rowdy-riker Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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7	Is it reasonable to not date a girl because of promiscuity? She likes sex. So what, who doesn't? If you fear she'll be unfaithful purely because she's had lots of partners, then that's insecurity on your part and you should take some time to work on it.	/r/seduction	15/10/18 05:22 AM
-2	What is the most effective way to handle the post-coital "what are we" line? Bring the conversation forward? I mean, we've all got different goals when it comes to relationships, but putting the onus back onto the other person let's you see what cards they're holding and build the conversation accordingly. What can I say? I'm just saying what's worked for me.	/r/seduction	10/10/18 11:57 AM
-2	What is the most effective way to handle the post-coital "what are we" line? "What do you want us to be?" "What do you think we are?"	/r/seduction	10/10/18 10:16 AM
3	Shit test : Are you cool or trying to be cool? Say it with confidence like it's a joke. Slightly self deprecating humour, because only someone that was actually cool would say they're not cool.	/r/seduction	04/10/18 04:12 AM
2	So I’ve been texting this girl for about 2 days now how do I stop or slow the texting without seeming like I lost interest. You just... don't text as much?	/r/seduction	04/10/18 04:06 AM
1	Girl I used to sleep with is coming over tonight for drinks, says we aren’t having sex. How do I play this right? Nothing really, it will depend entirely on the mood of the evening, the exact line of conversation, etc. The open relationship thing is interesting, it's entirely possible she's feeling a bit left out if her partner has been getting lucky so she's looking to create jealousy or for some validation that she's still attractive. Just play it by ear my friend, and see how it goes.	/r/seduction	02/10/18 05:49 AM
8	How do I tell me girlfriend to stay home End it and move on. You're obviously not invested in the relationship so why waste everyone's time?	/r/seduction	02/10/18 05:25 AM
4	Shit test practice thread You're totally right, although I do feel like this thread is geared more towards the nightclub/bar scene where you have a much smaller window to make an impression. You're correct though, even in those situations the most important thing is being genuinely interested in the other person. Being myopically focused on closing, getting a number etc does more harm than good because it stops you from displaying genuine interest. That said, having some clever responses or one liners in your repertoire …	/r/seduction	02/10/18 05:23 AM
1	Girl I used to sleep with is coming over tonight for drinks, says we aren’t having sex. How do I play this right? I'd resign yourself to not hitting it tonight. I mean hey, read the situation and who knows, but I'd say she's either feeling like she wants some D but wants to check if there's a connection there between you first, or she wants some emotional validation because she's feeling lonely. Or maybe has a new BF and is trying to make him jealous?	/r/seduction	02/10/18 01:52 AM
1	Why I stopped using Tinder and online dating If you ever get a chance, look at a girls tinder profile/matches. It's a fucking eye opener. They're getting dozens of matches a day, if not more, and that's just the average looking girls. So yeah, if you want Tinder to work for you you gotta stand out from the crowd one way or another.	/r/seduction	02/10/18 01:45 AM
2	Shit test practice thread You're totally right. These sorts of responses are all essentially "I'm not interested". I think the point of the thread though is how to respond in a way that creates interest rather than just giving up and walking away. It's sort of like damage control I guess. You're only getting these responses in the first place if you've misread some signals or haven't been as charming and funny as you thought you were so the best option is to work on yourself and your conversational skills to start with a…	/r/seduction	02/10/18 01:38 AM