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At this point women have privileges and baby boys don’t even have body autonomy. Male teenage rape victims are regularly forced to pay child support to the pregnant rapists. in the first world women don’t have anything to bitch about anymore.
/r/MensRights25/05/22 08:18 PM
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funny because I also fuck men and ugly men tend to be the ones most eager to please. seems like you being a lesbian is causing that bias considering that you weren’t truly able to get turned on to begin with and the same way that I’m not turned on by women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 08:34 PM
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Most of you expect orgasms with no work or communication on your part. Men are ones benching there own body weight and exerting themselves during sex. The least you can do is communicate what works instead of laying there expecting perfection. And unlike men, you can lie about having orgasms so those men never even learn that they are doing something wrong. The other group, the 10/10 fuckboys didn’t care to begin with because for them pussy is easy to get and pleasing you is not the goal, gettin…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 08:09 PM
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Clearly you’ve allowed those negative experiences to fester resentment and you now dehumanized men and don’t consider them capable of being thinking, feeling human beings. In other words you’re a misandrist. In the same way that a misogynist or Incel dehumanizes women due their lack of success/ social isolation, you dehumanize men due to bad experiences with some men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 05:29 PM
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You should probably look inward to get to the bottom of why that is. Because generalizing all men as unfeeling and incapable of in showing affection is dehumanizing and plain misandry.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/22 04:38 PM
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Arguing the frequency of an event doesn’t change the fact that it has happened and it’s an unjust thing to do to men and underage boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 03:10 PM
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My argument is that men should have a choice with regard to fatherhood and that the current laws grossly violate the personal freedom of a men and male rape victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 02:58 AM
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Then the sexes will never be equal as long as women have this kind of power over men because they choose to continue a pregnancy and force fatherhood.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:16 AM
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I can say the women also made the mistake of not asking for a conform or bring on birth control or plan B. Women have choices, men have none and it’s not equal pint blank period. It takes two to tango and you continue to perpetuate a bullshit illogical double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:20 PM
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Nor should the government be allowed to force unwanted fatherhood/or financial support from unwilling men and especially rape victims. But that’s the reality, so women have no room to bitch or call men privileged. Feminist culture loves to defend easy access to abortion while ignoring male rape victims being forced into fatherhood. Men deserve a choice just as much as women.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 10:05 PM
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The point is the culpability about who conceives a baby is a chicken and an egg scenario and in order for reproductive rights to be equal men need to be given a choice just as much as women. The woman has the choice of the baby existing or not therefore she can make the choice to raise it alone or not if a man makes it clear he’s not interested in fatherhood. If a woman’s body is entitled to legal protection then equally so is a man’s sperm and at some point (especially in cases of rape) they sh…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 08:29 PM
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When a man has sex it’s a mistake but when a woman chooses to keep the baby it’s an empowering decision? You’re full of shit. Keep having fun with that double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 07:54 PM
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And yet male rape victims are still made to pay under those laws. https://amp.usatoday.com/amp/14953965 Not that self-righteous feminists give an actual fuck about equality. So remember that male rape victims (even minors) are forced to pay child support next time you wanna bitch about “male privilege”.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 07:30 PM
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It’s women who have the decision of whether that child is even born or not and they’re also the ones who can force a male rape victim to pay for it. The same thing happens to adult men who have their sperm stolen from them they still have to pay even though once more their fathers against their will. So answer that simple question, If an adult man has his sperm stolen or a young underage boy raped should they be forced to pay child support for 18 years of their life? Feminists want abortion lega…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 04:24 PM
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Well you can thank child support laws for that, because the baby is all that matters right? Not the young boy who was raped and forced to be a father against his will because women just get all the choices when it comes to bringing life into the world and none of the responsibility if they choose to simply get rid of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 03:38 PM
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i’m sorry how many different ways are you going to try to excuse the fact that a young male child is forced to pay money to his rapist?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 03:25 PM
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And yet male rape victims are in fact forced to pay child support, even underage boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 01:31 PM
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Even if that female, say a teacher, raped an underage male student? Your fucked up!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 01:28 PM
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Does that include male rape victims, even minor ones ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 01:38 AM
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Men should have right to finically abdicate from being forced to pay for s child they don’t want. Also, it’s not privilege when a young teen male rape victim is forced to pay child support to his rapist because, “Her BoDY Her ChoIce”.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 01:21 AM
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You can say the same thing about the woman. She had the pill, plan B, that can help her avoid pregnancy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 12:40 AM
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It’s not an isolated incident, One quick Google search will show you that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:28 PM
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It’s really fucked you keep ignoring the fact that the laws you support forces a raped teen boy to pay child support to his rapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 04:35 AM
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The system is one-sided and remain sexist and all I’m hearing from you is excuses as to why women can’t take responsibility for their own decisions. When laws literally compel a teenage boy raped by an adult woman or a man raped by a woman to pay child support and be on the hook some thing is fucked up with that system.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:46 AM
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Then the burden should be solely on women since the last 50 years have seen women liberate themselves from gender roles while men are trapped in theirs. They can fuck who they want but since they are the ones in control of their own uterus they can deal with the consequences of pregnancy. just as they should have the right to abortion men should have the right to financial and parental abortion absolving themselves of responsibility for that kid. I’m also thankfully gay so I don’t have to deal w…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 10:38 PM
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Not my problem. Either you want equality of the sexes or women can go back to being property since that seems to be case you are making, that they cannot control themselves or make good decisions and society or men end up paying? So long as men are unable to divorce and leave a relationship amicably and have their lives destroyed they have a right to cheat and do what’s necessary to meet their needs. Women created the situation not men so they can be the ones to change the laws since they have a…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 10:02 PM
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Contraceptives do matter because it means that women should be responsible for their own choices as neither society or men need to be on the hook anymore. Women can work and provision for themselves this is no longer the era of 1950’s stepford housewives who have no agency and no access to a career or funds of their own. Women have been liberated from gender roles while men are still tied to their traditional rules and if that doesn’t change the system should break anyway. This all goes back to …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 09:42 PM
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Women have the tools and agency to deal with their own reproductive choices. And blowjobs don’t result in pregnancy, not my fault they are sexually dysfunctional and lazy. Plan B/condoms are a thing and with the exception of the most ardent conservative places they can access abortion. Men should no longer be paying that price, if so then don’t be surprised when they cheat. Culturally women need to stop being weak willed and learn to suck it up and suck that dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 09:16 PM
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If he divorces her amicably because she won’t get him off the same result occurs and the government will assist in destroying his life and give her everything. So with that being the case, why wouldn’t he cheat then? At least by cheating he has the chance of maintaining his marriage, home finances and access to his children while having his needs met that she neglects. cheating is made necessary and excusable due to the situation that women have created for men preventing them from leaving relat…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 08:38 PM
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You missed the fact that it doesn’t matter whether someone leaves the relationship honestly or cheats either way the result is the same for men. there’s nothing morally wrong with it, if you don’t want to suck your husbands dick he has a right to find someone else who will and to keep you in the dark about it since you intend to rape his life and livelihood anyway if he voices his dissatisfaction to you directly and requests a divorce. Women made the bed and now they can sleep in it and deal wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 07:39 PM
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It’s not a stalemate, the woman broke the contract first by failing to meet her husband’s sexual needs. It’s a no-win situation either way. if he leaves the relationship due to his dissatisfaction he gets divorced raped, if he’s caught cheating he gets divorced raped, some men may as well go with the option that at least empties their balls and gives them some level of satisfaction. Either way you’re not gonna convince me that there’s anything morally wrong with it when women hold all the power …
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 06:29 PM
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Maybe when divorce stops being such a sexist and unfair shit show for men that’ll happen but until then men have every right to cheat if their needs are not being met so they can maintain their life and access to their kids. if women don’t like the ambiguity of the situation well tough shit, give up some power in the court room otherwise men have every reason to hide the fact that they’re cheating in a dead bedroom situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/22 05:14 PM
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So I’m starting to get confused here, do feminists and women want to ignore the fact that men and women are different and women are inherently weaker or are we supposed to be fully equal? You can’t have your cake and eat it too and women are either delicate victims who need societies protection or they are equal to men which means you can get the fuck over it and wait for AAA like everyone else. you can’t ask or peddle notions of “equality” while also seeking to keep your privileges.
/r/PussyPassDenied21/01/22 02:37 PM
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You can keep excusing it all you want and denying how height is used to attack and demean men. i’ve heard you shrill Harpies imply that a guy is less of a man if he’s short. Hatred of short men is accepted in society and whether you like it or not you contribute actively to that perception by trying to make excuses for shallow standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 08:45 PM
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if social acceptability is the only standard you have to ask a demeaning question that values a man based on a feature he cannot change then I’m done talking to your dumb ass. For most guys, the moment the woman asked she was no longer a potential partner to begin with, doesn’t mean that she and other morons like you shouldn’t be called out for your clear double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 04:34 PM
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It’s not gaslighting to call you out on your bullshit shallow behavior and the clear double standard the disregards the mental well-being of men while coddling women to be as savage as they want. The OP posting this is actually over 6 foot so nine times out of 10 that question doesn’t even disqualify him from the women he’s in encountering, and yet it still rightly bothers him and he has every right to call out that shallow behavior. All I’m hearing from your entitled ass is that women love to d…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 04:02 PM
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You literally said that you consider it more judgmental to ask about weight versus height. To think it’s more severe of an offense to judge someone for something they can change is bullshit. but clearly that double standard doesn’t matter because it’s men’s insecurities that are getting prodded. Further proof that society really doesn’t give a shit about the well-being of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 03:53 PM
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if you are going to judge men for things that they can’t change then they have every right to judge you for things that you can change. this double standard and the entitled attitude most of you women have is despicable.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 03:22 PM
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If you have a height requirements then put it in your profile. You don’t get to ask and make men feel like garbage and call out there short height in a chat without being called out for it. Asking a man his height does make that woman an asshole. And the fact that you are getting triggered about the weight question shows a clear double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/22 03:10 PM
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Pics or It didn’t happen 🤣😭
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 12:36 AM
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i’m a dude and see most dudes in my vicinity in a sexual way, and i’m a man. Am I also dehumanizing them? People can be individuals and sex objects, it’s not either or, and it’s a part of life and a massive part of being a male. Your not exempt from this and if your even moderately attractive plenty of men have gotten off thinking about you. Get over it The dumpster example was for shock value, i’m pleased I was able to offend your delicate sensibilities princess. Sex is life and sex is apart of…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/21 12:35 AM
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no that would be what she wants. she wants to know you’re jerking off to her so she can shame you for it and call you a degenerate for having a libido. lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 06:26 PM
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Here’s a novel concept, people are free to fantasize about you sexually whether you like it or not. there is no such thing as unconsented thoughts and men can think about bending you over a dumpster if they want to and there isn’t a damn thing you can do about it. I look at and fantasize about straight dudes all the time and there’s nothing they can do about it and they have no right to know about it. if you think being sexually desired is dehumanizing then you have a lot more problems than just…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/21 04:32 PM
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Female entitlement and shallow behavior is an infuriating thing to listen to in a first world country. At this point I’m just thankful that I don’t have to date any of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 10:27 PM
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it’s the fact that you think that you’re better or above the garbageman or the plumber that’s the problem. no one questions the benefits of nurses or teachers, but everyone shits on the garbageman views their mechanic as beneath them. There job is more productive and gives more to society than any of your bullshit corporate executive positions or any other useless office job you do that has no tangible benefit to peoples lives outside of maintaining a pointless bureaucracy. You’re not above the …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 10:00 PM
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your personal attacks regarding fucking women don’t work with me. i’m gay, so I don’t need women’s validation and you can’t try to frame my argument as some kind of entitled misogyny born of sexual frustration. I swear you blue pills are so predictable. I don’t think any of you are even capable of admitting women generally don’t do dangerous and laborious jobs that keep modern society moving. They certainly don’t appreciate the men who do those jobs. it’s one simple statement of fact and you all…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 09:52 PM
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you don’t have to bow down because I don’t require your validation, it doesn’t change the fact that there’s not a damn thing you don’t use in your life that wasn’t built or maintained by men. it is also a fact that the female gender has been in no rush since feminism debuted to fill any of these positions or to try and do any of this work themselves and share that burden. You preach equality but you don’t practice it, and then you sneer and turn your nose down at the garbageman and act like you’…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 09:45 PM
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When one of you forgets that oil changes are necessary and you blow in oil jacket or throw a rod out the side of your lower block, that engine has to be rebuilt and I am the person that does that :) I can also rebuild transmissions, front and rear differentials, and starters. and that’s just the tip of the iceberg because they’re are specialist mechanics to rebuild everything in your car from transmissions to head valve replacement. maintenance on a car is nothing more than a long and drawn out …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 09:39 PM
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and where are all the strong independent women seeking to do that work themselves. I like my job because I’m mechanically inclined but it also takes a toll on your body. i’m already down a injured shoulder and my knees will be on their way out within 20 years at my current pace. men sacrifice, the backbreaking labor necessary and many other professions is a small testament to what it takes to keep things running. my point still stands that women don’t appreciate or understand what men sacrifice …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 09:20 PM
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Name one field in construction or mechanics that is dominated by women? and I already do my part, I keep your cars running because next to none if you delicate little princesses would know how to hold a wrench let alone use one. Because the fact of the matter is the infrastructure that you walk on and live in every day was built and maintained by men.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 07:30 PM
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I am a mechanic so your car wouldn’t run without me and other men like me. even now in the days of female empowerment most of you wouldn’t even know how to use a socket wrench. men as a group have the strength and have built society you live in and continue to this day to maintain it. Women and feminism judged men as a collective so it’s only right that I apply the same standard. thankfully I’m gay and my ego/sex life is not dependent on you or any other woman. but nice attempt at a personal att…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 04:15 PM
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Go ahead and show me all the female bricklayers, maintenance workers, construction workers, miners, waste technicians, mechanics, and engineers. men didn’t just build the society you live in, they actively maintain it and you’re strong independent woman lifestyle isn’t possible without all of those men keeping your home your plumbing and everything else you value working. I certainly don’t see women lined up to be garbage collectors to keep our streets and homes free of trash. Women want all the…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/21 02:39 PM
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Yes they should because physical touch and sexual contact is better than nothing. Romance is not a physical stimulus and human bodies need physical stimuli to thrive. it’s simple biology. More to the point, if your an ugly women, the only man that’s going to use you as a masturbation toy is a man who is capable of pulling more attractive women to begin with. The paper bag sex trope is always in reference to a more attractive man fucking an ugly woman. so maybe these women should grow up and stop…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 09:59 PM
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You show me an ugly woman and I’ll show you a line of men out her door who would be willing to fuck her and touch her in a sexual way. her problem is most of those men will probably be at about the same attractive level as she is but thanks to people like you she thinks that she’s entitled to something better than that. ugly men are under no such delusions about their prospects because they don’t have prospects to begin with. Telling straight men to go to the bus station to suck a dick is in no …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 08:52 PM
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Implying that a straight man could fulfill his sexual needs with another man is a slight but still visible nod to conversion therapy. it comes from the idea that if gay people can be deprived of same sex contact and stay strong they can learn to enjoy sex with the opposite sex. you’re using the same logic here, the man is desperate for sexual contact so he should somehow be able to fulfill that need with another man? Paper bag sex is still sex and physical touch and affection are still filling a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 08:44 PM
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The physical affection aspect is just to demonstrate the larger neglect society has for men and boys. Part of it is certainly due to toxic gender norms for men and showing affection, but the other side of it is societies clear disregard for men and boys as a whole. Women are more than happy to reward toxic masculine attitude/attributes with sex and relationships so I don’t see this changing anytime soon of men’s own accord. And part of that is definitely on women who overall have increased their…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 08:30 PM
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One of the two groups is still being denied a human need while the other one is splitting hairs about the way that need is filled. it’s still not a comparison and it’s still an entitled and dysfunctional attitude to act that way. There are men out there that don’t get any amount of physical contact let alone sexual contact and you have the gall to act like ugly women experience anything similar? Women also tend to attempt suicide for attention as well. Clearly men don’t try this to seek attentio…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 08:12 PM
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Touch and affection are essential parts of human well-being, it’s not a comparison when even ugly women have access to those things. I’ve seen plenty of women enjoy sex casually with average men so this isn’t purely a woman thing it’s a mentality. An entitled mentality that has resulted from over abundance and a society that coddles you like spoiled children. An ugly woman choosing to ignore the men willing to give her sex and affection is in no way shape or form equal to the man who hasn’t been…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 07:51 PM
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it’s not projection when you write out in detail to a straight guy to go to the nearest bus station to get his butt fucked by another man and then tell him that that’s supposed to fulfill his sexual needs. You made a bullshit (and frankly homophobic) comparison and you got called out for it so suck it up buttercup.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 07:40 PM
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Women are capable of masturbating themselves to orgasm so if you can flip that switch alone in your bedroom you can flip it for someone who maybe doesn’t check all of the boxes you want. Either way you can get your sexual needs met with minimal effort on your part. Most of you don’t even do an ounce of work during sex. The fact that you compare sex with an average man to something degrading that you don’t want at all shows that you have fucked up negative attitudes about sex. It also shows that …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 07:35 PM
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you’re the dumbass pushing conversion therapy logic on straight men implying that they could meet their sexual needs with other men. Quite frankly on the victim hierarchy straight women have no room to talk down to me, nothing you have endured in your privileged little straight princess life comes close to what I’ve been through. straight women are in no way shape or form oppressed by gay men and you mistaking my bluntness for misogyny is just comical. i’m sorry that I wasn’t raised to put women…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 07:19 PM
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Women are the ones that make sex bad for themselves and women are the ones who need a candlelit dinner in a mountain chalet and a fucking sonnet written for them before they’ll start to get wet. You’re still human beings and you still have physical bodies and if a decently attractive man is willing to fuck you it’s not my problem or men’s problem if that’s still can’t get your engine revved up. if decent or average man can’t get you aroused then your problem is your own headspace and the thresho…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 07:12 PM
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Beggars can’t be choosers. A person with access to water even if it isn’t the cleanest water is going to be in far better shape than the person who is thirsty and has nothing. I would say the same thing to a desperate straight dude, fuck women who are willing to fuck you. The difference is you don’t understand how many men out there don’t even have that option.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 07:05 PM
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Yet those women can get their sexual needs met and men show interest in them and are willing to give them that physical affection that all human beings need like it or not. it’s not my problem if those women are so mentally weak that they can’t simply enjoy sex for the sake of it and instead consider the act degrading because he won’t put a ring on it. But in no way shape or form does that mean you get to tell straight dudes to go off and fuck men and call that in anyway shape or form equal. it’…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 06:59 PM
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As a gay guy, I call bullshit. it’s not the same option and don’t even begin to fucking compare the two. Women not liking the fact that the men who fuck them won’t date them is in no way comparable to being forced to fuck the sex you are not attracted to and don’t you ever make that comparison. fucking a woman is in no way shape or form going to meet my needs and desire for other men so don’t try to pull the same bullshit backwards logic for straight people. I really didn’t expect you blue pille…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 06:00 PM
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This isn’t a matter of valuing what you say it’s a matter of calling out the double speak and bullshit when you attempt to infantilize women. Sex is a mutual activity between two people and if you agree to have sex you are not being used in any context unless you are an actual human trafficking victim. if someone wanted to fuck them then they have options and they have no room to vent or bitch compared to men who have nothing. As gay guy I can tell you straight up that women would not be a suita…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/21 05:58 PM
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If you’re going to hold a man hostage in a sexless marriage then he has the right to seek those outlets with or without your consent. Considering the risk of divorce rape I lean toward him doing it without your consent or your knowledge. i’m getting sick of listening to you entitled princesses think that sucking a dick and showing your man that you’re interested is like pulling out your own fucking teeth. if you don’t wanna have sex with him then you shouldn’t have married him. If you wanna be a…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/21 07:33 PM
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When you tie emotional intimacy to sexual orientation you were absolutely trying to put a biological cause or explanation on a psychological/cultural issue. I can talk with my male friends about emotional situations. We can hug each other and be there for each other when necessary and that doesn’t mean I want or have to fuck them to fulfill that need.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 09:05 PM
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The boundary is built by society not biology. Just 100 years ago men had more platonic close friendships, pictures from this time demonstrated this pretty clearly. It was only when emotional/physical intimacy is attached to homophobia that men start thinking like you do. I have that with my straight friends, iv comforted them when they cry and they know i’m not judging them for that or being able to talk about things that make them vulnerable. You can’t put all that on one person.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/21 07:44 PM
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Us gay dudes are perfectly capable of that, we don’t engage in sex unless were actually turned on so maybe women can learn to do the same. But I suppose that’s too much to ask considering that if women are to be believed they could be perfectly content fucking once or twice a year if that. But if you’re considering a sexual activity a “duty” then a man has every right to get the hell away from you and find a partner that’s actually aroused by him and wants to suck his dick. A blow job or any sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/21 01:46 PM
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Your the one projecting your trauma on a discussion about STD rates and using protection, it’s not about not the STD rates of rape victims. And you brought gay people into the equation to white night and I called you on your bullshit. Get therapy for your trauma, but keep you man hating bullshit out of these issues because i’m sick of females acting like angels who do no wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 09:55 PM
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we’re not talking about rape, we’re talking about consensual encounters so stop trying to move the goalposts. I’m not going to see you or any woman as a victim on this issue. Stand up for yourself and your sexual boundaries and stop acting like a hapless victim. if a guy wants to fuck without a condom and you agree then you are not a victim and you were not coerced. If you were somehow coerced then I don’t have an ounce of sympathy for someone who is that weak willed. With the exception of those…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 04:03 PM
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it takes two to have sex if a man doesn’t wanna wear a condom you’re free to end the encounter but if you do have sex with that man you made that decision with him. it’s not a male or female problem plenty of people have different views and decisions on how to have or if they should have safe sex. calling it a male problem is just another way people like you attempt to paint men as bad guys and women as innocent victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 02:11 PM
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Plenty of gay people fuck without condoms, it’s kind of something we’re generally known for. Stop white knighting and bringing us up to try to dunk on the straight dudes. if you fuck a dude and he doesn’t wear a condom and you don’t insist on one then you made the decision TOGETHER. Suck it up buttercup!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/21 01:07 AM
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I never said that you represent feminism as a whole, but you’ve spent this entire comment thread attempting to make excuses for the glaring and sexist double standard that FGM is illegal in the west while MGM is perfectly acceptable. It should bother you and it doesn’t and that’s my problem with you. people like you and the movement you support would dare to call me privileged for being a male while you strut around with intact genitals.
/r/AntiFeminists02/10/21 08:31 PM
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And yet the entire civilized world doesn’t really give a shit, you go to a protest for the bloodstained men and people driving by and look at you like you’re insane. because no one gives a shit about boys and they’re justified in that view thanks to feminism. Feminists never pushed for protecting children as a whole from GM, instead they pushed for sexist laws protecting girls only. Feminist organizations don’t care about equality. You’re disgust doesn’t mean jack shit to me it’s just an empty p…
/r/AntiFeminists01/10/21 03:20 PM
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Just like you refuse to open your eyes to the blatant hypocrisy of denying boys body autonomy. like I said, I hope high courts and some religious mothers start using the double standard against FGM laws since they are clearly sexist. If they can rip off my foreskin, The little girls can deal with the ritualistic Knick. Who are you to tell those mothers that what they’re doing to there daughter is wrong while you allow boys to be mutilated without a peep.
/r/AntiFeminists29/09/21 02:37 PM
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you do support it because nothing has been done to stop it and when bills in the western world were passed to ban female genital mutilation feminists were silent with regard to circumcision.
/r/AntiFeminists27/09/21 04:12 PM
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That’s not an opinion or thought, it’s a fact. when a little girl is born in the UK or USA no one‘s gonna be seeking to cut her genitals and if they do in the western world they will be fucking arrested for it. They certainly don’t have the support a hospital/medical establishment pressuring them to do it either. It is illegal to so much is place a tiny Nick on the clitoral hood of a little girl with my entire fucking foreskin was sliced and pealed away. All of this is done without anesthetics t…
/r/AntiFeminists27/09/21 04:02 PM
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But it is the norm in nature because very very few animals actively parent together and sometimes even mothers just leave offspring to do or die. We live as a large social species so it’s not really unreasonable to imagine a man getting multiple women pregnant. you can’t exactly confirm who is it is at that time so the whole tribe takes care of the kid. If bonobos sexual behavior is any indication to our social structure in prehistoric times, then it was men and women both getting around quite o…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/21 03:39 PM
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When boys are protected from GM I’ll decide to give a shit about whatever pet social women’s issue modern feminists deem important. But you are equal as far as the law is concerned (and privileged with body autonomy vs boys who have none). You have no room to whine at me.
/r/AntiFeminists25/09/21 03:53 AM
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Men are wasted on women. I’d do that shit gladly lol 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/21 03:55 PM
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In the western world you have a rights and privileges over men. It is a privilege that your genitals are protected while mine were not. it is a privilege that you have a government funded research committees dedicated to the flourishing of the female gender and tackling women’s concerns. It is a privilege that you have access to domestic violence/ crisis shelters (because society actually cares that women are raped and abused unlike men…..if we can the media to even CALL it rape). You have privi…
/r/AntiFeminists23/09/21 11:26 PM
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And yet you and the rest of main stream feminism have done jack shit about it while existing SEXIST laws have protected girls for more than 30 years. Clearly feminists are fine throwing baby boys under the bus as long as they protect girls. Women are not even the primary victims of genital mutilation in the west and you still couldn’t resist the urge to make everything about women.
/r/AntiFeminists23/09/21 01:39 PM
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you don’t want equal rights for all of us or you would truly be horrified at the fact that baby boys are mutilate it on a daily basis.
/r/AntiFeminists18/09/21 02:29 PM
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Feminism isn’t necessary in the west anymore honestly the majority of feminists need to shut the fuck up at this point at least until baby boys aren’t mutilated as a matter of routine and hospitals. Baby boys don’t even have genital integrity in the west so really you have nothing to complain about compared to men at this point. Feminism lies and claims that it supports him as well and you get 30 years ago when bills were being drafted in the United States to protect girls from female genital mu…
/r/AntiFeminists18/09/21 02:28 PM
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No we’re not because feminists have had the microphone for decades and have done absolutely fuck all about male circumcision. I honestly do hope a religious case is brought before the Supreme Court and I hope that they use the hypocrisy of one practice being legal and the other illegal to make female genital mutilation legal in the United States. maybe then feminists will pay attention to what happens to baby boys for a change.
/r/MensRights03/09/21 02:03 PM
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This is actually incorrect, we share our genome equally between chimpanzees and bonobos and Bonobo’s are less aggressive than chimpanzees. As a species both males and female are bisexual and use sex as a form of tension release and social cohesion. Watch any nature documentary on bonobos and tell me I’m wrong. https://www.sciencemag.org/news/2012/06/bonobos-join-chimps-closest-human-relatives Both represent the different combinations and ways that our overall genome can be expressed showing gene…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/21 11:24 PM
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You spent the last several responses of this thread calling people cowards for honestly admitting that they either don’t know like most of us, or admit they would run. If you have training then you’re even in less of a position to insult or demean those speaking frankly about what they would do in the event of a literal fucking crisis akin to war. Even soldiers snap and we’re all limited on the amount of empathy we can extend to those who aren’t our immediate family or friends. Don’t act smug st…
/r/MensRights21/08/21 11:06 PM
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The premise of your argument is flawed, all human beings are first in for most selfish and self interested in our own survival like any organism. We tend to only risk ourselves for those close to us, tribalism is nowhere near scrubbed from our genome. With the exception of protecting those close to you, or being backed into a corner, when fight or flight kicks in your brain will almost 90% of the time pick flight. While we would all try to reach out and help those in need, that doesn’t mean you …
/r/MensRights21/08/21 10:34 PM
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When the majority of men in a given population are considered uglier creepy you no longer have a moral leg to stand on. Modern social mores have given women all the power in dating and sex and you all refuse to admit that there’s any growing up you have to do as a collectively gender. we’ve spent the last 40 years or so picking apart the problematic behaviors of men and females have largely refused to do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/21 07:43 PM
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Being able to get someone off and communicate during sex is not equivalent to being able to jump higher or run faster. it’s not an activity men partake in, it’s an experience that two people share. Stamina can certainly help someone perform longer but so can foreplay which can assist in arousing someone and making an orgasm easier to achieve. Some people may like it rough some people may like it sensual/slow, there are too many variables for you to be a pro with every women you meet. probably wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 01:37 AM
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The reflex to call something misogyny generally means that uncomfortable truths offended you despite the fact that nothing specifically stated disparaged women for being women. Pointing out a toxic and unhealthy behavior is not a form of sexism. It’s not misogyny to literally point out the fact that women are capable of lying about a orgasms were men cannot. So you can either admit that women lie about sexual satisfaction and need to start understanding that men can’t read your mind or you can c…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 01:28 AM
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It’s not misogyny to acknowledge that women have an unhealthy expectation that men be masters at sex, plenty of people here have said as much while looking down at those men who are virgin or inexperienced. It is also a fact that it is women who are dishonest about sexual satisfaction and fake that satisfaction to the detriment of men and women both. My being a gay dude is relevant in so far as we have better sex on average and part of that is because we can’t be dishonest about enjoying it the …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/21 12:08 AM
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Absolutely and communication is definitely key and larger men definitely need to be mindful of their size and take it slow. With persistence and practice you can defiantly conquer that dick……Good luck :p
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:54 PM
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Bigger just means more of a challenge, any girl who would pass that up is crazy if you ask me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:29 PM
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It feels amazing!! Thick is definitely going to be more challenging 😆😂……… but all things are possible with determination and a willingness to go without oxygen 😁.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:11 PM
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To clarify gay people both men and women are better at sex than straight people and report better satisfaction in our sex lives. Because no one taught us how to have sex, almost all of us had to figure that out for ourselves and with each other. There was no special “talk”, no set expectations for how that’s supposed to work out and almost all of it was worked out in secret. I never said that men as a whole are better at sex, but they are more direct. I’m sorry you personally had a bad experienc…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 11:06 PM
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Keep acting like your childish wisdom applies to anything more than stupid hormonal teenagers talking bullshit in locker rooms. short of having a learning or cognitive/physical disability people can learn and get better at anything with practice, feedback and repetition. If straight sex is really due or die like that then you have fun with that buddy because I don’t envy you. With women’s standards being so high there must be a whole lot of “chads” walking around not knowing that they suck at it…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 10:42 PM
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Communication is physical and verbal. In order to be good at something you need input and critique. i’m not saying you have to spell it out on a damn whiteboard. “Higher, lower, faster, slower, harder” This is all I’m talking about simple single word communication during the act. if you want to have a conversation and reflect on it afterwards I highly recommend it but that’s not what I was talking about when I say communicate. This isn’t some innate esoteric knowledge that’s you get by having go…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 09:36 PM
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said woman has unrealistic expectations of a sexual experience and demands that a man read her mind to make that experience a good one. even when she herself admits that she doesn’t understand her own body or what her needs are. once again I don’t need to be straight to call bullshit on an obviously childish and entitled attitude. especially when that attitude leads to the false and shameful notion that men are bad at sex as if selfishness were the only issue. you’re the one placing undue emphas…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 08:29 PM
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Understood!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 08:26 PM
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Disparaging males and our ability to have sex and be good lovers affects all men. I don’t have to be straight to call bullshit and point out the fact that women failed to take responsibility for their own satisfaction during sex and straight up fake it. Also surprise surprise I have straight friends who deal with that shit so I’m hearing it from them and not just from the women who think it’s cute to share their sexual lives with a gay dude. And since when do I need your permission to discuss se…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 08:19 PM
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selfish lovers come in all shapes and sizes and genders but the idea that men are uniquely at fault is a pile of bullshit that’s the only reductive idea that I’m fighting against. if you wanna continue to self flagellate your own gender then by all means do so but you won’t have my support.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 08:12 PM
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I really don’t know what rock you’re living under to not understand that men generally pride themselves on being good at sex. men and women literally shame dudes for being bad in the sack, it is absolutely an enforced aspect of masculinity that men by default should know how to please a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 08:11 PM
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If you’re failing to communicate a problem then that’s on you so stop being a whiny little bitch and either demand a better experience or shut the fuck up. i’ve never encountered a dude who failed to take my needs into account, even bi-curious guys dipping their toe into gay sex always ask if they can help me out. Bad sex is never a one-sided problem if the other side fails to say so. which doesn’t surprise me because the only dudes I’ve ever had negative sexual experiences with have almost alwa…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 07:24 PM
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Because once again sex is a team activity and if you want to have the best sex possible both partners need to be in sync and communicate their needs to each other. Also there are plenty of “high value men” who are bad at sex, you tend to value the feelings and experience of your partner less when you have the ability to fuck women like used tissues. And since you females fake orgasms so often that tends to be a problem that you reinforce yourselves. if a high-value attractive man is never told h…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 07:21 PM
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if you read my other comments you would also know I don’t have a horse in this race and could give two fucks less about pleasing women. i’m just sick of the false perception that women push that men are bad at sex when it’s women themselves who can literally fake orgasms! Women are the ones who lie about sexual experiences and satisfaction to their’s and men’s detriment. Arousal is also your responsibility, I don’t seek out sex unless I’m in the mood for it. Can a certain guy get me in the mood?…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 06:49 PM
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weirdly enough faking orgasms and failing to communicate also assuages those men’s egos and gives them the false impression that they are masters in the sack.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 06:26 PM
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They need to openly communicate things like lack of arousal, because it’s not fair to hold men as a responsible for a bad sexual experience when you fail to even acknowledge your not yet turned on. Again most women seem to expect good sex but they never want to put in the effort to make that happen on their end. Sex is a team activity, so you can either communicate with your partner or masturbate because men’s perceived prowess shouldn’t be held at the mercy of non-communicative women expecting …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 06:15 PM
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I want to thank you for actually admitting this isn’t solely a guy problem and for being a communicative partner. Any guy getting with you should count himself as lucky.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 06:07 PM
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I hear from a lot of my straight friends that so many of them have never experienced deep throating and that honestly makes me sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 05:43 PM
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I apologize that I am capable of actually articulating complex thoughts where as you can only pull out reductive insults along with a massively entitled and toxic attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 05:32 PM
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upset….no, I don’t have a horse in this race and I’m clearly having better sex than most straight dudes considering your attitude about sex. However if your attitude is any indication of the larger attitudes of straight women, then I’d say straight men have a lot of reasons to be upset. It’s unfair and toxic to expect a man (especially one who’s new or inexperienced) to perform like a pro in the sack. All with no indication from people like you if he’s doing anything right or wrong. Then you wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 04:31 PM
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i’ll bet you don’t even have the skill to learn how to deep throat a dick. you’d probably be one of those prissy little princesses who would gag like a weakling. I feel bad for your sexual partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 04:01 PM
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The entitled attitude that most of you ladies show towards sex makes me happier more and more that I am gay as fuck. i’ve never had the issues you’re having and if something wasn’t working during a sexual experience we were both mature enough to talk about it and make that experience better for us both. you would be surprised how awesome experience you can have when you don’t let gender roles set the expectations. For us communicating during sex is a given and I suppose that’s why we tend to be …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 03:49 PM
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If she fails to communicate that dissatisfaction and doesn’t coach her partner to what works best for her than that’s her problem and she’s being an entitled asshole attacking the man for a problem she refused to acknowledge. Women have zero right to expect a man to instinctively know how to get her off in a sexual encounter with no communication on her side. And they certainly have no right to shame that man when he really has no way of knowing the specific complexities of her body unless… and …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 02:07 PM
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I spent a lot of my life lamenting the fact that I’m gay but honestly the purple pill debate has shown me that I dodged quite a large bullet by not having to center my masculinity on pleasing women. I just don’t think I would enjoy sex as much dealing with what you guys deal with. it’s kind of nice to know that I’ve always gotten my partner off and there’s nothing they could do to hide that from me.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 01:07 PM
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if you feel like you’re bothering him then that’s a you problem not his problem, and if you can’t effectively map your own body and what your needs are than that is once again YOUR problem. Men want to be good at sex and no self-respecting man is going to get upset with open communication because it is important to men that you get off. It is literally baked into the masculine ideal to be good at sex as a man. if anything the orgasm gap is both a result of a subsection of selfish men and a massi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 12:59 PM
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Again we may have an anatomical advantage but that doesn’t mean we don’t effectively communicate all the time during that experience. The coaching you’re talking about isn’t exclusive to heterosexual sex. The other part you’re missing is that from a cultural perspective men are expected and required to be good at sex. It is a major part of the masculine ideal to be capable of getting your partner off so it is always been in men’s best interest to satisfy their partner, and I’ve never met a guy w…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 12:54 PM
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And women need to prioritize open communication so that if something isn’t working he can be told of the issue and adjust accordingly. No one is entitled to a perfect sexual experience with no communication and a completely unrealistic expectation that a man be a master when every body is different.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 12:30 PM
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if a sexual encounter is not working and if the other partner is not being taken to the finish line it is on that partner to explain that and communicate their needs. Gay men do this all the time so why are women suddenly so fucking lazy that they’re unable to communicate a problem? Women are the only ones that fake orgasms in order to avoid that difficult conversation. They avoid that conversation because Women are taught that they don’t have to take responsibility for their own orgasm and a ma…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 12:28 PM
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When women often fail to communicate that their needs aren’t being met and fake orgasms to simply get the experience over with then that’s her issue, not his. Sex is a team activity and should always be approached as a team. if somethings not working then you communicate honestly like an adult so that both people can be satisfied rather than acting like nothing is wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 12:18 PM
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And if women aren’t communicating what their needs are and what gets them to the finish line then it’s not the man’s problem. Women are the only ones who fake orgasms which means that women are the ones who are content with not communicating during a sexual experience and then blaming their partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/21 12:15 PM
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The problem is the threshold for what most women consider attractive is far above the looks and aesthetic/appeal of the average man. You ladies call men shallow all day long and yet the only real solid requirement most men have is that you not be a literal land whale with your weight. Women have an unearned sense of entitlement and there’s so many good looking men out there that most of you ignore. while it’s anecdotal I’ve witnessed this attitude many times with female friends. I wish they woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/21 06:17 PM
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I’m sure the transactional view of sex is absolutely the current consensus for modern women. socialization can absolutely play a role in how our bodies react to specific situations. But that doesn’t make it in genetically or biologicaly based. People in repressive societies are certainly capable of bottling up their needs or desires, (priests try to be celibate but that doesn’t mean their urges go away) and that doesn’t make it a good thing. Many modern women have an unhealthy relationship with …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 11:57 PM
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Biologically sex can be enjoyable for both sexes in order to incentivize breeding in the first place. Female orgasms wouldn’t be possible if women weren’t inherently able to enjoy it. This issue you’re bringing up is a mindset problem and it’s again proof that female orgasms are women’s problem not men’s. If you are having sex for any other reason than you are horny, attracted to your partner and want to, YOU WONT HAVE GOOD SEX. Women have simply been passive for too long and expect for a guy to…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 10:35 PM
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Then communicate that because men are not responsible for your orgasm and most of you fail to communicate those needs to men in the first place. Females are the ones who fake orgasms not men so it’s females who need to start being honest about what their needs are. This also has nothing to do with the fact that it is females who tend to remove sex entirely from a marriage, Which is hardly fair to those men who were trapped in those loveless marriages. And speaking as a gay bottom I can tell you …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 09:02 PM
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All of those issues are related to lack of testosterone and disorders that come with age none of it is the natural state of male sexuality. Women are the ones who naturally can go decades without sex if they so choose, age just makes it easier to give them an excuse.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 08:00 PM
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Everyone has needs and if you really expect men to just be OK with less sex and not be allowed to meet that need somewhere else then you’re the selfish ones. While not all men can go gay because sexuality is a thing, some of them are perfectly capable of going bisexual to meet that need. The amount of dudes I’ve sucked off with girlfriends/wives would stagger you. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 07:58 PM
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How many guys have to spell it out for you understand that men and women are fundamentally different and that to men sex is an important to our happiness? I’m not really surprised considering that I’m talking to the gender that can forgo sex for decades at a time and be happy. Meanwhile, there are hordes of dudes willing to stick their dicks in glory holes just for the chance to have some kind of sexual contact.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 07:34 PM
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Women’s orgasms are not men’s responsibility and it’s women who fail to communicate their needs during sex. You don’t get to act like victims when you can’t even be honest about what you want and you’re the sex that is regularly known for faking orgasms. As a gay dude I know damn good and well that men want to be good at sex, it is part of the masculine ideal to be good at sex and satisfy your partner. Unlike women other men are capable of communicating their needs and what will give them a good…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 04:51 PM
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Considering that most women look at most men as undesirable creeps and could give a shit less if they die alone, you don’t get to claim any moral high ground. Your version of morality is only concerned with the well-being of women and not women and men as a whole.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 03:54 PM
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Open relationship so I can do what I want, and unlike you I actually want to do it instead of it being a chore.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 09:49 PM
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i’ll give it about a decade until he’s going to someone else who can actually suck his dick and not whine. Because with your attitude it’s pretty clear that you’re self-centered. I’m in an open relationship as well because it’s pretty clear that gay people understand sex and love far better than You useless breeders. 
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 09:47 PM
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this imaginary misogynistic attitude you think that all men have doesn’t exist. misogyny like homophobia are isolated incidents of prejudice based on immutable characteristics. men want to be good at sex, to deny this is to deny the very toxic male culture that you rally against. Because it is a toxic expectation that a man be good at sex by default. it is literally an intrinsic part of a man’s perceived manhood that he can please a woman. so this idea that men are conditioned to ignore female p…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 09:35 PM
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like I said it’s not very feminist of you to expect men to be good at sex by default. good sex comes from communication. Considering that it’s only women who have problems masturbating themselves, it is your bodies and they are dysfunctional. and I’m sure your husband is enjoying a one-sided love life where your pleasure is the only thing that matters. s/
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 09:18 PM
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Also…forcing the gender role and expectation that men should be good at sex by default is a regressive gender role and not a very feminist position of you to take. you whine about the patriarchy and yet here you are propping it up calling men losers because they have never got the opportunity to learn how to have good sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 08:49 PM
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Expecting him to please you with no input is the mindset of a stupid spoiled child. good luck keeping a boyfriend if you yourself never know or learn or bother to ask how to please him and what works best for him. and if you never communicate what works best for you and what you like best then you deserve the bad sex you get. If you want to lay back like a starfish and let him do all the work be my Guest, but he’s never going to pick you as a forever partner. Thank God that I don’t have to give …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 08:46 PM
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There is no misogyny involved here you idiot. Once more, It is a part of masculine ideals to be good at sex thus men will do what it takes to be good at sex. The only reason this would not be the case is if they’re not actually being told what is needed to be good at sex (communication). Since women are regularly known to fake orgasms, it’s clear which of the two sexes is being dishonest. If you expect good sex with no communication, That is your problem not his problem!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/21 07:59 PM
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Except it doesn’t work both ways because women are the only ones who demand an excellent sexual experience with zero communication. You guys are the only ones who would fake an orgasm rather than admit that you have a problem. Sex is a team activity and men are not solely responsible for your orgasm. GET OVER IT!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 04:39 PM
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Either way we’re fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 01:25 AM
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I’m gay I don’t have issues with not being the center of attention because other men are capable of communicating with each other frankly and honestly. People have friends, family and things outside of their significant other. Having dated both now I have a direct comparison for how those dynamics work and good relationships are partnerships and team efforts. This idea that you as a woman have the right to command all of a man’s time/money is nothing but narcissism. While you should certainly be…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 01:18 AM
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lesbian women have the advantage of having the same anatomy which gives them a better point of reference during sex. Also…gay people don’t get taught how to have sex and we aren’t educated by modern society on what to expect from sex, therefore we have to figure that shit out ourselves and communicate, even among gay men this is a normal part of our experience. The first question we ask each other before a hook up is even on the table is “what are you into” to get an idea if there’s chemistry. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 12:52 AM
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You keep spouting bullshit as if my perspective comes from being a basement dwelling incel when once again I have no desire to have sex with or date women, BECAUSE IM GAY. But it does give me explicit access to see the type of men that women date versus those they reject, and since most women love using gay men as emotional tampons I get to have a full spiel on why that guy isn’t worth her time. If you think these are valid counter arguments then you’re full of shit and you clearly can’t excuse …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/21 12:42 AM
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No one should be the full center of attention in a relationship. A relationship is a partnership and that involves a give-and-take from both people. That attitude is nothing more than toxic female entitlement. if you want to be spoiled petulant child go be a Golddigger, there are plenty of rich lonely old men who will have no problem making you the center of attention. At least then you’ll be honest with your intentions I suppose.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 11:56 PM
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Seems about right to me, I can count on one hand the number of women I’ve met and interacted with in my life who had reasonable expectations for the men they date. And what else would you call a group of people who constantly feel the need to be titillated and excited in a relationship? I call them stupid children. only a child gets entertainment for free and then complains when the show ends. Women are the ones who demand that a man bring everything to the table while leaving their side of the …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 11:40 PM
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yes because telling an entire group of men to ignore their biological impulses and accept being alone for the rest of their life is going to pan out really well for society. lol If that’s your plan then you can prepare for a lot more Elliot Rogers to start appearing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 10:22 PM
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How many men do you know incapable of masturbating themselves to orgasm? Teenage boys can accomplish that feat the moment they hit puberty. The fact that you at random know a woman who can’t do so it’s very telling. i’ve never met even a single man with the same issue. The point is that the female orgasm is difficult to achieve even for females themselves so you have no right to imply that men are somehow failures for not getting a women to big O mountain with no communication. Females throughou…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 10:06 PM
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Just shut that bullshit down, I’m a gay man and I see the same behavior from women and I don’t even have interest in attracting them. I’m also the person they bitch and whine about men to, so I get to hear all their little shallow regressive bullshit about how that man below 6foot should never have so much has approached her. Or bitching about the fact that he works in a call center while she works at Petsmart. my perception isn’t colored by rejection because I could give a fuck less about attra…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 09:28 PM
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The orgasm gap is your fault, men are not responsible when women refuse to communicate and treat sex as a service a man gives them rather than as a team activity. A good chunk of you can’t even masturbate yourself to orgasm, you have no place to imply men can’t provide the effort when your the sex that fakes orgasms then and treats sex like a chore.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/21 07:44 PM
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I swear men are fucking wasted on you straight bitches.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/21 08:00 PM
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If communication and being a proactive lover makes one forgettable then i’d say she’s not even worth the effort. Plenty of women have no issue ( and even enjoy) men taking the time and effort to learn what gets her off. Gay guys do the same thing. If you can’t talk and reflect on a sexual experience (especially with a consistent partner) then no one would have mind blowing sex. Even mid coitus, simple communication is effective. “higher, lower, harder, faster, right there”. It takes relatively s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 10:27 PM
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Bullshit, women are the ones who fake orgasms, not men. She can either communicate her needs or get over it. It’s not on men to be mind readers.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/21 02:36 AM
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Once again your response shows that it’s not so bad being a gay male. And honestly you’ve confirmed my running hypothesis that most women are sexually dysfunctional. So thanks for that I guess. And you absolutely are being dishonest when the number of dates necessary to get laid ( if at all) is kept to yourself. Or are you meaning to tell me that it’s standard practice nowadays for women to say “look you pay for three dates and I fuck you on the third”.?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/21 12:21 AM
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Sounds like you’re full of shit then, considering that plenty of women have dates paid for to the tune of thousands of dollars a year and plenty of you still withhold sex after said date. Sounds like a lot of you are failing to meet your obligations then, not surprising considering that most of you are so sexually lazy you don’t even know how to suck a dick. You use men and your sexuality to manipulate them, most of you just refuse to be honest about it. If it was truly fair then you would put o…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/21 02:33 AM
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Straight men are just as responsible for that since we were pushed out of the boys club and often had the shit beat out of us by you guys. Many of us allied with feminists in our early years because women were the only ones who would treat us like human beings. Maybe straight men should do a better job of raising masculine gay sons and letting us into the proverbial boys club.
/r/MensRights18/06/21 01:27 AM
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I have plenty of straight male friends who deal with this shit so I have every reason to call out women on there superficial standards and bullshit. If anything my opinion holds more weight because it’s not colored by rejection or resentment. You just don’t like the fact that the opinion is coming from an unbiased source whose manhood and self-esteem aren’t rooted in attracting women. And you didn’t answer the question of why it is that men have to earn the date while women get to sit back and o…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 10:09 PM
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The attitude always seems to be that men have to earn the date while women get to sit back and have everything paid for and done for them. Why is it the man who always has to bring value and earn it? relationships are supposed to be a dialogue, not a transaction. Doesn’t really seem fair to me, I’m happy to be gay and never have to play that game with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/21 09:13 PM
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https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.theatlantic.com/amp/article/359493/ There you go another article attempting to make excuses for it. Or is the Atlantic not a serious enough publication for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 08:00 PM
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Nice moving of those goal posts.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 07:14 PM
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Took me all of five seconds to find one. https://berkeleyhighjacket.com/2020/opinion/kill-all-men-response-bold-statement-brings-awareness-to-the-oppression-of-the-patriarchy/
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 07:10 PM
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Like the person above me said, a kicked the dog has every right to bite back. And no it’s not the topic of conversation because boys being red pilled does not mean they are murderers. And you literally refuse to acknowledge the way boys are treated. when I can read a feminist article/ reddit posts trying to excuse the phrase “kill all men” your movement lost credibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 07:05 PM
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You reap what you sow. Also…..nice generalization implying that every boy that gets depressed or angry inevitably becomes a killer, I thought you dumb fucking feminists were trying to get away from enforcing gender roles and stereotypes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 06:55 PM
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Its not entitlement to point out that females are largely shallow and unrealistic about their dating standards. And you can’t say I’m speaking from entitlement because I don’t even give a flying fuck about female attention, I get plenty of sex from dudes and never have to deal with the insanity that is female dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 04:54 PM
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Typical feminist never able to admit females are human beings also capable of having flaws and making mistakes. No they’re just flawless goddesses and everything is men’s fault right?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 04:45 PM
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Being gay or enjoying anal doesn’t devalue your manhood. And in some ways he’s not wrong, as a gay guy I can definitely attest to the fact that male culture creates too many outsiders which is why the victim mentality has been able to flourish so easily. Straight white men are not the enemy but they did themselves no favors with the abuse and rejection of men like me from the “boys club”. If the woke left had no real outsiders to work with then they wouldn’t have gained popularity and cultural p…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 02:17 PM
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Maybe the left should’ve thought of that and had better optics before it decided to shit on boys and men as a feminist activism strategy. You guys of already fucked up the schools to the point where boys are basically viewed as defective girls by the staff/teachers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/21 02:12 PM
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So at what point are you going to openly admit to him that you settled, that he’s not attractive to you and you could totally go out and fuck a chad that evening if you wanted? i’ll bet that would go over well.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 08:19 AM
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Women are hardly perfect angels, we’re all filthy selfish fucking human beings here, so get off your fucking high horse.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/21 08:09 AM
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Just gonna second this as a gay dude. So many attractive straight men don’t even appear on the radar of straight women. Most of them have completely over inflated your own attractiveness and ego.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/21 07:54 PM
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Just because women don’t consider sex valuable doesn’t change the fact that they can easily meet essential human needs like love and affection whenever you want. Average men stop getting any kind of love, affection or physical touch after we hit adulthood, while you have access to those very human needs virtually whenever you want. It is an advantage and I get sick of women acting like it isn’t. You don’t find sex valuable for the same reason a rich water baron doesn’t get thirsty in a desert.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/21 08:03 PM
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good luck telling the socially awkward IT administrator to ignore that pretty lady giving him attention. You’re a fucking joke just like feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 04:12 PM
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They can be held responsible for their actions, but when a goldigger tries to manipulate men (especially those with low self confidence) you act like he’s not a victim. So even when women abuse and use others it’s still a man’s fault right?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 02:34 PM
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All you seem to know how to do is toss out insults while acting like you’re an innocent little princess. Have fun being single while you look for that Brad Pitt look alike that you think is going to date you.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 02:24 PM
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Considering the shallow standards women have for men I highly doubt that. Just because you don’t want to admit to hierarchies doesn’t mean they don’t exist. I’m also gay and could give a fuck about attraction to women. doesn’t mean I won’t call you on your bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 12:00 PM
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Harvey Weinstein is a man with power. The average dude you would consider a beta male is in nowhere near that kind of position of power. But if that’s the comparison your dumbass wants to draw while ignoring male sexual differences then go ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 11:27 AM
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Why is it the victim (male) who is being manipulated at fault here? Also, you expect to dude who has never received positive sexual or social attention in his life to be able to resist when a moderately attractive woman gives it to him? That’s like asking a man who’s been thirsty in a desert to spend an hour wondering if the water is poison in the oasis he just found. His body and instincts are in control at that point.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 12:03 AM
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I’m not even straight and I can confirm that women are sexually dysfunctional and selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/21 09:00 PM
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You need it explained to you why attractive men who know they’re attractive become womanizers?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/21 12:53 AM
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You and your first comment literally said there needs to be a return to traditional marriage you fucking moron. I really don’t give a flying fuck about you anymore but you try to bring that shit back and you’ll learn how many fucking guns I own.
/r/MensRights16/04/21 06:08 PM
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My support of my country is dependent on being treated as an equal citizen. i’d much rather see it collapse then live in a theocracy like you.
/r/MensRights16/04/21 03:38 PM
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You’re the one stating that you want traditional marriage to come back. Generally when people like you use that word it’s to refer to a version of marriage that excludes people like me. So maybe clarify your statement a little better next time.
/r/MensRights15/04/21 08:01 PM
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Prejudice means to pre-judge. if you enter an interaction with fear before even knowing the person you were literally pre-judging their intentions, based on nothing more than them being a man. Taking your trauma and applying i’ll intentions to every man you meet is absolutely prejudice.
/r/MensRights15/04/21 03:14 AM
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You’re a really fucked up individual if you think baby boys don’t have the right to body autonomy. Circumcision should be illegal. And that includes religious circumcision. The only exception should be actual cases of phimosis. This means it Has to be an elective or medically necessary surgery. Certainly not something to be done as a preventative measure for implied diseases or issues that are rare. And not on FUCKING infants who can’t consent at all. it’s always a double standard and women alwa…
/r/MensRights15/04/21 02:19 AM
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just so your aware. “bless your heart” translates to “fuck you” in Texas.
/r/MensRights15/04/21 02:03 AM
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Cool, I don’t like you either. But the day any of you try to bring back laws that criminalize my existence as a gay guy is the day you’ll find out how many guns I own. Because those days are not coming back without bloodshed and not just ours this time. Spew that opinion all you want. I certainly don’t want you canceled or your life destroyed in anyway. i’m perfectly capable of recognizing that your opinions and words do not literally harm me. Just recognize that they should stay opinions and no…
/r/MensRights15/04/21 01:59 AM
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As a gay man if, you try to take away my right to marry, I guarantee you I and many others will watch this country burn before we let you turn back the clock on people like me. Goes without saying MRA’s would lose my support to. thankfully OP shows that people like you tend to be the minority.
/r/MensRights15/04/21 01:50 AM
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Yeah that’s bullshit those men are being used. And women are more than happy to cheat so they can continue using that man for his resources. So not only are women lying and denying them a chance to be with a partner that’s actually attracted to them, you think you deserve praise for it. More to the point women’s standards don’t actually lineup with their own SMV nine times out of 10.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/21 09:07 PM
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I actually don’t have mommy issues but nice guess from your armchair psych 101 class.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/21 05:55 PM
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Well that’s the thing isn’t it,I’m just the man who can call you out as a man who likes other men. i’m also not a baby gay who is unable to make friends with straight men and hides within the LGBT community. so the ridiculous and shallow standards of women does affect those I care about. You trying to deflect my argument saying it shouldn’t matter to me it’s just more proof that you can’t acknowledge the shallow dating standards of modern women. Men were rightly taken to task during first and se…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/21 09:07 PM
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It’s not gaslighting to point out how completely self interested and childish it is to keep score in your head about the perceived value you’re not being given in a relationship. if you’re going to pull that shit then share the fucking scorecard with your partner, have more than one biased person taking score. Go ahead and try it and see how well a relationship works out when the other person constantly feels judged or on call to perform.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 10:18 PM
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no the problem is lack of communication with the man you’re having sex with. females are also the only ones who will try to fake orgasms rather than being honest that the experience isn’t working for them. lesbians also have the same advantage gay men have since we know how to pleasure the same sex better than the opposite sex. it still doesn’t change the fact that there isn’t a single man I’ve gotten with who didn’t put in the effort to make sure I was satisfied just like he was so you’re full …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 07:53 PM
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It’s not a man’s fault that women are sexually dysfunctional. A good chunk of women statistically can’t even masturbate themselves to orgasm let alone expect someone else to get them off. that’s not a male problem! As a gay guy I know for a fact that men are capable of putting in the effort to pleasure their partner. Its not a myth that women have issues with sexual pleasure. It is a myth that men are responsible for that.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/21 07:30 PM
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I didn’t say I have no standards I said that my standards are not ridiculous. Here the deal dumbass, most men are not Brad Pitt and it’s definitely not gay men who demand that our boyfriends look like Brad Pitt. But females do even when they aren’t in the same league. So many women over inflate their own ego and attractiveness. Men have standards for things you can change like weight. Women are the ones with standards for immutable characteristics like height. I have standards just like anybody …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 07:15 PM
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And that has what to do with the shallow standards of straight women? I can understand if you’re referring to the propensity for monogamy only within straight relationships but that has nothing to do with female aesthetics and standards for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 07:06 PM
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Yeah that’s bullshit. The frequency of casual sex that women have has nothing to do with the fact that you can go on any dating site and find most female profiles with height requirements, or big muscles. My experience may be anecdotal on my side. But I’ve never seen the equivalent happen for straight men. If two ripped marines could show interest in me, why can’t women do the same with other short or average guys? Because women are ridiculously shallow!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 06:07 PM
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The difference is the threshold for what most gay men consider unattractive. If your not truly busted or morbidly obese, even most older gay men could find a willing twink who wants a “daddy”. We also have many subgroups that help that skinny awkward otter find a muscle bear. Right their is a common pairing that eschews straight dating standards. The skinny guy wants a big guy and the big muscle guy wants a short one. now tell me, how many straight women want short men by comparison? I say all o…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/21 03:40 PM
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A good chunk of us never got to become part of the boys club so to speak. The results of that we were as a whole alienated from masculinity and male bonding. for this reason a lot of us are subservient to feminism because many gay men view feminists and women as the only ones to fight for us. Couple that with the many insults and bad experiences we had with straight men in our lives and it seems pretty obvious why we don’t champion men’s issues more. If the lot of us had received more positive e…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/03/21 07:40 PM
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Huh? I Didn’t see any mention of that by larger media, all I heard about were females being given the privilege of continuing to live while their male counterparts died horrid brutal deaths. All to zero mention by the president of any fucking nation including my own. But he could spare a word for the still living girls. Fuck that and fuck you! I do care about those men killed, far more than you do trying to justify the lack of coverage of innocent boys being brutally murdered. Eat shit!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 04:44 AM
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The focus should have been on the boys from the start, the girls are an afterthought in terms of severity. Children where burned alive, and all of our first world society and shitty people like like you care about is the STILL LIVING female victims of the lesser crime. It’s fucked up. how do you sleep at night?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/21 01:08 AM
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yea, cuz i’m gay
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 08:22 PM
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Children of any gender should always have sympathy if they are the victims of violence. Choosing to ignore them or consider them less than because of an “implied potential” for violence is nothing more than victim blaming and sexism against boys. Those boys should have been mentioned and it’s thanks to male disposability that they were not. You yourself admitted it. So you can either concede the point that you were deflecting and failed to acknowledge the horrible crime done to them and societie…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 07:59 PM
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it’s not bullshit, you’re just uncomfortable with the fact that the feminist narrative falls apart when you go outside of a cushy first world nation like the US.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 07:54 PM
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what media values and what it chooses to write on is an extension of what society places value on and what will get ratings. since the narrative is it only women are oppressed, clearly this makes it OK to ignore the fact that those boys where again BURNED ALIVE. But according to the media the only thing that mattered was the girls who are put into sexual slavery. This is a clear example of boys and men being viewed as disposable and not even worth the mention.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 07:52 PM
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Men are not a monolith and women are just as complicit in ignoring male disposability. this once again does not explain the OP original question of why as a first world society we ignored literal male children being burned alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 07:06 PM
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None of this answers why society at large ignore the boys who were burned alive. you’re deflecting and placing emphasis on the perpetrators instead of the ignored victims who were male children.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 06:53 PM
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I truly hope that if you get pregnant you don’t have a son. you’re really not suited to be a mother especially to young impressionable male children.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/21 03:19 PM
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The attitude of women like you makes me actually thankful to be gay and I never have to deal with your bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/21 09:15 PM
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Yeah as a gay guy I’ll tell you right now you can politely shut the fuck up about assuming what our lives are like. I’d happily give up my left testicle to feel secure in my masculinity as straight men do. also none of you dumb fucks understand what it’s like to have maybe 10% of the population as potential partners. Sex is literally the only consolation prize we get for being faggots.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 05:53 PM
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Physical pleasure during sex is biology’s way of pushing that imperative. “most women are straight” No shit, it’s almost like the majority has to be straight for sexual reproduction to work as a viable evolutionary mechanism.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 09:43 PM
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It’s a biological imperative to reproduce dumbass. And most men being straight means (and I need you to stay with me on this one) they want sex with women. having an orifice made for cock certainly helps. but if you don’t wanna have sex with men and you wanna be left alone I would advise you to just use lots of teeth when giving head. Its a sure fire way to keep most men the fuck away from you for the sake of protecting their dick.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 09:14 PM
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let’s be honest here, it’s not difficult for men to get off. Don’t act like you’ve achieved anything with that when you have an orifice made for it. Most boys could accomplish that feat in the beginning of puberty. Its also not my fault you’re bad at sucking dick, most women can’t suck their way out of a paper bag to save their life. Otherwise, your boyfriends wouldn’t come to us when they need good head. A man could be thinking about his grandma and I’ll still get him off because for me it’s no…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 09:04 PM
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I pointed out how women blame men for their sexual dysfunctions, which requires lies and deceit with your partner. You claim men are bad at sex when women.... Failed to communicate dissatisfaction with your partner. Refuse to take responsibility on your end to help him achieve it with you. Then you claim that men are all inconsiderate and bad lovers, all while LYING TO HIM AMD FAKING IT. These are the inconsistencies I was talking about. You can’t blame someone for a problem when you refuse to a…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 08:56 PM
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i’m obsessed with pointing out the clear lies and inconsistencies that women like you push against men. And as a gay man I have every right to speak on that issue. Especially as a gay man who knows for a fact that men are perfectly good lovers. You’re the one who started it by making false claims about men’s ability to care and provide sexual pleasure for their lovers. if you attack men’s sexual performance you’re attacking all of us. Gay and straight.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 08:39 PM
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Believe me I don’t want it, societal oppression wasn’t enough to get me to like women. What makes you think I want your defective cold as ice sex drives and victim complex in my life? I sure as fuck don’t need you to tell me that. I’ll stick with fulfilling relationships with other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 08:30 PM
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Oh don’t worry I’m happy to stay far the fuck away from most women. Clearly there’s nothing to be gained from relationships with females except resentment and an unfulfilling sex life. Because if you really can’t see a difference between a husband wanting to be intimate with his wife vs rape, we have nothing more to discuss.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 07:57 PM
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Nope, I just have a healthy view of relationships that doesn’t involve viewing sex as a power struggle. If my husband asks me to suck his dick, I’ll fucking do it even when not in the mood. Why? BECAUSE I ACTUALLY LOVE HIM. Because I’m not a whiny bitch like you making him feel good makes me happy. it’s obvious you won’t ever be a full person when you can’t divorce concepts like rape/assault from healthy relationship/sexual needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 07:37 PM
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Then don’t be surprised when that husband has every right to leave. Mature and competent women don’t consider it an obligation or “rape” to show love for their husband. Most relationships are not asexual. Im honestly happy to be gay right now knowing I don’t have to deal with half the bullshit that women like you put men through. Your attitude toward sex is warped and clearly influenced by mental illness.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 07:23 PM
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if you equate a husband’s desire for intimacy with rape this clearly shows why feminism is losing its popularity. Rape is a crime, done for power not pleasure. Sex is something you should be able to do with a lover or partner. it should be a fulfilling or at least neutral experience with someone you cared deeply about. Sometimes we will be in the mood, and sometimes we may consider it a chore. But it’s not in anyway comparable to rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 07:13 PM
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It’s not a boundary to keep men sexually deprived and trapped in a relationship or marriage. No one has a right to force themselves on you, but men do have a right to leave you and take issue with their needs not being met. Women who treat sex as an obligation are incapable of forming healthy relationships. in the dead bedroom sub Iv seen women describe unwanted sex with her husband as “violating”? Like ? that’s your husband, not a stranger. If that’s an issue then clearly the women needs fuckin…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 06:57 PM
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Many Women use it as a form of control against men, you look at it as a duty or inconvenience instead of an enjoyable experience. Something you do for him instead with him. Others who can actually communicate and take responsibility for their pleasure enjoy it i’m sure, since they can actually admit when they are the problem. Most of you don’t do this and you blame your sexual dysfunction on men. As a gay man, I will always call bullshit on this.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 06:45 PM
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It does exist. And that’s females fault. I never said it doesn’t exist, I said that men aren’t the reason for it. As a sex, females can’t even masturbate themselves to orgasm reliably. As someone who has sex with men, I’m in a clear position to call bullshit on your lies that men don’t care about their partners pleasure.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 06:32 PM
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Clearly you don’t. But if that’s the case then you should stop parroting bullshit lies about men failing to get you off. Women have no one to blame but themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 06:09 PM
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Then why would I? Iv been fucked plenty of times and not every guy fucking me is going to make me orgasm with his dick alone. Most of the time they’ll jerk me off or I’ll take matters into my own hands and jerk myself off depending on the position. most of the time I don’t even have to ask. When they begin to get close they immediately take my pleasure into consideration as well. Point is, I take responsibility for my own pleasure and communicate when I want something different or if I’m not cli…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 06:01 PM
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Its not a man’s responsibility to get you to orgasm if you don’t communicate with that person. Of the two sexes, women are the only sex that can’t even masturbate them selves to orgasm let alone ask someone else to do it for them. Stop blaming men for your lack of communication. Most of you couldn’t even suck a dick to save your life, so you’re lucky you have an hole tailor-made to do that work. Oh wait! I’m sorry, nine times out of 10 it’s the man doing the work and actually thrusting. What act…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/21 02:34 PM
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Neither am I, but for some reason I don’t have a victim complex just because I get fucked. You have nothing to complain about. but maybe you dumb bitches could be less hateful of bisexual men so they can come out of the closet and start getting with people who actually want them sexually. That should take the pressure off you, you vulnerable delicate little wallflower 😩.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 02:00 PM
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As a gay guy who gets regularly fucked in the ass, stop whining. You’re vulnerability has nothing to do with being a receptive partner during sex. Women always complicate what should be simple and fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/21 01:27 PM
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God it’s just hilarious the lengths that females will go to not take responsibility for any negative aspects you have in dating standards. Straight Men have been getting bitched out for more or less the last decade being called shallow and told their standards should change, when in reality it’s women who are shallow. Call me crazy but has a gay guy I see so many attractive dudes every day. Many of them don’t have girlfriends and it really does show for me how women seem to just ignore men like …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/21 01:28 PM
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I don’t care where the emphasis is, the person who’s actually sacrificing and taking the time to watch over her is the husband not the wife. No matter how you try to twist it, failure to mention or even acknowledge the husband is nothing but pure misandry peddled by feminism. it wasn’t the sisterhood that protected her, it was a man sacrificing his time and energy for her with no expectation of reward. As far as I’m concerned the wife should’ve gone out there and watched her damn self. It’s like…
/r/MensRights03/02/21 06:04 PM
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then acknowledged the husband who takes the time out of his morning to look over a complete stranger everyday.
/r/MensRights03/02/21 03:52 PM
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No it’s just completely ignoring his part and the selfless act of being the one to get up and watch over her every day.
/r/MensRights03/02/21 01:18 AM
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At last we agree on something! More guys for me and my boyfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 10:15 PM
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Oh I will, and please keep being frigid towards men sexually so more and more of them can become bisexuals and learn what actually being wanted feels like.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 10:01 PM
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If you would equate communicating to make sure that both of you are satisfied as “wife duties” then you’re fucking insane and we have nothing else to talk about. learn to communicate or stop blaming men for your own sexual failures. it’s not his problem, it’s yours.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 10:00 PM
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Also the big difference between you and me? when I suck dick I actually enjoy it, it’s not a chore and the guy I’m pleasuring can sense that. I enjoy pleasuring men and unlike you I’m not sexually dysfunctional and I receive pleasure from the simple act of giving it to someone else, it’s validating and rewarding and helps on my own hike up orgasm mountain. For you, it sounds like a service you begrudgingly offer, which shows me that like most dysfunctional women, you don’t actually enjoy men sex…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 09:55 PM
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You are a fucking idiot if you can suck a dick and not tell if a guy is enjoying it or not. And once again unlike women men visibly orgasm so if you’re not doing the job you know if you’re doing well or not. Not only that but men visibly get aroused. if he’s not maintaining a Boner that’s a good bet that you’re doing something wrong. Women have none of these visual indicators to help them understand if you’re enjoying the experience. Sex for men with women is a guessing game and failure to guess…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 09:43 PM
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Treating others with care is not equivalent to taking you to orgasm mountain with absolutely no communication, guidance or understanding on what works for you. Whether you choose to admit it or not, the vast majority of women feel that men should be able to do this automatically or it’s somehow his failing as a lover. Men are not solely responsible for your sexual pleasure, it’s that simple. take ownership of your sexual experiences and communicate or shut the fuck up. If you can’t do that then …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 09:31 PM
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Cool, then admit that you’re a sexually dysfunctional female and stop whining at men for being solely responsible for female sexual pleasure. Women love to complicate what isn’t complicated and nowhere is this more apparent than with sex. You hold unfair expectations of not only male appearance/desirability, but sexual prowess and it’s completely unreasonable to an entire gender that fails to communicate.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 09:21 PM
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It’s on you to fix it, If sex is a chore or your pressured into it that’s on you. You have no excuse to feel pressured in today’s feminist controlled dating culture. it’s not man’s responsibility to read your mind. Gay couples are better at sex not just because were the same gender but because we communicate and we don’t have the same roles and expectations of heterosexuals. And by expectations, I mean men being the only ones held responsible for your issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 08:52 PM
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Men can’t fake orgasms, this issue has nothing to do with men. Women are the ones with the issue so it is women who need to asses that problem and self reflect on how to communicate during sex instead of blaming men. You can’t ask men to be responsible for your pleasure when women can’t even get themselves off let alone someone else. Gay men are proof enough that men can do the work to satisfy someone else. Men aren’t the issue, you are.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 08:37 PM
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Both genders are going to lie at this point to hedge their bets in the dating market place to suit their needs and wants. The difference is women are the only ones who fail to ever consider that they are the problem. instead of failure to orgasm being a “you” problem you all act as if the man was supposed to read your mind and know what he wasn’t doing correctly. Only women have that level of entitlement to blame someone else when you fail to communicate dissatisfaction.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 08:22 PM
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Faking orgasms is a female tactic. If you don’t get off and say nothing that is failure to communicate plain and simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 08:15 PM
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I have nice things and my needs are met, because my needs don’t require women at all. And that is a true blessing in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 08:13 PM
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i’m already well aware of how sexually dysfunctional women are. Most of you can’t even get yourselves off via masturbation but you expect someone else to do the same with no communication. it’s why I made more and more thankful every day that my sexuality doesn’t involve your gender at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 08:08 PM
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Then fight the culture that incentivizes men to lie to succeed. Ultimately especially for younger men the success is all that matters. The need for men to lie comes from the completely unreasonable standards that women have for male attractiveness. (i’m fully aware of those shitty standards as a gay man and the majority of you females are fucking garbage when it comes to how stringent you’re standard are). Your feelings mean nothing until you start to consider man’s feelings and insecurity as we…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 08:04 PM
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Them nothing will change and you have no reason to bitch. Men cannot be the only sex to admit that their sexual imperative and standards have issues and harmful side effects.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 07:53 PM
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Women will continue to deal with it until they assess the standards they want men to meet. it’s women who write the standards on how men behave to get sex not men. so you can either lower your standards as a whole or shut the fuck up and stop whining about what men do to succeed. The point is that using those attitudes they do succeed and that’s your fault not his, he’s just using what works.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/21 07:52 PM
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He doesn’t have to be straight, but he can resist the forced feminization of gay men by leftist culture. Being gay doesn’t exclude being a man but gay culture certainly involves reviling and hating anything masculine and no space has been made in that culture for masculine gay men. I’d rather take my chances with the MRA’s. you’re way off the mark of understanding what he was trying to say, and anyone with an ounce of sanity would be disgusted at your average pride parade and the behavior that g…
/r/MensRights26/01/21 07:54 PM
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The strains of competition are defiantly lessened when you’re at least getting something out of it if you are one of those guys in a lower “league”. The biggest destroyer of the male ego and social standing is virginity for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/21 01:46 AM
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Spoken like an ignorant feminist with no response. I swear the whole of women kind would implode before they could admit that they do anything wrong or badly, and you wonder why the red pill is a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 09:37 PM
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Hey guess what? I have had sex with women, since you know living in a heterosexual society forces me to do so before I figured out my sexuality, and I stand by the fact that I wasn’t impressed and that’s not just a matter of being gay. Nothing you say is going to ultimately change the fact that it’s women not men who are bad at sex and have failed to properly communicate with men in mass on that issue. And mentioning inexperienced teenage boys is about the dumbest fucking anecdote I’ve ever seen…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 09:32 PM
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If you require hours of prep time, a massage, and a ritual sacrifice to start climbing orgasm mountain in a sexual encounter, that’s not men’s problem that’s a woman’s problem. I don’t know, maybe it’s because gay men give each other more sex that were able to practice sex far better and far more often than straight people do. But I really don’t think men have any onus in this issue. Another commentor in this very thread stated that not even every woman is able to give herself an orgasm via mast…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 02:29 PM
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You are really trying to excuse more than 80% exclusion of the male population in dating and sex? Once again (and holy fuck I can’t believe I’m saying this twice today), i’m actually happy to be gay for once. If you guys are going to be that stringent could you at least get rid of your exclusionary preferences for Bi guys so they’ll come out and I can have a larger dating pool please?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 12:47 AM
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Couldn’t have put it better!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 12:37 AM
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This is proof to me that women are bad at sex and currently the cause of their own issues with sexual satisfaction. Most women have the gall to call men bad at sex when you can’t even get yourselves off? There isn’t a man alive from the moment he hit puberty that couldn’t figure out how to get himself off. I can only imagine how intimidating and terrifying sex must be to a virgin Straight guy with all the undeserved blame women put on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 12:26 AM
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Wrong, it’s good for you, sexual release enhances immune function and decreases stress. Sex is a normal part of the human condition and we are sexual beings no matter how much you want to ignore it. For men, sex and masturbation are actually important to prostate health as well. Consistent sexual release is correlated with a decrease in prostate and testicular cancer‘s, along with other related conditions like prostatitis. That gender bent fem theory bullshit really must’ve hammered to the flawe…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/21 12:12 AM
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The sex is bad because women are poor communicators and unlike men it is significantly harder to get them to orgasm. As a gay man I know for a fact that men can put in the work to get someone to orgasm. but unlike men who orgasm visibly, women don’t and you’re the only sex known to fake orgasms, men can’t. Women are the only ones who can be sexually deceptive and then put the onus on men as the problem. Its not the fault of men that most women are sexually deficient and non-communicative. i’m si…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/21 11:59 PM
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Then learn to suck a dick if you don’t wanna spread your legs. but for fucks sake try to give a shit and in someway show your man that you want him.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/21 06:52 PM
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If me and a guy are having sex and I’m the bottom and he gets off, I’ve never even had to ask and that dude will either grab my dick or start sucking like no tomorrow. I have never been with any gay or bi guy that has failed to take the effort and time to reciprocate and make sure that I’m also getting off. But unlike with women, he actually knows without a shadow of a doubt that I did in fact get off because men visibly orgasm. you’re all trying to talk circles around the point that women are u…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 04:01 PM
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Clearly it takes more than a little “enthusiasm“ considering how often women bitch and moan about not being satisfied in bed. At the end of the road, I have to consider two factors. Either it’s women or men as the primary issue and I have to say that since women are the ones who are more than content to fake orgasms, men are not the larger problem with female orgasms, women are. The majority of you should get better at blow jobs I guess because if oral is the only sure fire way to get women to c…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 03:46 PM
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It’s a bold face lie to say that body positivity is getting better for men and you won’t be able to really say that until the words “big dick energy” are stricken from our cultural lexicon. And quite frankly it’s shit like this more that makes me happy to be a gay man since it means that I don’t have to write a fucking symphony and wait for the planets to align to get my partner off like it is with women. The way you make it sound I’m damn happy to have escaped with only one heterosexual encount…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/20 03:05 PM
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