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In one of them it says he's been legally married for four years but on the earlier post it says he's been married for 16 years. What a liar.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/12/20 06:17 AM
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Not to mention the obvious problems, slut-shaming, the age-gap, being controlling over what she should wear, why is he already calling her his wife when they're not married yet. That's just so weird.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/12/20 05:20 AM
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I had an ex who had gifted me a ring when we were dating and he ended up throwing it into a lake when we broke up. I'm glad I never have to see him again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 02:36 AM
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Also the man and we are never ever getting back together!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 02:52 AM
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Of course, if a man's first response to marrying you isn't a hell yes then it's a no. In fact you should never bring it up at all, if he wants to he'll ask you. It does suck to get blindsided like that though :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 02:59 AM
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Don't you feel bad for the ex-girlfriend though. He essentially wasted years of her life without ever planning on marrying her, and then decided to break up and started flirting with other people without telling her, and then just randomly picked out a woman he wanted to marry that night, again without telling her that he had already moved on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/10/20 02:33 AM
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Plus it's more far more likely for a man not to be a good husband and father than it is for a woman not to be a good wife or mother, which is why it's imperative for us to vet them. The odds are already in their favor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 09:21 PM
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I have a work acquaintance, who just the other day wrote an instagram post about how she does her boyfriend's laundry and how apparently that's what true love is and I was shocked. I think a lot of women fall into the trap of wanting to prove that they're marriage material- I know I did- but really the man needs to be proving to you that he's husband material.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 07:56 PM
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Happy happy birthday! Hope it's wonderful! It's kind of funny- we're birthday twins but I turn 21 today and am going to the beach too. Hope you have tons of fun!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 06:04 PM
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Congratulations! That sounds so exciting and wonderful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 09:14 PM
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I've tried doing that but it just causes me to mourn multiple times, which wasn't helpful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/09/20 02:29 AM
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I had an ex who was scared to go into stores with me- I'm glad he's an ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 02:59 AM
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I've read a study that said while women generally have both female and male role models, men generally only see other men as role models which is why it's so important for parents to expose young boys to strong women.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 01:22 AM
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This will make me never online date again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/20 04:11 AM
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Yeah, my ex would always say I was too demanding when I wanted him to actually put effort into the relationship. It's taken a while to realize I wasn't asking for too much, just the bare minimum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/07/20 03:23 AM
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I know it hurts but just remember that now he can't hurt you again anymore! Hopefully that gives you peace of mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 08:25 PM
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In my first year of high school, I hadn't started shaving my legs yet either and this guy I really liked at the time called it disgusting and now it's one of the things I feel most self-conscious about too. I feel you though.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/20 03:33 PM
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Awwww I'm so sorry about that. That must have been devastating. I've had break ups too where I've had something I once loved kind of ruined, but with time I was able to enjoy the same thing in a different way. I've had a similar experience where an ex of mine who gifted me flowers a lot turned out to be abusive. I found it helped to grow my own flowers from seeds or bulbs and that it also symbolized growth to me. My mindset has evolved into a philosophy of don't let other people (especially peop…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 03:16 PM
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I have always loved She's Always a Woman by Billy Joel. The story behind it is cute too because he had gotten into some bad financial contracts but his wife was a savvy business woman and renegotiated his contracts, but some of his adversaries would shame her for that, calling her unfeminine and the like so he wrote that song for her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/20 08:17 PM
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They always tend to blame us for their problems like they can't comprehend their own actions are at fault. And so many of them can't even function like normal adults without a woman behind the scenes, it's honestly quite sad. But yes, never let a guy train you to be his personal maid, assistant, cook, or anything else.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 03:34 PM
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I know, it's crazy to think about how much mental energy we could have saved if we had dropped them sooner. After finding and reading through this sub, I have noticed that there does seem to be a giver or taker mentality and that you tend to attract the opposite. I used to be such the biggest people pleaser and had the hardest time saying no to anything-I don't know why but I would always feel super guilty. But I do agree it probably comes from being raised to be too overly accommodating and sel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/20 02:35 PM
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Oh my gosh, my ex would call himself that and for some stupid reason I thought he was trying to change and become a better person but newsflash he wasn't. He was just justifying mean/rude behaviors to himself. He blindsided me and disrespected me so badly at the end of that relationship, but I learned my lesson to never date another man like that again. It's such a red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/04/20 04:42 AM
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In my past dating experience, I had a long talk with an ex to give up porn and he willingly did to make me happy. However, a few years later, when we were having some other issues in the relationship, he started watching it again but was hiding that from me. At that point in time that along with the other issues we were having caused us to break up, but the point I'm trying to make is that even if a guy promises to stop, if it's not something he really wants to do for himself, it most likely won…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/03/20 01:08 AM
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