| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Let her reach out? | rp-snatchyahoe | /r/askTRP | 16/08/19 01:31 PM | |
| 1 | Thoughts on demoting an OLTR | rp-snatchyahoe | /r/askTRP | 26/08/19 09:48 AM |
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| 2 | How do you control urges while working on yourself?Yes, they are everywhere and yes, people on this sub are right when they say that especially women on dating apps are trashy. Not gonna lie, I'm feeling pretty cynical too at the moment - like there's not one broad out there looking half-decent that isn't broken. In the end, we've got only ourselves to blame, because we know how the world works, how intergender dynamics work and how to handle them but we still. got. played, brother! As if I didn't know immediately what was going on when a fully … | /r/askTRP | 11/01/21 10:28 PM |
| 1 | How do you control urges while working on yourself?Found myself in the exact same situation, been wanting to go monk mode after blowing my one shot at settling down on a narcissistic broken person, but a man has needs and shutting out women won't make me deal with the next one trying to tie me down any better. Embrace the low-hanging fruit, man. Be it Tinder, Pickup, other online shit... It's not work at all and you'll get laid, freeing your mind up for what's important. | /r/askTRP | 10/01/21 02:37 PM |
| 1 | Lover Her; Don't Fall in Love with HerWell said, decently written! Eventhough you almost immediately rebutted it, it bothered me you introduced the comparison to your dog. First off because I hate it when that happens and I feel for you - when you have a perfectly trained dog (mine is a competitive Schutzhund Cane Corso my NPD ex is taking with her) and have to have someone watch it for you only for the dog to return spoilt, fat and misbehaved. And that's my second gripe - you wrote when it's your dog you can work on it. That's not … | /r/TheRedPill | 04/12/20 11:41 PM |
| 20 | Tinder Mistakes You’re Probably MakingI wanna ruin your lipstick not your mascara | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/20 10:47 AM |
| 38 | SMV is near it's peak. Leave LTR or stay ?I thought I recognized your username from a similar post and voila, your post history suggests a fixation and ongoing yearning for cheating on your baby momma or breaking up with her. I can see how a decision such as this is not easily made - if I were in your position, I'd have serious moral concerns and I imagine it's a horrible cognitive dissonance. But please stop asking strangers on the internet whether you should do it. However you phrase it, from whatever angle you depict it to us, no one… | /r/askTRP | 19/07/20 09:39 PM |
| 1 | I get a lot of satisfaction out of making my LTR happy. Is this beta?To get satisfaction out of making someone happy you like in itself is neither beta nor bad but a cornerstone of LTR-game on the side of comforting behavior. Stay centered in your own self though, because what I think where the road to Blue Pill City begins is when you a) make your own self-worth dependant on whether you can make her happy or not and b) neglect your own needs in order to make her happy. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/20 07:06 AM |
| 3 | Considering staying with a plate for a few monthsYou have other options - go there. You do not want the drama of cohabitating with a woman if you can avoid it. To me you sound like you are rationalizing a bad decision | /r/askTRP | 29/05/20 09:15 PM |
| 1 | If I could've done it once I can do it again right?No, move on | /r/askTRP | 27/05/20 09:09 PM |
| 1 | SquattingI'm putting up decent numbers eventhough I did lose some strength during quarantine. But man, I still love to squat and I'm still going to get to 200kg by the end of this year. | /r/askTRP | 24/05/20 09:10 PM |
| 5 | I get bitter every time I hear about woman's sexual historyYou'll definitely care less one you're more experienced. I still don't actively pursue the topic other than testing the waters for possible kinks | /r/askTRP | 24/05/20 09:05 PM |
| 1 | How do you guys stay motivated in the gym?I compete | /r/askTRP | 09/05/20 01:48 PM |
| 2 | Setting boundaries and making pointsFirst off, I think boundaries should be established early on - if she wants to get upgraded, she has to respect these boundaries strictly. You live and you learn man, optimally I try to get all my boundaries across before an upgrade because I have learned it becomes a struggle to try and enforce them afterwards | /r/askTRP | 09/05/20 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Can't love women after swallowing the red pill?Love as in paternal love - sure. Love as in idealistic love - no | /r/askTRP | 09/05/20 12:14 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone's face looked better with age?My face got 'harder', more stern, I couldn't grow a full beard until my late twenties - I definitely look more masculine and pull way hotter chicks more easily now | /r/askTRP | 06/05/20 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Has anyone's face looked better with age?Doing loads of cocaine took care of that for me - bruxism was my jawzrsize | /r/askTRP | 06/05/20 10:50 PM |
| 2 | What clothes to wear in clubs and bars?Always flashy, colorful button-up shirts, fitted, long sleeves rolled up, enough buttons undone to make my pecs show. I'm a pretty buff guy and it never ceases to be a conversation starter. Girls like to undo more buttons, guys regularly comment on my physique - it can't be wrong. I know it can come across a little show-off, but I'm a very confident guy anyways so there's always going to be people who think I'm arrogant. Shirts like these: https://www.fashionnova.com/collections/mens-shirts Dark… | /r/askTRP | 06/05/20 10:15 PM |
| 4 | How do you maintain the "abundance mentality" in a committed relationship?My approach would be to just be sociable - talk to everyone, flirt with the waitress, chat up the stranger on the bus stop, whatever. There is always enough opportunity to meet girls in harmless ways. Knowing that women build a veritable harem of orbiters regardless of being in a LTR is what you need to let go of the BP voice in the back of your head telling you it's immoral. What we're doing here is exposing the sexual strategies of women and using it against them. | /r/askTRP | 02/05/20 09:57 AM |
| 3 | Finally experienced an AWALT heartbreaking incident, what now?This is such an important lesson but it still took me years to really get it. Almost left my LTR (first one in ten years) because I got stuck in that mindset of wanting her to love me the same way I love her. | /r/askTRP | 09/03/20 09:28 PM |
| 7 | How tf do you cold approach in the nordics?Am Swedish, it's not socially accepted behavior to approach strangers. Swedish girls will approach you however in a group setting or clubs so why bother | /r/askTRP | 19/09/19 05:11 PM |
| -1 | Has your taste in music changed since becoming RP?I've recently started to appreciate gangster rap I would never have appreciated before swallowing the red pill. So much whiney blue pill shit out there I like songs about fucking bitches in the ass and how much money you're making and how you're toking all the time to get myself in a different mindset | /r/askTRP | 07/09/19 09:43 PM |
| 5 | Talking about living togetherI see you're pretty clear on not wanting to let her move in - very wise. Keep it like that. But your question was how to communicate your decision as if you were afraid it could lead to confrontation and drama. If your previous actions or words made her feel like she has any right to demand it, this might be a legitimate concern. If your frame has been solid regarding this point up until now though, just laugh it off - treat it like the ridiculous idea it really is. | /r/askTRP | 02/09/19 05:33 PM |
| 3 | Looking to improve fingering skills on girlsYou don't need time off because of ED, this will put a lot more pressure on you once you decide it's time to try if you're over it. Not sure if it's performance anxiety related or organic though. However I'll tell you from personal experience that if you just stop escalating to avoid one or two embarrassing situations more it'll be so much harder to get back on the horse. I had severe performance anxiety induced ED so I was pushing rope every ONS for a while, but I swore I'd keep escalating tryi… | /r/askTRP | 02/09/19 05:25 PM |
| 1 | Male equivalent of disrespectful LTR fucking my life upPunching that fucker in the face | /r/askTRP | 02/09/19 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Need suggestions for a strategy of emotional detachmentOne day you will lose them all. Your parents will die, your LTR will be gone, eventually you will be alone. You know this which is why you want to detach yourself. And it's all you need to know. Practice negative visualization, vividly imagine a catastrophe killing all you love in an instant. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/19 03:02 PM |
| 3 | Calling and asking the day of to hangout?I do both frankly. I have a very scheduled life too and usually have to plan way in advance, but I've got plates that are almost always down for spontaneous action in case my schedule frees up unexpectedly. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/19 02:56 PM |
| 1 | she wants to get to know me through text firstDon't do it. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/19 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Women I meet seem to want to lock me downOur biggest mistake is not that we aim to high and fail but that we aim too low and succeed. Don't fuck low quality women. Go for the ones that make you nervous. Other than that they'll all try to lock you down. That's why a solid frame is so goddamn important. | /r/askTRP | 28/08/19 01:28 PM |
| 2 | Thoughts on demoting an OLTRSince it's an OLTR I'm already spinning some plates but what I despise about my situation is that I have to operate in her frame when I want to fuck other girls - like giving her the status of bottom bitch, only going on dates when she's busy and so forth. Thanks for the actionable advice | /r/askTRP | 26/08/19 01:36 PM |
| 0 | Thoughts on demoting an OLTRThat's what I thought. She manipulates me into thinking I'd be an asshole for hard nexting her. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/19 01:34 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts on demoting an OLTRThe kind of harsh truths I come here for. I know you are right. | /r/askTRP | 26/08/19 01:32 PM |
| 1 | How do you answer when your ltr asks you what did you do all day?Thing is, the implicit message of non-answers or A&A in this context is that you don't want to be bothered with this kind of boring and mundane bullshit. Women are fluent in covert communication - she'll stop asking soon enough. | /r/askTRP | 25/08/19 02:14 PM |
| 1 | How do you answer when your ltr asks you what did you do all day?Modafinil | /r/askTRP | 25/08/19 02:11 PM |
| 1 | Performance anxiety ruined my dateThis right here. I was so anxious it might keep happening I got Viagra, but like someone already stated, that shit ain't working when it's PA-induced. But this right here is your answer | /r/askTRP | 23/08/19 08:26 PM |
| 6 | What's the most alpha thing you've ever doneFucked a bride in her wedding night. She was not marrying me. | /r/askTRP | 23/08/19 10:39 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on situation with plate who takes long time (multiple days) to text backFirst of all: You don't call her out on it. Don't overtly communicate how you expect her to behave but use your attention as a reward. That's what might've gone wrong from my perspective - she's lacking comfort and demoting you from No 1 spot because she's too afraid you'll hurt her. This might have happened because you randomly took so long to reply and maybe stuck to the 'texting for logistics only' dogma too rigorously. | /r/askTRP | 21/08/19 12:14 PM |
| 7 | Tinder date uploads our kiss to her snapchat story after bragging she has thousands of views. Can it mean something ¿Sadly most of us feel this way - which is why we have to remind each other of this simple rule | /r/askTRP | 19/08/19 06:16 PM |
| 12 | Tinder date uploads our kiss to her snapchat story after bragging she has thousands of views. Can it mean something ¿Don't stick your dick in crazy | /r/askTRP | 19/08/19 09:16 AM |
| 9 | I am doing starting strength from 9 months. I want to be jacked. I am not sure if I should keep bulking or start cutting next?When your bf is above 20 obviously cut | /r/askTRP | 16/08/19 01:06 PM |
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