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| 5 | Fitness: a single 12 kg (26 lb) kettlebell is your friendFor the weight question, it depends on how much you can already handle! I just got a 26 lbs one and it's right in between kinda light/too heavy depending on the workout. I could do a little heaver for swings but I'm working on perfecting my form with it and for one armed swings it's too heavy at the moment. And if you do find yourself outgrowing the weight you can keep it for higher reps and stamina based workouts. As for other/upper body workouts you can do rows, military presses, bottoms-up,… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/08/19 05:38 PM |
| 6 | Potential prospect seems too comfortable letting me pay. Bad sign?I see. From your past I could see how it would be alarming. When I first started dating my partner I paid on occasion to make sure he knew I wasn't dating him for free food/events and he appreciated that. I think it's nice to offer and if he had only given the option to repay for the ticket it would be a bit different, but his segue into future dates seemed like a smooth way to accept and appreciate your offer and show interest. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/07/19 05:35 PM |
| 39 | Potential prospect seems too comfortable letting me pay. Bad sign?I don't think it's a bad sign. I took it as his way of flirting to say that he wants to go on more dates with you in the future. As the other person said, don't offer if you don't really want to pay. He might accept so he isn't insulting you by refusing all the time. It was nice that you offered and I think the way he responded was appropriate for someone who is interested in you and wants to see you again. | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/07/19 04:31 PM |
| 7 | Examples of admiring your man?Your second paragraph really hit close to home! We recently had a conversation where he voiced how my blanket compliments made him feel good but also put a pressure on him to not fall off the pedestal. I love that he felt comfortable to tell me that and now we're working on being more thoughtful with words in a way that allows for growth and freedom to be human. I'm glad to hear that it's working well in your relationship and makes me even more excited to keep practicing it in mine! | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/04/19 01:12 AM |
| 27 | Examples of admiring your man?Early on I had a habit of sneaking loooooong peeks at him when we were out walking somewhere because I thought he was so attractive. He'd call me out sometimes and I was proud to say I was checking him out and he blushed every time. Later he told me that he loved when I did that and knew that if I ever stopped that I must not like him as much and he would need to fix it. Haha. I still do it and he still teases me. On a more personal level, I always tell him how proud I am of how hard he works … | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/04/19 08:32 PM |
| 6 | How Did You Attract Your SO and Hold His Interest?It is difficult but you have to practice and try your best! I can be a chameleon and change my demeanor depending on the situation, but it took a while to learn what those are for me. My baseline is always to be a good listener which leads to asking questions and finding ways to keep the conversation going. I'm also witty and have a sharp sense of humor so that works well. As far as keeping his attention I became genuinely interested in the things he was interested in, but to a point; I never fo… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/03/19 07:51 PM |
| 22 | Pet names/terms of endearment?I go for "handsome" if I'm straying away from something too cutesy. "Babe" is the most natural thing that comes out verbally and "love" is one that I text often. | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/03/19 09:12 PM |
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