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rotating_pencil/r/seduction12/09/12 08:25 AM
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rotating_pencil/r/seduction23/08/12 08:17 PM
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Looks like he learned nothing from the books.
/r/seduction08/07/14 04:51 AM
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This connects with a lot of ideas I've been learning and implementing for the past couple years. Having the buyer mentality allows you to project interest in others and often, people respond positively. Even if you do decide to "screen" people out, they will likely hold a positive opinion of you since validating others and being genuinely interested in their personalities is such a huge part of social interaction from my experiences.
/r/seduction28/06/14 09:32 PM
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You answered your own question. You're overthinking it; find your style and accept that women are different and will react differently.
/r/seduction11/06/14 02:53 AM
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From my personal experience, be the fun guy that has a genuine interest in others. They compose the group you want to join, so might as well find out about them. Many people enjoy expressing themselves and they will take a liking to you and invest in you emotionally. Over time, you'll assimilate fine into the group when you focus on winning a few of them over.
/r/seduction30/04/14 06:54 AM
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I dress myself how I do because I enjoy looking a certain way. Not everyone has the same grooming standards, but I think the point is to have one, no matter how fashionable you think you are.
/r/seduction25/04/14 02:02 AM
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I think with the ease of communication of the present, most men learn this the hard way at least once or more. It's fun to think about how too much of an easy thing becomes quickly exhausting, very applicable.
/r/seduction13/04/14 06:35 PM
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Reading this makes me think of art as a product constructed from fundamental principles that can be defined as another entity. Pretty neat concept to think about.
/r/seduction26/03/14 03:45 AM
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This was a great read! Love how you try to include others (guys and girls) while you control the interaction.
/r/seduction02/03/14 10:05 PM
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There's no direct way; we just have to keep doing what we do as long as it's what we believe to be productive in our minds.
/r/seduction09/12/13 07:47 PM
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Stellar post. One more thing to add: If you know you're going to be seeing a girl around for a long length of time (lives next door, down the hall, coworker, same interest circle) the dynamic can be more difficult to deal with. It's better to date outside your personal circle rather than suffer the oneitis/awkwardness OP discussed unless you're 100% sure there is attraction; otherwise just take these opportunities to make great genuine friendships. These can and will be your best wingwomen.
/r/seduction13/11/13 09:34 PM
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Are you me? That is spot on what happened to me last year. It was ridiculous, and worse is that she knew but still hung out with me. She told my friends that I wasn't her type. At the end of the day, I began talking to more people and having other interests, only talking to her if SHE initiates. Since she still wanted my friendship, I accepted that and moved on, occasionally hanging out with her. Without stopping contact, it definitely took more time for the feelings to subside, but I can say fo…
/r/seduction20/09/13 06:11 PM
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Oh the irony, OP made a post about himself.
/r/seduction28/08/13 11:51 AM
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So I meet this girl and we hit it off well right away, and plan to basically have a date. The thing is, I believe she is taken but because she is still willing to hang out with me alone, I'm not letting it phase me. She then wanted to reschedule and I replied that I'm busy for the week except for the originally planned time (I actually am), but she hasn't replied to me after that. My oneitis tendencies are brewing, which is what compelled me to write this post. I just want to make sure my mindse…
/r/seduction28/08/13 11:39 AM
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Practice definitely helps, naturally the more conversations you hold the better at making witty remarks you'll be as long as you have a positive attitude about improvement. Anecdotal, but even one year ago I couldn't hold a conversation very well one bit. After deciding to hell with being unsocial and going out of my way to actually interact with people of both sexes, I find myself censoring myself oftentimes because I have some sort of remark for almost any statement. It's like night and day, b…
/r/seduction19/08/13 10:43 PM
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You don't love a woman you just met. You express an interest. Love comes later, brah.
/r/seduction14/05/13 01:54 AM
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Great post! It all feels very.. real. I'm a senior in university and I'm just now doing all of this successfully as I've finally figured it out for myself this past summer. I wish I read something like this 3 years ago! Definitely a must-read for those entering college.
/r/seduction25/12/12 11:20 AM
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Nice! Good thing about this sort of cut is that it works well for practically everyone past 20. I feel much more confident with it. A lot of my friends are trying to go for it too after I sort of pioneered it in my group!
/r/seduction24/12/12 08:47 PM
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She didn't fuck up, she can do whatever she wants to. There may be a reason she brought him; there may not be. Instead of being overly analytical, just be your usual awesome self and roll with the punches. That said, good on you to reflect
/r/seduction19/12/12 11:32 PM
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Well then, keep reading. However, i promise you won't find any better piece of advice than to just go fucking do it. The more you read, the more time is idly passing by..
/r/seduction24/11/12 07:12 AM
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Yep, completely agree that it not only helps on pickup, but socially as well. Honestly, reading up on seddit and the like has really changed my sociability for the better. For me, the two most helpful ones were conversational threading and body language.
/r/seduction04/11/12 05:38 AM
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Great post! Definitely resonates well with how I live in general nowadays. Keeps me genuinely happy and opens up opportunities not only in terms of seduction, but general sociability.
/r/seduction30/10/12 11:54 AM
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Approach Anxiety. Now, read the sidebar :)
/r/seduction07/10/12 03:34 AM
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Compliment them. Clothing, what they're carrying, how they look (clothing is more likely the better choice here), gauge their response. If they don't respond, you didn't want to meet a pretentious bitch anyway.
/r/seduction20/09/12 05:18 AM
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She noticed you before she knew about your game, if I read that correctly. She noticed your absence. You probably increased her interest further after your conversation. Definitely continue talking to her. This time, you approach.
/r/seduction20/09/12 05:10 AM
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Those "four agreements" are pretty congruent with my current life philosophies since I began my self-improvement. Gotta check it out!
/r/seduction20/09/12 04:55 AM
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If they laugh at your jokes, they have SOME level of interest. Once you get that in your head, continuing will feel more natural and less "creepy". If they're interested too, what's stopping you?
/r/seduction17/09/12 02:45 AM
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Do something about it.
/r/seduction14/08/12 08:35 PM
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TL;DR girls neg too.
/r/seduction07/08/12 04:21 AM
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The story of many lives.. thoughts of action breeds inaction.
/r/seduction06/08/12 05:52 PM
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Still, you want those beliefs to hold substance rather than deluding yourself. If it helps with taking the first step, then sure. Self-confidence holds quite a delicate balance.
/r/seduction23/07/12 01:16 AM
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