I don’t think it has anything to do with gender, no one wants to be second or third choice. I don’t think it is kind to let someone know that they are your consolation price make or female. Anyone with a whiff of selfworth will definitely walk away.
I just feel like people can commit to each other without religion and the law involved. I feel the law and religion just puts a lot of unnecessary pressure on people.
I would definitely prefer a none-talkative passionate man. Most guys aren't that talkative at least those I know, so when he's chill that means he's listening to me running my mouth. I can't come with a passionless man I am the epitome of passion, we just won't gel
