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Well how to avoid becoming the emotional tampon in an LTR?
/r/askTRP17/06/19 02:15 PM
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I see your point bro but I’m kinda afraid to lose her she seems interested in me and maybe she just afraid I’ll bail once she fucks me, got any advice on how to act while not possibly tell her it’s sex or nothing?
/r/askTRP07/11/18 12:45 AM
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well the usual we cuddle, make out and I slowly get my hand down her waist, she laughs and tells me no, i laugh too and keep making out. i try again 10 min later, same answer she keeps laughing. how could I handle this? I just made out like I didnt care then i left
/r/askTRP06/11/18 04:28 PM
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I get it , is there anyway I can fix this mess with this girl or it’s a lost opportunity?
/r/askTRP10/10/18 03:20 AM
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I don’t want her to think that she’s the only one in my life ( which she is)
/r/askTRP20/09/18 06:45 PM
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Hahahaha if only my friend she says she’s not ready for a relationship so we only have sex and hang out it’s what u could get from her and I’m happy like that
/r/askTRP19/09/18 12:37 AM
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yeah i understand that, honestly i was not expecting her to erase me of her life like that, i I guess m gonna wait to see if maybe she'll come back
/r/askTRP18/09/18 11:52 PM
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I'm trying to date other woman but this one was kinda like my main one. is there any way to get her back without sounding too beta?
/r/askTRP18/09/18 11:39 PM
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maybe i should have given her the money it was like $20, i can't believe i lost my main plate for $20 you know...
/r/askTRP18/09/18 11:37 PM
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I guess but i was attached to her, we really got along , do you think I should apologize?
/r/askTRP18/09/18 11:31 PM
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Great field report! Can’t believe I was too billy beta chasing my oneitis while she was probably with Chad it’s sad for him but he needs to learn by himself as we all have
/r/TheRedPill29/08/18 04:29 AM
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Forget the haters man, you did a great job, im like you and struggle often to approach, I think you did an awesome talking to that girl, who cares if you didn't get her number, its not about getting the girl but it's about coming out of your comfort zone, the more you do it, eventually you'll ask numbers more quickly. i enjoyed reading that.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/18 01:57 PM
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This is very common phenomenon, my mom blue pilled me too due to the fact that my father was always busy with work and travelling so i was basically raised by her. Dont blame your mom she was doing the right thing in her perspective in order to raise you to be a good man, but only according to the female perpective. I suggest you read '' No more mr nice guy'' there is a chapter that talks about our situation and how to overcome that, it's also a great book overal on how we came to be ''nice guys…
/r/TheRedPill17/08/18 03:50 PM
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i too struggle with daydreaming but you should try mindfullness meditation, it teaches you to stop what you're doing and come back in the present moment, it takes practice but it sure helps.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/18 12:39 PM
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acutally no, i don't even try at this point, when im out with my friends and theres a group of girls i always go for the fat one and my friends handle the rest. I mean I do find skinny girls hot, but it's almost as I dont see them in my league I guess?
/r/askTRP14/08/18 02:48 PM
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thanks for the tips, definetly will try the mantras !
/r/TheRedPill14/08/18 02:43 PM
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thanks, i'll like to do that but I dont know how exactly?? I'd figure that maybe in the future when i work on my confidence and get ripped I would stop validating fat girls but right now i really dont know how to challenge this. I forgot to mention that the reason I even care about this is really because of how shamed we fat admirers are, I especially by my male friends and even my dad who was almost disapointed in me for dating an obese woman
/r/askTRP14/08/18 12:42 AM
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haha yeah thats definetly a plus getting more woman, but some thing i noticed about fat girls and my last girlfriend, is that they always questioned my attraction towards them by asking stuff like '' why do you say im so hot look at my body'' i find myself often filling their validations holes.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 07:31 PM
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kinda questioning it yeah, feels kinda bad to have the majority of guys and most Alphas shame you for actually chasing a fat girl ( cause yeah me being blue pill i'd do anything to be with a chick i liked)
/r/askTRP13/08/18 06:40 PM
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keep reading bro , I'm in the same boat as you, read the Rational Male its a good extension to no more mr nice guy, read the side bar of TRP and go monk mode for a few months till you take the pill.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 05:05 PM
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As someone with social anxiety, I often struggle with the ''fake it till you make it.'' seems impossible to just be confident even if its faking it ( unless i use alcohol) i just feel awkward. I agree with all your points but do you have any advices for guys like me who struggle in opening themselves?
/r/TheRedPill13/08/18 03:09 PM
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Went trough the same path, wondering how did I go wrong? i use to buy her clothes and pay for dinner, always listened to her and never complaint, but I think that stuff like this need to happen in order for us to see the hard truth and embrace the red pill, you can tell a beta he is wrong for glorifying his girl everyday ( that was what my friends did) but he will never stop until he is truly hurt and starts looking for the answers himself.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/18 12:00 PM
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Very true, I used to talk about how sad and depressed I sometime was to a girl i was dating back them, she got even sick of it and told me to stop being so negative, being blue pill i thought girls loved it when guys are this emotional with not boundaries, sadly i learned it the hard way and lost the girl.
/r/TheRedPill12/08/18 11:49 AM
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as someone with ADHD I really relate to all of the above haha but since I also suffer from Social Anxiety im having a hard time utilizing all the potential that my ADHD gives me, i know about the ''aproach the girl as soon as you see her'' but having my mind always thinking and working i cant help my self to analyze first my approach and make up every possibilities before doing so.
/r/TheRedPill11/08/18 08:28 PM
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OP considering giving us your youtube channel? Im a guy who too struggle with social anxiety and could really use the visualisation.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/18 10:52 PM
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I understand you, im a slim guy myself and well I dress nicely enough to get looks from average girls, but yeah I do feel better around a fat girl,but yeah Im ultimate Billy beta too haha this is why i even lost my fat girl haha. but seriously I agree with you , it may be because of low self esteem, but its interesting on how my self esteem esteem issues created a genuine attraction.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 04:27 AM
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Well its not that i dont like slim girls, I still find them hot, it's just I guess I became used to go for the fatter chick, and the more I read about blue pill behaviors the more I ask myself if this is actually a preference that grew out of me being a beta male? thus why I'm asking if there are actual red pill men who go for fat chicks?
/r/TheRedPill01/08/18 03:58 AM
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Yes we did, that’s why it’s weird that she flakes like this
/r/askTRP27/07/18 03:22 PM
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Sorry I didn’t clarify things , I meant sexual chemistry as in we did have sex multiple times during these 3 months. Things went downhill after I talked about my feelings
/r/askTRP27/07/18 03:19 PM
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What should I do if she decides to come for me? Considering I wanna be with this chick. Thanks btw for your advice I’ll learn about that journey.
/r/askTRP27/07/18 04:43 AM
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Thanks guys, this isn’t a troll post I know I’m just starting out to unplug myself, but I was hoping she’d come around and get her back, and I know how bad it will look if I beg her to forgive what I said, so I ll just take your advice and get into learning!
/r/askTRP27/07/18 04:42 AM
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