| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 231 | Karmic Revenge on Cheaters (share your stories!) | DISCUSSION | roseinfullbloom | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 06:55 PM |
| 77 | I need help out of this headspace. | DISCUSSION | roseinfullbloom | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/10/21 11:32 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | How are you leveling up?Omg yesss I love this. This January I enrolled in a program designed to assist you in becoming a full time artist. It's run by two strong women, a mother and daughter!! Right now I'm learning the ins and outs of oil painting. Now I work full time in a female-dominated space, pay all my own bills, got my first super sweet amazing dog last year, spend my days off painting and growing, meeting amazing artist souls every week, started volunteering at my local women's shelter, every day I spend at ho… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/22 05:12 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts as I'm packing my things while he sleeps, drunk after going to bed at 7am (a normal night for him)We're here for you!! It's painful at times but you're going to feel moments of PURE JOY!! Go girl ^___^ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 06:02 PM |
| 47 | Rejected by 300 "hot girls", NVM cries about having to settle for "average" girls to get laidTHE FACT THAT THIS DUDE SAT DOWN AND WROTE THIS ALL LMFAOOO | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/03/22 05:56 PM |
| 1 | Saw this as I was waiting in line and had to share 🤣You prob don't remember me, and I deleted the post, but a while ago I made a post on FDS about my cheating ex who is now with Me 2.0 and doing all the same stuff we did and... you wrote that I should message you if I needed to and I was hoping you might listen? I feel like I have exhausted all my IRL friends on this topic. Much love <3 P.S. I couldn't figure out how to message you directly bahaha | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/02/22 08:48 PM |
| 1 | Always, ALWAYS check his phoneJust wanted to say I hope you're doing better now <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/22 07:02 PM |
| 7 | I need help out of this headspace.Wow I really love this reply. I might try the mock screenplay idea or writing a fake letter. I can really see that working for me. Thank you so much. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 12:15 AM |
| 15 | I need help out of this headspace.Thank you <3 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/21 12:14 AM |
| 18 | Always, ALWAYS check his phoneHi. I hope you read this. I went through this. Perfect man, checked all the FDS boxes, found the messages. Cut every tie and don't look back. The other girls have given you amazing advice already as to the smart way to do this. But DO IT. DO NOT CONSIDER ANYTHING ELSE. CUT AND RUN. You listened to your gut, to check his phone, and your gut was right. Now follow your gut to the ends of the earth. You are beyond blessed to leave this situation without children. You probably won't eat for a month. … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/06/21 04:43 AM |
| 2 | *MBTI TYPES IS NOT AN EXCUSE FOR LOW VALUE BEHAVIOR* Has anyone else noticed an influx of men who label themselves “INTJ” absolutely shitty, and leave you with a funny feeling?Damn sis, just described my ex to a tee :| thank you for your eloquent words. Pls stfu indeed | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 04:44 AM |
| 3 | For the first time in my life, I’m grateful to be single.I feel exactly the same way. <3 Sending love. I hope you get everything you want in this life and more :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/01/21 10:02 PM |
| 3 | I keep coming back to the anger in my stages of GriefYou just need more time. It won't be easy at times but you'll be okay on the other end. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/12/20 05:58 AM |
| 10 | LVM will not hesitate to waste your timeI'm so sorry that happened to you :/ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/09/20 03:59 PM |
| 5 | *Laughs in Greatness*Nope 😂! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 09:36 PM |
| 10 | *Laughs in Greatness*No kidding. I don't know if he was actually hung up on the girl herself per se, but he bold faced admitted that his friend getting the girl over him was his "first heart break" and something he has "never really got over." I think it legitimately played into why he hates women to this day (he ended up being a narcisstic abuser). | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 03:17 PM |
| 21 | *Laughs in Greatness*Last guy I dated was still hung up on a girl he had a crush on but that his friend ended up dating instead, during high school. He was 31. Lmfaoooo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/09/20 01:55 PM |
| 6 | Where do you have modern examples of men calling out poor male behavior in music?Violent Crimes by Kanye West | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 04:21 AM |
| 62 | What are your favorite things about being single?Nobody to cheat on you while you're pouring your heart into em. Literally zero risk of being lied to. Do whatever you want with your time and space ❤ Sprawl all over the bed! Don't have to clean or deal with anyone else's stuff No compromise on your future travel plans Eat what YOU want every night!!! Spend all your $ on you. Peace of mind. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 09:40 PM |
| 3 | Show Recommendations?Seriously Single on Netflix :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/20 09:34 PM |
| 82 | Ladies with a HVM SO: How did you meet?Man good for you because fuck OLD. It's narcisstic shark territory. I've met everybody through either school (back in the day, as it were), work or mutual friends. Just keep hanging with your homies or expanding the circles through hobby groups or fitness groups (running group, climbing, MMA, etc). A lot of potential dates are just a couple degrees away from you, especially if you keep opening up that circle! Straight up tell your friends and fam that you're single and open to dating and trust t… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 04:10 AM |
| 26 | When did you have your FDS epiphany?Thanks, I appreciate that a lot ❤ My ex was beyond a LVM, he was a narcisstic predator. He played the role of HVM truly immaculately - sometimes women on here will describe him when listing HVM attributes... But, if I am very honest with myself, and I would like to share this with any woman here: even during the many months he kept his mask from slipping, my gut always felt "off". And sometimes that's all I could pinpoint at all. Something was off. To my old self it didn't seem like enough to le… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 02:00 AM |
| 56 | When did you have your FDS epiphany?January this year. Five months before the demise of my relationship. It started as a what I'd thought to be a HVM relationship but over time his mask began to slip. Still, it was all hunky and dory (courtesy of me, myself and I and all the patchwork I did holding onto the person I thought he was). In January I found this hilarious subreddit full of the same sort of jokes and memes my sister and I laugh about. Reading on, I start to apply FDS principles to my relationship and suddenly we're argui… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/09/20 01:47 AM |
| 13 | What are the little red flags you look back on and realize you should have paid more attention to?I don't now if you need to hear this, but.. I have compassion for the girl you were that stayed another four years. That girl with the big heart. I understand her mistake. I hope you have been able to forgive her too. Don't ever regret having such a big heart, just be thankful you know better now how to protect such a precious diamond. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/08/20 11:45 PM |
| 2 | I’m not a fan of time wasters and I wrote a poem that trolls them. Saying “hey” doesn’t do it for me. Get to the point or gtfo.👏👏👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 03:40 AM |
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