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| 10 | How do you persuade boys and men to drop Red Pill when so much of women’s dating discourse demands 666: ‘6 figures, 6 pack, 6 ft’? It’s the elephant in the room.I think the answer lies in education about social media. In real life there aren't two sides. All social media culture wars are for clicks, engagement and content farming. In real life you get all sorts of mixed couples with different looks and status. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/03/26 05:52 PM |
| 40 | I feel like the RP did have a point on “cold approach”Correct. It's only RP when it's called "cold approach" instead of "treat women like normal humans". We can tell the difference immediately. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/12/25 05:12 PM |
| 5 | Why are they so all over AI?Not really. Unfortunately these men don't live in a vacuum and we still have to interact with them in the workplace and the polling station. | /r/ExRedPill | 24/10/25 05:04 AM |
| 10 | Why are they so all over AI?This is really the objectification of women taken to it's conclusion. The only reason we don't use robots instead of women is because they're not advanced enough yet. Not because they're actual people. Women, just like vacuum cleaners and ordering at Starbuck, are a thing to be automated. | /r/ExRedPill | 23/10/25 04:16 PM |
| 12 | I can’t believe I was 15 taking advice from 40 year old men.Ah, this must have been how I remained a virgin in my youth, as I had a discman 🤣🤣 | /r/ExRedPill | 12/04/25 07:23 AM |
| 6 | Sabrina Carpenter's music is pulling me close to redpill. (Help me)There is no such thing as the average woman. There's 3.95 billion women. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/12/24 03:32 PM |
| 2 | My biggest and last insecurity: If you are a loving and respectful partner, how likely is it to get left for a "better" option?There's no way that anyone can reassure you about that. It might happen. You can mitigate it by choosing a partner who you can see in other circumstances is truthful and kind. Do they treat people well. Do they have friends who they are kind and honest with. Do they behave with integrity. Etc. you can also treat them well and with respect and listen to them. But at the end of the day they still might leave you, or die, or just fall out of love with you. Part of being in love is the possibility o… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/12/24 07:36 AM |
| 9 | Why whenever i have an argument with a woman or a feminist online and she realizes she can’t change my mind about a topic they either block you on social media or blindly and falsely assume stuff about you and insult you?People are assholes. If you're a woman on the internet you get all sorts of awful shit. I've had rape threats more than once for quite low level arguments. I don't put too much energy to it. | /r/ExRedPill | 06/11/24 09:27 PM |
| 29 | Woman said I’m a loser because of my jobThanks for your completely unsolicited take on OPs career path. Sometimes it's helpful to think, was I asked for my opinion in this matter? There's never any reason to call someone a loser when you're on a date with them. The words are "thank you but I think we're not compatible". | /r/ExRedPill | 05/11/24 06:29 PM |
| 3 | SMV going to end meI'm 41F and I really wish I'd put less effort into thinking about this sort of thing when I was younger. The concept of SMV didn't exist back then but other things did mainly a pressure to be really thin, I spent so long worrying about it. I found someone to marry who ended up cheating on me so we got divorced. That was nothing to do with my weight. I also did much better in my career than I ever could have expected which also had nothing to do with my weight. The things you worry about are not … | /r/ExRedPill | 22/09/24 07:21 AM |
| 15 | What’s the hate towards older women?Whenever you really try and help younger women advocate for themselves and raise themselves up the take is "misery loves company" and "don't listen to her she isn't even married" as if a) being married is the only benchmark of achievement for young women and b) I have some spinster agenda in breaking up young marriages 😂 it's really delusional. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/09/24 06:51 AM |
| 13 | I don't get how the "Man vs. Bear" conversation doesn't just make women look kinda stupid?Yeah, the first point is the one I think you should focus on, if you want to understand what women are trying to talk about here. Please note: I'd rather die than be raped by a man. You might think it's obvious but it's not. Unfortunately I didn't get that choice and it just happened anyway. And for a while I felt like dying. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/05/24 04:23 PM |
| 88 | I don't get how the "Man vs. Bear" conversation doesn't just make women look kinda stupid?I'm not going to spend the time arguing Man Vs Bear on the internet today because it's all over Reddit and you can see it elsewhere. Maybe one way you could think about it it is that if so many women feel the same way maybe there's something about women's experience that you're not understanding. That would be a different take to "women are stupid". Some women are definitely smart enough to understand statistics, that's not up for debate as it's a fact. People in general don't understand statist… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/05/24 12:56 PM |
| -1 | A failure of this, and similar subs is that the majority of people attempting to provide advice are womenI think this is funny. OOP "a lot of the people on this sub don't understand what I'm going through and their advice is unhelpful to me" These posters "NOT TRUE" Ok 🤣 | /r/ExRedPill | 25/04/24 05:13 AM |
| 0 | A failure of this, and similar subs is that the majority of people attempting to provide advice are womenAre they always just looking for advice though? I feel like sometimes those posts are also exclamations of pain. "It's difficult to live in the world like this". The kind of advice I see often is like gaslighting. No empathy. There is a difference between empathising - "that sounds difficult"- and invalidating - "the way you experience the world isn't real". You can give the same advice, in different ways. If you think that translates to "poor baby evil women uwu" and there's no middle ground th… | /r/ExRedPill | 25/04/24 04:57 AM |
| 9 | A failure of this, and similar subs is that the majority of people attempting to provide advice are womenYeah I actually agree with you, and I'm a woman and a long time feminist student. I always cringe on Reddit when there's some heartfelt post about eg having a small penis or being lonely and there's a lot of female posters repeatedly saying that it's not an actual problem and the problem is their confidence or their attitude. A bit of empathy goes a long way and let's stop arguing with people's lived experiences just because they are men. One thing I will say is that men need to start helping th… | /r/ExRedPill | 24/04/24 06:08 AM |
| 10 | Ugly = CreepyThis is really true for women to heterosexual men too. Imagine an older or conventionally physically unattractive woman going over to a group of young hot male friends and trying to be openly sexual with them. They would ridicule it. The bias does exist but it's not gendered. | /r/ExRedPill | 04/04/24 05:06 AM |
| 8 | How to spot a red pill guy easily on a convo?Do you have any high profile women in your country? They don't have to say that they like them but if they are RP it could set them off. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/03/24 09:43 PM |
| 8 | How to spot a red pill guy easily on a convo?Ask them what they think of Beyonce. Or Taylor Swift. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/03/24 06:53 PM |
| 19 | Women, how have you felt about your male partner sharing their emotions, vulnerabilities, etc with you?For me it depends what we're talking about. And this is for any partner male or female as I have had both. I love to hear about my partner's emotional world, their hopes fears and vulnerability. I want to know how they feel about me and their parents and their friends. I want to comfort them when they are sad and hold them when they cry. I don't want to be their therapist or their only source of emotional support. I don't want to listen to them repeat negative things about themselves for a susta… | /r/ExRedPill | 19/02/24 11:11 PM |
| 2 | What's the worst redpill logic you used to buy into?That's so interesting. One of the hardest things to do is totally change your mindset so I admire you for that and for talking about it so openly. Glad you are happier. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/02/24 12:16 PM |
| 12 | Why did she ghost meYeah I understand. It's practice.i am 40 so I have plenty of experience of fucking up and apologising for it 😂😂 You will get there with it. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/24 01:52 PM |
| 31 | Why did she ghost meI would guess that would be it then brother. If someone said to me they'd made me feel some kind of a way I'd say "that was not my intention, please tell me what made you feel like that" and then listen and ask questions. | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/24 01:43 PM |
| 23 | Why did she ghost meDid you ask her to clarify what she meant and what you could have done differently? | /r/ExRedPill | 31/01/24 12:23 PM |
| 6 | Women don't see guys. They see worldsIf he has no friends and doesn't go out and enjoy things in the world, we won't be compatible. No matter what other qualities he has. I don't despise him, I'm just not choosing him as a life partner. | /r/ExRedPill | 22/01/24 11:40 AM |
| 4 | Wanted to unload how I feel about charisma, league, etc..I understand that. If I was to spend all day reading stuff online I could believe that all men will assault me or cheat on me, that no one will ever love me because I'm over 25, that even if I do get a boyfriend he will leave me when I get fat etc. In reality I have a lovely kind boyfriend and lots of male friends who are good people. Sometimes it helps just to read less AITA/deadbedroom etc. | /r/ExRedPill | 16/01/24 04:13 PM |
| 67 | How do I avoid the type of women redpill warns aboutBetter to see women as humans. How do you usually judge the character of another human? Spend time with them, talk to them, observe their actions. The same as you would decide if another man is worth being friends with. Like another poster says, please get therapy. Don't be one of these boyfriends who looks for every little issue, and then attributes it to "typical female behaviour". Women are individuals like you are. I will say this - you cannot live a romantic life free from pain. To love is … | /r/ExRedPill | 09/01/24 06:47 PM |
| 2 | A mini story on how me (23M)listening to the “redpill” fucked up my chances of dating with a 19F I met at the club. Plus rant.Yeah it's not exactly a safety net just a basic feature of the tax system. High taxes and decent high quality affordable childcare. And labour laws that give both parents rights to help them care for young children until they're in school. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/12/23 04:47 PM |
| 9 | A mini story on how me (23M)listening to the “redpill” fucked up my chances of dating with a 19F I met at the club. Plus rant.Yeah, I also think people don't realise that America has it's own special brand of capitalism that affects men and women and their relationships. In places in Europe it's possible for women to work, have financial independence, be married AND have kids. Which benefits everyone. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/12/23 08:41 AM |
| 72 | Should I break up with my boyfriend when I turn 30 because he believes in the wall?Please, please don't spend your life worrying about whether men, or anyone, finds you attractive. Life is so short. Its such a waste of energy. Direct your energy to improving your life or being in the service of others. Redpill tries to install this fear in women of "ending up alone" when that is not even nearly the worst thing that can happen to a person. Its not even on the list. Do NOT spend your life vying for the attention of a mediocre romantic partner. | /r/ExRedPill | 13/12/23 07:24 AM |
| 5 | Why do tiktoks of women hating short guys get millions of likes?I 100% see where you're coming from and I'm not arguing with you. However would just like to add that on your last point, women do a huge amount more in the space of body acceptance than men do. The fat women model thing exists because of trail blazing women like Tess Halliday. At great personal cost to them. Yeah she might make a ton of money but fat women on the internet get personal death and rape threats at an alarming rate. Its still not ok for women to be fat in society and fat women don't… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/12/23 06:36 AM |
| 9 | Fresh & Fit/Whatever Podcasts are complete BSI haven't seen this podcast so I headed over to YouTube, Top two videos: Myron TORCHED them on how women ruined modern dating We had a sandwich making contest and this is what happened | /r/ExRedPill | 01/12/23 09:14 AM |
| 1 | Fresh & Fit/Whatever Podcasts are complete BSI haven't seen this podcast so I headed over to YouTube, Top two videos: Myron TORCHED them on how women ruined modern dating We had a sandwich making contest and this is what happened | /r/ExRedPill | 01/12/23 09:09 AM |
| 24 | The oversimplification of women TRP preaches will prevent you from fully being able to understand womenThis is so cool, actually what you have done is changed your mindset which is one of the hardest things to do in life. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/11/23 09:14 AM |
| 11 | This shit is making me mentally ill and ruining my lifeJesus I just had a look at that purple pill debate sub. You need to quit that immediately. It's brain rot. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/11/23 08:10 AM |
| 12 | I'm struggling to not fall into redpillHey, sorry that happened to you in your previous relationships. One thing that helps me is to remember I can't control how other people behave or what they think or what they do. When I get into a relationship I'm really careful, really really careful. I don't build up a picture in my mind of what that person is like until I have seen evidence of their behavior to support it. I don't give more emotionally than I can afford to, and I don't give more emotionally than I think that person has given … | /r/ExRedPill | 18/10/23 01:09 PM |
| 24 | This is my list of Redpill/MGTOW beliefs. I need help with challenging them- the world right now seems to confirm them.Have you ever gone out into the world and just met people though? I don't mean that in a patronising or antagonistic way. Like my neighbours are married and he is a DnD geek and she rides horses and they are just normal and happy together. My colleague is married to a guy named Jeff who is a short but funny dude who works as a lift maintenance engineer. Men are out there being married who aren't good looking, rich or shredded, just because they met someone they liked and they got married. | /r/ExRedPill | 27/09/23 02:38 PM |
| 11 | Giving unconditional love = setting yourself up for failure?This is so important. Romantic love should be conditional. Conditional on the other person treating you with care and respect, etc. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/09/23 07:36 AM |
| 7 | Do lack of women make an incel or being an incel results in lack of womenThis is such a wonderful and insightful comment. | /r/ExRedPill | 17/08/23 07:56 PM |
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