some guys are straight up turned on by that sort of thing. Weird I know but Google "cuckolding". It's a fetish a lot of guys have. Credentials: I have been in bdsm relationships (as a dom) and involved in our local bdsm community for more than 10 years so have met a LOT of strange people ...
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 04:39 PM
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At 17, definitely, yes. Lol there are probably guys here significantly older who would kill for a sniff at 5/6 pussy just once.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 02:25 PM
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Is there actually a problem with women "dumping you for a superior specimen" other than the fact that it makes you butthurt? It just seems like natural mating behavior to be honest. I've dumped women for superior specimens before, do none of you do that?
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 01:53 PM
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Who is interested in female virginal saints as partners? Only male virginal geeks, from what I can tell! Does anyone really want to settle into a LTR with a virgin? She is going to know next to nothing about how to turn you on, and will probably cry if you mention any of the good stuff like anal/s&m! Even when I was a virginal geek myself (20+ years ago now) I sought out women who were more experienced than me. I lost my virginity to a girl a year younger than me (15) who had two previous sexual…
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/14 01:42 PM
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Just to get this straight - are people here generally not in favor of women having the vote?
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 11:52 AM
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It's wrong to think of leaving a relationship as "throwing away" years. You always have those years, and everything you learned in them - and what you learn about women in any relationship should help you in your next one, if you're smart, even if the lessons are unpleasant. Anyway I don't really get all the fuss about this. What was she supposed to do? Stay with him even though she clearly wasn't attracted to him any more? That's always a recipe for misery.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 11:46 AM
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Yeah but guys can do this too. Dumped loads of girls when I was younger because I didn't care about them any more.
/r/TheRedPill16/07/14 01:06 AM
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