rosebudd_ Archive

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6	Ex-GF hmu for sex but complication arose. How to handle? Damn bro.... Where's ur own self respect at? Really cool getting sloppy seconds from a widower? Sheesh homie.... Sex may be fun but ur integrity is worth more. You'll feel much better once u start turning down garbage chicks and situations and that will make u more confident to go after the women u truly deserve and want in ur life	/r/seduction	28/06/22 07:02 AM
1	Is this community for me? I want more from life First off, Congratulations for getting your life in order! That's so amazing to hear that you've at least been developing yourself. I have met a good number of successful people that would kill it in the business sectors, sports and everything else, but struggled in relationships, but that's ok. You haven't focused on meeting girls, you've been focused on other areas, so now all you have to do is shift a small percentage of your time and effort to reading some posts and putting what you learn in…	/r/seduction	20/06/18 08:41 AM
1	How do you learn from bad interactions if you dont know what you did wrong What did "man" expect to happen? This is not an interaction, if I ask a girl what time it is, and she says 12:45, and I say thanks...there's nothing to learn from that. If man stayed in the interaction after the opener and talked to her for a bit or if he said something at least then we could analyse. But there's nothing to learn from giving a girl a compliment and leaving the room lol	/r/seduction	20/06/18 08:17 AM
1	How do you learn from bad interactions if you dont know what you did wrong Ok.....is that the whole story? I'm lost. Guy says your smile is cute, she says thanks, guy leaves......?	/r/seduction	20/06/18 08:13 AM
6	How do you learn from bad interactions if you dont know what you did wrong One thing I always try to do is put myself in Third Person mode and write down exactly what happened. I try my hardest to be very honest with myself and write in a way that I don't change my own story to put me in a good light, then I ask close friends to tell me where I went wrong. (You can always post here on Reddit too). I am great at analyzing other people's experiences but if i'm involved in one, I may not see things as clear as some third party who was not emotionally involved. But I would…	/r/seduction	20/06/18 08:03 AM
1	What single change to your lifestyle made the biggest change in your game? Interesting, it's pretty 50/50 here most of the time depending on the theme. Only a few nights feel like sausage fests (star wars night comes to mind) I think it's also because majority of cosplayers are female and they bring their friends because guys don't come here to "hit on chicks" we all know each other so if a guy gets creepy he gets weeded out quickly.	/r/seduction	18/06/18 11:05 AM
15	What single change to your lifestyle made the biggest change in your game? Hands down is having a "base". Finding my "Cheers" if you would (Millenials google the reference). In my case, it's this nerd bar where only nerds (70% are introverts) go to. They cosplay, play D&D , play video games and etc. Not only do I meet girls there, when new girls come to the bar, since I'm already "part of the family", introducing myself is effortless because she would be the rude one to not be polite in this situation. I also have social proof by having a lot of friends there, so as I …	/r/seduction	18/06/18 02:00 AM
1	How can a woman seduce a good man, not someone who just wants to fuck? Everyone responds to certain triggers (hate that word nowadays...), I can't speak for the person who left you, or why any of us are dumped even though we assume things are "going great". We don't understand every the entirety of the situation to assume why someone made a certain decision. What I can say is that, there must have been a reason. Like I said, after a while a "look" is not enough to keep you around. Any man with a little bit of experience can easily sleep with beautiful women, but th…	/r/seduction	13/06/18 05:28 AM
3	Mini-golf dates. Do you like them? Any tips on what to wear, what to do, and logistics? lol gee too many thoughts. It's mini golf, it's laid back, casual, escalate naturally, there isn't much you can do here but you can give some high fives, some shoulder massages, hugs and all. I'd just move to a more intimate location after the mini golf. The golf is just for attraction and rapport building, it's not for comfort, coffee would fall in attraction and rapport building as well. Bring her to a more intimate setting where you two will finally be able to look into each other's eyes and …	/r/seduction	13/06/18 03:50 AM
2	How can a woman seduce a good man, not someone who just wants to fuck? I'll say this: If a man wants to use you for sex and leave you. He will leave you after 1 date or after 35 when he finally gets to have sex with you. I have been there. When the sex is lousy and the connection you two share isn't that interesting... there is no incentive to stick around anyway, think about it. Imagine waiting whatever magical number of dates you have in your mind, then finally you two have sex and it's terrible, he doesn't care about what you like, he just rams it in there, cums…	/r/seduction	13/06/18 03:44 AM
4	As somebody who probably has an addiction to one night stands. This is how i approach women or groups of women at any location. No. It's a way to go about it, there's no cut and dry path. I like indirect because it diffuses a lot of situations (i'm not exactly attractive), I feel that indirect is a good way to get your foot in the door if you have the time to go through the seduction process. BUT if i'm in a parking lot somewhere and I see a cute girl walking with grocery bags im not going to try to do indirect openers and bullshit, she has shit to do and so do I, so I'll go for a direct approach because it's what the en…	/r/seduction	12/06/18 03:04 AM
2	Have you/would you ever give someone a book on seduction as a present? This !! It's very upsetting to see guys trying to "wing it" nowadays with the All natural movement... they really just play a numbers game. I find very hard to improve without having a structure and having to come up with spontaneous new stuff every single time...	/r/seduction	11/06/18 04:04 PM
2	My weird mindset about seduction He played the role of a provider to the tee. He was so beta and she knew that. Hence why she stayed with me and knew nothing would happen because he couldn't get other girls	/r/seduction	11/06/18 02:34 AM
3	What are some good books in learning seduction? Or books that help you boost confidence? So get plastic surgery is your answer.	/r/seduction	11/06/18 01:56 AM
3	What are some good books in learning seduction? Or books that help you boost confidence? 1) The Mystery Method - Don't even begin to talk about seduction if you haven't read this. ALL the top instructors in the world still revere this masterpiece and all they teach is rooted in the basics outlined here. 2)Revelations (also by Mystery) 3) No More Mr. Nice Guy - So many straight BARS in this book. Will reshape how you act and see yourself. Amazing confidence booster.	/r/seduction	11/06/18 01:55 AM
6	My weird mindset about seduction If you are not ACTIVELY meeting new girls, EVEN IF you do meet your dream girl...she will quickly lose attraction for you if you can't get other women interested in you. Long story short: I meet this girl about to get married in 3 months...I pick her up...in front of her soon to be husband, guy gets pissed off, storms off home, she stays with me. We go to another bar, have drinks, end up making out. Husband texts her saying "I know you left with that asshole, don't even come home tonight, i'm go…	/r/seduction	11/06/18 01:53 AM
9	Do you have to work your way up from the 5's or less to the 10's? If you are not getting laid, yes, lower your standards so you can get experience. Fucking up with a 5 is nowhere as painful as fucking up with a 9 you "almost" had. Doesn't mean that you need to go up in any sort of scale, you can just approach 9's but as you build more and more experience you'll realize that the better looking girls are used to a different type of treatment from society, and so they react differently to various things. Approach whoever interests you and calibrate with time. You…	/r/seduction	11/06/18 01:46 AM
0	Is it bad when your girlfriend likes to go out using no bra? Well, if you think that her having a bra on or off will stop strangers from approaching her when ur not around, you're in a world of hurt. A slag will be a slag whether she has a white tank top with no bra or a burka. Really doesn't matter.If she is not getting dicked down by someone else right now, eventually she will and there's absolutely nothing you can do to change that. You can not guilt trip her into not fucking other guys. Sorry man. The only ones I trust are God and myself. You cannot e…	/r/seduction	11/06/18 01:33 AM
7	Have you/would you ever give someone a book on seduction as a present? It's not about the book itself. It's the underlying principles within it. I do use tricks, gimmicks, and manipulation techniques. But you want to know what else? Women are PhDs in these arts, maybe more than we'll ever be. A girl can get multiple men to pay for their dinners, drinks and buy them stuff. Ever paid for a meal that you felt that it wasn't right that you paid 100% for it? Ever bought a girl drinks and she said thanks as she walked away to go talk to someone else? How did she do it? M…	/r/seduction	10/06/18 11:51 PM
1	Is it ok for a 33 year old guy to hit on a 21 year old girl? The only age you should care about is the legal age of consent in your state. I PERSONALLY know a 55 year old who only date college girls, yeah, he does have money but guy has solid game too. You'd be surprised at how many girls just love older men who are stable.	/r/seduction	10/06/18 08:17 PM
10	How do you slide into DM's the right way? I have not had plenty of result from "DM Game" but I have had SOME results that make up for it, it's still a field I very much want to get better at. I only use Instagram for this with my page Public so she can see all my pictures and know i'm not a random insecure guy hiding behind an online profile. I simply message them something non-creepy. I will send out A TON of messages before I get a reply, the the few times you get a reply, it makes it all worth it because my instagram is crafted to sh…	/r/seduction	10/06/18 07:11 AM
52	WHERE do you escalate (hooking up) when you both live with parents? Sex in cars/Public places is very overrated. Cars are uncomfortable unless you have an SUV. There is no comfort at all, it's dirty and not in a good sense. People who give advice like this are usually guys who don't get laid often say to make them seem like they have exciting sex lives "we banged in the bathroom of a dirty hipster nightclub bro!" Yeah because drenching your sports jacket in urine and other bodily excretions found in public places is very high value.... Honestly, i don't know whe…	/r/seduction	09/06/18 07:28 PM
2	Does Alcohol Help You Get Girls? Alcohol is shit if you plan on getting good at seduction. I actually dropped it altogether 5 months ago, for no fucking reason, I just didn't see it helping me in any way shape or form so I quit drinking altogether. The pros: CHEAP night outs (Cranberry juice and soda or shirley temples are super cheap) Clear headed, you won't slur out words or forget shit when you're in set. You will be focused and ready to go You can drive from the club/bar at anytime without fearing getting in a DUI situation…	/r/seduction	09/06/18 06:43 AM
3	I know this is against the rules of the game, but i don't know why i can't help it I know exactly how you feel. We all do, anybody who says they don't get the occasional "one-itis" for a girl that is just "THEIR TYPE" is lying their asses off or they are psychopaths. Unfortunately, there is no remedy. There is a solution which you know very well: Go out, meet more girls, get more girls, live abundantly. You will NOT forget this girl and you may even fantasize about her for the days to come, but there is absolutely nothing you can do at this very moment that will make her all o…	/r/seduction	09/06/18 06:31 AM
6	[FR]I finally fucking did it! Now what? What Rosebudd got from reading this are 2 things: 1) Lack of tension 2) Full compliance on your part 1- It seems like every interaction you have with her is just you in a happy, friendly, jumpy mood. I would love to see some cockiness like when you let her try the glasses instead of saying it looks better on her perhaps a "Hmmm yeah they look better on me for sure :)" on the makeup stain, act a little prickish (if so far you've established enough comfort) like pretend you're going to snapchat it…	/r/seduction	09/06/18 06:25 AM
1	Young guy need some advice for seduction to get girls/older women. Any tips would be highly appreciated. And yeah, I never dated before so no experiences. Please help. Thing is, it's really hard since it looks like you need even the basics down. This may get shot down but the basics to seduction are outlined in The Mystery Method. Even if you don't use the routines and stuff, most instructors, whether they want to admit it or not, all follow the basics of the Mystery Method. I'd read that book first then watch some of the videos on DHV, Leading and Escalation before anything else.	/r/seduction	03/06/18 09:20 PM
2	FR Rocky Road with the Hot Bartender What got you down was seeming too needy, she didn't text back but then apologized because after all you do go to her bar and she didn't want any awkward vibes. Let it breathe for now. It will not hurt your chances. Is she on your social media? I'd go to Arizona and post kick ass photos of you having fun even if you're going for business... If she's not and doesn't hear from you, she has to understand that you have things going for you. You need to break the needy mold you put yourself in. I've b…	/r/seduction	02/06/18 09:56 PM
5	FR Rocky Road with the Hot Bartender Yeah so as you acknowledged yourself, you did " fuck up" quite a bit, but hey, we all do it, even the best of us. It's totally different when you're in the zone than when you're judging from a third person perspective. You did managed to get back and ease your way back into her graces, but yeah the " maybe" most often than not means "i'm not sure if i'm interested enough to commit myself to a weekend with you". It does seem that she's still not there yet for you, she clearly LIKES you but she do…	/r/seduction	02/06/18 09:02 PM
1	Young guy need some advice for seduction to get girls/older women. Any tips would be highly appreciated. And yeah, I never dated before so no experiences. Please help. Very vague. What do you need help with?	/r/seduction	02/06/18 08:45 PM