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| 1 | When men are abused, it's mens fault, when women are abused, it's mens fault. When a country doesn't have rape laws (to protect either gender), it's OBVIOUSLY just a mans right to rape women... even though the opposite is just as true. What a piece of work!Hey, I think I may have I different understanding of toxic masculinity than you. The one I've been taught is not about the violence and stuff, it's more about the the mould society tries to put men into. So for example, you mentioned how men being raped. Toxic masculinity would be society telling men that they couldn't be raped. It's also what tells men that they shouldn't cry and can't be victims of abuse. It's the ideas that society believes men ought to present in order to be considered "masc… | /r/MensRights | 13/04/20 12:28 PM |
| 1 | When men are abused, it's mens fault, when women are abused, it's mens fault. When a country doesn't have rape laws (to protect either gender), it's OBVIOUSLY just a mans right to rape women... even though the opposite is just as true. What a piece of work!Also it's true, toxic masculinity is one of the main reasons that there are less SAHDs than SAHMs. There isn't really much to say about that, other than society has enforced the idea that the mum should be looking after the child and men should be working. I can tell you now that sadly both men and women enforce this idea and both men and women suffer from it as well. | /r/MensRights | 12/04/20 07:55 AM |
| 2 | When men are abused, it's mens fault, when women are abused, it's mens fault. When a country doesn't have rape laws (to protect either gender), it's OBVIOUSLY just a mans right to rape women... even though the opposite is just as true. What a piece of work!I'm not sure it could be most feminists, I think practically all of the ones I talk to would acknowledge that it's society's fault but there will be some because there are lots of feminists in the world and therefore there are going be some shitty people out there who call themselves feminists but aren't and blame others for their own problems. There are definitely lots of women who do enforce toxic masculinity but then again there are lots of men, there's no easy way to explain it, it's society… | /r/MensRights | 12/04/20 07:45 AM |
| 1 | When men are abused, it's mens fault, when women are abused, it's mens fault. When a country doesn't have rape laws (to protect either gender), it's OBVIOUSLY just a mans right to rape women... even though the opposite is just as true. What a piece of work!I'm sorry, I don't quite understand. I'm just a bit unsure on which specific area. Do you mean the bit where they said that "The use of gender specific pronouns is for sentence simplification. CARDV services are available for all qualifying individuals."? Because it is rather lazy and could be harmful to generalise the idea that the victims are women and the perpetrators are men. This doesn't fully explain why, since they ought to have used" they" for everyone which may have been confusing but w… | /r/MensRights | 12/04/20 07:14 AM |
| 1 | When men are abused, it's mens fault, when women are abused, it's mens fault. When a country doesn't have rape laws (to protect either gender), it's OBVIOUSLY just a mans right to rape women... even though the opposite is just as true. What a piece of work!Ah my apologies that you think that, the meaning of toxic masculinity that I have been taught is simply the harmful ideas that society expects men to fulfil in order to be "masculine". I'm really sorry that you believe it's victim shaming because it's horrible to be victim shamed but the way I've come to understand it is that when the term is used, its trying to shine light on the toxic mould (idk if thats the right word) that society tries to force men into in order for them to be acceptable an… | /r/MensRights | 12/04/20 06:57 AM |
| -2 | When men are abused, it's mens fault, when women are abused, it's mens fault. When a country doesn't have rape laws (to protect either gender), it's OBVIOUSLY just a mans right to rape women... even though the opposite is just as true. What a piece of work!Hey, I think this is trying to refer to how problems have been caused by toxic masculinity where often men are told that they shouldn't be able to cry and can't be raped or whatever. It's absolutely bullshit since men can definitely experience these things as well but i do think it's referencing the fact that toxic masculinity has been largely upheld by men in the past and often now in the present (not only by men but mostly) and that toxic masculinity has been key in invalidating these traumati… | /r/MensRights | 11/04/20 10:11 PM |
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