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| 6 | Don’t text firstWhen I started using Tinder around three years ago, I almost always texted first. Mostly I had to carry the conversations or I didn't get a reply at all. If I didn't text first, the guys would stay silent until they or me unmatched eventually. There were only a few who texted first and could actually carry on the conversation. For the past few months I've been having a rule that if they don't text me in the first three days, unmatch they go. If they text first but it withers because I have to ca… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 11:39 AM |
| 6 | Age gapsWhen I was 25, I dated a guy who was ten years older than me. He acted surprised when he found out my age, told me I seemed more mature. I thought he was younger, max. 5 years older than me - which surprise surprise says something about him. He was lvm. We "dated" for a couple months and he got mad when I asked him if we are dating and if we were exclusive. Should've just dropped him. Also, he had a daughter who was 15 at the time. So when he was my age, I was his daughter's age. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 11:21 AM |
| 17 | Of course there are people in the comments saying things like “why shouldn’t a woman propose to a man?“My friend proposed to her lvm because she wanted to know they were still going forward in their relationship. His answer? "Okay, I guess so." To me it sounded like he wanted to avoid a conflict. They've been together for ten years or so, engaged for few years. My friend used to dream of getting married and having kids but now she's telling me they probably won't actually get married and the lvm has suddenly decided against biological kids. Yet me friend thinks hE'S tHe OnE. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 11:35 AM |
| 2 | Please RUN when a guy says he has mostly female friends. He doesn't have mostly female friends. He has mostly PICKMEISHA friends!!Ooohh. I have a guy friend who says this. And I can actually reflect on my former pickmeisha-self because I used to be the kind who mostly had male friends. And I know and remember I liked the attention from the men and being the cool-one-of-the-guys-girl. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 11:25 AM |
| 1 | Katherine Ryan 👑 She probably lurks FDS, I just know itI wouldn't say naturally. Rihanna was abused by Chris Brown and she still went back to him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 08:22 AM |
| 1 | Mean Girls is a great representation of what happens when pickme culture is rampant.This reminds me of something my friend did about ten years ago at a bar. She has always been insecure and felt like we were competing for male attention. She often accused me of stealing her men when they would show interest in me instead of her - without me even giving those men a glance. Even I was a pickme back then but I was a lot less insecure and went for different kind of LVM than her. So we were sitting in a bar with a group of men (mostly LVMs) when my friend in her insecurities decides… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 07:52 AM |
| 1 | Acknowledging you have no HV friends in your life and deciding to go forth alone...? Anyone experience this?I've been distancing myself from one of my lady friends. I think it started when she told me she was really into this guy she met online gaming. The guy is in a "deadend relationship" but all I could hear in my head was "if he's willing to cheat on his current gf, he'll cheat on you too". I started to realize how LV my friend was and how she was pulling me down to her level with her ideas and attitudes about dating and life. Another one of my lady friends lives in another city and we don't see t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/10/20 07:30 AM |
| 1 | Broke up w a man bc he couldnt satisfy my sexual needsI've done this too. To me, it's not even about the orgasm (yet) since I have some body-mind related issues that prevent me from having one no matter how good the sex is. But I still know what I want and need from sex to be very well satisfied. A bit controversial maybe in here, but I have a FWB who is not relationship material for me but it's good sex. It's helping me process and solve some of the issues I've had with intimacy and sex. It has also helped me up my standards on men and sex. Free s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 11:26 PM |
| 1 | LVM Bitching About Paying $20 For A MealI don't think he's actually this concerned about 20$, he's adding the price of his own food and thinking "I'm not spending 40$ on this woman" 🤡 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 10:22 PM |
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