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It is a women’s issue. Cause he’s speaking I’ll of women. So you stfu
/r/MensRights26/08/22 03:37 AM
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If they’ve been in relationships with those people that is a totally different story though. You could be in your 30s and have been with easily 20 people since 15. It’s not uncommon (as odd as I personally find it) Why does body count hurt men’s pride so much but the second women say they don’t like men who’ve been with more than 10 people, men get judgmental and say they need to get used to it because you’re likely not gonna find a man who’s been with less? I see it all the time. Women have to …
/r/MensRights25/08/22 08:40 PM
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Yup pretty much. Cause he’s a douche and I hope they arrest him in Romania after finding those two American and Romanian women in his house
/r/MensRights25/08/22 08:36 PM
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That is a fair point. However, I don’t think it’s fair to judge anyone based on their body count. If you’re attracted to someone I don’t see why something like that should stop you from pursuing a relationship. I always believe that personality is the best quality to look for. And I’ll stand by that
/r/MensRights25/08/22 08:35 PM
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This is a fucking women’s issue. Young boys are being influenced by this son of a bitch that women should be beaten. That is a fucking women’s issue. Because we have to see, hear and experience that. Boys and men can have better places to go and people to listen to. Like Jordan Peterson. They should definitely have a safe space. But Andrew Tate is not the place to find it and no one should be able to access it. I do understand the importance of men’s health because I have to see the man I love m…
/r/MensRights25/08/22 08:26 PM
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Oh so men are free to sleep around but as soon as us women start sleeping around you don’t find us attractive anymore? Think about how much of a douchebag you actually sound like there
/r/MensRights25/08/22 08:17 PM
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It’s called needing sleep. Not angry. I just am disgusted that anyone can say Tate has the freedom to speak however he wants without any consequences. Also I am on meds 😂 don’t assume everything
/r/MensRights25/08/22 01:43 PM
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According to Tate a man can sleep with as many women as he wants and still “be the man” and then “if a woman sleeps with 20 men she loses value”. That is literally quoting what he said. No taking it out of context. And he did not say a man should do OF with a woman. Here. Perhaps this will clear it up for you https://youtu.be/HmTgjxSJ8Xg I’m willing to bet my life that Tate fucking threatened or paid those women off to say that. Are you even looking at facial expressions, or just heard what they…
/r/MensRights25/08/22 01:41 PM
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I don’t know shit about men’s issues? Dude you don’t know my life. I’ve seen plenty that has taught me about men’s issues. So YOI shut the fuck up. I don’t care if you think Tate is correct. The issue is you think he should have the right to speak freely and influence boys. Did you know that he ran to Romania because it’s easier to get absolved of rape charges? Authorities raided his house due to suspicion of sex trafficking are it is now under investigation after they found a Romanian AND an Am…
/r/MensRights25/08/22 01:35 PM
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Okay take it from someone with experience, that’s NOT what bdsm looks like
/r/MensRights25/08/22 01:25 PM
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Oh no. I have all the data bi have enough that tells me he’s a total douchebag. And I stopped watching because NORMAL children don’t hit other kids with a fucking lunchbox and NORMAL FATHERS don’t suggest that shit either. This guy was showing psychotic tendencies as a kid and I didn’t want to listen to anymore of how he picked up on this kind of behavior
/r/MensRights25/08/22 01:22 PM
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That is what is quite literally very obvious. Resolving violence with violence in terms of CHILDREN you moron. I thought that was quite obvious but apparently I have to dumb down a lot for you. I don’t really care. Again. I don’t really care. You’re a perfectionist but I’m not. I don’t care if a quarter of the way wouldve been more convenient for you. I really don’t. Seriously. You must be young
/r/MensRights25/08/22 01:19 PM
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When a parent smiles at you for something like that, that is saying they are proud of you And yes you are being picky. I’m not gonna be completely exact and say I got 1/18 of the way through the video. Im gonna say I didn’t even get halfway through. But if it would make you feel better, then fine. I didn’t get even a quarter way through the video
/r/MensRights25/08/22 03:40 AM
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Okay then what is your opinion on Tate?
/r/MensRights25/08/22 03:38 AM
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Oh but you most certainly did have all the data despite never hearing the things I told you about into sent you videos? It’s not a hyperbole. There ARE dozens of videos of Tate hating women. And it has been shown that 80% of viewers find Tate deplorable and state so in the comments. Tell me, how is it that dozens of videos are all being taken out of context by quite literally billions of people, yet it’s the minority, people like you, that are right? And it’s not opinion that men and women like …
/r/MensRights25/08/22 03:13 AM
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I never implied I got halfway through. I said I couldn’t even get halfway through. Never lied or exaggerated. It was the truth. I didn’t even get halfway through
/r/MensRights25/08/22 03:05 AM
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I can’t believe there are actually people that will defend Tate. The idea is beyond me. The other day my fiancé and I were watching him talk about Islam and I watched it all the way through, somehow, but my fiancé had to stop halfway through. He couldn’t take listening to it at all. He was disgusted. The fact that you can sit there and tell me that DOZENS of videos are being taken out of context is beyond me. If it were one that’s be one thing. But you’re telling me that DOZENS of videos are bei…
/r/MensRights25/08/22 02:58 AM
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It’s not my opinion. It’s what I’m fucking seeing. And most rational people see exactly what I do. You’re fucking weird
/r/MensRights25/08/22 02:36 AM
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No. No I’m mad. I’m mad because I’m wondering what kind of piece of shit you have to be to actually defend Tate and his views. He’s a woman hating son of a bitch and you’d rather look at the “good” things he’s said and ignore the bad. You can’t judge someone’s character without looking at both. And in this case, the bad faaar outweighs the good
/r/MensRights25/08/22 02:18 AM
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I did get to that one yes. And your response to Tate calling women property was “he only said that in one video”. So that makes it okay?! What the fuck is wrong with you?
/r/MensRights25/08/22 02:17 AM
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No. I couldn’t get halfway through it. I stopped as soon as his dad said he was PROUD of him for beating another student. You don’t resolve violence with violence. He should’ve gone to a fucking teacher. And I literally sent you a fucking video where Tate said “there doesn’t even have to be sex. Well go to the bedroom and I’ll just start beating your ass” how can that be taken out of context hm? Fuck off with you And yeah. I do like JP. Because while he does talk about traditional homes, he’s al…
/r/MensRights25/08/22 02:16 AM
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Have you seen the one where he said any woman taking a self defense class should stop and it should be illegal? And no. Not all of his videos about beating women were in the context of the woman hitting first. And are you fucking kidding me with that? He literally said he would BEAT her and kick her ass and choke her. He is a threat to women and to society. Don’t fucking have kids. Cause I’d be terrified that if someone like you who fucking SUPPORTS Tate, has daughters who think that being treat…
/r/MensRights25/08/22 02:12 AM
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Oh so because someone defends him and says he’s great that suddenly dismisses every disgusting thing he’s said? And I’m really not gonna take someone’s word over what I have heard from HIM in videos. And did you even look at ANY of the videos I sent you? Or do you still think he’s a woman worshipper?
/r/MensRights25/08/22 02:06 AM
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Go watch a few of Andrew Tate’s videos. Educate yourself before you have the audacity to talk about something. Because if you haven’t even watched him, you have no idea what you’re talking about. And even if the people who are censoring him are bad, I don’t really care. Things like this should not be out there for people to see and be influenced by. And Tate isn’t helping men who have been hurt. He is infecting their minds with a disgusting ideology. Women belong in the kitchen. Women are made f…
/r/MensRights25/08/22 12:18 AM
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If you’d like I could find you lots of videos
/r/MensRights24/08/22 11:51 PM
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And how exactly is there a gentler take on what Tate is saying? Simply slapping a woman when she doesn’t want to have sex? Tell me how there is someone with the same view and a better wording? There’s no “better wording” for views like Tate’s. His view is fucked up plain and simple
/r/MensRights24/08/22 11:33 PM
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When something is telling people that they should beat anyone who isn’t in the mood for sex, no. No one should have access to it and no one should be allowed to post that kind of shit. Would you say the same thing about a sociopath who plans to kill his whole family? Or a sex trafficker who has been kidnapping and selling little kids? No. Because it’s a sick and twisted mindset. Andrew rates mindset is just as sick and twisted. And dangerous. Someone like that infects the minds of our current ge…
/r/MensRights24/08/22 10:20 PM
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Also no. I have seen plenty of men on here who say that it is actually women who commit more violent crimes. Lots of men on here actually
/r/MensRights24/08/22 10:12 PM
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The problem obviously isn’t that you agree with him because it’s clear you don’t. The problem is you are justifying him by saying women are to blame for it. It’s simply not true. We aren’t to blame. You CANNOT justify his “becoming” this way because of women “controlling dating”. You say “he wouldn’t have to be this way if it wasn’t for the games” NO! He doesn’t have to be this way AT ALL! You don’t have to be an abusive son of a bitch just because a few women played games with you. And if you d…
/r/MensRights24/08/22 10:11 PM
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Exactly. He does talk about traditional jokes, but he also talks about progressiveness and that it is okay if the woman works while the man takes care of the house and kids. He doesn’t look down upon or belittle it
/r/MensRights24/08/22 09:41 PM
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You know. Men hate it when women blame men for the things they suffer through. You’re doing the same thing feminists do and blaming women for men like Tate. You can’t blame others for your problems. Tate didn’t have to become a douche because of being treated poorly, if he really was. He could’ve risen above it. But he CHOSE not too. And NOTHING Tate says is hilarious. That’s like saying feminists saying kill all men is hilarious. None of it is! It’s all disgusting. Also, even IF Tate was treate…
/r/MensRights24/08/22 09:39 PM
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Peterson is fucking amazing. He is supportive of women’s and men’s rights. He’s an egalitarian which I love. And it doesn’t hurt that he’s funny as well
/r/MensRights24/08/22 09:27 PM
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The problem is that he’s sharing his views and young boys are eating it up. My baby brother, he’s not even 11. And he has said many similar things to Tate. I’m starting to suspect whether Tate it where he got it. And he talks that way to me. He talks that way to my little sister. He talks that way to our own fucking mother. Just a few weeks ago he told me that my fiancé should smack me to the ground and beat me and put me in my place. No 11 year old talks that way. It’s learned behavior. So no. …
/r/MensRights24/08/22 09:25 PM
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Okay but think about the reverse. If we don’t ban people like Andrew Tate, while it might EVENTUALLY help men to realize that Tate is not the answer to all their problems and they need to find a healthier outlet, some have to deal with this backlash. We have to listen to the men who currently agree with Tate, we have to see him on social media. And no one, neither men nor women, deserve to see that horse shit. I don’t want to see Tate keep being allowed to post his videos just because society sh…
/r/MensRights24/08/22 09:20 PM
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I don’t like the extreme feminists myself and find KAM deplorable. But to the men saying that Tate is just the male version of an extreme feminist, it’s no excuse. People like that, both men and women, are terrifying. The fact that there are feminist versions of Tate doesn’t justify anything. Both sides are disgusting. I would never think to emasculate my fiancé or physically hurt him. And I don’t deserve to be beaten and choked because I’m not in the mood for sex. No one deserves that kind of t…
/r/MensRights23/08/22 03:40 PM
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Unfortunately he does…he thinks he’s below average and thinks it makes him less of a man…I’ve tried to convince him that that’s definitely not the case but he doesn’t agree with me. It’s hard. I just want him to be happy with himself you know?
/r/MensRights21/08/22 07:47 PM
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That’s a difficult one to answer. Yes and no. I’m more of a humanitarian. I see where both sides have advantages and disadvantages
/r/MensRights20/08/22 12:16 PM
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I’m sorry but if my fiancé listened and agreed (key word AND agreed) I would break up with him. If he listened to Andrew Tate just for the hell of it I wouldn’t care. But if he agreed, I would leave. I have dealt with too much misogyny in my life. I follow people who are sexist. I listen to it. But I don’t agree with it which is key. If my fiancé wants to follow someone who’s sexist and listen to them then I don’t care. But actually AGREEING with someone like Andrew tate? Fuck no. I refuse to br…
/r/MensRights19/08/22 05:35 PM
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It’s okay. It just strengthened my desire to one day have kids. But having kids is definitely not for everyone and instead of making abortions illegal, if you know you never want kids then I think the better option is to get a hysterectomy or vasectomy
/r/MensRights12/08/22 02:56 AM
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My fiancé has always been self conscious of his size. And he thinks he doesn’t pleasure me. I’d say based on statistics it seems he’s around average. But to be honest I never cared. I really didn’t. And I don’t. I fell in love with him, not his dick. I love him for him. And he has a beard but honestly I love him with it without the beard. Having a beard he looks older than he does without. So maybe in his 40s he’ll shave. I don’t know. And I don’t really care. Either way he’s still the sexiest m…
/r/MensRights11/08/22 08:45 PM
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If either parent is abusive then I think it’s best to keep the kids away from that one parent as much as possible. However, placing children with one parent over another simply based on statistic is not right. If both parents are all there mentally and capable of being good parents then I believe in joint custody completely. But, and I’d say this is the average was doing better with single mothers as well, placing the kids with a specific parent just because the average amount of children do bet…
/r/MensRights11/08/22 08:40 PM
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I’ll be honest. I want kids more than anything. I think that desire has only increased since my miscarriage last year. But, getting my tubes tied has been a thought occasionally. I grew up a pipeliner’s daughter. These hard times hitting everyone now? I’ve seen them in my dads line of work. Almost none of this is new to me. I grew up knowing that others like my family were out on the streets. So when covid hit I knew that even more would end up living out of their vehicles. Little kids. And I br…
/r/MensRights11/08/22 08:35 PM
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I’m pro life so…I don’t really know what to say about this tbh. I’ll word it as best as I can. A man can want a baby and the woman will abort it anyway, unfortunately. A man can not want a baby and the woman has the right to keep it. Either way the woman has ALL the say. If a woman can make the decision to have an abortion despite her partner wanting the baby, then I do think it’s only fair that a man has the right to be financially absolved if the woman chooses to keep the baby and not put the …
/r/MensRights09/08/22 03:23 AM
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Again. Not fucking comparing. I am using it as an EXAMPLE as to how women suffer when you say women DONT suffer. And yes. I brought up that a lot of countries don’t conscript, because YOU argued that EVERY country conscripts and EVERY country conscripts ONLY men. I was simply informing you on the actual facts so that you didn’t mislead people. The country I am going to live in doesnt conscript at all! Also, I’m not part of the feminist group. I’m only part of the MRA sub and that’s IT. I am not …
/r/MensRights06/08/22 05:43 PM
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I am going to DM you. I’m sick of this conversation here
/r/MensRights06/08/22 05:27 PM
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No. I’m saying that when a man chooses to take on multiple wives then he’s choosing to live by the standards set for men in the Middle East. He could resist and not take multiple wives. It’s disgusting that a man can take multiple wives. And I am a humanitarian. I see how both men and women suffer. In some countries it’s more men than women and in others it’s more women than men. I’m not changing anything to suit my “ideology”. I don’t have an ideology. I’m simply stating facts. I’m not comparin…
/r/MensRights06/08/22 05:22 PM
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I’m not a feminist actually. I’m a humanitarian. And again you bring up the US as being a big male conscripting country. Yes. They do. And it’s sad and it shouldn’t be allowed. Yes. There are other countries that only conscript men. But if you actually did your research you would see countries, many countries, where BOTH genders are conscripted, or where there is NO conscription. It’s not a lie to feed an agenda. It’s pure facts. You rely heavily on the US being a male conscripting country, but …
/r/MensRights06/08/22 04:52 PM
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Yeah no I agree. I’m just saying I see it on both sides where one thinks they have it worse than the other. Well you see the same thing with individual people. One person thinks they have it so much worse than everybody else. It’s not a healthy mindset. But yeah I see people on both side, both feminism and MRA where they think they have it worse than the other gender. It’s more common with feminism for sure. But I definitely see it on both ends. I just wish everyone could realize that no one has…
/r/MensRights06/08/22 04:19 PM
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Not everywhere in the world uses conscription. Most European countries are split. Either they don’t conscript or they conscript BOTH men AND women. And yes there are a few countries, such as Finland, that only conscript men. But on that topic, there are middle eastern countries where a man is allowed to have unlimited wives and yet if a woman sleeps with any man other than her husband she can be STONED to DEATH. Tell me where you see a country that does that to men
/r/MensRights06/08/22 04:16 PM
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No one should try to prove that one sex suffers more than the other. This isn’t a competition for who has it worse. Each gender suffers
/r/MensRights06/08/22 01:18 AM
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No it doesn’t. It shows one side of the spectrum
/r/MensRights01/08/22 04:37 PM
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This is all female in male. If you want good evidence then you need to show compassion and not just point out one side
/r/MensRights01/08/22 01:27 PM
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And you do?
/r/MensRights31/07/22 05:24 AM
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I think I ranted more😂 sorry about that. But no I totally get you. My uncle was an unwilling draftee in Vietnam and was exposed to agent orange (a chemical gas they used heavily and many soldiers were exposed to in Vietnam). 5 years ago we got the news that he’d developed cancer due to exposure to agent orange and he died 6 weeks later. He was my favorite uncle. I don’t wanna see other people go through that too. The draft should be done away with
/r/MensRights31/07/22 05:22 AM
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Thank you! I completely get the conscription thing. And honestly it makes me mad that feminists are pushing for women to be conscripted too instead of fighting to do away with it altogether. My uncle was drafted in Vietnam and ended up being dishonorably discharged due to desertion. He was an air force sniper so he saw action. And he never once talked about Vietnam. The draft is inhumane in my opinion. And like where my fiancé is from? He’s from the Netherlands and men over there aren’t forced t…
/r/MensRights30/07/22 01:56 PM
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Well they do. If only they were all caught half as much as you believe they are
/r/MensRights30/07/22 01:52 PM
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So you’re going to argue the fact of why male teachers get off but slam female teachers that get off? You’re fucked up. Blackmail is very illegal yes. But I’m literally telling you that male teachers get off for it almost as much as women and you’re arguing basically in favor of that? Fuck. You
/r/MensRights30/07/22 05:17 AM
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I almost don’t want to have kids. I’m terrified of any son I have going through something like this. And I’m terrified of any daughter I have being raped as I have. (I know men can be raped I’m just speaking from something of personal experience as a woman)
/r/MensRights30/07/22 12:13 AM
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Does your wife tell you how many people are also blackmailed to keep it from reaching civil court? I cannot tell you the amount of times that’s happened
/r/MensRights29/07/22 11:21 PM
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I do agree that if a male child is raped it’s definitely downplayed more. However. Both male and female teachers rarely get more than a slap on the wrist IF that even. Now ten years ago? I agree. The system was a lot harsher on male teachers than female. But these days? At most, teachers are fired but are free to teach in other places. It’s rare anymore to see ANY teacher, male or female, locked up for the rape of a minor. And I speak from experience on what I saw in high school just a short yea…
/r/MensRights29/07/22 09:41 PM
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Thank you!
/r/MensRights29/07/22 07:34 PM
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Hm I hate to be that person. But the rape of a female student carried out by a male teacher does not go as often punished as people think. Just in my state alone I can think of three teachers (and mind you I live in a small state with smaller schools) that have had male teachers who’ve gone unpunished or very moderately punished. One teacher, he’s still at the school where he’s had 15 lawsuits within the last five years. One, was only punished after ten years and the district only fired him. He …
/r/MensRights29/07/22 07:32 PM
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Should just be shown to every middle school and high school student. My sister had a friend who was being groomed by their high school teacher. She was 15. And what happened to the teacher? Nothing. He was fired but he can still teach and is now a high school teacher in another town. And the worst part? He and his wife have an adopted seven year old daughter. I try not to think of his daughter will one day be another victim. Makes me sick to think about. Too many high school students think that …
/r/MensRights29/07/22 07:24 PM
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But shouldn’t women still have the option to take on such jobs if that’s what they wish? The “men do this and women do that” is just as unfair to men as it is to women when you really think about it. I’ve seen a growing number of men that detest taking on the more dangerous jobs while women want to be the CEO of a big company, and “complain” that women aren’t taking on more dangerous jobs themselves. But if we were to go back to the old way of living then we’d go back to ONLY men doing the dange…
/r/MensRights29/07/22 07:07 PM
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I can actually get on board with a domestic abuse register as long as women will be required to adhere to it as well
/r/MensRights29/07/22 06:59 PM
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Boy ain’t that the truth. My father was wrongfully accused of child abuse in his first marriage and had his kids taken away. Hasn’t seen them in 25 years. My mother was abusive towards me and my sister and my dad doesn’t believe me when I tell him about it
/r/MensRights29/07/22 06:58 PM
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Tell that to any woman who was raised in a very religious home. And I’m not just talking about Muslim either. I’m talking Christian. The inequality is horrific.
/r/MensRights29/07/22 06:38 PM
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I’d say it’s equal. We don’t go through the same things so obviously there are differences. But I would definitely not say that women have it any better or worse than men. Nor do men have it better or worse
/r/MensRights29/07/22 06:36 PM
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I hate hearing my friends say shit like this so much. Like they have brothers and dads. It’s sad. I always bite my tongue cause you can’t convince people otherwise. But like. Personally im getting married in a few weeks and yesterday my sister said sometimes you gotta take a break from the boy toy. Okay only im allowed to refer to him that way and it’s only with him and he knows that im only kidding and don’t see him as a boy toy. But from anyone else? It’s rude and disgusting. Seriously, I get …
/r/MensRights29/07/22 06:26 PM
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If you wanna keep talking then read the damn dm. Otherwise, stop
/r/MensRights28/07/22 06:23 PM
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Dude you are beyond rude
/r/MensRights28/07/22 05:50 PM
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That’s awesome! Thank you!
/r/MensRights28/07/22 08:37 AM
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So so true! All these women complaining about how all that men want to do is drink, watch football and say bros before hoes. Meanwhile my fiancé: “hold me!” “You’re not my hoe, you’re my princess and you come before anyone” “the sounds sloths make are just the cutest how can you not love them?” Such a big baby and I love him. I’ve met tons of men who are big softies. Now the ones who are sports junkies who watch every game on Sunday with a beer and say bros before hoes are really annoying af but…
/r/MensRights28/07/22 05:10 AM
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Are you giving classes? My fiancé and I are struggling right now and any help would be really appreciated. Unrelated to the post discussion. But I would love to be able to do that. Have a paid off house and live off of investments. But I couldn’t live remaining an unemployed SAHM one day so I want to open my own business. Do you have any advice on how to plan out in such a way, or what to invest in/how much? It’s something we’ve both talked about but neither of us has much experience with invest…
/r/MensRights28/07/22 05:04 AM
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Glad I’m not a feminist. My fiancé has actually considered going and living in the mountains with just me and no contact with his friends. Not that I actually want that. I’m just glad I make him feel comfortable and happy. And yeah no joke. He actually has said that before that he wants us to go live in the mountains with no human contact aside from each other, fully meaning it too
/r/MensRights28/07/22 04:57 AM
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Rubbing someone’s, whether it’s a man or woman, in the crotch even after they persist to get you to stop is NOT rude. It’s disgusting and sexual assault. Molestation at minimal. You have issues dude. First thinking women don’t go through shit and now calling this rude? Wtf is wrong with you?
/r/MensRights28/07/22 04:35 AM
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He was trying to touch her pussy. Even through clothes that is molesting someone
/r/MensRights28/07/22 04:29 AM
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So true! I was sexually abused by my step great-grandfather for 3 years. Never raped me. But he touched me in places he should not have
/r/MensRights28/07/22 04:28 AM
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Then I don’t wanna hear anymore sob stories from men either. Nothing about how their wife cheated on them, how they stayed and then cried about it when their wife miraculously cheated on them again. No sob stories of how they have to pay child support because they got their kids taken away. None of it. Men and women both go through shit. Each one of us has the right to talk about what we’ve been through. Don’t tell me to shut up. Because as unfortunate as it is, my story does contribute to a sta…
/r/MensRights28/07/22 04:24 AM
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I’m gonna dm you cause this actually really pisses me off
/r/MensRights28/07/22 04:14 AM
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Considering that in the past and even in the present in America at least, women just had to say they were raped and people would believe her? Yes. It is what would be considered advanced
/r/MensRights27/07/22 10:21 PM
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So again. You say men go through hardships and I don’t know what it’s like to be a man. You’re one hundred percent right. Men do go through hardships and I don’t know what it’s like. But I could say the same to YOU. Women go through hardships and you have no idea what it’s like to be a woman
/r/MensRights27/07/22 10:20 PM
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Never made it a sob story. And I used my phone em story because while it does happen to most women and girls in my area, I’m not at liberty to discuss what’s happened to them. That’s not my right. All I’m saying is the area I grew up in is very sexist against women. I never said it made men evil. I would never say that because, while sexist, I still love the men in my family, and here in 7 weeks I’m marrying a man. But I see men talk about THEIR personal experiences on this page and THEY don’t g…
/r/MensRights26/07/22 05:09 PM
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I was referring in terms of sexism. I didn’t think it was necessary to make that clear but apparently it is. So I’ll go change it
/r/MensRights26/07/22 02:09 PM
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That’s not discrimination of men. It has nothing to do with sexism
/r/MensRights26/07/22 01:38 PM
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Okay honestly? I’m done talking. You think women don’t face discrimination which is a total lie. I have no interest in conversing anymore
/r/MensRights26/07/22 05:27 AM
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Nope. It is discrimination. Cause I know what I have personally faced. But I know other women, friends of mine, who have faced discrimination based on their being female. However I am not at Liberty to talk about that as one: not my story, two: I can’t share their personal experience in the same way they could. But what has happened to me is very common for many other women in my state. Sickeningly common. The town I grew up in? 5,000 people. 15 girls have been raped in the last 3 years. City a …
/r/MensRights26/07/22 03:54 AM
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Okay well that’s a lie. But whatever. Also, did you know that there are movements, large movements, trying to implement sharia law in America? And say what you want, but if you say sharia law isn’t discriminatory then you’re full of it
/r/MensRights26/07/22 03:42 AM
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Haha that’s funny as fuck. Also kinda sad. Means mom hasn’t played a huge impactful part in your daughter’s life. Bitch deserved to be forgotten, your daughter should’ve had a good mother though.
/r/MensRights26/07/22 02:47 AM
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Haha that’s funny as fuck. Also kinda sad. Means mom hasn’t played a huge impactful part in your daughter’s life. Bitch deserved to be forgotten, your daughter should’ve had a good mother though.
/r/MensRights26/07/22 02:47 AM
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Woman here. Personally, my fiancé and I aren’t raising any children here in America. He’s dutch so we’re going back to the Netherlands. In my opinion, for almost every reason imaginable, america is one of the worst countries to raise children in. It’s horrible. It’s a third world country disguised as a first world country. And yeah. Custody battles here are atrocious. I have no doubt my fiancé and I will last. I really think we will. But heaven forbid if we do end up divorced and there are kids …
/r/MensRights26/07/22 02:44 AM
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Woman here. Personally, my fiancé and I aren’t raising any children here in America. He’s dutch so we’re going back to the Netherlands. In my opinion, for almost every reason imaginable, america is one of the worst countries to raise children in. It’s horrible. It’s a third world country disguised as a first world country. And yeah. Custody battles here are atrocious. I have no doubt my fiancé and I will last. I really think we will. But heaven forbid if we do end up divorced and there are kids …
/r/MensRights26/07/22 02:43 AM
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Yeah. In Sweden. That has nothing to do with the Netherlands. My fiancé is dutch. Has only been out of the country once. But was born and raised there. He has never had any gender bias against him. And he’s never seen it elsewhere within the country either. If anything it’s very advanced. An example: The Netherlands is very strict with rape accusations. In some cases this is a bad thing because you can’t always provide proof. But the Netherlands requires solid, concrete proof if a woman or man w…
/r/MensRights26/07/22 02:21 AM
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I grew up in a family that loved discriminating women. My great grandmother? Told my parents to try again. My grandfather literally tried to make me and my sister more like boys when we were growing up. The first time I wore makeup he made me feel ashamed by wiping his finger across my face and sneering at it. I went and washed it off. I constantly felt the need when I was a kid to prove to boys that I was just as tough and could take care of myself. I had men and a woman that thought they could…
/r/MensRights26/07/22 02:14 AM
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Women don’t face discrimination? Okay. Thank you for that. Thank you for saying I did not grow up discriminated as a woman at all.
/r/MensRights25/07/22 10:06 PM
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Well that settles it. America is definitely not a developed country because both of those are prevalent here. However, the Netherlands is a very developed country and I never saw any kind of sexism there
/r/MensRights25/07/22 09:53 PM
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I’m pro life so I think abortion is wrong altogether. To abort a baby based on gender is both wrong because it’s a human life, and sexist. I think you can be allowed to have a preference. And your feelings should be validated if when you find out the gender it’s not what you were imagining. Because when you have a preference, you imagine what it’ll be like with them. So as long as you don’t allow it to affect your love for the child, I even think it’s alright to be disappointed. But to abort? Th…
/r/MensRights23/07/22 04:03 AM
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I’ve never seen those movies but I’ll make sure to check them out
/r/MensRights19/07/22 02:11 AM
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It actually wasn’t one that I picked out. My senior year of high school my theatre teacher put it on for us. I just automatically fell in love with it. And I felt like I could really relate to it too. Because like tony, my dad always went on the road for work. And like his family, my family was heavily looked down upon because were not only mixed race (swedish and Native American) but also because were a pipelining family and pipelining families are seen as poor and disgusting. Undesirables I gu…
/r/MensRights19/07/22 01:45 AM
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Honestly I don’t blame you. Living in hotels isn’t pleasant. I lived in hotel rooms with my parents until I was almost 3 and I remember it quite vividly. It’s a struggle. Sad that so many men do live in hotel rooms. I remember when my family and I settled down, my dad worked on the pipeline and was gone two months at a time for work. Four year old me knew he wasn’t warm and even somewhat safe in a hotel room, but that he was instead sleeping in his car, with no form of heat except his carhartt j…
/r/MensRights19/07/22 01:25 AM
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Wow. That is a really interesting perspective. I never really thought about it that way but I can definitely see where you’re coming from
/r/MensRights19/07/22 01:16 AM
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That is such an amazing movie. I absolutely loved it. But it made me cry
/r/MensRights19/07/22 01:15 AM
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I think the pursuit of happiness and collateral beauty both have amazing male portrayals. Both star will Smith as the lead role. Pursuit of happiness is tough. It’s about a father who’s wife leaves him when things become difficult financially. And she leaves him to care alone for their young son. He tried to sell monitors for a living. And barely manages to get by. Before finally landing on the last one, unable to sell it. With no other form of income, he and his son live on the streets. He goes…
/r/MensRights19/07/22 01:13 AM
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Personally, I’m here cause I think we need men’s and women’s rights. I’m more of an old fashioned feminist. I don’t agree with anything in modern feminism. But I do think we still need it. And I feel the same way about men’s rights which is why I am here. I want a good perspective on both so that I can find a good balance. To be completely honest, there are some men on here that I have found to be just as bad as over at the feminist subs. They gate keep pretty hard and I’ve seen quite a few men …
/r/MensRights17/07/22 07:59 PM
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Dude. The Mayo Clinic has literally been debunked by so many doctors out there
/r/MensRights14/07/22 05:35 PM
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You’re welcome to think that. But I still think I’m gonna take the word off a doctor I spoke with face to face
/r/MensRights13/07/22 06:06 PM
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Hilarious to be lectured by someone who believes they’re more educated than a doctor
/r/MensRights09/07/22 07:08 PM
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Okay. I’m going to stay listening to your word over the word of medical professionals who I have heard from directly. Tell me now. Is there a god to believe in? Should I believe in him too?
/r/MensRights06/07/22 05:52 PM
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I’m just gonna take it that you’re talking out of your ass
/r/MensRights06/07/22 05:50 PM
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So you’re saying I would take pleasure in knowing my son would be tied down?
/r/MensRights06/07/22 04:53 AM
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My fetish?! Fuck you. I don’t have any sadistic fetish. My fiancé has convinced me that it would be for the best. I don’t take a sick pleasure in knowing that they tie infant boys or anything like that. Fuck you dude
/r/MensRights06/07/22 04:10 AM
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Okay stop calling me a Karen. I’m not being a Karen. I’m giving scientific facts. Sue me. And I’m not disagreeing with reality. I’m not even disagreeing with you. I just don’t think you’re being very open minded. There’s a difference
/r/MensRights06/07/22 04:05 AM
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Not what medical professionals say but okay
/r/MensRights06/07/22 04:04 AM
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You’re not even willing to listen though
/r/MensRights06/07/22 01:12 AM
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I ain’t the one who thinks I’m right and anyone disagreeing is wrong. Because I have clearly stated I do understand many men’s stance against it. You however, have no open mind to a persorganen differs from your own
/r/MensRights06/07/22 12:12 AM
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Just as the male version of a feminist, you appear to be as arrogantly assertive in that you’re always right and anyone who disagrees HAS to be wrong. How very unsurprising. Also, I’m not a feminist
/r/MensRights06/07/22 12:11 AM
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I’ve never read that anywhere. Never heard it anywhere. There’s another guys on here who said that it does and he’s not even circumcised so I’m not really gonna trust this thread all that much
/r/MensRights06/07/22 12:10 AM
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🤷🏼‍♀️ okay whatever
/r/MensRights06/07/22 12:09 AM
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😴😴😴
/r/MensRights04/07/22 04:54 PM
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😴😴😴
/r/MensRights04/07/22 04:53 PM
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As I said. My parents have tried their damndest. But again, you can’t make someone listen if they don’t want to. And you can only try so hard before it turns into physical abuse. Which from my dad it actually has before. So they are not at fault anymore at this point. My brother is. He’s ten and needs to learn to take responsibility. So let me get this straight. I’m making up the health benefits of CIRCUMCISION, but there are most definitely health benefits to having an infant girl’s clitoris cu…
/r/MensRights04/07/22 04:31 PM
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Haha okay bro. I’m just saying this because I haven’t read medical article after medical article and talked about it with actual medical professionals. Not at all
/r/MensRights04/07/22 04:27 PM
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It would take away from her sexual gratification though. Significantly
/r/MensRights04/07/22 04:26 PM
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Hahaha okay bro
/r/MensRights04/07/22 04:23 PM
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Huh I’m done with this dude. You’re as bad as a feminist. And if you think men can’t be as bad as feminists, you are so very wrong. You’re about as annoying as feminists are and it’s so fucking annoying and toxic as fuck
/r/MensRights04/07/22 04:22 PM
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Okay bro. I call everyone bro
/r/MensRights04/07/22 04:20 PM
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I’m not a parent. And please don’t call me that
/r/MensRights04/07/22 04:19 PM
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I never said I don’t think men shower. I said MY BROTHER doesn’t shower. So my parents made the right call in having him circumcised. And you can never know if your child will end up not showering a lot so it’s better to be safe than sorry. Haha I don’t think men shower? My fiancé showers once, sometimes even twice a day. I know plenty of men who do. I never said I don’t think men shower you dumbass
/r/MensRights04/07/22 04:19 PM
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I’m not a parent. That’s my brother. So I’m his sister not his parent. Maybe read? Anyway, great for your family in not having been circumcised. I don’t really care. My parents aren’t bad parents, my brother is what society calls the difficult child. More than likely he’s literally going to end up in prison one day. Part of me almost hopes he does because he such a horrible kid. And that’s not the fault of my parents at all. They tried with him. And he doesn’t want to listen. You can’t make some…
/r/MensRights04/07/22 04:17 PM
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I live in a house thank you very much. And again, some kids just don’t want or just can’t be taught no matter how much you try to ram it into their heads
/r/MensRights04/07/22 06:20 AM
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Well you still made yourself the fool by assuming I was the other pro choice. Still can’t stop laughing at that. And sometimes, kids are just impossible to teach. So it’s better to be safe than sorry. And for my baby brother, that’s exactly how it turned out. He doesn’t want to learn, doesn’t listen, nothing. So my parents made the right call for him
/r/MensRights04/07/22 06:19 AM
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My brother is ten. My parents don’t Chang who’s underwear for him. And they can’t very well just force him too in any way. And he doesn’t take regular showers either. He has been told BY DOCTORS that it’s only due to having been circumcised that he hasn’t ended up in the hospital yet for poor genital hygiene
/r/MensRights04/07/22 06:00 AM
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Who said I was for the “my body my choice”? You literally just made yourself a fool there cause I’m prolife. Very strict prolife too. I was over the moon when the bill to make abortion illegal was passed in my state. Maybe don’t assume that every woman is pro choice? Cause I’m actually of the opinion that men deserve just as much of a voice as to the subject of abortion. So yes, it works vice versa. I believe men have a say in all. And I believe women have a say in all. I’m sorry I just can’t st…
/r/MensRights04/07/22 05:58 AM
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Okay🤷🏼‍♀️ have a great day my guy
/r/MensRights04/07/22 05:55 AM
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I used to self harm so I have many many scars on my body. And if anything they’re more sensitive than the parts of my skin that don’t have scars. And I do have some nerve damage in my mouth. Those are obviously two completely different circumstances though. Scars increase sensitivity. Nerve damage all but destroys any feeling. So you can’t really compare the two
/r/MensRights04/07/22 05:54 AM
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But the difference is men and women are completely different. With men it does in fact have healthy benefits. For example my baby brother. If he hadn’t been circumcised as an infant, he now, as a ten year old, would have a urinary infection due to not changing his underwear frequently. That’s SCIENCE. With women there are ZERO health benefits to cutting off the clitoris. All it does is make it harder than it already is for a woman to orgasm and that’s IT. Nothing else. Nothing more. And as I hav…
/r/MensRights04/07/22 05:52 AM
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Okay whatever bro😂
/r/MensRights04/07/22 05:45 AM
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So my fiancé is a disgusting person?
/r/MensRights03/07/22 04:48 PM
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Okay that came out worse than actually intended. What I meant by that was. You make it sound like there is no reason for it. But there is. Plenty of reasons. HEALTH reasons. And valid ones at that. To name one, urinary infections. While it doesn’t prevent completely against them, it does significantly lower the risk. It’s a damn good thing my baby brother had a circumcision as an infant cause otherwise he would’ve ended up in the hospital on multiple occasions due to not changing his underwear. …
/r/MensRights03/07/22 04:47 PM
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Women and men are completely different. Cutting off a woman’s clitoris has NO health benefits while circumcising boys does. And it was my fiancé who convinced me that if we had sons at all that we should circumcise them. Before I met him I was actually against circumcision. But of course IM the bad guy right? You know I don’t believe in men not having a say about a woman’s body. I think they should be allowed just as much of a say about abortion as women do. So I don’t believe that women have no…
/r/MensRights03/07/22 04:40 PM
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Probably not. But that doesn’t mean I’m gonna go around revealing every single little detail about my fiancé’s condition. That wouldn’t be right or moral
/r/MensRights03/07/22 04:36 PM
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Not to the same extent it would a woman. It’s not unusual for it to take a woman up to an hour to orgasm and that WITH her genitals intact. Cutting off the clitoris, you might as well tell her she’ll never have an orgasm in her life. Waiting over half an hour can be very painful and after that, by the time we orgasm, it’s not even pleasurable. We just don’t want to be left hanging so it feels more like an obligation to try and finish. God it has taken me an hour before and I was exhausted. Didn’…
/r/MensRights03/07/22 04:35 PM
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If my baby brother hadn’t been circumcised as an infant then he would have had multiple urinary infections by now because he rarely changes his underwear. I’d say given the fact you can’t predict those kinds of things with kids, it’s better to be safe rather than sorry
/r/MensRights03/07/22 04:31 PM
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Never said “trust me bro” I just said he can’t and I stayed that I can’t give the specific reason as to why because that is very personal
/r/MensRights03/07/22 04:29 PM
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It’s not my personal preference. It’s what I’ve researched. I am unbiased in this situation and I look at it from an unbiased view so I can see the facts. Also I’m pro life so that trick doesn’t work on me
/r/MensRights03/07/22 04:28 PM
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Because he’s basically demonizing circumcision and while it is a traumatic experience for infant boys, it’s not the worst thing in the world
/r/MensRights03/07/22 04:26 PM
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Women take long enough as it is. It has taken me up to a fucking hour as it is. I have very rarely heard of that issue with a man who’s been circumcised.
/r/MensRights03/07/22 04:25 PM
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So only feminists can be “lacking in skepticism”? My fiancé’s not a feminist either, but he’s the most skeptical person I know and yet he has even more trust in doctors than I do. So what would you say to him about that? Does that make him a “feminist” or a stupid man? Seriously, your sexism is sickening. I have already stated that I do understand why more men are turning against circumcision, but for my fiancé and I it would be the decision WE would make for OUR kids and you’re acting like it’s…
/r/MensRights03/07/22 04:19 PM
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If you’re in the most red state in America then are you in wyoming? Because from what I’ve seen, women here adore their male relatives and friends as well
/r/MensRights03/07/22 04:14 PM
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Personally I’d like to see more women in dangerous jobs. But I also grew up seeing my dad in the oil field where a lot (and often times his best) welder helpers were women. So yeah
/r/MensRights02/07/22 12:36 PM
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I’m a damn adult and I’m getting on bc. Like gees get over it. Also, please don’t just call me woman. I don’t invalidate or berate you by calling you man do I? No Even still, I think I’ll trust certified doctors who have been in the field for 20+ years
/r/MensRights02/07/22 01:38 AM
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Oh so you’re a doctor now? You know what doctors study and how they study it?
/r/MensRights01/07/22 11:28 PM
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Doctors haven’t done their research and you have? This is exactly what I mean by self qualified. If I needed an operation should I trust you because you’ve done your research, or the doctor who has spent at least 10 years preparing for said surgery?
/r/MensRights30/06/22 12:33 AM
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Again, you say doctors are wrong. But who are you that I should actually believe you? I’m sorry, if you’re American, I’m definitely trusting a European doctor over you. You can’t just randomly say doctors are wrong. If you look something up on one side then you’re going to get results from that side. “Does finasteride actually cause cancer” you’re going to get results that say it doesn’t. “What benefits does finasteride have” then you will get results for that. You’re getting the answers you fin…
/r/MensRights30/06/22 12:16 AM
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Okay. Great. But it doesn’t take away your ability to reproduce or feel sexual pleasure during a climax (again except for in extreme cases). And while cutting off the clitoris wouldn’t take away a woman’s ability to reproduce either? But it would take away her ability to climax and this feel any real sexual gratification
/r/MensRights29/06/22 03:08 AM
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I said can’t. Not won’t. He would choose to get circumcised if he could. But medically he is unable to. He has even said himself that if we ever have sons, then they should be circumcised. Being non-circumcised didn’t offer benefits for my fiancé and he has said it would be different for him if he had been. He’s done his research on that, AND he’s been told that by his doctor
/r/MensRights29/06/22 03:06 AM
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Yes typically he could. But if you read any of my older comments you will literally see where I say he can’t for medical reasons
/r/MensRights29/06/22 03:00 AM
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It is. Because that girl will then never be able to have an orgasm in her life. Ever. Not ever. There’s no chance she will. And in doing that you ARE taking something away. You’re not taking away a man’s ability to reproduce (except in rare cases when there is a fuck up but that’s rare)
/r/MensRights29/06/22 02:59 AM
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It does have benefits. I’ve literally spoken to a doctor about this. I think I’m going to trust the doctor over some rando online. They literally do not chop your dick off you drama queen. You know what genital mitigation they’re starting to do to infant girls? Cutting off the clitoris. So those girls will never be able to have an orgasm. I’m not a feminist. I actually hate feminists. But I have my own reasons aside from what my fiancé has been through for supporting circumcision. Also, I’m not …
/r/MensRights29/06/22 02:58 AM
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No. I said fiancé because that’s who I was talking about. And I didn’t share the whole story. I said he wasn’t circumcised and for personal reasons he wishes he was and has made up his mind that if we have sons then they will be circumcised. I didn’t give anything further for anyone to suspect anything. But I gave enough
/r/MensRights29/06/22 02:54 AM
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You know. There are still some people with morals left on this god forsaken planet and I happen to be one of them thank you very much. I’d appreciate if you not say I’m “hiding behind morality” because I’m not. I respect my fiancé I am an honest person I’m loyal I’m prolife I can keep things in confidence I hold doors open for older people I’m a very moral person. And while I can be vague to relate my fiancé’s personal life to this discussion, my morals are most definitely going to keep me from …
/r/MensRights29/06/22 02:52 AM
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I’m not trying to at all. I literally just said I’m not sharing his story. Are you reading at all? I’m not sharing his story. And I don’t care about points. What affect do those have on my personal life? None. So why the fuck would I give a damn?
/r/MensRights29/06/22 02:46 AM
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Go and do you’re research then. Better yet, go talk to a fucking doctor and even they can tell you. You’re only against it because they tie babies down to do the procedure and see it as trying to change them entirely. And I get being against it because being tied down can cause trauma and it’s very gruesome. But my god
/r/MensRights29/06/22 02:45 AM
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No because those aren’t mine to share. I can be vague. But out of courtesy and respect for the man I love I’m not going to share his personal life
/r/MensRights29/06/22 02:44 AM
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No he can’t
/r/MensRights29/06/22 02:43 AM
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Okay. Anything else you’d like to say? Look. I made a statement. I can’t get into detail. Plain and simple. It’s a very personal matter that just shouldn’t be discussed in depth. So sorry that offends you
/r/MensRights29/06/22 02:43 AM
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Like everyone else on Reddit? I’m not trying to be rude. I’m trying to be vague in someone’s experience while also sharing it
/r/MensRights29/06/22 02:41 AM
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Shouldn’t you know if you’re an expert?
/r/MensRights29/06/22 02:41 AM
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Okay don’t believe me. I don’t have anything to prove or justify to you
/r/MensRights29/06/22 02:40 AM
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Good for you
/r/MensRights29/06/22 02:40 AM
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Hm shouldn’t you know that already? If you know oh so much about it yourself
/r/MensRights29/06/22 02:40 AM
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Perhaps not. But still. There are some things that just shouldn’t be shared widely. I can be vague. But I’m not getting into detail
/r/MensRights29/06/22 02:39 AM
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Again, I can’t get into specifics. But there are reasons why he can’t get circumcised now
/r/MensRights29/06/22 02:38 AM
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I didn’t think it was😕
/r/MensRights29/06/22 02:37 AM
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Not something I don’t wanna talk about. Something I can’t talk about. I can be vague. I’m not gonna spill every personal detail though
/r/MensRights28/06/22 07:38 PM
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I do. Not making it up. It’s just personal reasons that it is not my place to specify
/r/MensRights28/06/22 06:07 PM
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I even literally fucking said I understand why men are against it
/r/MensRights28/06/22 05:21 PM
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What? Circumcision is not chopping your dick off. And I literally said my fiancé supports it as well. I’m not encouraging. I hate what they do to infant boys during the procedure. But I’m not being a cock nazi. I know what circumcision is as I have little brothers and I changed their diapers as babies. Still had their dicks. How dumb do you think I am?
/r/MensRights28/06/22 05:19 PM
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No actually. He can’t get circumcised
/r/MensRights28/06/22 05:13 PM
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I don’t think you’ve done a lot of research. My fiancé has because he suffers consequences from not having the procedure
/r/MensRights28/06/22 05:10 PM
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Personal reasons
/r/MensRights28/06/22 04:51 PM
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My fiancé’s mother decided not to have him circumcised and he hates it. And with a very good reason too. In talking about it, we’ve agreed that if we ever have a son then he’ll be circumcised. I don’t like what they do during the process. But considering the benefits…but I do understand why so many men are against circumcision
/r/MensRights28/06/22 04:46 PM
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No problem!🙂
/r/MensRights25/06/22 09:01 PM
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Makes sense
/r/MensRights25/06/22 08:56 PM
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Yes there is. When you have an abortion you are killing an innocent baby
/r/MensRights25/06/22 08:55 PM
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I am prolife with two exceptions to abortion: rape and incest. Other than that, you spread your legs so don’t ask if you can take the life of a human YOU could’ve prevented from creating in the first place
/r/MensRights25/06/22 08:51 PM
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The difference is preventing pregnancy isn’t killing a baby
/r/MensRights25/06/22 04:43 PM
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Yes! Preach! I always hear women say that if a man doesn’t want kids then he should either have a vasectomy or not have sex so it should be the same for women. If they don’t want kids then they should either get a UID, have their tubes tied, or not have sex either
/r/MensRights25/06/22 03:55 AM
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Yeah and that has been my thought on it as well, if rape allegations would go up. And of course I don’t want to see that happen and haven’t thought up a solution for that. But I say in cases of rape because the situation itself is traumatizing enough, I can’t imagine carrying a baby on top of it you know?
/r/MensRights25/06/22 12:59 AM
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Why? Because society has been so cooperative with men’s right to choose? Society has said that if a man doesn’t want to risk being stuck with child support then he shouldn’t have sex. Now it’s just the same for women. If they don’t want to be stuck with a child they didn’t want then they shouldn’t have sex. What has given women the right to choose all these years but not men? Men didn’t get to choose so why should women? More importantly, why do you seem to think that women’s “right” should come…
/r/MensRights24/06/22 04:53 PM
2

Entitled. That’s the first word that came to my mind
/r/MensRights22/06/22 09:52 PM
1

I honestly didn’t even read the site name. Just saw the title and took interest. But don’t attack me for something so simple. I didn’t do anything to you
/r/MensRights21/06/22 01:07 AM
1

I just got lost when they brought up Christianity. Like seriously, going great until you had to mention Christianity. No but seriously, love my dad. He’s amazing and has really helped me these last few months especially. And one day I know my fiancé is going to be an amazing dad as well
/r/MensRights20/06/22 08:27 PM
5

While your mom might be legally right, she’s still a bitch. Your friend WAS raped
/r/MensRights20/06/22 08:15 PM
2

Thank you. And yeah I wish it worked out for more people. Men deserve pleasure just as much as women. And I think for women a factor into why they don’t give foreplay as much is because they’re self conscious about it, fearing their partner won’t like it. I was like that for the first week with my fiancé when we finally got to be together physically. But I think a reason I adapted so quickly was because my fiancé and I had already been together for almost five years. Obviously I don’t know other…
/r/MensRights20/06/22 01:50 AM
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Okay😂 sorry it’s just my comment also seems to have gotten a single downvote so I wasn’t sure. Sorry about that. Again, just hard to tell over media. But I’m glad it made you squee😊
/r/MensRights19/06/22 08:37 PM
1

Are you being sarcastic? Sorry it’s just hard to tell…
/r/MensRights19/06/22 08:34 PM
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I love foreplay with my fiancé. Now he’s absolutely amazing and a total natural. It’s taken me a bit of learning because I went through a lot of sexual abuse as a kid and he’s my first relationship. But after we finally met in person I actually felt like it came naturally. I loved to come up behind him and rub his shoulders and kiss his neck, or pin him down on the bed and grind against him while kissing his chest. One that he found particularly hot was gently sucking his fingers. Foreplay is be…
/r/MensRights19/06/22 07:59 PM
1

Maybe it wasn’t run by the head engineer what they were doing to promote their next team leader and he had to step in and be more professional. Cause voting in based on favoritism isn’t very professional itself. I mean I guess it’s possible she could have shown more efficiency that the other interns missed. Just because you have more years experience doesn’t necessarily mean you’ll be better at that job than someone else. So it could be the head engineer found a skill set in her that fit the job…
/r/MensRights19/06/22 04:59 AM
2

Yeah personally I don’t get that. Personally im an old fashioned feminist. I have been rejected job opportunities just for being a woman and I was raised in a family where having a son was important to everyone. When I was born my great-grandmother told my parents to try again and that they’d do better next time. And that’s not right at all. On the other hand though, I still think we need men’s rights. Because women’s rights are no longer about women’s rights, they’re about taking men’s rights a…
/r/MensRights19/06/22 04:19 AM
1

I don’t drink a lot to be honest. Just here and there when I need it.
/r/MensRights19/06/22 12:06 AM
1

Being raped is never the victim’s fault.
/r/MensRights19/06/22 12:04 AM
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Who is that lady to speak for women like this? I don’t drink because I live in a sexist society. I drink because my work (which is all female employees btw because few men in my town take interest in working at a library) stresses me the fuck out. I drink because I have GAD which is a mental issue. I drink because I dislike myself, not because of “societal expectations of what a woman is” but because my family made me the black sheep. I drink to get away from reality for a few minutes. I don’t d…
/r/MensRights18/06/22 11:33 PM
1

Yeah in America. But I think you’re forgetting that I’m most European either no one is required to join the military, or both men and women are required to join the military. But that wasn’t what my comment was about at all. You make it sound like my comment was sexist and not thought out but it was. Men do still have the right to vote even if they have to enlist. But again remember, this is America. It’s completely different in europe
/r/MensRights17/06/22 09:01 PM
3

Well and like something my fiancé plan is we might be coming into some money here before long so we would like to start our own business. I always wanted to open a bakery and he had had some interest in doing so as well. So if we can I would like for us to just have our business and both be able to work and get equal amounts of time with our kids and even get them involved with the business when they’re older
/r/MensRights17/06/22 04:29 PM
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Yeah I don’t understand what the problem is with this at all. I want to work and my fiancé wants to be a stay at home dad and we’re on the same page that that’s what we want. I don’t see him as less of a man for wanting to stay at home dad and he doesn’t see me as being less of a good future mother for not wanting to stay home. I just don’t get it
/r/MensRights17/06/22 03:45 AM
5

Okay the football enthusiast is the only thing I agree with on this. Maybe it’s just cause I’ve had bad experiences with football players/enthusiasts. So idk. But all the rest? My fiancé is NOT a drunkard, he hardly even drinks at all and has NEVER in 23 years been drunk. He’s not a liar, thoughtless, selfish, clumsy and definitely not unmanly. He is heavy- footed but can’t help that. And the only thing about him that needs taming is his hair cause he got some curly ass hair lmfao. The thing I’v…
/r/MensRights17/06/22 03:42 AM
1

I am so so sorry. That is so horrible. How old is your daughter if I may ask? If she’s in her teens then perhaps they could listen to what she wants.
/r/MensRights17/06/22 02:51 AM
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Well I wouldn’t say always. I mean originally it was intended to gain equal rights for women. The right to vote, work, gain custody of children. The issue came when women gained all of those rights. It wasn’t enough. Suddenly men voting at all was sexist. Men in the workforce was a threat. And now most courts will hand custody of children into the hands of women on a silver platter. Feminism wasn’t intended to be misandristic. It only became that way after 1977, and only became really noticeable…
/r/MensRights17/06/22 02:41 AM
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I’m giving my dad his gist for my wedding on Father’s Day…now he may not have always been the best father, but he’s my dad and I love him and he’s walking me down the aisle come 3 months. This is just such a sad statement. Way to make all the fathers out there feel appreciated little missy
/r/MensRights07/06/22 02:49 AM
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This is absolutely awful. Especially for those poor little kids who now have to grow up without a father. I remember watching my father drink his life away until I was 7. He finally cleaned up then. But before I was born, he lost a custody battle with his ex for his two sons. He hasn’t seen them in 24 years now. But not long after he lost he tried to take his life, bull riding with his hands tied behind his back. He was lucky to have survived. But losing that custody battle, losing his parental …
/r/MensRights06/06/22 04:33 PM
1

This is absolutely awful. Especially for those poor little kids who now have to grow up without a father. I remember watching my father drink his life away until I was 7. He finally cleaned up then. But before I was born, he lost a custody battle with his ex for his two sons. He hasn’t seen them in 24 years now. But not long after he lost he tried to take his life, bull riding with his hands tied behind his back. He was lucky to have survived. But losing that custody battle, losing his parental …
/r/MensRights06/06/22 04:01 PM
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Okay let me provide an example of why feminism means that to her. So personally, I don’t find anyone ugly. I may not be attracted to everyone, obviously I’m not, but I don’t like to think of anyone as being ugly. I find it quite a slanderous word. But just because I don’t find anyone ugly, doesn’t mean someone else feels the same way. They may find a lot of people ugly. But to me, ugly refers to someone’s personality and that’s all. It means something different to literally everyone. No one is g…
/r/MensRights21/04/22 12:41 PM
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If I was saying nothing in your opinion then you simply did not want to hear it nor did you read very carefully or with an open mind
/r/MensRights19/04/22 12:22 PM
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Again, missing my point entirely. I never suggested making closed groups inclusive at all. Simply meant attending inclusive groups should be encouraged. Now I’m really done here because you are almost as bad as feminists
/r/MensRights18/04/22 11:56 PM
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Again I agree. To a certain extent. Should they be allowed? Absolutely. But caution and openness needs to be exercised properly as well to prevent extremities from occurring. And inclusiveness should be encoded as well
/r/MensRights18/04/22 11:28 PM
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Huh I’m not going through this anymore. I have explained it very very clearly. I’m not gonna keep going around in circles with you anymore. It’s very annoying I was literally talking about what you are and you’re just refusing to see that
/r/MensRights18/04/22 05:41 PM
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I already brought up how it can be harmful. It is because of having a female only suicide group therapy in one city that men were not only barred, but called sexist for wanting to have their own suicide prevention group. That was a cause of gender specific. And in that way it is harmful. And again this was a point I already brought up so maybe go back through and look for it
/r/MensRights18/04/22 05:12 PM
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As I said. I don’t think they’re inherently bad. But. Do think that they can eventually reach a point of bringing more harm than good
/r/MensRights18/04/22 03:23 PM
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Oh absolutely. I think gay parents is perfectly fine. But then they could go through adoption or something. Because so many parents will change their mind during a surrogacy if there are any deformities to the child. And I don’t think that risk should be taken let alone allowed
/r/MensRights18/04/22 01:19 PM
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Absolutely not. I don’t think women should have exclusive spaces. Because having those it’s what’s brought so much harm to men in the first place. Those spaces are what barred those men from getting help for suicide. So yes, I believe exclusive female or male dishes bring more harm than good. Used as a stepping stone? That’s one thing. But sticking to it and not growing is harmful to society
/r/MensRights18/04/22 04:01 AM
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I don’t support women only anymore than I support men only. Why can’t I be in between? Also I work in a library and no guy in my town want to work in a library so all my coworkers are women. Unfortunately And just cause I’m not a man doesn’t mean I can’t be in this subreddit. I see men in the female subreddit. I think it’s beneficial for both sides to share their thoughts
/r/MensRights18/04/22 03:56 AM
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I think what one guy in this thread brought up is right. I think gender specific groups should be more stepping stones. Allow them to open up to their own gender and realize it’s okay to be vulnerable, and then move up to inclusive groups. Because inclusive groups are helpful to both sides. Getting a new perspective can change your outlook entirely
/r/MensRights18/04/22 03:53 AM
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If we say things like that then we’re just going to keep saying it and not see it actually become something. Why does it have to be “at every other” or “at something else”? That is quite an ignorant take
/r/MensRights17/04/22 11:01 PM
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I hate the concept of what it has become. But I don’t inherently think they’re bad. Sorry about my phrasing
/r/MensRights17/04/22 11:00 PM
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I saw it a lot growing up, my mom might be great now but she treated people, including my dad, much differently while I was growing up. I didn’t want to be that person. It’s really sad to see and know that most relationships aren’t as healthy as what me and my man have worked for. And I mean yeah. It’s a lot of work. But it is very much worth it
/r/MensRights17/04/22 09:59 PM
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And that to me is so mind boggling. I want to be my fiancé’s safe space. The person he can talk to without a fear of being judged. It just is so shocking to me that so many other women out there don’t want to offer that to their men. I genuinely don’t understand it at all
/r/MensRights17/04/22 09:53 PM
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I see where you’re coming from. That actually makes a lot of sense. I have to say tho, I find it especially sad when married men are ashamed about opening up and being vulnerable. That to me tells me their wives are not very supportive of them. I couldn’t imagine doing that to my fiancé. And I have 4 brothers, and I couldn’t imagine women treating them like that either.
/r/MensRights17/04/22 09:44 PM
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I never said they’re bad. But while in some cases they may very well be beneficial, they tend to hurt the general public. Like suicide groups. Most suicide awareness groups are designated for women only, and men have been barred from having their own suicide therapy groups. And having a female only therapy group is not beneficial to women either. They don’t get to see the struggles of men which seeing how individuals struggle can open us up a lot mentally speaking. If that makes sense?
/r/MensRights17/04/22 09:39 PM
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I mean I do understand that just cause it worked for us doesn’t mean that it’ll work for anyone else. But I was just using it as an example. Everyone can learn and everyone can change. I think women can learn to be more attentive to men, it just might take some work. But maybe I’m too optimistic
/r/MensRights17/04/22 09:36 PM
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😂 im sorry I shouldn’t be laughing but that’s too funny
/r/MensRights17/04/22 05:46 PM
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Gotcha
/r/MensRights17/04/22 05:30 PM
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You are completely right. The process of having a marrow baby allows for their to be only a woman and no man involved whatsoever. The thing about it is it’s having a child through an unnatural process which leads to birth defects. A marrow baby can only be female, so it is with that that women are hoping to completely wipe out the male population by having only marrow babies. But it’s like surrogacy. It has consequences. And marrow babies usually die after 2 weeks. Women were not biologically bu…
/r/MensRights17/04/22 05:24 PM
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I mean I do see where you’re coming from. But both genders could take the opportunity to grow from each other as well. If that makes sense. I’ve learned a lot about men’s problems because of listening to my fiancé. And he’s learned a lot about women’s problems because of listening to me. If everyone, from both sides, could be taught to keep a more open mind, I do truly believe it would be better for the world you know? Why am I being downvoted for this? Both sides need to listen to each other mo…
/r/MensRights17/04/22 05:00 PM
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I mean I do see where you’re coming from. But both genders could take the opportunity to grow from each other as well. If that makes sense. I’ve learned a lot about men’s problems because of listening to my fiancé. And he’s learned a lot about women’s problems because of listening to me. If everyone, from both sides, could be taught to keep a more open mind, I do truly believe it would be better for the world you know?
/r/MensRights17/04/22 05:00 PM
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My advice when my guy friends ask me for advice on girls? Be who you really are. Who makes you happy with yourself. Makes you comfortable in your own skin. When I found my fiancé…he was broken. He was lost. And I can’t lie, I was as well. We helped each other grow. We loved each other before we knew who we were, but after we found ourselves we loved each other in a completely new light. I didn’t and don’t want my fiancé to be someone I want him to be. I want him to be who he wants to be. And tha…
/r/MensRights17/04/22 04:56 PM
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Personally, I hate this women-only men-only shit. I think the only thing I can get behind is sexual abuse groups. For men and women alike it might be easier to be separated from the opposite gender when discussing sexual abuse. But maybe that’s just me. Other than that, I think it’s wrong on all levels. This is pretty ridiculous if you ask me
/r/MensRights17/04/22 04:42 PM
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Personally I cant stand for this anymore than I can stand for women having these marrow babies. I don’t think either is right at all. Babies end up with so many birth defects when created in unnatural ways. It’s very sad
/r/MensRights17/04/22 01:31 PM
4

Actually, the more time that passes after having a vasectomy, the less likely the possibility of having it reversed
/r/MensRights15/04/22 06:19 PM
1

See now in my honest opinion, it should be illegal for men and women to walk around public topless. I mean I don’t wanna see a shirtless man anymore than I wanna see a shirtless woman🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/MensRights15/04/22 06:06 PM
1

Oh so that’s why I got banned from those subs. Oh well. If they’re gonna ban me for something so petty then I prefer not to be part of those subs anyway. Cunts
/r/MensRights14/04/22 06:09 AM
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I know I’m more emotional than my fiancé. Not to say he’s emotionless or anything. But like I cry a lot easier than my fiancé. As for emotional intelligence…yeah he’s better at that than me. He’s more in touch with both of us than I am. We balance each other quite well tbh😂
/r/MensRights14/04/22 01:54 AM
1

In the real world? Absolutely not. Guys are arrested more than women. But in the high school I went to at least? Boys got away with it and girls didn’t. I’m just saying this was my experience in high school.
/r/MensRights11/04/22 11:33 PM
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I can’t say this is how every high school is. But I just graduated high school last year and let me just say I am so glad to leave that shithole behind. In my experience, high schools are incredibly sexist against the girls in attendance. They have dress code regulations for the girls that boys don’t have to follow (i.e. no tank tops or short shorts/skirts) meanwhile the boys can wear muscle shirts and short shorts all they do please. Hell they can wear crop tops and get away with it. Passing pe…
/r/MensRights11/04/22 07:42 PM
1

I am pro-life so I am completely against abortion except maybe under the circumstance of rape or incest. But if a man does not want a child should the woman decide to keep the baby, I see no reason why men should be held responsible for the financial support of the child. Women have just as much opportunity to not raise a child they do not want, whether that is to give up all rights to the father (should the father want custody) or by means of adoption. A child has the right to life, and there s…
/r/MensRights07/04/22 05:41 PM
2

True enough. Sad though
/r/MensRights06/04/22 01:14 AM
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I’m a woman and other women call me a misogynist for being pro-life and standing up for it…
/r/MensRights05/04/22 05:49 PM
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I’m a woman and other women call me a misogynist for being pro-life and standing up for it…
/r/MensRights05/04/22 05:49 PM
2

Exactly 😁
/r/MensRights02/04/22 09:34 PM
1

I feel bad because the lady obviously can’t control these delusions and as te for to be hard on her kids. But what she is making that man suffer through is so horrible. He has to protect himself, his kids, her kids, while at the same time he a crutch for her kids as they watch their mother become a person they don’t recognize. It’s sad this man hasn’t gotten the help from the cops that he needs
/r/MensRights02/04/22 08:53 PM
3

You are. Here to give us love😋 sorry bad timing
/r/MensRights02/04/22 05:16 PM
0

Okay bro
/r/MensRights02/04/22 03:21 PM
1

Because I KNOW these women. And I know people say that about everyone who cheats, but like my cousin’s niece, she looks exactly like her dad
/r/MensRights02/04/22 03:21 PM
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Welp I know what I know. Not gonna waste my time trying to convince you
/r/MensRights02/04/22 03:15 PM
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That is just not true. Look it up. Vasectomies are not a guarantee. And these women did NOT cheat
/r/MensRights02/04/22 03:01 PM
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I mean I agree. I see where you’re coming from
/r/MensRights02/04/22 02:31 PM
0

I always grew up with my mom binge grocery shopping. She’d get a bit of everything and then she would be able to have what she needed to make whatever we wanted. Maybe that was just how I grew up though
/r/MensRights02/04/22 02:29 PM
1

I never said men are oppressors. And I never expected men to do all the backbreaking work either. I’m saying all my life I wanted to be part of it and my grandfather doubted my ability because I’m a woman. I had to prove to him that I could do just as much of the heavy lifting as any man before he believed me. But if a man said he could handle something? My grandfather just believed him. I had to work for his approval and to show him I can work just as hard
/r/MensRights02/04/22 02:27 PM
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Not what I meant necessarily. But I also wrote my comment in a moment in of anger
/r/MensRights02/04/22 02:25 PM
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Fair enough
/r/MensRights02/04/22 02:24 PM
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It’s actually not. Now by now, for him it probably is. But a vasectomy is reversible it’s just with the more time that passes the less reversible it becomes. Also a vasectomy is never guaranteed. It is very unreliable. I have a cousin who’s brother-in-law and sister-in-law had a third child despite having a vasectomy after their second. And I have an uncle who still had four kids after having a vasectomy
/r/MensRights02/04/22 02:21 PM
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Well you do have to consider though that it is usually women who do grocery/clothes shopping for their families
/r/MensRights01/04/22 11:48 PM
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I just had to hear from my brother today how much our grandfather “relies” on him despite everyone breaking their backs to take care of our farm so don’t even talk to me about living in a man’s world. I had to prove that I could work just as hard as any man and it still wasn’t enough. Fucking stupid
/r/MensRights01/04/22 11:47 PM
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Definitely was rape
/r/MensRights01/04/22 11:25 PM
2

Understandable. I mean they’re right next to each other so it makes sense
/r/MensRights31/03/22 10:48 PM
2

Yeah my apologies. Got them mixed up😂
/r/MensRights31/03/22 10:45 PM
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Sorry. It was Sweden. My bad😂 they’re right next to each other so I got them mixed up😂😂
/r/MensRights31/03/22 10:42 PM
1

Maybe I’m thinking of another country…I thought it was Finland but maybe it’s another Scandinavian country
/r/MensRights31/03/22 10:40 PM
1

I agree he could’ve used his words instead, but I do understand why he did what he did. It remains, we are on the outside. He have no idea what Smith was thinking in the moment. But I’ll try and make an educated guess. Smith has been struggling in their marriage ever since she cheated on him and even more so since they entered an open marriage, this much we do know. He’s had to take a lot of ridicule for it as well, just look at all the memes and internet postings. My opinion? Again this is simp…
/r/MensRights31/03/22 01:39 PM
1

They have mostly been Reddit posts that I actually did not save. But for example a few weeks ago I saw a post from an 18 year old Ukrainian boy who was angry at women for being able to leave. I’m sorry I can’t give a source. If I had saved the post I would’ve posted the link for it here. But I’ve seen quite a few on here like that
/r/MensRights31/03/22 01:30 PM
1

The question isn’t whether it was right or wrong. But whether it was deserved and it was. And yes. If it were a female comedian she would have it coming just as much
/r/MensRights31/03/22 01:25 PM
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No. I don’t. But I know there times where it’s necessary. High school boys don’t listen to reason. They’re dumb as fuck and dead until someone smacks some sense into them. I don’t like violence, but there are times where it can be necessary
/r/MensRights31/03/22 01:25 PM
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And I bite my tongue in the real world. But there are some things a person does not have to take
/r/MensRights31/03/22 02:32 AM
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No. Both women and men are required to enlist for one year service in Finland after reaching the age of the majority
/r/MensRights31/03/22 02:30 AM
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Let me tell you something. I was the kind of person in high school that didn’t take listening to shit. If I heard someone insult another person, or disrespect a teacher, yeah. I’d smack em. Because sometimes we need some sense smacked into us to realize that our words have an effect
/r/MensRights31/03/22 02:23 AM
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Actually my dad and fiancé both agree he had every right to slap Chris rock. I don’t like violence, but if you’re defending your partner? Then I can’t see any wrong in it. Neither does my fiancé, a man, and my dad
/r/MensRights31/03/22 01:12 AM
3

I’ve had many guy friends who’ve been able to go to college after working at McDonald’s all through high school because they made so much
/r/MensRights30/03/22 05:36 PM
3

That’s okay. Haters gonna hate right?
/r/MensRights30/03/22 05:34 PM
2

While that was definitely true 20 years ago, it’s no longer the truth now. Now I see most guys taking jobs that just make a lot of money, like McDonald’s, and doesn’t include the backbreaking labor
/r/MensRights30/03/22 02:41 PM
1

I’m not saying I’m not willing to understand. What I’m saying is I see the argument on the feminist sub all the time that girls education is suffering while mentioning nothing about boys education. I simply like to make the argument in both that both genders education is suffering
/r/MensRights30/03/22 02:39 PM
1

Yup. Most of them will scratch the answers from their study review into the bottom of their water bottle
/r/MensRights30/03/22 02:36 PM
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I don’t know what generation you grew up in. These days schools don’t care about anyone’s education. My education suffered greatly because of the faults of teachers thinking that education should be a one size fits all when it’s not. I honestly do think you’re looking from all the wrong angles. Everyone’s education is suffering. Not just boys. Not just girls. Boys are allowed to act up. Girls really don’t focus as much as boys would like to believe. Bully’s are allowed to push the weaker kids ar…
/r/MensRights30/03/22 02:25 PM
2

Bro I’m the daughter of a man who worked out in the oil field as a third generation. Trust me, they don’t HAVE to. It’s a choice. In my family, it’s tradition. But my dad did have a choice. And he made his choice to continue the tradition. So no. They don’t have to. They don’t have to anymore than women have to stay home and take care of the kids like many older family members expect them to. It might be an expectation from some people that you go into a certain field, but that doesn’t mean you …
/r/MensRights30/03/22 02:14 PM
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As a woman who grew up in a family that wanted boys but mostly got girls, that boy is gonna have a very very hard life. He’s gonna face a lot of struggles with his parents. And unfortunately, he’s gonna know by the way they act that they never really wanted him. It’s a difficult life. But at least at the end of the article they did say that while they struggled they have bonded with him. There is still hope at least
/r/MensRights30/03/22 02:00 PM
3

Okay. I can, I really can, understand not preferring a boy if you’ve been raped before. But the way they talk about this and how disappointed they were…I mean what if he sees this one day? And I how it feels to grow up unwanted because of your gender. Being the (oldest) of my dads, the first time my great grandmother met me she told my parents to try again and hope for a boy. Carried that statement on through my life as well that the boys in the family were very clearly her favorites. It’s not a…
/r/MensRights30/03/22 02:58 AM
-1

The school system is not for anyone here in America. The year I graduated high school 15 girls had been raped and the school swept them under the rug
/r/MensRights30/03/22 02:43 AM
38

Ain’t hard for me to understand. My fiancé is the same way. He is fairly…cold I suppose you could say, to other people, but the biggest sweetheart and teddy bear to me. Guys like that are to be especially cherished because it means they’re allowing you to see a side of them that no one else gets to see. So no. I get where you’re coming from. And that woman was way out of line
/r/MensRights30/03/22 02:38 AM
0

Black eye? No. Slapping her back? Hell yeah. You got balls enough to hit someone, damn well better expect to get hit back. Giving her a black eye for slapping him though? I think that is a bridge too far tbh Edit: I just realized the post said “if your daughter” As another commenter said, I’d defend my daughter even if she was in the wrong, and I would do the same for my son if roles were reversed. Not a healthy relationship for them to be in if one is gonna slap the other. I wouldn’t dream of r…
/r/MensRights30/03/22 02:18 AM
-1

Well now. Men don’t have to do these jobs either. My dad chose his job in the oil field. He wasn’t forced into it. No one is forced into these jobs, it’s a choice all around. It’s not that women are privileged in this area, it’s just that most women choose to not do these jobs. But plenty still do. My dad had tons of female welder helpers in his 30 years in the oil field
/r/MensRights29/03/22 09:03 PM
17

They sure as hell can be CEOs if they want. My fiancé’s mother started her own business what are you if you start your own business again? Oh yeah. You’re a ceo
/r/MensRights29/03/22 09:00 PM
34

So so true. My dad worked out in the oil field for almost 30 years since he was 15. And he loved it. But he broke his body for it. I swear I never saw someone work as hard or as passionately as him. But I remember being a 5 year old little girl and already knowing the harsh reality that my dad could leave for two months and possibly not come home. A reality no kid should have to know at that age. And I remember that even while I’d give him the cold shoulder when he’d come home (because he was go…
/r/MensRights29/03/22 08:57 PM
2

Yup
/r/MensRights29/03/22 04:15 PM
5

Does she not realize the extreme violence women bring about as well?…
/r/MensRights29/03/22 02:52 PM
1

Yup
/r/MensRights29/03/22 02:37 PM
4

I mean I guess. You have a good point.
/r/MensRights28/03/22 10:21 PM
-4

All I’m saying is we don’t know for sure and should not make judgements. But to make jokes about someone’s spouse isn’t classy at all
/r/MensRights28/03/22 10:06 PM
-4

You don’t know what he was feeling though. If you watch the video he actually doesn’t look comfortable with the joke made at all. Someone insulted his wife. If someone insulted my fiancé I can’t say I would’ve done anything different. I probably would’ve started off with the way Smith ended it (telling Rock not to talk about his wife) and if the person continued then I would’ve done exactly what he did. You don’t make jokes about someone else’s wife/husband like that. I mean it’s just not cool. …
/r/MensRights28/03/22 10:02 PM
1

I have gone to therapy and done some EMDR. But it was always something that just…followed me I suppose. Like a shadow. I started getting flashbacks when I was about 14 and after doing EMDR therapy when I was 17 I was able to I guess confirm it. It’s something I’m open about, but the details are not something I really feel comfortable talking about
/r/MensRights26/03/22 04:19 PM
4

Might be a gen z thing…but my fiancé makes fun of other people for their ages all the time, all in good fun tho!😂
/r/MensRights26/03/22 02:54 PM
5

…is she crazy or some shit?
/r/MensRights26/03/22 02:27 PM
2

This makes me so sick because I was raped by a woman when I was two. Women can be rapists too. Saying they can’t isn’t just “going easy” on them, it’s spitting in the faces of those who have been raped by a woman before
/r/MensRights25/03/22 09:02 PM
5

There is nothing that can be said to justify what this man did. Innocent children. He murdered, brutally murdered, HIS innocent children. And I know he killed himself afterward and of course that shows the extent of his grief, but there is NOTHING that can be said to justify what he did. There is no “I don’t justify what he did but…” or “what he did was wrong but…” no. Mother or father, it doesn’t matter and this should not be posted in the men’s or women’s rights subs. This is not a men’s or wo…
/r/MensRights25/03/22 08:30 PM
3

That’s exactly what I always think about! I can’t help but think “what if this woman has a son?” I mean I could never trash talk my own son. The fact that some of these women who discriminate men probably have sons themselves is disgusting and deplorable
/r/MensRights24/03/22 10:27 PM
1

Ah okay. My bad
/r/MensRights24/03/22 05:55 PM
1

Maybe I’m thinking of another incident, but wasn’t it because of their color? They were white and in a culture inclusive library or something and these two black girls said the stickers on their computers supporting the police was offensive and that because they were white they weren’t suppose to be in the (library). Or am I thinking of another accident?
/r/MensRights24/03/22 04:05 PM
2

It’s such a weird concept to me that my fiancé didn’t grow up seeing sexism in his country. Sure there are the occasional sexists and racists where he’s from, but for the most part it isn’t a thing where he’s from. I grew up with in my immediate community seeing a lot of sexism against women. And upon my introduction to the internet I came across a lot of sexism against men. So I grew up constantly seeing sexism and racism where my fiancé didn’t have that kind of exposure. He knows typical socie…
/r/MensRights23/03/22 09:36 PM
1

This is so disgusting. To think that women like this exist is horrible
/r/MensRights23/03/22 07:33 PM
-7

I agree with you. I really do. Because there are women who are doing just that themselves. They’re taking their kids to a safe location and then returning to fight with their men. But a problem I’m frequently seeing is that these women are being blamed for the conscription and they’re being criminalized for taking their kids out. When it wasn’t then who even wanted that. If they wanted it that why then why would they be returning in the first place Why am I being downvoted? I’m simply stating th…
/r/MensRights22/03/22 10:47 PM
-11

Hi I’m sorry. But you should look up some videos. Even though they were not legally required to, many women only left Ukraine to take their kids to safety but as soon as they did, many of them have gone back to Ukraine to join their men. If you want I can send you a link. Yes there are many MANY single, young women that could’ve stayed behind and didn’t. But don’t discount the women that only left to take their kids to safety and returned to fight with their husbands, fathers, brothers, and even…
/r/MensRights22/03/22 03:51 PM
1

So a little something I wanted to share with you. Women may not be being conscripted in Ukraine. And by the single Ukrainian boys between the ages of 18-25, they have been hating on women for being allowed to leave. Well look up some videos. Those same women who are being shamed, left Ukraine to take their kids to a safe location…but RETURNED to join their men in the war. They didn’t have to. They weren’t being required to. But these women are doing so anyway, despite the shit people are spreadi…
/r/MensRights22/03/22 02:11 PM
14

Idk I’d consider fucking up peoples lives a hobby. They enjoy it, they’re good at it, and if they wear those pussy hats and put billboards up in front of their houses then I’d say they collect shit about feminism as well. All checks out. Sick hypocrites
/r/MensRights22/03/22 01:59 PM
1

I didn’t like how much my fiancé would be gaming. And it really was at a point where he would game so much that it wasn’t just unhealthy for him, but for us as a whole. We never got to spend a lot of time together and when we did he would almost always be paying more attention to the game than to me (which I know might sound selfish but we all need attention in a relationship right?). Anyway, it got to the point where I snapped. He saw the problem too. And has since cut back on how much he games…
/r/MensRights22/03/22 01:57 PM
2

Like I said, it’s a team effort. And it is a fact that these days women often put more on men like it should all be their responsibility. And yes there are men who do the same to women. But the numbers and statistics are quite different. Men, more often than not, are expected to work and provide. Well, I grew up with a working dad and a stay at home mom. Only I very rarely saw my dad cause he was busting his ass working 300 miles away, 36hr days just to put food on the table and a roof over our …
/r/MensRights21/03/22 10:09 PM
2

Oh okay
/r/MensRights21/03/22 01:58 PM
1

Okay I’m not very educated on India, but then isn’t it true that many people over there prefer boys? I have studied before that mother’s will often throw their baby girls into the river to spare them a difficult life as a woman over there. Correct me if I’m wrong though because I have no idea
/r/MensRights21/03/22 01:56 PM
2

It’s just the way we both feel it should be. Not him giving more than me or me giving more than him. And it’s not about equal or fair trade. We do care and we are devoted and the things we do for the other are simply to let them know we care and not to receive something in return🙂
/r/MensRights21/03/22 01:49 PM
0

Wtf. I never had that in school. Granted in my community there is a preference for boys, but that doesn’t mean start teaching this stuff in school when it not a common practice. Plenty of communities want and even prefer girls, my fiancé and I would prefer a daughter when we have kids. But seriously this is so fucking toxic
/r/MensRights21/03/22 01:43 PM
15

So I’ve been a bitch to my fiancé the past few weeks. And he (I’m not gonna say lost it because he really didn’t) but he put it to me bluntly how he felt about it. He apologized for some things he said though that were too harsh. Because he understands that there’s a reason I’ve been a bitch. We’re separated right now. Because we’re from two different countries and had some issues with immigration. After 4.5 years of online dating we finally got to meet…but we’re ripped apart 3 months later. The…
/r/MensRights21/03/22 03:08 AM
3

All I can find to say is I’m so sorry that happened to you. I’m in too much shock to say anything else. It seems like society always wants to do something about people who aren’t even really doing anything wrong, but openly and willingly ignore those who do do something wrong. It’s deplorable
/r/MensRights21/03/22 02:57 AM
2

Is it recent? Huh. I’ve heard it here and there for at least ten years. And it’s not to say it’s a fair standard because it isn’t. But it is a common standard unfortunately
/r/MensRights20/03/22 08:24 AM
-2

I mean I guess. We don’t really focus on rights at all though because they don’t really have an effect on us. My fiancé’s country does require men AND women to sign the draft when they turn 18, but he doesn’t have to worry about ever being drafted because of a family history of mental issues. And I’m a pro lifer so the matter of having a woman’s “right” to have an abortion becoming illegal in more places, does not upset me in the least. And to be honest, gender equality isn’t really a struggle i…
/r/MensRights19/03/22 07:41 PM
2

And that’s true. However in a case of sex that would not make it a threat, you’re right, but it would still make it rape because the other will not have offered it
/r/MensRights17/03/22 02:09 PM
4

So I have reread through your post and I understand where you are coming from. I really do. My apologies for misunderstanding. Can I just address where you mention changing ones mind in the middle. It would be wrong for a person (I say person cause men and women are guilty of this and are both equally capable of rape) to keep it to themselves if they changed their mind and they would be with no right to claim rape. However, if they change their mind, which they should fully be allowed to do, the…
/r/MensRights17/03/22 12:51 AM
-1

Okay yes. I know he said that. But he still made it sound like any other type of coercion would not be a method of inevitable rape
/r/MensRights17/03/22 12:26 AM
0

You argue that coercion for sex is not rape. I argue that it is a branch off of rape. And yes. Her ex was a minor as well. But that doesn’t matter. He coerced her using manipulation and thus raped her. It wasn’t what she wanted. So yes it was raped. Many people would argue that rape cannot occur if the two are married. But if the husband or wife says no and the other forces it, or tries to use manipulation as a means to get sex, then yes. It is 100% rape.
/r/MensRights17/03/22 12:21 AM
5

Exactly!🙂
/r/MensRights16/03/22 04:25 PM
-2

I’m sorry. I just can’t get on board with your mindset. My sister was coerced. Her rapist ex threatened not only her, but us as well. Her family. He threatened to kill all of us if she did not have sex with him. He told her when she was struggling with anorexia that she either had to eat or have sex with him. He threatened to not eat if she didn’t have sex with him. She was a 15 year old girl at the time who felt worn down and alone. And she gave in because of his manipulation. But right in the …
/r/MensRights16/03/22 03:33 PM
22

I always tell my fiancé, I’d marry you if you were sky high rich or dirt poor, ugly as hell or gorgeous as fuck. I love my baby for who he is as a person and for what he has to offer emotionally. I don’t understand how so many other women can hold men to higher standards that are beyond unrealistic.
/r/MensRights16/03/22 03:16 PM
-3

I just have a few comments. So first I just wanna say I don’t support the draft. Not in any form. I think it should be done away with entirely because forcing ANYONE to fight is disgusting. My uncle was drafted in Vietnam. Now yes, he was decorated. But he also deserted because he didn’t want to be there. And because of his desertion he was dishonorably discharged and did not have a military service at his funeral five years ago. Which let it be clear, he died from cancer caused by exposure to a…
/r/MensRights16/03/22 02:35 PM
1

I have a fiancé you fucktard
/r/MensRights16/03/22 01:06 AM
2

I mean…I kind of understand 7 because that’s similar to how I feel about the men that molested me, but it wouldn’t make me feel any better. And 9, I mean if it’s a way out you can see then I get it. I would do anything just to survive and get out of a rape situation. But in my experience, the smart thing isn’t to fight back, but to just wait it out, as tough as it it. But the rest of those sequences…those women are fucked up psychopaths that should be in prison more than likely
/r/MensRights16/03/22 12:18 AM
1

You’re right sweetie. I’m the devil. And you just opened the doorway so now I’m going to fuck with your everyday life until you give me your soul
/r/MensRights16/03/22 12:04 AM
1

It’s rose with thorns you dumbass. And the zzz is for thorns I just changed the s to a z
/r/MensRights15/03/22 11:02 PM
1

This is fucking creepy
/r/MensRights15/03/22 10:23 PM
1

Wtf? Don’t insult my best friend creep
/r/MensRights15/03/22 09:58 PM
1

Okay. I just wanted to ask to be absolutely sure cause I haven’t read anything on the subject
/r/MensRights14/03/22 08:19 PM
2

So fucking stupid
/r/MensRights13/03/22 09:43 PM
1

Just for clarification I have to ask, do you know for an absolute without a question fact that all of them were men? Because I haven’t read on this subject at all so I know nothing about it
/r/MensRights13/03/22 09:35 PM
3

I swear if I didn’t know any better I would think you’re my friend Theron…
/r/MensRights13/03/22 01:54 PM
2

That’s really not okay. If you have a certain dress code then everyone should be required to follow it…
/r/MensRights13/03/22 01:46 PM
1

They’re granted custody more often than women?! Are you fucking kidding me?! I’m sorry I come from a family that was very broken. My dad was married before and had two sons and she accused him of abusing her and my brothers when in all actuality it was her abusing him and my brothers. You know who got custody? She did. You know who most often gets custody of the kids these days? Women. Plain fact. And don’t give me the wage gap bullshit. It exists for two reasons. One, maternity leave. When wome…
/r/MensRights09/03/22 09:47 PM
24

I don’t mean this to sound bad at all, but I I love it when I can do things like this for my fiancé. He’s a strong man, but he’s still human. He still falls. And while my heart hurts to see him fall, I love that I can be that person that’s there to pick him back up. And my dynamic is similar to this gals as well. I’ll try and create some sexual tension. But if he’s not in the mood? I hold him. Just hold him. If he needs to talk, I know that he’ll talk. But if he doesn’t talk, I know that me hold…
/r/MensRights07/03/22 01:18 AM
0

I can mostly get on board with this. I mean I’m pro life so I don’t support abortion at all, but I mean you make a really great argument!👍🏻
/r/MensRights06/03/22 01:01 AM
8

To whoever this lady is: Can you not speak to the rest of us ladies as if we’re all going to agree with you? Because I don’t. Cussing someone out at the work place? For making an unexpected noise? This is not “true feminism” this is exactly what the modern use of the term feminism defines. You don’t get to speak to or for the rest of us gals either, bro. You sound so fucked up
/r/MensRights05/03/22 02:24 AM
1

That’s how YOU feel. You can’t speak for every man. I get pissed when feminists have to assume things about every woman just because THEY grew up a certain way, so I just can’t listen to that same argument here. I can’t
/r/MensRights04/03/22 05:12 AM
1

Just because SHE was that way doesn’t mean every women is. If my fiancé were ever in the military…I wouldn’t be able to sleep. I wouldn’t able to function properly or live properly. I just wouldn’t. And god forbid if he were to die I’d quickly follow. Not all of us are as bad as you think. And those of us who aren’t…yes. We suffer when you suffer. Your pain is ours. Again, please, I am not saying women have it worse. But we all suffer in our own way that is not comparable. And I would argue that…
/r/MensRights04/03/22 05:10 AM
1

I have been saying over and over that I am simply trying to let you see from a different perspective and that I am looking at it from both sides. The point is you make your argument not through a point of being fascinated with my side, but through one where you have no open mind. You are saying men have it worse. I’m saying no one can be considered to have it worse. It is morally wrong to assume anyone has it worse than someone else. And again, my main point isn’t about the women worrying about …
/r/MensRights04/03/22 05:06 AM
1

Have you ever been to war?
/r/MensRights04/03/22 05:04 AM
1

Well you seem to think women aren’t suffering at all which is also an absurd claim. And putting quotes around text is not just exaggerating. It is doing exactly as I said and taking my words out of context. Please don’t do that. I didn’t do anything to warrant it. I’m not attacking you or your opinion in anyway. I’m merely giving more perspective. I never said men were disposable and there is nowhere within my comments that even suggests that. All I’m saying is that from my perspective, in knowi…
/r/MensRights04/03/22 05:03 AM
1

Don’t assume that because I’m a woman I don’t understand and that this is easy for me to argue because it’s not. It’s not easy at all. Please . Please stop
/r/MensRights04/03/22 04:58 AM
1

I never said women suffer more. I simply said there is suffering for them after men die. Please don’t take my words out of context. And please don’t put words in my mouth because I didn’t say 90% of your quoted text I NEVER said men are disposable. Nor would I ever. I just said I know that my fiancé would tell me to leave. I know he would. Not because I would want to leave, but because of his desire to protect. Please can we just stop? I really didn’t mean for this to turn into a fight. I just w…
/r/MensRights04/03/22 04:54 AM
1

Please stop trying to belittle me. I’m not belittling you. I’m honestly just trying to give you a different perspective. Again, I see from both sides. And I’m definitely not saying women are suffering more. But I…you know what? Nevermind. There’s no point having this discussion with you. You’re just going to continue trying to sell me your agenda. I just wish the world would stop for a minute. I wish everyone could see that we don’t have to set these agendas…we’re setting them ourselves. And all…
/r/MensRights04/03/22 04:52 AM
1

Men die more from covid? I’ll have to look into that actually. I’ve never heard that before. But I suppose it would make sense. But again, I’m not saying this because I’m a woman, I’m saying it because I’m so torn. I don’t think either situation is worse. I really don’t. It’s not fair to anyone to say that someone has it worse. It’s like when someone is suffering from suicidal thoughts due to depression. You could argue that someone had it worse, but that would discount their own pain which isn’…
/r/MensRights04/03/22 04:49 AM
1

When you’re dead, you’re dead. There’s nothing. Yes, you might suffer a painful death and I cannot discount that obviously. But after you’re gone there’s none of that suffering there. But those women will be there. They’ll receive the news their husband died and they’re now single mothers. Those children will grow up without their father. Now, I’ll take it from another angle. The women who were without children should have been required to stay behind as well. Vice versa, men who were single fat…
/r/MensRights04/03/22 04:44 AM
1

Please don’t call me a feminist. I’m really not. I’m not saying women have it just as bad or have it worse. I’m saying there’s no comparing the two. Even with getting shot at. It’s still just not comparable in the least. I’m not trying to make it out as if women always have to have it just as bad, I’m really just trying to think in the benefit of human lives in general… And I’m definitely not a feminazi. I really just want people to look from both ends. My fiancé is over in Europe right now. And…
/r/MensRights04/03/22 04:36 AM
1

Look I’m not a feminist and I’m not trying to start an argument. I never meant to anyway. I just don’t think it’s fair to compare pain at all. That’s all I’m saying. You don’t actually know if these women are really safe. You’re not there. They could be getting shot at too. Look, most of the posts in MensRights are ones that I can get behind, just not this one. This one is making out like the women aren’t suffering at all which just isn’t true. And then you come alone and assume that the women d…
/r/MensRights04/03/22 04:29 AM
1

Also, you can call me naive all you want. But it doesn’t change the fact that people are suffering on both ends. The pain is not comparable and it’s not fair of you to assume that it is. That’s all I’m saying
/r/MensRights04/03/22 04:12 AM
1

Please don’t try to tell me what kind of physical pain I went through in being assaulted. I didn’t say that to compare physical pain, I was merely giving it as an example. But that wasn’t the point of this. Both me and my fiancé would argue that not knowing if your loved one is safe or not is more terrifying than facing death in front of you. Again, not to say women are suffering more than men, just personally speaking both of us would prefer to face death occurring before our eyes rather than n…
/r/MensRights04/03/22 04:09 AM
1

If you’re a bot then fuck off. Where I’m from we say scotch free. Oh look at that. Scotch free scotch free scotch free. I’m sure that really makes you mad doesn’t it? Well just know that while it annoys the fuck out of you, it makes me laugh my fucking ass off
/r/MensRights04/03/22 03:46 AM
1

Again, I don’t think it’s so fair to assume. You don’t know how these women love. And I have actually read a shit ton of articles of women risking their lives for their men. It’s not fair to assume that because you don’t see a certain group of women taking these risks, that the whole population of women wouldn’t as well. Also, it’s not fair to really compare physical pain to mental pain. I have been raped and sexually assaulted…and I would take that all over again any day over the time I have to…
/r/MensRights04/03/22 03:44 AM
1

This is why I give my fiancé lots of cuddles and kisses. And usually he prefers being big spoon, but if he’s turned away from me then I hold him instead. He was very deprived of loving touch as a kid so I want him to feel all the love he never got. I was also attention starved as a kid and neglected a lot, so I guess showing him that love is kind of therapeutic for me as well but I do it more for his sake than mine. And I love showing my baby that love😊
/r/MensRights04/03/22 03:32 AM
3

Well now I wouldn’t say that we should discount how hard it probably is for these women though. I don’t know the insurance you’re thinking of so I might be totally off base with the subject at hand. But while I agree that they are not facing the terrors of the front lines, they are still having to leave behind their men with the uncertainty that they will ever see them again. Leaving someone you love behind is the hardest thing you can ever do. I had to leave my fiancé behind a few months ago be…
/r/MensRights03/03/22 03:37 AM
8

I agree with you completely. The order should have been all those physically and socially able, provided they are not caregivers or single parents, should be conscripted. Men and women alike. I have seen too many videos of single fathers being forced to just hand their children over to random women. Like what the actual fuck. During this time you want to separate children from who may be their only parent? It’s deplorable and downright disgusting.
/r/MensRights03/03/22 03:28 AM
19

What the actual fuck? That is so fucked up! Of course men with children should be allowed to leave with their children! Giving them to a random woman?! Who the fuck actually wants to hand their kids off to some random woman?!
/r/MensRights01/03/22 01:38 AM
1

Stupid and sexist
/r/MensRights27/02/22 03:53 AM
1

Of course. Forcing these fathers to stay behind is disgusting and saddening
/r/MensRights26/02/22 07:11 PM
6

They’re difficult goodbyes for sure…I remember when my dad worked the pipeline. I hardly knew him and it got worse with every time he had to leave again. Of course he wasn’t forced to leave, but I do understand how hard it is for these people. They all deserve better
/r/MensRights26/02/22 04:05 AM
1

Exactly
/r/MensRights25/02/22 02:10 PM
6

Do these gals not realize they can actually make a guy go sterile?…
/r/MensRights24/02/22 04:15 PM
3

This angers me so much. It’s like people are convinced that women can’t be pedos. I was raped by a woman when I was 2 so I’m pretty sure women can be pedos. Correct me if I’m wrong though lmfao
/r/MensRights24/02/22 12:10 AM
10

I mean we’ve already made it legal that women shouldn’t be forced to have or take care of a child that she doesn’t want (even though I’m all against abortion) why should men be forced to take care of that child if we don’t hold women to the same expectation?
/r/MensRights23/02/22 05:21 PM
12

This makes me so fucking sick. Women like her should serve the rest of their lives in jail. God I’m absolutely disgusted by her
/r/MensRights22/02/22 05:59 PM
2

It’s okay to hope that she isn’t as well. Plenty of women will just tell you they’re not in the mood if you initiate without asking first. That’s how me and my fiancé worked up to. At first he asked but now he can either read my body language if I freeze during a flashback, or I’ll just tell him I’m not in the mood. So I just suggest asking consent at first I suppose
/r/MensRights21/02/22 04:07 PM
9

Good riddance to the cunt. Hope she rots in prison. But she should be in longer
/r/MensRights21/02/22 03:22 PM
4

I mean this was because of my past with sexual abuse and he was the first I was with consensually, but my fiancé asked permission before he touched me at all the first night we slept together. I actually made the first move, taking his hand and placing it on my chest. He knew that it would be okay to keep touching me there. But he didn’t move his hand on his own. I eventually took his hand and moved it between my legs and that’s where he got more comfortable and asked if he could do other things…
/r/MensRights21/02/22 02:20 PM
5

It’s mostly all in context. And you being a foreigner and English not being your first language, things like this are easy to get lost in translation
/r/MensRights21/02/22 05:36 AM
12

You did absolutely nothing wrong. These women just have a stick up their ass. And they’re probably lying to themselves to be honest. Best night of my life was the first time with my now fiancé because he was the first I was with willingly. But beyond that it was just absolutely amazing. So these women are either lying to you for the sake of their own pride and to come off as the strong woman type, or they’re seriously deprived of something amazing. Just saying
/r/MensRights21/02/22 05:15 AM
4

No problem. You and you’re girlfriend are of course allowed to find other people attractive but she has definitely crossed a line. She straight up insulted you in the worst way possible. Finding other people attractive is one thing, saying that they’re more your type than the person you’re currently with is another thing entirely and you most certainly should not have to tolerate that emotional damage. Sorry, bad time for a meme probably
/r/MensRights21/02/22 01:30 AM
11

God that’s awful. To me my fiancé is the only type for me. I don’t really have a type, but to me he’s just…he’s it you know? He’s mine and that’s all I need. He loves me, he listens, he cares, he’s helpful. I mean him being mine is what makes him my type I guess is what I mean to say if that makes any sense. I don’t really notice the men around me at all. I might notice if they’re attractive, as I know he notices if other women are attractive as well, but neither of us would want to be romantica…
/r/MensRights20/02/22 09:15 PM
-6

My fiancé is uncircumcised and honestly hates that he is. He wishes that his mom had allowed for him to be circumcised. There are actually many benefits from circumcision, and yes there are downsides as well, but that goes both ways. There are downsides to being uncircumcised as well. Neither comes without consequences
/r/MensRights18/02/22 02:22 AM
2

I’ll just name one for each All American men must sign for the draft within 30 days of their 18th birthday The one for women is actually a technical law in my state that no woman follows. To me it’s just funny because it’s one of those forgotten laws that was forgotten about and just not taken off the books. Women are not allowed to stand five feet away from a bar while drinking any alcoholic beverage😂😂😂
/r/MensRights18/02/22 02:20 AM
1

My apologies. I thought you were saying that that the requirement to sign up for selective service was lifted altogether. My apologies for my misunderstanding. However, if you honestly think that it’s a privilege right now to not be required to sign the draft, you would be very sorely mistaken. I don’t expect you to understand, but don’t think that the fact that we aren’t required to sign it is a privilege, or means that we have privilege.
/r/MensRights16/02/22 02:15 AM
1

I mean blunt with something they don’t wanna hear. Like men are typically more physically strong than women. It’s blunt and it’s fact, but feminists don’t like it and are whiny bitches about it
/r/MensRights15/02/22 12:21 PM
1

No it doesn’t. You said that the requirement to sign the draft was listed two years ago and I corrected you cause it hasn’t been revoked. Also, my previous statement was arguing that feminists should to have the requirement revoked instead of fighting for women to sign as well. It’s supporting my statement you dipshit
/r/MensRights15/02/22 04:46 AM
1

What?
/r/MensRights14/02/22 08:30 PM
1

🙄I never said it wasn’t. I said feminists actually have in legislation, a law that will require women to sign the draft as well. They could have fought to do away with the draft entirely and instead they are fighting to require women to sign as well. I think you misread my comment man
/r/MensRights14/02/22 08:09 PM
1

are you just living under a rock? In America, men are still, here in 2022, required by law to sign the draft within 30 days of their 18th birthday.
/r/MensRights14/02/22 07:34 PM
1

Exactly. And she definitely should have gotten that dui. In the town I grew up in she definitely would have
/r/MensRights14/02/22 05:13 PM
3

In a nutshell? Yeah that about sums it’s up
/r/MensRights14/02/22 05:30 AM
0

I haven’t actually. And thanks to feminists who were to dumb to see that we should get rid of the requirement to have men sign the draft altogether, I will probably have to sign the draft before I ever get to vote. Signing the draft should be done away with altogether, but no. Feminists are so fucking stupid. But anyway. Female privilege isn’t existent in every context of nature
/r/MensRights14/02/22 03:42 AM
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Not all women have privilege. I mean sure. A lot do, maybe most even. But I can tell you that I have never, and I know a lot of women who have never, had female privilege. But yeah that gal had no room to complain. Sure it’s creepy (but I am biased because of my past with sexual abuse) but it wasn’t the end of the world.
/r/MensRights14/02/22 03:32 AM
8

I’ve suffered from the effects of feminism and I’m a woman. It is for sure a thousand times worse for men, but let me tell you, for those of us women who aren’t feminists, we are treated like shit. I’m pro-life. To feminists that means I’m misogynistic. I like to hang out with men more than women. To feminists that means I’m a woman hater. Im a tomboy. To feminists that means I’m gay or transgender. Im blunt. To feminists that means I’m not in touch with my feminine side. I want to love and take…
/r/MensRights14/02/22 03:15 AM
3

Now this is true. HOWEVER, while misogyny plays no part in it, it was mostly female witches that were displayed in front of crowds to be burned. The slaughtering of male witches was not as publicized as that of women which is what has made it such a controversial thing of this day. Now in America it was different. Make and female witches were both publicly hung, however not as many men were convicted in America for witchcraft. In Europe? Definitely more men, just wasn’t made as public as that of…
/r/MensRights13/02/22 03:05 AM
2

I baby my fiancé. But he knows it’s just a joke. He babies me too. Is it common for women to condescendingly baby their men though? Cause I’m honestly not familiar with it at all. My fiancé doesn’t trust me to do any cooking and knows that I only clean when something is wrong (not to say I don’t share with him the house chores cause I do, we split the housework). But he was living on his own for a year before we were finally able to meet and live together. He cooks (very very well) clean, does t…
/r/MensRights09/02/22 07:27 PM
2

She was suppose to be a friend of the family
/r/MensRights09/02/22 03:49 PM
2

This really pisses me off. Rape is rape no matter if there is penetration from a male. I was raped by a woman when I was two. She used her fingers. So it wasn’t rape? And what about all the young boys who are raped by their female babysitter? Woman on woman rape is real. Woman on man rape is real. I’m so sick of hearing that only a man can rape another person. It’s a fucking lie
/r/MensRights09/02/22 03:43 PM
9

This makes me so sick. As someone who was raped by a woman, to see that women can not only get away with rape but also not be called a rapist, it sickens me. I hate that so many women get away with rape
/r/MensRights08/02/22 08:19 PM
1

Oh haha that would make more sense
/r/MensRights08/02/22 07:37 PM
1

I’m not too familiar with the idea but I have heard some things about men’s contraception. What I’ve heard though has all been negative. It’s all been about leading to infertility, or at least fertility issues. Personally I’m against contraception for men just because it hasn’t been studied enough. I’m also against forcing men, or saying all men should, get a vasectomy by a certain age. Because while it may be reversible, the longer you go with having a vasectomy the harder it is to reverse and …
/r/MensRights08/02/22 07:05 PM
8

That is such bullshit. My father was one of hundreds of thousands of men who were living homeless, looking for work, during the recession. But there was hardly any work to be found. Statistics actually show that there are more homeless men that are homeless due to not being able to find a job, than for being a drug addict and whatnot. Don’t spread lies
/r/MensRights08/02/22 06:59 PM
0

I definitely see where you are coming from. However I think you are looking from the bigger picture and not perspective. Looking through perspective you would see where not ALL white women have racial and gender privilege. I’m a partially white woman…I have no clue what it means to be privileged. I really don’t. I grew up in a male dominated town. If a woman wants to be seen as an equal, she damn well better show it. She’s not just immediately taken and accepted. If we don’t have a master right …
/r/MensRights08/02/22 04:12 AM
-1

I wouldn’t say either gender was more oppressed than the other. Each have in the past been oppressed in their own ways, but they aren’t really comparable because they were so different. My apologies though. It sounded as if you were saying women were never oppressed and I was clearly wrong. But still, I don’t think you can compare the ways in which men and women have been oppressed.
/r/MensRights06/02/22 07:52 PM
0

All I was saying was that it’s historically inaccurate to say women were never oppressed. There’s no “justifying” my comment because it’s the truth. Women weren’t allowed to vote, they weren’t allowed to fight for custody of their kids should a divorce occur, they had nothing but their basic human rights. So they were oppressed, however I am arguing that while history shows that women were oppressed, they no longer are in this day in age. Women are no longer being oppressed. I agree with OP on e…
/r/MensRights06/02/22 06:47 PM
-1

Okay but a little over a hundred years ago women didn’t have the opportunity to vote at all. And less than a hundred years ago men could vote without having to sign the draft. So there was still that issue as a whole
/r/MensRights06/02/22 05:00 PM
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Okay so, I have to say I can partially agree with you. Feminism has taken things way too far in tearing down males. I don’t think it’s right. I’m not a feminist. I don’t stand for any of it. However, to say women were never oppressed would be a lie. Beginning in America, women weren’t allowed to vote. They weren’t allowed to give their opinion in politics. Women weren’t allowed to join the military, and were hung if they did. Mid millennia, women weren’t even so much as allowed to speak without …
/r/MensRights06/02/22 03:22 PM
1

It’s not. There’s a wage gap because women take maternity leave for 6+ months. So that shows up on gender wage and it shows a wage gap. There’s no difference in payment, that is a hoax
/r/MensRights06/02/22 03:09 PM
2

Fair enough. And I have to agree with seeing a male therapist. My female therapist was very demeaning and men tend not to be as judgemental. So I do see where you’re coming from
/r/MensRights06/02/22 03:25 AM
1

Well thank you but I just don’t think college is for me.
/r/MensRights06/02/22 03:23 AM
1

Fair enough
/r/MensRights05/02/22 09:49 PM
1

I’m not saying at all that it didn’t affect YOU but letting it rule over you is completely different. And everyone is affected by things differently. You’re comparing yourself to this gal which isn’t right. You don’t know what she’s been through. You don’t know how it affected her. It’s not right to judge when you don’t fucking know what she’s been through. So no lady. Fuck you
/r/MensRights05/02/22 06:30 PM
3

This guy deserves to receive mental help. But it was NOT sexual assault. OP is 100% right. Calling it sexual assault is a spit in the face as to what sexual assault truly is. This lady won’t suffer the painful nights of crying yourself to sleep because the guy touched her feet. This is what I feel every night, and what many others feel every night. I wanted to be a therapist for adolescent boys and girls who’d suffered from sexual assault or any other trauma but I decided not to go to college. M…
/r/MensRights05/02/22 02:25 AM
12

Now that is extreme in my opinion. It’s like females demanding 50/50 female to male ratio in what is typically a male workforce. Or a 50/50 white to black ratio in the workforce. It should not be forced. But I think it would be healthy to hope for more males in psychological fields. I’m a woman but personally whenever I’ve sought out therapy I wanted and preferred a male therapist. Men tend to be more straight forward and are able to listen thoroughly without needing to interrupt to give input (…
/r/MensRights05/02/22 02:19 AM
-3

Hahaha you’re telling this to ME? The lady I fucking replied to was the one whining about her problems and how she’s so high and mighty that she didn’t do crazy shit because of it. I was simply telling her she has no right to compare pain. Because others have been through what she has. And while she might not have allowed it to make her do crazy shit, other people might not have control over that. Everyone is different. And it wasn’t fair of her to say that she saw the worst in life and didn’t l…
/r/MensRights04/02/22 06:14 AM
1

As a woman who really loves her fiancé, I could never imagine doing this to my man. He’s a good man. I know he would never lay a finger on me. My parents were abusive growing up, so u couldn’t even imagine falsely accusing him of anything. I have no idea how women can do this
/r/MensRights04/02/22 05:54 AM
-64

Again, why he should hire his own lawyer. To make sure there would be no such loopholes if they were to sign a contract. But he obviously wants to be power of his child’s life so that’s not even on the table now
/r/MensRights04/02/22 05:44 AM
-9

Oh shut up. Look I am sorry you’ve been raped, but so have I. You do not get to compare pain though. That is so unbelievably fucked up. Ever heard of the fact that everyone has a different tolerance as to what they can take? Maybe you could break through what happened to you, but this girl is clearly struggling. Show some fucking empathy and stop comparing yourself
/r/MensRights04/02/22 03:16 AM
-139

It wouldn’t actually. If a contract is legally binding, which he should have a lawyer’s help with, her demanding money would be a breach of contract for which she could go to jail and lose all rights to their child. But don’t tell him that such a contract would be meaningless because it wouldn’t. Realistically a contract can be legal and binding without a lawyer, but him having a lawyer would ensure there wouldn’t be any loopholes for her. Anyway, he doesn’t wanna give up his parental rights any…
/r/MensRights04/02/22 03:13 AM
6

Tell her to fuck off. Honestly. Not even worth your time. If you try and convince that it’s because of women, which it definitely is, she’ll find a way to turn that back and say women only do such and such because men made them have to do that. Really. Just tell her to leave you the fuck alone.
/r/MensRights03/02/22 04:37 AM
3

Thank you. I grew up in a manner that could’ve very well lead me down the feminist path. But I’d rather not be associated with people who wear pussy hats you know?😂
/r/MensRights16/12/21 06:47 PM
5

Absolutely! Men and women are different in many many way. For starters, you’ll have feminists argue that women aren’t meant for child bearing. Well you don’t see men with ovaries and a uterus do you? Nope. Naturally, women are made to carry and bear children, it is only with individual decisions that women CHOSE not to bear children. Another point, generally men are more physically strong than women. Not all the time, and especially in my generation of guys they tend to be a lot more lanky and l…
/r/MensRights16/12/21 04:33 PM
5

So I just want to say I’m not a feminist or anything. I don’t see myself above men or anything. But I grew up in a town where, as a girl, you had to PROVE that you were equal to boys. I had to hear over and over again that this is a man’s world and I need to fight for my place. I’m not gonna strike down a man to do that, but it was tough growing up like that. And I’m 18. All I ever really wanted was to be treated equally to my male peers. I grew up seeing people more involved with their son’s fr…
/r/MensRights16/12/21 03:16 PM
1

Well now you done gone cursed us to never get out of it lol. No but. Let’s be honest, feminists say whatever they want whether it’s true or not, meanwhile if someone has a differing opinion THEY’RE in the wrong. And unfortunately you can’t change people who always think they’re right. Like, I’m all for equality, but the feminist movement is just taking men’s rights while adding to their own. Not the way toward equality. But unfortunately I don’t see us getting out of this “phase” any time soon.
/r/MensRights16/12/21 01:12 AM
1

No but there was a generalization. That’s all
/r/MensRights15/12/21 03:40 PM
1

I do😂
/r/MensRights08/12/21 03:25 PM
1

Should’ve said “not ALL women” some of us were taught physical restraint thank you very much.
/r/MensRights08/12/21 03:11 PM
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