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#KickHimOut2020rosemarylady/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 02:34 PM
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The podcast This Is Love (by the people who make Criminal) has a wonderful episode all on her and her journey. Very worth a listen, made me hopeful
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/21 08:04 PM
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did you date my ex? jk that would be a fkn nightmare. I, as a normally non-jealous person, never cared to ask more about this 'friendly ex'. Not making that mistake again. Hope you're well queen, we're both better for leaving
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/02/21 06:16 PM
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Red flags start waving if he says I'm "the most interesting girl he's ever been with". Used to make me feel cool and special, but I learned this the hard way. If he's more enamored by HOW unique you are instead of your unique humanity, he might just be a LV square
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/21 04:04 AM
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What a lovely way to wake up ✨👑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 03:08 PM
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Wow... I need to write that large to remind myself all the time. Trauma+socialization for me to take the responsibility for the pain OTHERS have inflicted on me is NOT the energy I need to heal going forward
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 02:58 PM
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This is precisely what my mother said, and at the time I wanted to dismiss it, but you and she are right. There was a lot of eggshells and explosions and hour long arguments WITHOUT alcohol. Thank you for the important reminder.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 09:04 PM
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What an important reminder, thank you. I have never given myself enough credit for the good I do. I just have to keep trusting myself, and hopefully (very) soon I can congratulate myself fully for the savage move of sending him packing immediately. Woof, what a journey.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 04:55 PM
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Thank you, I have a lot to learn about staying firm on my boundaries. I felt him breaking me and my self-esteem. Guess it's time to hate him haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 04:51 PM
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To be honest, I'm afraid that learning more about narcissism will only fuel my feelings of hatred and anger, which are useful and allowed, but don't serve me personally very well.... Maybe just too raw at the moment, and will slowly learn as I feel ready
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 04:36 PM
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Such kind and necessary words. So much of healing and leveling up is being forgiving to yourself, this is how to do it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 04:19 PM
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Thank you I'm gonna need to read this multiple times.....
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 03:00 PM
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Thank you for your words. I do struggle with this thinking- if I accept that the relationship was never genuine, I end up feeling bad that I believed there was love in a lie..? I hate for the end of undermine the past, and I want to be able to trust myself instead of seeing myself as a fool.. not sure how to proceed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 02:53 PM
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Definitely lvm. Hvm should see women's traumas and ability to survive as a source of strength and deep understanding- not as a means to take advantage of vulnerability
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 04:48 AM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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