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Question for RedPillrose_mary3_/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:14 PM
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What negative generalisations about men have i made
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 11:30 PM
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We don't see the same trends across different cultures where people are socialised differently.... 😐 That's the point. Also name one culture where gender roles are not a part of society
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 11:27 PM
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That's miosgyny
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 11:22 PM
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Why can't you believe equal relationships exist? Being this narrow minded is insane
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 11:22 PM
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Pls be serious all the data says otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 11:22 PM
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They categorically don't though the data is mixed and points more towards socialisation. Also why are you stalking me?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 11:11 PM
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Everyone deals with everyone's emotions in a relationship, that's common sense. It's about who's doing it more
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 11:11 PM
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I never said i wished anything, sounds like you're projecting. What traditionally masculine traits are desired by women in real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 11:09 PM
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I chose a partner who is as emotionally mature as me so neither is doing more emotionally than the other, it's not hard to do.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 11:08 PM
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No one loves divorce. The unhappy partner is the one who initiates divorce, obviously. maybe you could think as to why it's mainly women....? 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 11:07 PM
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No one loves divorce. The unhappy partner is the one who initiates divorce, obviously. maybe you could think as to why it's mainly women....? 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 11:07 PM
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"Primarily socially constructed" ≠ everything is socially constructed. You literally had to google that too 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 10:46 PM
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You seriously do not understand feminism whatsoever... feminism isn't about man hating. Misandry is completely irrelevent here
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 10:45 PM
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If you don't manage the guys emotions you have no man. Most the time the woman is initiating communication etc bc of that
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 10:45 PM
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And men don't want attention??? Idk abt you but idk any men who like to be ignored by their gf....
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 10:04 PM
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State one branch of feminism that has the views you state. I am not interested in your fantasies
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 10:03 PM
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Do you not remember how common cousin marriages were? How does any of this relate to gender roles anyway, please get back to the point
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 10:02 PM
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And what branch is this exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:57 PM
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No it's because of the relationship being different and that isn't biology...
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:47 PM
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If you don't know the answer to that i'm deeply concerned. Idk abt you but most people don't like to fuck their sublings
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:37 PM
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Literally 🤣 They've clearly not read any feminist text whatsoever
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:34 PM
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What a stupid argument. Do you expect your sibling to love you the same way a partner does? No obviously mot because they are different relationship dynamics. A child receives love from a parent and a parent is the one providing that love, it is a unique relationship with a power dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:29 PM
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I do have an idea, obviously. But i want you to define it No one argues that the sexes are not different idk where red pillers get this strange idea from. The argument is to what extent is biological and what is socialised. How are they different? Feminists do not argue that men and women are completely identical in every capacity, it never ceased to amaze me how the red pill don't understand the most basic fundamental ideas of feminism. Men and women do not have fundamentally different desires …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:18 PM
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If you believe that then challenge why or pipe down and stop waisting my time
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:16 PM
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Either make an alternate argument or be quiet. Don't be antagonistic because you can't handle being challenged
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:09 PM
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If women biologically yearn to have children then why do women choose not to have them? Men also yearn for kids...hence why fathers exist and the paternal instinct. That's how biology works it is not sustainable for our species for only one gender to want kids and not the other Men do not biologically have lower standards for cleanliness???! Most men are very clean..... unless they're slobs. Everyone with decency is clean?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:06 PM
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How on earth would equality mean one gender not getting their needs met. Please make a real argument, actually being specific and defining the differences in gender and how this apparently leads to inequality
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:03 PM
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By definition you're covering all the bills whilst she doesn't contribute so you are. If i work at a farm and get free accommodation, and food then i am being paid for my labour. If childcare and home keeping is so easy and fun why is your wife doing it and not you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 09:00 PM
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Queer means against heteronormativity, someone being arosexual is by definition queer. Queer doesn't just mean homosexual, by your definition trans people aren't queer either. It's completely fine for anyone of either gender to be ace or aro
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:59 PM
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I truly would find this extremely off putting in my personal relationships, but i guess we're all different. What does leading mean practically? It seems to be a mystical term a lot of red pillers use and no one ever defines
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:57 PM
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How are men and women fundamentally different and how does this lead to inequality?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:56 PM
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What are you talking about
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:53 PM
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You have to be joking aro/ace is a queer identity because it goes against heteronormativity. Queer ≠ homosexual. Are you straight?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:51 PM
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I know a lot of people in my life who are not in traditional marriages, not everyone is happy with traditional gender roles. My best friend has a stay at home husband and is the breadwinner for her family. Please stop forcing your beliefs down people's throats, what a lot of people do ≠ what everyone does. It's a bit sad you think having boundaries = young and inexperienced Also as stated, I do not want marriage and it's much harder to wind up in a "normal traditional marriage" when my tubes are…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:50 PM
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How is that relevant. How old are you? I'm old enough for my tubes to be getting tied next month and that's all you need to know Either substantiate your claims or leave. Stop looking for irrelevant crap because you have 0 real arguments
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:37 PM
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Thank you this is the answer i was looking for
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:22 PM
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"Real relationships" if you think i'm against marriage, family, or commitment you're sorely mistaken. Clearly you are not here in good faith.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:19 PM
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Please explain. I cut off any men man who wants any semblance of traditionalism from my dating pool whether we dated for 3 years or 3 month. Some "feminists" as you like to word it actually practice what they preach. I cut off a 5 year long friend ship with a guy for calling his ex "crazy" last week. I also do not want marriage and am tying my tubes 🤷‍♀️ Oh btw i'm bisexual and have a strong preference for women and queer men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:18 PM
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What's the appeal in having someone lead you at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:14 PM
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No one on either said ever stated otherwise to that claim
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:13 PM
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What is disrespectful about my language in my post? I didn't realise disagreeing with something counts as "disrespectful"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:12 PM
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downvoting opinions you disagree with isn't how this sub works, downvote shit questions and upvote good ones. It's also adorable you think i gaf about your downvote
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:07 PM
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What makes you red pill? Especially as a queer person
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:06 PM
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Please explain how
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:04 PM
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Read my other comment where i have addressed this, my bf and I do everything 50-50 including paying, setting up dates, romance, handiwork etc. Some feminists actually practice what they preach. And i find masculine men repulsive so the guys i go for don't expect nor want to do gender roles either. I like skinny twinks 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:04 PM
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You're making assumptions that i want or expect any of the roles the other guy commented. I don't. I want 50-50 on planning dates, my bf and i equally romance each other, neither of us are stoic and support each other, and we both do "man jobs". It's cute how far you're reaching to get shit on me xx
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:02 PM
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If childcare and homekeeping was so easy and fun then you wouldn't have to pay yojr wife to do it
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 08:00 PM
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Again one of the pillars of feminism is anti gender roles you can't expect gender roles and be a feminist. I don't know a single feminist who does, but also gender role relationships come with their own set of issues. It seems like you want a get out of jail free card to avoid communication, and again my post wasn't asking for a defence of gender roles. I'll never be pro gender roles so you're wasting your breath. My question was whether you're a red pill guy who's anti gender roles. You are not…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 04:40 PM
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Thats what i stated
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 04:38 PM
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Idk which feminists you're talking about but I don't expect gender roles at all in my relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 04:33 PM
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Please stop ignoring what i'm saying, gender roles and sexism are difficult to quantify. There is no country completely devoid of it due to religion, that's kind of why feminism is a global ideology. All we can do is look at trends, for example the fact women frequently hunted in hunter-gather communities and in some societies didn't even gather at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 04:30 PM
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That's the entire issue, the entire world is plagues by gender roles due to religion
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 04:27 PM
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Which are?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 04:26 PM
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Again you're ignored what i said or plain misunderstood. Less gender roles ≠ less sexism Colombia is a catholic country, where taking care of others & charity is an important part of faith which you've ignored. In colombia nursing is viewed as a more respected career not confined to gender roles, there are also more programmes and accessibility for nursing, and healthcare offers a lot of well compensated position. The way gender roles are seen differs in countries, don't apply a western ideology…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 04:18 PM
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State your point
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 04:11 PM
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Outward sexism is more common in Colombia yes, but to assume western men don't also have a misogyny problem isn't true. Benevolent sexism, and just overall hidden sexism is alive and well. Where i live there is a huge misogyny issue, and I live in the west where there is free abortion
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 04:09 PM
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There is no equal division of labour in gender roles. The woman is doing housekeeping, childcare AND managing emotions and all the man is doing is working
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 04:07 PM
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This is ignoring the fact that women are actively pushed out of male dominated field, I have a friend in that same job and the horror stories i hear abt the misogyny in STEM is insane. So saying that a freer country means people go towards their gender roles is ignoring that fact, and the socialisation that goes into those choices. Very few men enjoying nurturing can also be places down to socialisation too, and no one likes working in care that's why there's a huge issue with getting workers. T…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:59 PM
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What does "women are interested in people" and men in things even mean? Nothing is pure socialisation and nothing is pure biology, but almost everything is 99% socialisation. No one argues everything is pure one of the other. Also having studies to back something up doesn't mean anything if the opinion is still a scientific fringe belief and poor studies. Study ≠ scientific truth, that's not how it works in my field
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:55 PM
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What aspects of the red pill do you agree with?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:54 PM
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What does that mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:53 PM
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Agree with what?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:53 PM
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Yeah but women shouldn't be forced to stay with their husbands... it's a good change
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:50 PM
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Natural differences ≠ not socialised. I've met women who like wrestling, boxing, hunting and other male interests as well as men who like makeup/fashion/knitting etc. Feminine men and masculine women definitely do exist, i myself have a lot of "male interests" like building muscle at the gym What do you mean about pushing equity? By gender roles i mean the idea of men being the provider/protector etc and women are better for childcare etc the usual
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:49 PM
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Marriage has always had the same pros and cons the only difference now is women can actually get a divorce instead of staying with their husband bc they have 0 money
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:47 PM
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Are you pro gender roles? And i'm not american either, I'm european
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:43 PM
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would you consider yourself right wing?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:36 PM
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How are girls shielded from the consequences of their actions in anyway shape or form? You seem to know a lot about female upbringing considering you're a man. As a woman i can say we are not raised the way you claim whatsoever. More women are becoming educated than men these days, please explain that trend.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:26 PM
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There are some red pill who do want committed relationships though so although i agree that can't entirely be the case
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:25 PM
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I think men can be feminists but i'm so sick of "feminist" men dominating feminists spaces and wanting everything to be about them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:24 PM
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Women lust over guys all the time...?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:23 PM
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Is a feminist Not misogynistic Emotionally mature + mentally/emotionally stable Funny I find them attractive Sexually compatible Shared values + life goals + politics Committed Degree educated & middle class Doesn't want kids 11.Good communication + conflict skills Honest Mentally and emotionally challenges me 14.Genuinely a good person Growth mindset That's about it i think
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:19 PM
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Yes that's so true it's really toxic thinking some of the worst men i've ever met had big dicks
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:12 PM
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Yes, I'm a sex positive feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 03:12 PM
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Again this implies people deserve to die from it because it's a natural consequence from their poor choices. This is a concerning lack of empathy
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 12:57 PM
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If a man is murdered by his wife is that his fault? You seriously lack any empathy whatsoever
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 12:38 PM
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No i haven't it's just a nonsensical thing to say, obviously there's going to be a metric because groups are going from little to no rights ---> rights
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 10:12 AM
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It depends why and how often they go to the gym, these days gym content is known to be a pipeline to the alt right and I've come across a lot of gym guys who've been quite insecure of egotistical. I'm all for guys who just go to the gym but usually ones who make it a big deal are a pass from me. Every case is different tho
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 10:10 AM
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Yep or have guys stare at me whilst working which is very uncomfortable, there are some lovely gym guys who've been polite or helped me out etc but there's a lot of shit ones too
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 10:09 AM
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Submission in the bedroom is NOT submission outside the bedroom wtf? Have you never heard of BDSM?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 10:05 AM
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Everyone has to prove their worth in a relationship, if the woman doesn't prove her worth he leaves her or chooses another woman. "She just has to pick the non abusive man" Most people don't have standards that are that low No it isn't just to defend women with shitty men, men with shitty women clearly also have low self worth probably also from trauma. But the people treating the other badly had no excuse, regardless of gender I've heard them both equally 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/25 10:03 AM
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You can't be serious they are called women's rights or gay rights because those are the groups that are obviously lacking those rights
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 11:13 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 09:45 PM
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How do men gatekeeper LTR and sharing of responsibilities? Also men can gate keep sex? If i want sex with a bf and he says no, then there's no sex. Women can always propose or walk away at a lack of commitment so men aren't exactly gate keeping that either. As for gatekeeping reproduction.. what about men baby trapping women? This view point is so overly simplistic
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 05:02 PM
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How come you always hear men complain about their wives if they value good women? Maybe it's bc humans are multifaceted and prone to mistakes, particularly when there is trauma?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 04:59 PM
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I'll leave you with this, in this debate many times you have expressed views that actively go against traditional values and gender roles and tbh if you read up on feminism i don't think you'd actually be all that against either especially since feminists campaign a lot for the rights of mothers and stay at home mothers. A tradwife ≠ a stay at home wife. A stay at home wife/mother doesn't have the ideological beliefs around the tradwife life style
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 04:38 PM
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Oh then why did you say you're pro life?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 04:33 PM
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Explain
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 04:33 PM
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That just makes you pro choice but personally you wouldn't want an abortion. 🤷‍♀️ Which a lot of people are in the same boat as
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 04:32 PM
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Wait if you think abortion should be legal that makes you pro choice?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 04:31 PM
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It's not about being attracted to men, I seriously do not understand how you keep completely misunderstanding me. Women are raised to put men on a pedestal and choose decisions accordingly. Decentering men is unlearning that conditioning and learning your intrinsic worth as a person isn't tied to men. Which you wouldn't really notice because you're not a woman Look at all the older women desperately trying to get surgery to appear younger to be appealing to men. Look at all the women who feel wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 04:29 PM
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Well it's still by definition anti autonomy. Are you against permanent sterilisation and birth control too? A lot of religious people are which i find hypocritical, because that's going to prevent abortions. Would you adopt?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 04:24 PM
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Again you're not following centering an individual isn't the same thing as centering an entire gender. Women are socialised to respect men more then themselves, we're constantly socialised to appease men as a gender. We wear makeup for them to find us attractive, we shave and become hairless, we stay in shitty relationships with men and forgive their poor behaviour, the list is endless.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 04:14 PM
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You said yourself you are pro life, that's anti women's autonomy.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 04:12 PM
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It objectively is, a strong partner is not threatened by their partner being as strong/as much money etc as them. Needing someone to be lower than you and depend on you to feel secure is weakness. The fact you're against women's autonomy is extremely telling of that
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 04:10 PM
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Living for your partner ≠ as living for an entire gender
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 04:08 PM
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Idrc if you do but i do hope your fragile masculinity gets deconstructed someday these are all the traits of a very weak man
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 04:06 PM
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Everyday i'm reminded of why i prefer women, sounds like a saviour complex to me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 04:04 PM
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You're delusional if you think being emotionally supported isn't a form of protection too... anyone who doesn't want to protect you doesn't love you. Simple as
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 03:59 PM
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I literally never mentioned that once... what are you on? In any relationship both of you have to protect each other that's kind of how they work? You're both protecting each other from things?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 03:54 PM
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What is "that kind" of a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 03:51 PM
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I wasn't trying to be intimidating whatsoever.... seriously are you 5?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 03:48 PM
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I wasn't trying to be intimidating whatsoever.... seriously are you 5?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 03:47 PM
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I do martial arts, weight lifting, and i'm 5'9 😂 But go ahead, also if you think all protecting is physical idk what to tell you. It's rare you have to beat someone up, but you'll need to protect your partner emotionally, mentally etc all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 03:46 PM
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Okay then... you don't want gender roles then. Because if you did you'd be all aboard for a relationship like that. Everyone wants to protect their partner in a relationship... that's literally normal to want. I'm happy to protect my partner like a knight and them me
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 03:42 PM
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Act emotionally literally just means opening up to your wife and occasionally crying, you're essentially campaigning to be a robot in your relationship with limited emotional intimacy. That's seriously unhealthy
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 03:38 PM
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No one asked if you think they should or shouldn't although you can't argue that and say you're pro gender roles. In traditional gender roles men are not meant to show feminine emotion, like a lot of red pill men you like to pick and choose which gender roles you like and ignore the harmful effects. Previously you denied the fact that men are socialised to be emotionally stunted and i provided evidence to the contrary.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 03:33 PM
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Okay and are men allowed to cry without being seen as weak and feminine?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 03:26 PM
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You seriously think a guy having a gf is the same thing as a guy living his life for female approval? Also where did i mention friendship? 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 03:26 PM
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It's not the suicide rates I'm discussing particularly but the fact that you ignore the fact there is gendered social conditioning (ie men to be stoic)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 03:23 PM
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Again you're ignoring the heaps of data that prove that is in fact the case, including research by the Samaritans a suicide charity.... This is like trying to argue the sky isn't blue. Just bc you don't like it doesn't make it untrue Also having a gf with different interests has nothing to do with loneliness idk why you even mentioned that icl But i do agree you're either pro gender roles and all the damage they do or against them. If you want a traditional wife then don't be shocked she'll leav…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 03:17 PM
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Women are also not more depressed than men, women are just more likely to get diagnosed than men are because women are socialised to be more emotionally honest. I'm really unsure why you're trying to argue there are no socialised gendered differences, it's an extremely common red pill talking point that men are socialised to be more stoic and how this contributes to the suicide epidemic in men. It's just a bit odd to blatantly deny that. samaritans: https://preview.redd.it/m4hr5x6ky2af1.jpeg?wid…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 03:09 PM
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If that was the case why is it a gendered issue with men committing suicide more than women do? A man who is sexually assaulted is 6x more likely to commit suicide from it than a woman who is
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:57 PM
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So you don't think the male loneliness epidemic and suicide rates because of the fact they are taught emotional suppression is real? That's misandry
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:55 PM
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Yes ofc, want whatever you want in the bedroom idc but wanting any partner to have control over you outside of that is concerning. It breeds unhealthy power dynamics No woman should want a dominant bf, no man should want a submissive gf, no woman should want a submissive bf and no man should want a dominant gf.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:54 PM
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Nope i'm making a point, tell me are men taught emotional suppression and stoicism or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:53 PM
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Dating a man doesn't mean you centre men, you seen to have a fundamental lack of understanding of the phrase. Here's an example you have a guy friend who just happens to have a gf, he doesn't make his whole life about dating women or being in relationships with them and when single he doesn't obsess over getting laid or whether girls are into him or having a gf. Does this guy centre women purely bc he has a gf?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:52 PM
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Are you a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:49 PM
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The united states has a lot of religious fundamentalism, religion is frequently used when deciding laws. There is a lack of separation of church and state. Again are you a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:47 PM
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Yeah perhaps
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:47 PM
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Why do you choose to disbelieve that some women truly don't care about men?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:46 PM
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Do you really think some exposure at college is going to undo the conditioning from birth that teaches them women should be a certain way and you are worthless and doomed for hell if not? You used muslim women as an example and that was a good one of this.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:43 PM
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Interesting you said too much maturity is not fun, how can you be too mature and unfun as a result? I was referring more to emotional maturity, you can still be mature and like to party etc
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:41 PM
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Do you think powder dynamics are automatically exempt in relationships? It being romantic doesn't change that fact. Those romantic relationships are not allowed because of the fact there is an unequal power dynamic meaning the "submissive" individual in that is not truly able to consent
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:38 PM
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"The definition doesn't imply consent" That's because you can't consent when there is an unequal power dynamic, that's why as a boss fucking your client is an abuse of power. That's why teachers can't touch their students, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:33 PM
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Submissive means exactly what I said.... that's the oxford dictionary. You can't redefine words to make yourself feel comfortable
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:30 PM
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I don't agree with wanting a stoic man either. Stoic men are emotionally constipated and easy to abuse as a result. It's a red flag for anyone to want that, and indicated they're emotionally immature. I find it humorous you keep making assumptions about my beliefs based on your seriously limited understanding of feminism/feminists. And keep making wrong ones, every single time 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:27 PM
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Way to ignore the points i made... define traditional gender roles and submissive please
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:27 PM
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I would absolutely tell an islamic woman that, most feminists would. If you actually read any feminist theory whatsoever you'd know that but you are appallingly undereducated on feminism for someone who likes to shit on it. Radical feminism is famously anti organised religion. Explain "submissive gender expression" Also as the definition states- submissive = easy to control and bends to the will of others. People who are easily influences can't think for themselves because they are easily influe…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:22 PM
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Other people's standards are not rooted in control over others. Submissive by definition does imply those things here is quite literally the definition: <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:20 PM
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Does a slave choose to submit to a master?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:15 PM
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And how does being submissive play into that? Why would you want a woman who has no sense of self, ability to think for herself, or any backbone? A woman who you can control? That's how you get stupid and weak children <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:14 PM
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That's not what i'm talking about i'm saying that maturity, wisdom, confidence etc are attractive traits to anyone mature + wants a serious relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:12 PM
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Wanting a submissive woman you have control over is
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:11 PM
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Why do you want a traditional relationship. Explain how feminism seeks to dominate men. I've told you of numerous ways feminism has advanced society, mothers can breastfeed in public, women can divorce, men are allowed to talk about their feelings more, women can have bank accounts etc. This isn't stuff "on paper" this is real application, in the real world.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:11 PM
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Please explain to me how feminism is not about equal rights, i'll wait. You do realise you can be christian and a feminist right....? I know plenty? Cute you resort to calling me a femcel, I literally have a man bro. I highly doubt you have a woman 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:07 PM
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The same reasons everyone else has pointed out to you, you want a slave not a wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:06 PM
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I never said there was? 😂 Please learn to read
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:02 PM
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It doesn't change the fact all of these rights awarded were because of feminism. Feminism is about equal rights for both genders, to disagree with that is a bit concerning. The red pill seriously overestimates how many feminists are "female supremicits" it's just anti feminist propaganda the same way the suffragettes were labelled man haters and crazy cat ladies. Nothing changes. Feminism has been practiced for a long time... it's literally how women got any rights at all to say say it doesn't w…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 02:00 PM
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That's more or less what they're trying to do that's why we're seeing such a rise in andrew tate bullshit. They want to collectively neg women into lowering their standards
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 01:57 PM
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They didn't change at all, I'd like a partner to do some form of activity because it's good for your health. Whether that's running, the gym, yoga or whatever else idrc. Ironically I tend to steer clear a bit of gym guys as a gym girl
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 01:55 PM
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same in mine
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 10:40 AM
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Outdated and sexist tradition, your name is your identity. To remove that and take someone elses is declaring their ownership of you. Not to mention you're erasing that identity from you from your kids too.... To be completely frank i do look down on women who take their husbands last name 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 10:40 AM
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I'd not give an extremely attractive man a chance if he wasn't good personality wise and emotionally, which your categories do not account for. Why are they so looks based? Women are not superficial
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 10:35 AM
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What you're describing is not bitchy it's boundaries
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 10:31 AM
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Depends if you're talking physical attractiveness or emotional
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 10:30 AM
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And women. Most people are in bad relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 10:29 AM
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Theyre attractive to anyone mature
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 10:27 AM
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You do realise not every woman is the same....right? Some are male centered and some have decentered men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 10:26 AM
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Yes i am aware what you mean, i was never discussing looks once. Emotional maturity needed to create a good relationship is not something a degree will get you. Define the average person please, in my country education is free and most are well educated as a result. Here that is "average"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 10:22 AM
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That's because outside the west manosphere ideology is simply called religion and culture 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 10:18 AM
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There is that level of disengagement, have you bern looking at the news????
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 10:17 AM
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All they do is have a victim complex and shit on feminist (who ironically are the only ones fixing their issues)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 10:15 AM
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Learn to think critically
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 10:04 AM
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Anti feminist? you dont think women should be able to vote, divorce,work, breast feed in public or have a bank account?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 10:03 AM
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I've come across loads of above average men and women who can't keep a LTR, you can't buy maturity
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/25 10:02 AM
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r/im14andthisisdeep
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 10:12 PM
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Or... both parents can work part time. Also homosexual families are not inferior. Families with extended family to help are not inferior. Your opinion js mot fact stop stating that it is. Gender roles are extremely harmful look at the male loneliness epidemic- men are killing themselves because gender roles teaches them they can't open up about their feelings. No one wants a father who's never around bc he's working and is emotionally shut off, that's going to really fuck up the kid. According t…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 03:46 PM
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My mother and father are abusive, i don't owe them any praise. Personally I think there is more to life than popping out babies, a father isn't the best thing you can be it's being a good one. You assumed every woman wants kids because when i expressed i do not you immediately undermined that and implied i do not, that is sexist. It shows your clear internal bias where you assume that women want kids so going against that bias is deserving of questioning 🤷‍♀️ It's quite obvious really
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 03:36 PM
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Mothers who stay at home are still working that's the entire point- childcare and domestic labour is still labour. An overworked mother can't be a good one. And it's misandry because you're demeaning the emotional contribution the father has to the child, a father who barely spends time with his kids because he's working is not a good father. Children need the presence of both parents, there are pros and cons to both life styles neither is superior. In my experience traditional relationships bre…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 03:29 PM
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Working mothers today spend more time with their children than mothers in the 1950s. Mothers are always working, even tradwives the difference is they get paid for it. The fact you don't know this and preach gender roles is hilarious 😂 Stay home mothers are still working mate https://joyfulparentingsf.com/p/working-moms-today-spend-as-much https://abcnews.go.com/amp/GMA/story?id=2969095&page=1 It's not about staying at home or not, it's about how much you're working. Unpaid labour is still labou…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 02:57 PM
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I haven't gotten it done yet because it's hard asf to find a doctor to do it, it has nothing to do with willingness i've tried and will continue to try until it is done. It's misogynistic asf to assume every woman wants a kid women have a lot of desires outside the home, not every woman wants kids. Women are more than simply mothers and wives Also men can get vasectomies 😂 What's with the victim complex
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 02:55 PM
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I've never been more determined to get my tubes tied until now 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 01:19 PM
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2 parents working and dividing roles are still serving the family 🤣 just an equal division of labour
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 01:18 PM
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Yupppp this whole post screams severe emotional immaturity, i have no doubts he likely has little dating experience and is quite young
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 02:03 AM
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r/im14andthisisdeep
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 02:00 AM
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Exactly a man like what would not make a good husband and an even worse father
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 01:57 AM
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me too girl 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 01:56 AM
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Yep men project their ideals in a man onto women and then act hostile or confused when women state that's not what they want at all, so they try to gaslight themselves and us into thinking it's what we want 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 01:54 AM
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Attractiveness is subjective, I'd rather kms then date the 6'2 chad you've mentioned and i'm not that into six packs either. I find emotional vulnerability attractive/desirable in even just friends, and i've actually started liking guys i didn't prior because of the fact they were open and honest about their feelings (which is a sign of strength and maturity)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 01:31 AM
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Define emotional vulnerability because you seem to think it's the same thing as being overly emotional, which it is not.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 01:30 AM
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Yep i completely agree i find these traits attractive even in someone i'd consider a friend, who'd want to be around a robot?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 01:29 AM
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Why do you feel so personally enraged at the idea that women want men with emotional honesty?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 01:29 AM
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This is a deeply misogynistic take
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 01:28 AM
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Again if that's your only option reflect as to why anyone half decent does not find you desirable
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 01:27 AM
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Homophobia they see gay men as accessories, not real people and are unsympathetic/prejudice to queer issues as a result.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 01:21 AM
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What you're saying is nonsensical
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 01:09 AM
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Crazy women are a rarity not the norm, crazy people in general. If you're attracting them that's smth to do with you
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/25 12:21 AM
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If your only options are crazy women (which frankly i doubt are crazy) then that's your personal failing. There are many regular women
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 10:23 PM
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Men make up half the population they have as many options as women do
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 10:05 PM
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Because you're claiming men have limited options (despite being 50% of the entire population) because women are crazy? Which is very misogynistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 09:07 PM
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Maybe you have no options bc you're a red pill man 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 08:34 PM
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I'm really not sure how that's relevant no human on earth wants someone who's codependent on them we want to feel chosen
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 03:35 PM
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Please explain how they aren't the same kid
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 09:37 AM
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Not really, men are not socialised to prioritise romantic relationships like women are. Women are told from very early on to endlessly self sacrifice for partners and to have marriage + kids as the ultimate life goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/25 09:37 AM
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In what way is dating harder for men? Men get raped less, assaulted less, abused less, and don't have to worry abt misogyny
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 09:08 PM
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Correct
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 09:07 PM
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I'm not telling a random stranger online my age but i have been in long term relationships with the opposite sex, and again stop making pathetic attempts at psychoanalysing me. Of course they should seek therapy but do you really think calling someone abusive for being traumatised is okay?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 08:55 PM
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So your solution is to alienate the women who are so traumatised by men they hate the entire gender bc they feel no good men exist? How logical and don't make assumptions abt me, it's rather irritating and a classic redditor move
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 08:45 PM
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Google educational hypergamy in men
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 08:43 PM
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respect
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 08:41 PM
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I'be definitely noticed that generally speaking men are much much quicker to up and leave relationships rather than sticking it out
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 08:41 PM
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You're ignoring the social factors that contribute to that, men punch down whilst women up
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 08:33 PM
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You do realise you can be black and queer right? 🤣 Also provide any evidence for that. I don't wanna hear you say shit abt racism when you're a homophobe hun x Queer people are not dirty or promiscuous stop perpetuating homophobia
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 08:02 PM
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Provide any data whatsoever for this being true, those statements are hyperboles not to be taken literally
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 08:02 PM
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You're assuming angry hurt women who have every reason to be are abusive, pls be serious
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 04:28 PM
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You're speaking abt DL men and gay men, not bisexual men my point still stands. Bisexuals are not secretly gay, this is monosexist and biphobic rhetoric. So no i didn't misread your point, you're still judging an entire sexuality off of stereotypes. 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 04:24 PM
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Again you're generalising a whole sexuality of people I know a shit tonne of queer people that want to settle down and have kids etc. Why is it okay for you to judge an entire group of people? If this was a race or culture you'd be losing your minds. The extent you go to to justify homophobia is vile. You do realise bisexual men frequently settle down with women right...? and obviously you don't need a sperm bank bc it's a man and a woman 😂. What some people do ≠ a whole sexuality do. A sexualit…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 10:21 AM
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You're taking what i said out if context like a classic redditor
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 10:19 AM
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https://rapecrisis.org.uk/get-informed/statistics-sexual-violence/ I live in England, a western country...where tf would i move? Men need to wake up to how common of an issue this actually is.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 02:24 AM
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In my country 1/4 women over 16 have been raped, you're also forgetting how rare it is people are prosecuted for rape
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/25 02:17 AM
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Just bc you don't understand doesn't mean it doesn't make sense 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 09:05 PM
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Men also do emotional labour idk where you've got this idea from and yes if you as a man don't communicate in a relationship or participate anything emotionally to it you're lazy asf and a shitty partner. No one wants to date a robot
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 09:02 PM
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That men are more horney than women 200 years ago people believed the reverse, or the idea there is a "biological, ancient, and spiritual conflict between genders"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 09:01 PM
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You seem to not understand the difference between a gay man and a bisexual man- bisexual men aren't inherently less likely to want to settle down, have kids etc nor be more feminine. Also DL is very different from an out and proud bisexual and all of this is operating on the very biphobjc assumption that bisexuals are actually just gay, so yes this is homophobia. Also a lot of this is just complaining about childcare or domestic life? How is marrying a bisexual man in anyway related to that? At …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 08:31 PM
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Labour is work- emotional work is still work just because you don't like it doesn't change what it is. A therapist is paid to deal with your emotions because dealing with them is work. Acknowledging that women are exhausted from this burn out and men underperform emotionally is the first step to rectify this issue
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:27 PM
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suuuure
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 05:06 PM
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"The news highlights the changing shape of the domestic HIV epidemic despite a drop in testing caused by the COVID-19 pandemic. HIV testing by sexual health services among heterosexuals during 2020 fell by a third (33%), compared to a 7% decrease among gay and bisexual men. This makes the number of diagnoses among heterosexuals passing gay and bisexual men even more significant. Heterosexuals were also far more likely to be diagnosed late, meaning damage to the immune system has already begun. M…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:56 PM
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Why does it matter if she made a mistake if she's aiming to repair that after? Is no one allowed to make a mistake ever? Let me guess when your male friend loses all his money in the divorce it's not his fault for marrying her 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 03:09 PM
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Some men can be incredibly manipulative, by your same logic if a woman is killed by her husband it's her fault for marrying him
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 03:08 PM
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If she left him she obviously didn't choose him did she?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 02:58 PM
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All of this is perpetuating the stereotype that queer people are promiscuous which is extremely homophobic. More straight men have HIV these days then queer men. Your sexuality has no bearing on whether you engage in hook up culture. It's ironic straight people project their gender norms onto us. If you think straight men don't sleep around alot you are severely delusional. All of this can be cleared up by simply idk...communicating? You're making vast judgements about someone based on their sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 02:54 PM
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The issue is not any form of emotional labour it's that women are doing the majority of emotional labour. It is exhausting having a partner putting in less work and is not on you level
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 02:21 PM
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Give 1 good argument for not dating a bisexual man that is not rooted in homophobia. I'll wait.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 02:20 PM
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How do women have it easier in dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 02:11 PM
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Most men and women uphold patriarchy, and most issues with either gender are due to it. I'd argue all issues tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 02:10 PM
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I really don't think women losing hope with men due to how misogynistic, abusive, and rapey a concerningly high amount of men can be makes the woman abusive. This seems very victim blaming frankly
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 02:09 PM
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Your question doesn't make any sense whatsoever
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 02:06 PM
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Bro's never heard of joint custody 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 02:04 PM
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Men are not hornier than women are libido varies greatly by individual and depends on age, medication, weight, mental health, sleep, etc etc
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 01:43 PM
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You shouldn't put up with any shit, money or not. Have some respect for yourself, you're not a prostitute.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 01:18 PM
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One of the main ideas of feminism is anti gender roles you can not be a feminist and think this way.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 12:31 PM
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It being a deal breaker is homophobia 🙄 the same way someone's race being a deal breaker is racism. Cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 12:30 PM
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You're preaching pseudoscientific gender roles, men are not hardwired to be sex addicts. This thinking is harmful and anti feminist
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 12:28 PM
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It's true and really disgusting. Homophobia is so normalised and before you come at me kids there's no reason not to date a man who's attracted to women based on his sexuality- that is not homophobia. Your sexuality doesn't determine anything about the person. You lot are fucking disgusting
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 10:03 AM
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Me too girl
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 03:40 PM
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same here
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 03:39 PM
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me too
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 03:38 PM
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A pattern of very shit men with my last relationship being the straw that broke the camels back. The only validation you should seek is your own, not external validation. Most men aren't great, a lot are misogynistic. It's frankly not worth the effort of cantering them, and it's a bit sad to make your entire life about someone else. Decentering men clears your mind and allows you to pick good ones rather than chasing validation because you put them on a pedestal, it's a healthier way to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 03:37 PM
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Yes women care but not the extent people make out. If you're average or above you're fine
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 07:11 AM
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They're not staying for the kids, it's almost always a shitty excuse to mask the fact the parents don't have the balls to divorce
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 07:10 AM
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The red pill is very misogynistic- it argues that women are biologically hardwired to "date up" and as a result only attracted to status, money and dominance. It completely eliminated women's emotional and intellectual capacity to pure opportunism. It views women as commodities often using terms such as "sexual market value" where men "invest" to "win" women as if they're objects/assets rather than human beings. The red pill ideology operates on the assumption that men are victimised by society …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 07:05 AM
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Evolutionary psych is very reductionist and doesn't take into consideration personal and cultural differences, for example if a woman is making 20k a year and is hypergamous she may aim for a man making 30k a year. However the red pill takes this to the extreme to assume that women are only "dating the top 20% of men" which is entirely inaccurate because we'd have died out as a species if that were correct 💀 It also severely lacks temporal validity https://pmc.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/articles/PMC542199…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 06:55 AM
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Radical feminists aren't hateful 💀 the radical doesn't mean what most wrongfully assume it does
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 06:52 AM
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A lot of red pill promotes the idea that women are inferior, overly emotional, incapable of leading, and only fit for the home.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/25 06:51 AM
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Emotional is fine, overly emotional isnt
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 12:27 AM
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I never stated that, do you arms hurt from all the reaching you do?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 10:20 PM
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Why do you want someone who will make you lonely
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/25 02:57 AM
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Emotional intimacy mate your therapist can't gige you that
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/25 04:20 PM
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What type of therapists were they and what type of therapy? therapists have vastly different approaches and there are many different types of therapy. Have you tried ketamine therapy with a psychiatrists? Or different types of antidepressants?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 08:33 PM
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Have you tried medication and therapy? Also no, you can't fix that but you can get it to a place where it is more manageable
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 08:23 PM
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Don't kys, there's no problems you can't fix
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 08:00 PM
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Okay... then you'll never open up to anyone and you'll die alone. Your choice 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 07:49 PM
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Yuppppp trust me i have the worst trust issues ever now but it will only harm yourself, there's a lot of shit people out there but there's also some half decent ones. You just have to be discerning
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 07:43 PM
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"I had one bad experience so i'm going to shut down and never open up again because i lack the mental+emotional strength to heal and bounce back from it, which is only gonna harm myself in the only run" I'm autistic asw and have gotten some bullying + shit talking for it, i've also had ex friended and an ex spread my secrets everywhere or weaponise them. You just gotta bounce back
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 07:38 PM
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So the red pill is cherry picking evolutionary psychology that you don't understand? got it
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 06:01 PM
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This isn't a man and woman thing this is an avoidant attachment vs anxious attachment thing
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 06:00 PM
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Nope, couldn't care less and masculine men turn me off
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 05:58 PM
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you really don't have to try that hard to get attention from women have you seen some of these women's exes? And as a woman myself i don't have to do an awful lot to sleep with girls
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 05:56 PM
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No, sex is a huge part of emotional connection for me especially kink
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 05:54 PM
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Honestly, no. When you reach 18+ not being into politics is really childish, and signals immaturity. You might not be into politics but politics is for sure into you. And yes, they need to match with me on core political values.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 05:51 PM
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You are aware periods aren't inherently sexual like a wet dream is and it's a totally normal bodily function that all women experience...?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 05:50 PM
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I really don't know where people get this idea women don't want to date, women do they're just not willing to lower their standards for a subpar man.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 05:49 PM
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You are right but for the wrong reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 05:48 PM
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What about bisexuals???
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 05:46 PM
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As a bisexual woman i'm going to aim to break down this misconception: "never open up to a woman, it'll be used against you" That's the risk you take when opening up to anyone, of any gender. I've had men say nasty comments and use my trauma against me before, and had women do the same. I'd also like to add i've seen a high amount of people claim their trauma is being used against them when it's simply bought up. Here's a good example, you have someone who lies a lot because in childhood they we…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 05:42 PM
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God this is so so true
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 05:35 PM
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The woman enjoying her job doesn't change the fact he didn't have a way to guarantee that prior, and wasn't still prepared to take that risk. Also why would you want to sleep with someone who has to pay someone to fuck them because they are so undesirable?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/25 01:30 PM
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Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 06:20 PM
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I can't believe i'm agreeing with a red pill guy but you are COMPLETELY spot on. I dated one of these guys and he treated my like shit and quickly discarded me when things got hard. He had many psychological issues, and was very reckless and prone to addiction. He also had very low self esteem like you said which is what drove the behaviour
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 06:19 PM
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Yep this is why i hate when people say that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 09:56 AM
1

do you known sign language?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 09:42 AM
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Competent doesn't mean more resources. Emotional skills cannot be bought
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 09:38 AM
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If women are inherently submissive then why are most men in straight relationships led by their gfs?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 09:31 AM
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I could not be more turned off by a man you're describing
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 09:29 AM
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How they treat people, what their friends are like, can they take accountability, can they self reflect, do all their exes hate them or do they slag off all their exes, do they have a victim complex, do they communicate their feelings, do they resort to drinking or other shit coping mechanisms when faced with an issue. In short
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 09:28 AM
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Depends on the person, most women do work out or do some form of physical activity. In short for men the beauty standard is muscles so men tend to work out more at the gym bc of that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 09:27 AM
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Women are not reliant on marriage for financial reasons anymore because we not get paid work, so men need to match women in terms of emotional skills. But they aren't so that's that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 09:26 AM
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I do not know a single women into dominant men unless you mean in bed
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 09:24 AM
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It's exploitative and shows they can't get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 09:23 AM
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A lot of men lack emotional intimacy in male friendships so they are more likely to outsource that to their gfs and thus want a gf more
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/25 03:58 PM
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You're underestimating how much the culture you're born into has an impact on most people you're best off dating outside your culture
/r/MensRights23/05/25 08:34 AM
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As a woman and also a feminist, I do not want a man to provide for me at all I want it to be split 50-50 financially. Also if your country is conservative it makes sense women would think that because it's a conservative value, it's not reflective of all women at all.
/r/MensRights22/05/25 08:13 PM
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Some us actually have girlfriends bro
/r/MensRights18/05/25 08:48 PM
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god forbid a woman isn't an incel 🙏 you're making all men look like shit yk
/r/MensRights18/05/25 08:45 PM
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accidentally stumbled on the incel side of reddit
/r/MensRights18/05/25 08:42 PM
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I never said that you're just an incel
/r/MensRights18/05/25 08:41 PM
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Please explain how men are oppressed 😂
/r/MensRights18/05/25 07:09 PM
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Men are in 0 way shape or form oppressed based on their gender
/r/MensRights18/05/25 07:07 PM
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Yes because if a system is designed to favour men...it's almost like...that gives them power over women 😱
/r/MensRights18/05/25 07:04 PM
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The article you linked literally supports what I said here is it's definition: Definition: Patriarchal (adj.) describes a general structure in which men have power over women. Society (n.) is the entirety of relations of a community. A patriarchal society consists of a male-dominated power structure throughout organized society and in individual relationships.
/r/MensRights18/05/25 06:53 PM
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The dictionary and feminist idea of the patriarchy are literally the same exact thing idk why this is a hard concept to grasp
/r/MensRights18/05/25 06:46 PM
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I literally have and have explained it to you you are just wanting to ignore what i'm saying
/r/MensRights18/05/25 06:44 PM
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The feminist theory of patriarchy is literally what the word means.....as someone who has read a LOT of feminist literature
/r/MensRights18/05/25 06:38 PM
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You told me to google and so i did here you go! "a system of society or government in which men hold the power and women are at large excluded from it" - Oxford dictionary
/r/MensRights18/05/25 06:34 PM
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I don't need to google it when i've read actual feminist literature
/r/MensRights18/05/25 06:28 PM
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I've read a lot of feminist theory and none of it has ever claimed that except some very extreme radical feminist lit. The patriarchy is a system where men are given privileges purely based on their sex and women are oppressed as a result of this framework. A lot of men often uphold it however men ≠ the patriarchy
/r/MensRights18/05/25 06:24 PM
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This is such an insane take wtf are you on 😭
/r/MensRights18/05/25 06:14 PM
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Your average woman does not get free drinks and gifts constantly also healthcare being used by women more is partly because men refuse to go to the doctors or sort out health issues......
/r/MensRights18/05/25 06:13 PM
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This isn't propositioning men are oppressive by any means nor blaming them? I think you may have just misunderstood the study, both genders experience this of course however there is a disproportionately large amount of men who expect their gf to do all the emotional labour in the relationship. The study pointing this out is not a bad thing, it means that men can now focus on strengthening their EQ skills and male support networks which will benefit everyone in the long run and help male lonelin…
/r/MensRights18/05/25 06:10 PM
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That's not what the patriarchy is at all
/r/MensRights18/05/25 06:06 PM
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to be fair that sub is just a cesspit they also try and bully women into it aswell and claim you can not be childfree without wanting the surgery
/r/MensRights18/05/25 06:06 PM
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idk how i wound up on this sub but i got banned from r/childree because i said i don't want to get sterilised, I got an onslaught of people accusing me of being a fence sitter and when i stood up for myself? boom. banned.
/r/MensRights18/05/25 06:05 PM
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