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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Woman who falsely acuses 10 men of raping her jailes If a man falsely reported that a female perpetrator sexually abused him by FTP (forced to pentrate), I would feel he deserved the same consequences as the female would have received if convicted. This is not a gender war, it is equality before the law. For those not familiar with FTP, see below. One in fourteen men have been abused in this way, about 80% by women and about 80% before the age of 25. It is not a small problem. https://www.nsvrc.org/statistics/statistics-depth/	/r/MensRights	12/03/26 06:27 PM
34	Woman who falsely acuses 10 men of raping her jailes A false accusation should be punished no less severely than the crime falsely reported warrants. This sentence does not seem sufficient for even one false accusation, much less ten. Some of the men were falsely imprisoned and lost families, jobs, and reputations irreparably.	/r/MensRights	12/03/26 11:21 AM
-15	2,000 Men and boys kidnapped, likely to be tortured, sexually assaulted and executed. Media silent. They were arrested not kidnapped.	/r/MensRights	14/09/25 02:19 AM
2	69% of marine biologists are female yet males express a slightly higher interest in becoming one. Does this indicate gender bias? How is interest defined and at what point? Reality kicks in for men once they see the cost vs benefit. Women have dads, husbands, or no family to support, i.e. less financial concern.	/r/MensRights	23/11/24 02:48 PM
4	Wrong on so many levels. Poor kid.	/r/MensRights	06/11/24 06:59 AM
3	What was a time that you, as a man, experienced sexism or misandry? Marriage	/r/MensRights	24/10/24 06:18 PM
24	Boys raped by women prefer to remain silent. A study from about a decade ago found that "forced to penetrate" abuse of men was only slightly less prevalent than rope of women. I first heard of it as a crisis phone counselor and actually had a hard time understanding or believing the man who had called. Now, I know better. It is much more common than we think.	/r/MensRights	18/10/24 08:14 PM
16	Boys raped by women prefer to remain silent. Any minor who has been abused in such a way is bound to have issues and to develop ways of coping with them. Acting out impulsively is often one of those coping mechanisms among young men, although not exclusive to young men.	/r/MensRights	18/10/24 08:06 PM
12	Sooo I had a thought about myself A. I don't know for sure, but I doubt it's that easy to switch. B. Such things will not be acknowledged everywhere, particularly if you travel abroad. C. Although presenting yourself as female on paper may have certain advantages (for business loans, research grants, etc.), showing up at an interview as a trans person may not be as advantageous, particularly if it is not deeply rooted. Showing up as a male with female ID would raise questions about your intentions, sincerity, and mental stabilit…	/r/MensRights	26/06/24 01:22 PM
89	How have you felt demonized as a man over the course of your life? Being blamed at full volume for everything wrong (even if I had nothing to do with it), not credited above a whisper for good things. Blame extends to not being able to fix my partner and getting blamed for not correcting her faults, allowing her to fail. WTH! I'm not God, Superman, or a puppetmaster. But that's my fault, too.	/r/MensRights	09/04/24 03:11 PM
2	Remember that conservatives are not your friends. They want men to work until they die Nothing is more destructive to a man's soul than a lack of purpose.	/r/MensRights	13/03/24 04:20 PM
3	Women making fun of a man who’s sick King Solomon, the Wise: One man among a thousand I found, but a woman among all these I have not found. (Ecclesiastes 7:28) This explains much, including that women initiate 87% of divorces. Reliable wives are rare, so value them.	/r/MensRights	13/03/24 03:06 PM
43	Are our brains wired differently? Good: we have "proof." Bad: we need to appeal to AI for evidence of something that has been common sense knowledge for eons.	/r/MensRights	26/02/24 01:35 PM
2	Women posting about hating short men on social media. Why does the mainstream ignore this? Don't worry about the opinions of people who are not nice to be around. Be grateful their faults are on display so as to avoid them. (An attractive woman I knew only wanted men with thick hair. She has never been married. No one is so attractive that they can afford to be a relational jerk. Only the mentally challenged date the suit and not the person in it. Although some suits make a nice first impression, a pig in a tux is still a pig.)	/r/MensRights	17/01/24 10:52 AM
22	Something I've noticed in fiction. Can guys use this to bring awareness to men's rights? Authors include things for a reason. Publishers print them for a reason, too. You are probably witnessing the change you wish, but it can be encouraged. Buy more of what you like. Give them good, specific reviews. Publishers will notice.	/r/MensRights	29/11/23 02:23 AM
2	Inflating campus sexual assault statistics Not new, but not discussed enough.	/r/MensRights	30/08/23 04:47 AM
3	‘My husband can’t afford our family holiday to Disney – should I leave him at home?’ Why not leave everyone at home, including yourself? Orlando in Summer! Ugh.	/r/MensRights	27/07/23 11:57 AM
1	I divorced my dying husband — he wallowed in self-pity and killed my vibe What a sweetheart.	/r/MensRights	20/06/23 11:11 PM
14	"Nor Vincent, book Self-made Man, after disguising herself as a man for 18 months, her perceptions were rocked She probably took a lot of heat for her observations, especially from her leftist friends.	/r/MensRights	10/06/23 10:06 PM
5	Womens socialization feels over exaggerated. I hope it is okay for me to post here. The perception of oppression serves a political function. Therefore, activists must keep oppressions on life support through exaggeration of anecdotal evidence, at least in the West. In other places, oppression is real.	/r/MensRights	09/06/23 08:09 AM
1	why is sexual assault against men not talked about in schools The technical term is "forced to penetrate." It happens almost as frequently as rape, but it does not serve the oppressor group vs. oppressed group modern narrative, which is key to modern Marxist political power. Fortunately, both rape and FTP are relatively rare. In reality, someone in an oppressed category on one scale can be an oppressor on another scale. Anyone in an "oppressed" category can also choose to be personally oppressive.	/r/MensRights	03/06/23 06:29 PM
4	Was I raped this morning? It is called forced to penetrate and is almost as common as rape, though both are fortunately rare. You can look up statistics from about a decade ago. (They don't seem to have kept up records lately.) Sorry this happened to you. It is traumatic for some, depending on the circumstances. I don't make light of it.	/r/MensRights	28/05/23 03:16 AM
16	Man's life destroyed after false allegations, reaches out asking what legal reproach he has. Gets told there is nothing the UK legal system can do and he should just move on... He can always sue for defamation.	/r/MensRights	24/05/23 01:39 PM
15	Imagine paternity fraud with the sexes switched: In an IVF pregnancy the man was not only in an affair with another woman but also managed to make his lover the egg donor for his wife behind his wife's back. Now imagine this was the policy regarding genetic tests revealing to the woman the truth: The logic of such policies is absurd. One person doesn't make a baby, one person is not responsible. Lies are not worth protecting, they will eventually be exposed anyway usually with worse consequences.	/r/MensRights	01/05/23 09:52 AM
15	Woman found guilty of murdering her eight-week old son and attempting to murder his two-year-old sister. The woman, who cannot be named for legal reasons, accepted she stabbed the children in July 2021 but denied the charges She did it for him? Just leave that hanging out there with no context? Great.	/r/MensRights	23/03/23 03:00 PM
1	How do you guys feel about ballbusting No way am I clicking on any link. But I'd say any genital abuse would be an abuse of rights. Wouldn't you? Pain is not exclusive, neither is abuse.	/r/MensRights	22/03/23 07:42 AM
87	I(19m)was falsely accused of being a creep by a woman(45?) in my office. I can't take this anymore. It sounds like she has the problem, not you. Do not do anything bad. Your office workers understood it was not your fault. Crazy people say and do crazy things for crazy reasons. It is not your fault and there is nothing you could have done to stop it. You were her target, that is all. She has a problem but you didn't cause it. Take some deep slow breaths and let it wash away. You are not responsible for every crazy person's problem, not even this one.	/r/MensRights	20/03/23 11:57 AM
1	doesn’t it seem odd how weirdly pollar opposite this Reddit and the feminist one is ? As a rule, euphemisms, like "things happen" or "it was unavoidable", are best left for situations where human volition is not at issue. Why? Because it seems like an excuse for bad choices or bad behavior. That said, I understand your point that rapes and false accusations will be ongoing problems, as they have always been. The numbers can be reduced by making sure malefactors are held responsible for their choices, not giving them excuses. I do not think requiring effort on the part of a potent…	/r/MensRights	29/01/23 06:08 PM
0	doesn’t it seem odd how weirdly pollar opposite this Reddit and the feminist one is ? "Unfortunately it is the truth, rapes will happen." Not to quibble, but I nevertheless do, neither rapes nor false accusations are accidents that merely "happen." They are acts of the will. For the rest, I agree. Quibble ended.	/r/MensRights	28/01/23 03:26 AM
13	doesn’t it seem odd how weirdly pollar opposite this Reddit and the feminist one is ? Herein lies a problem. By contrast would you say rapes are going to happen? Hopefully not. A false accusation is a deliberate form of abuse, potentially as damaging as physical abuse if not more so since it has very long-term consequences. Perhaps false accusers should be decried and prosecuted with as much concern as rapists rightfully are? That would be a middle ground.	/r/MensRights	26/01/23 10:51 PM
17	doesn’t it seem odd how weirdly pollar opposite this Reddit and the feminist one is ? That rape is bad AND false accusations are bad? Just guessing here.	/r/MensRights	26/01/23 10:26 PM
4	A shop that charges more based on gender and race Wow. So, we can choose between a line 2 white woman or line 4 white woman? No non-binary? Anathema in an intersectional thrift store.	/r/MensRights	02/12/22 01:22 PM
8	Police stop woman from running car through crowd in Florida. Karen gone wild ?	/r/MensRights	26/11/22 04:50 PM
27	Woman Allegedly Torches Ex-Boyfriend’s Home After Other Woman Answers Phone. There Was One Thing She Didn’t Know. Saying the secret truth out loud, women get more jealous.	/r/MensRights	25/11/22 04:39 PM
14	Beware of harsh misandrous dynamics on other subs Thanks for sharing. Balance is hard where division is peddled on every side.	/r/MensRights	16/11/22 12:45 PM
16	Beware of harsh misandrous dynamics on other subs Because ignorance is not bliss ?	/r/MensRights	16/11/22 12:41 PM
1	Man getting robbed at knifepoint wets himself. 40k⬆, people find it hilarious and mock the victim. The empathy gap is real. Possibly. People in social media tend to go for the gut. Men generally want respect, so people disrespect them. Women generally want love, so people say insulting things about them to make them feel unlovable. If a woman lost her wig or dropped her tampon during a robbery, she would be ridiculed, no doubt.	/r/MensRights	14/09/22 12:52 PM
66	Man getting robbed at knifepoint wets himself. 40k⬆, people find it hilarious and mock the victim. The empathy gap is real. Empathy is severely lacking in social media, period. Snap judgments based on first glance are the norm. Sad.	/r/MensRights	14/09/22 12:32 PM
7	Duped academic journal publishes rewrite of 'Mein Kampf' as feminist manifesto Bravo! Ivory tower radicals hoisted on their own petard. Priceless.	/r/MensRights	22/08/22 01:00 AM
3	Why is it fair for men to get permission from wife but unfair for women to get permission from husband? Honestly, neither should have to ask permission from anyone they should be just able to get it. Hard to believe either is happening.	/r/MensRights	30/06/22 06:35 PM
1	Wtf Some people are afraid to show sincerity. They live in shadows, smoke, and screens. Welcome to the 21st circus, er, century.	/r/MensRights	10/06/22 06:26 AM
6	A warning because it’s too late for me She may have mental issues but that doesn't excuse the lies and betrayal. For your sake, and for her sake, you need to survive. Some day she will have to wake up to what she has done. By surviving, you will spare her some guilt. It doesn't mean you have to open yourself up for more abuse, you shouldn't; but since you probably still have protective feelings for her, use them to keep yourself alive. Just accept that the relationship itself is too toxic to pursue.	/r/MensRights	28/03/22 02:58 PM
9	Young Swedish rape victim slapped with hate crime over illegal courtroom gesture (they clearly take male victims very seriously in Sweden) Heart breaking.	/r/MensRights	14/02/22 01:31 PM
1	It is hard to support Mens Rights knowing that there are many Men who oppose it. Yet, there are many unattractive, poor men who have stable relationships with their wives. Most women just want to feel safe and valued. That can take many forms. Not all women will realize when they have those but some do. Of course, generalizations don't describe all possibilities.	/r/MensRights	16/12/21 03:34 AM
1	It is hard to support Mens Rights knowing that there are many Men who oppose it. If the only, or primary, value in relationships was sex, every man would relate only with prostitutes. No commitment, agreed price, no strings. Most men realize that is not really what will bring them joy or fulfillment. Like it or not, only real relationship satisfies. Real relationship requires balance and negotiation. Neither party holds all the keys, each holds different ones. Risk is part of the attraction. With risk comes the possibility of disappointment, otherwise it would not be risk. S…	/r/MensRights	15/12/21 11:33 AM
1	It is hard to support Mens Rights knowing that there are many Men who oppose it. "... being able to survive without sex is not having a life." I am sure you are not alone in feeling that way; however, sex is not the essence of life. It is only necessary for survival of the species but not every individual has to participate. Putting that unused energy into other projects has contributed much to civilization. It is part of the "delayed gratification" that is essential to making progress in anything. Also, men hold as many keys to relationship as women. It still takes two. Sex…	/r/MensRights	15/12/21 12:36 AM
2	Just a question about sex Talking it over is much better than trying to figure it out independently. Neither of you should feel compelled to please the other, but there are many things that make relationship enjoyable, not just sex. Some people have a limited understanding of their options so talking about them can help. There is always the risk that your mutual wishes don't line up. Better to know sooner than later.	/r/MensRights	14/12/21 01:43 PM
1	It is hard to support Mens Rights knowing that there are many Men who oppose it. Fundamental to your view is the notion of sexual need, as opposed to sexual desire. Keep in mind that the idea of sex as a need is a recent development. For millenia, the question was whether to marry or remain celibate. It is only in the last few hundred years that sex has become viewed as an individual need. For survival of the human race, yes. As an individual need, not so much. Historically, celibates are capable of surviving just fine. Some live to be quite old in fact. To view one or the o…	/r/MensRights	14/12/21 12:09 PM
1	It is hard to support Mens Rights knowing that there are many Men who oppose it. "women intrinsically hold men's sexual expression hostage to their own wants and men aren't legally permitted to offset this unfair advantage." I have no idea what this even means. Women, most anyway, need men for sexual expression, too. Certain attitudes toward sex may differ between the two, but it still takes two to tango. Each one should still have full rights to consent or refuse. Is a man's choice to not have sex with a given woman holding her sexual expression hostage? You may wish to ret…	/r/MensRights	13/12/21 11:48 PM
9	The issue with older homosexual men and questioning younger people Aggressors are going to create more encounters than the non-aggressive. To generalize from one or a few anecdotes to a whole group is never wise. It would be like saying everyone on the subway is a pickpocket because the only time you had your pocket picked was on a subway. Most people are not pickpockets, pushy, or manipulative. Some are. Learn the difference.	/r/MensRights	12/12/21 11:31 PM
5	It is hard to support Mens Rights knowing that there are many Men who oppose it. Most men want fair treatment for everyone, most women, too. Men's rights should steer away from pitting men and women against one another. It should be aimed at dealing only with unfair application of the law. Depending on the topic, or incident, most men would not oppose men's rights. It depends how you define men's rights--equal application of law or something else.	/r/MensRights	12/12/21 09:31 PM
7	Comments on male bullying People who are abused, whoever they are, need to speak up, say what they have experienced clearly and without exaggeration, and anyone who makes a false accusation needs to be held accountable for the damage they do to someone else's reputation. False accusations only make it harder for real victims. The victim of a false accusation deserves as much support as the victim of abuse. In truth, both are victims of abuse.	/r/MensRights	12/12/21 04:45 AM
2	Is it wrong that I wouldn't mind a girlfriend raping me? What are your thoughts? That is a different topic. But, yes, don't be a victim there either. If you have your phone location on, at least you can prove you are not somewhere at a certain time. Otherwise, make sure you have witnesses, especially when you are around girls.	/r/MensRights	10/12/21 07:55 PM
2	Is it wrong that I wouldn't mind a girlfriend raping me? What are your thoughts? Good. Others may have more difficult situations: boss-employee, shared children, professor-student, counselor-patient. It can get rough out there. But, it sounds like you have the right idea. Do your best to avoid becoming a victim.	/r/MensRights	10/12/21 07:27 PM
2	Is it wrong that I wouldn't mind a girlfriend raping me? What are your thoughts? Exactly. Anything your girlfriend, whom you like because she treats you well, would do to you would not seriously be confused with rape. Manipulators, as described, have ways to hold things over the people they victimize: blame, blackmail, fear of reprisal, threat to others, and so on. It is not the same as just letting your girlfriend do whatever.	/r/MensRights	10/12/21 07:18 PM
1	Is it wrong that I wouldn't mind a girlfriend raping me? What are your thoughts? But ... what if she consistently treated you like dirt (verbal abuse, physical abuse, insulting you in front of family, friends and on the internet) except when she demanded to have sex. Would you still feel like she could do whatever she wanted to you? That is more like the situation with many male "forced to penetrate" victims. They are treated as worthless except for sex. The manipulation is intense. Rape, in any sense, is different from play-acting. It is abusive.	/r/MensRights	10/12/21 07:03 PM
18	I dont get it, considering we are all equal why says " our women are already doctors, engineers, lawyer..." they dont need to be a political chess piece ? What about us men ? Is it ok that we are the only pawns in this political climate ? All point aside, I really dissapointed of this. False perceptions drive most of modern politics. We just need to stop pretending and say the obvious out loud. The emperor is naked.	/r/MensRights	08/12/21 12:57 PM
0	Ex-wife, who I have a child with, wants me to meet new BF Agreed. Your son's welfare should be your only concern. All the one-upmanship is pointless. Let him know you love your son and want his childhood to be a stress free and productive as possible. You can offer to take his calls if he runs into any issues with step-parenting. It may seem counter to your gut feeling, but enlisting him as aide to your ability to parent your son will improve your son's life and help provide stability for him. Children, even in intact families, can try to play parents …	/r/MensRights	05/12/21 10:31 AM
1	What do we think about double consent? How would one accomplish that short of totalitarianism? Reasonable measures do not require centralized control. Equity of outcomes will inevitably be impossible: life expectancy, weight, health, etc. Nature distributes outcomes unequally: green valley here, dry valley there. Balance of responsibility is a more reasonable and attainable goal.	/r/MensRights	28/11/21 10:14 PM
1	What do we think about double consent? We started this discussion over the idea of double consent, not the rights of a father after the birth of a child. They are different discussions. I agree that if a father is supporting his child, he should have the right to raise the child should the mother not choose to do so. That is different from expecting a mother to either abort a pregnancy or raise a child without financial support from the child's father because of some verbal agreement the parents made before having sex. If a child is …	/r/MensRights	25/11/21 05:49 PM
1	What do we think about double consent? Who has more power, the person who set up the dominoes or the person who knocks over the starter? They are both responsible. If the dominoes end up setting off a bomb, they both will be held accountable--pwrhaps in different ways. As I said, the weight of responsibility and risk is distributed differently: women in personal and time risk, men in financial risk. If the man sets the dominoes falling and tries to hold the woman solely responsible for not stopping the chain reaction that seems gross…	/r/MensRights	25/11/21 01:49 PM
3	What do we think about double consent? Rights should be equal just as the burden of responsibility just be equal. A woman's risk from pregnancy is greater physically and in terms of time (possibly 18 years), so a man's financial risk should be greater in order to make the responsibility equal.	/r/MensRights	25/11/21 01:03 AM
3	What do we think about double consent? Responsibility and control are different issues. Both parties are responsible for a pregnancy, but control of decision-making shifts from the man to the woman after the man donates his seed in the same way that a supplier still bears responsibility for delivery of his product to the client even though control of the product shifts to the shipping company during transport. If a man does not want the "shipment" to be delivered, he should ensure that it is never picked up by the shipper, not expect…	/r/MensRights	25/11/21 12:52 AM
5	What do we think about double consent? Just because? Have you not known a good mother? I'm sorry if you don't understand the huge responsibilities mothers bear, most of them willingly. The facts remain that pregnancy, although a joint venture, falls more heavily on the woman than on the man. Putting all the weight of decision making on the woman seems to reverse the claim that men are stronger. Physically, usually; with regard to being responsible, it depends on the man's character. If he allows the woman to herself shoulder all of w…	/r/MensRights	24/11/21 05:57 PM
4	What do we think about double consent? Sorry for any confusion. What I am saying is that the man's control of the situation ends the moment he donates his seed. If he has donated, as opposed to withholding it, the woman has sole control over what happens as a result. They are both equally responsible for any child that may result, but the man's ability to decide his participation level ends the moment he contributes his seed. This is fair because, although neither of them know the future, the weight of responsibility for any unexpect…	/r/MensRights	24/11/21 05:43 PM
11	How can I tell someone that Simone deBeauvoir was crazy? You just did.	/r/MensRights	24/11/21 02:36 PM
1	What do we think about double consent? Given the nature of procreation and pregnancy, it seems some are content to leave the woman solely responsible for choosing the life or death of an unexpected child. That does not seem fair. Why should the woman bear the responsibility of life and death alone? She did not expect the child any more than its father, she doesn't have a clearer crystal ball to foresee the future. Her emotions will change with pregnancy, that is part of the package. If the man cannot say, "In case of pregnancy, I wil…	/r/MensRights	24/11/21 12:41 PM
-7	What do we think about double consent? Not to argue, but men also have options to avoid pregnancy. True, after pregnancy only the woman can destroy the pregnancy, but before the pregnancy both have options. By not taking necessary steps, the man cedes his options to the woman. (No pun intended.)	/r/MensRights	24/11/21 11:59 AM
3	What do we think about double consent? Are there women who make a living from having babies? Are there men who have not figured that out? Are there things you can do to keep from having a problem? Sure. (Not trying to be cynical, but a dose of reality sometimes helps.) 🙂😐🙂	/r/MensRights	24/11/21 11:03 AM
3	What do we think about double consent? Isn't the risk to both implicit in the act: hers of pregnancy, his of child support? Barer beware, no?	/r/MensRights	24/11/21 10:43 AM
-6	Have I been sexually harassed? Weird that she did it in front of the class. Embarrassing but probably not harassment, unless she had a habit of targeting boys for embarrassment.	/r/MensRights	23/11/21 09:44 PM