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| 31 | [FR] Apologizing - I left him behind... | rpBlueSkye | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/07/14 02:27 PM | |
| 6 | Sharing what I've learned about myself in the past month of reading. Discovering a trust issue I didn't know was there! | rpBlueSkye | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/05/14 03:14 PM |
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| 2 | End Of The Year LetterLurking sub here. 2014 definitely has been a year, and not an easy one. But I do know that if I hadn't stumbled upon RPW I would have had a much harder time. Beginning of the year started with a miscarriage right before my 1st year marrige anniversary. Just after that we found out my husbands company was being bought out and we didn't know if he would jave a job. After 3 months of not knowing, found out he was being laid off. As you can imagine, I was a complete emotional mess. But yall have hel… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/01/15 04:31 AM |
| 4 | Star Trek: TNG on the Captain-First Mate relationshipI love using the star trek Cpt/FO dynamic to compare to relationships. So does my DH because we both looooove star trek! Can the FO disagree? Yes. Can he have opinions? Yes. Does he sometimes have a better idea on how to carry something out? Yes. But all concerns are brought out privately in the ready room and discussed. Never undermining the Cpt authority or making the crew doubt the orders. When the Cpt is out, the FO is in charge, makes the decisions according the what is the best course of a… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/10/14 01:16 PM |
| 2 | Girl Game - Guys' Night OutYou're right. It should be normal manners, but unfortunately, to a lot of women, it's not. They're are some women out there that will constantly text and badger their SOs wanting to know where they are and what they're doing and it becomes annoying to him, and makes her stress, creates lack of trust, even if there is no reason for the worry. I know a women like this, she is paranoid even though her husband has never given her a reason to be. Following the OPs advice here keeps him happy and look… | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/09/14 12:48 PM |
| 3 | "Are we all alright?" UPDATE: (If anyone is at all curious)This is awesome to read. It's so easy to become complacent and not notice things slipping if you're not working on it. Little things matter sooo much! This is motivating to me because I just got over being sick (stomach virus, then a bad cold, then hormonal issues) and am having a hard time getting back in my grove taking care of everything, feel like I'm still in a fog. Thank you for sharing. makes note to pick up suprise before DH comes home :D | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/09/14 11:45 AM |
| 1 | How many of you got married young?raises hand Me. I was 19 he was 25, that was two years ago. And to be honest, even though I was absolutely sure it was what I wanted to do, I hated telling people things like "My fiance" because I would get a dear in the headlights stare and then be drilled on why I was giving my life up so young, and this was even people at the the checkout counter who noticed my ring... I have a young face. I'm 21 and I still get people asking me if I'm 16 despite dressing up... (being short dosen't help eithe… | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/09/14 02:09 PM |
| 2 | Packed lunches and other ways to look after your SOI pack his lunch every work day (food allergies, we don't eat out). He has a microwave so it's mainly leftovers from the pervious nights dinner, but sometimes I'll bake him cookies he likes without him knowing and sneak them in the bag. As was already mentioned, one thing I like to do is leave a note or draw a picture, mostly inside jokes, or compliments, but recently I've started sending note with hints to nightly plans. Like last week when I finished my period, I sent a note saying "I'm done, … | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/09/14 08:52 PM |
| 2 | No hiatus for solipsism during World War II | DalrockI don't think I will ever stop being suprised by reports like this. And I will shamelessly blame my grandparents. My grandma would have never said something like this. She told me stories of when my grandpa was in WWII and what she did to help support him while away. He had left just a week after they got married, came back, she got pregnant, he had to leave again to finish his term. When she passed away we found letters she had wrote to him, among some pictures, that many of them I wasn't allow… | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/09/14 01:44 PM |
| 3 | Something I noticed with female gamers...My gaming experience has been a little different. Most games are team based, and therefore you can only talk to your teamates. The only time I hear trash talking is when someone on the team isn't cooperating/hogging kills/being a general dick to the rest of the team and they deserve it... Lots of gamer girls I know take and dish it out just as bad with no offense. However, I rarely would talk unless I had to because once my little high pitched voice was heard... "ugh theres a stupid kid playing,… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/08/14 01:04 PM |
| 2 | Bread!http://www.tasteofhome.com/recipes/gluten-free-sandwich-bread This is a good one. I haven't made it myself yet but a friend has made it for me and it was nice! We are GF here too (Celiac) but I hate how many steps/ingredients I have to use to get the texture of regular bread. Xanthm gum can be hard to find sometimes, unless you have a flour mix that already has it in there. I also wouldn't recommend Bobs Red Mill AP Gf flour for that particular recipe (the beans in it give a heavy flavor) but us… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/07/14 01:56 PM |
| 2 | 50 Easy & Delicious No Bake DessertsI know what you mean! I'm celiac and my husband is allergic to wheat, corn, soy and peanuts. No bake recipies are awesome (and a quick craving life saver). Some of those recipes there would be so easy to switch with a GF alternative! | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/07/14 07:04 PM |
| 1 | What is one thing you really appreciate about your SO?he had me start checking in with him whenever I was away from him. At first it was a pain, but then I realized that he worried about me. He could relax once he knew I was safely at work (a fortress LOL) and then after work we are together. After we got married, my DH asked me to do the same thing. I thought it was weird, even my parents didn't ask me to do that (I did it anyway out of courtesy). I like it too. I like knowing hes constantly looking out for me, I feel safe :3 | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/07/14 11:54 PM |
| 2 | [FR] "You look like you should be baking me a pie or something in that dress."Oh my... that dress... where is an extea $60 when you need it... :O | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/07/14 10:13 PM |
| 4 | [FR] "You look like you should be baking me a pie or something in that dress."That. That is the best idea I've heard all day! All the upvotes to you kind sir. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/07/14 08:39 PM |
| 1 | What Your Sleeping Position Says About How Much You Love Your PartnerCorrelation, not causation. But it is pretty Intresting. Me and DH sleep back to back mostly touching in a queen. I've gotten so accustomed to touching him with my back, while also hugging the edge, that when we stayed in a king at a hotel I had a really rough night going between him or the edge. We still haven't found a comfortable sleep spooning position yet. Something will go numb evetually. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/07/14 12:16 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Apologizing - I left him behind...I had seen all the comments before they were deleted. I must say thank you! /u/TempestTcup : We don't allow women to badmouth their husbands/SOs and we CERTAINLY don't let OTHER WOMEN badmouth the OPs husband/SO. You: We discourage women from demeaning their own SO, do you really think we'd be all right with another user bashing someone else's? This is why I love this board. There is so much support when it comes to really trying to better yourself/your relationship. It's never anything but posi… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/07/14 12:02 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Apologizing - I left him behind...Truth is, at another point in time it probably would be a non-issue. There were so many points I could have brought up against him, but none of them would have made the situation any better. I really don't want to bad mouth him or put him down in anyway, and there are a few other stresses going on behind the scenes. The more I think about it, I notice I'm more upset at my initial reaction then the actual event! When it was all said and done he dropped it like it was nothing. While I would have p… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/07/14 11:45 AM |
| 4 | [FR] Apologizing - I left him behind...Thanks, and don't worry, I'm not discouraged. The important thing is that it worked for us and we're happy. Had it been last year what would have happened is I would have "reasoned" with him why I was right, and I would have a good case coming up with one point after another, in the process really hurting his self esteem, and putting him down. Then I would cool down, realize my irrational reasoning, feel guilty for making it his fault, then apologize for blowing up. I just skipped the whole irra… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/07/14 04:34 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Apologizing - I left him behind...Yep. That's why I don't look down on him for not lifting till now. My dad got me started pretty young (he wanted a son). His dad showed him basically nothing. Hes rapidly improving and I'm sitting here stagnant... after learning proper form he beat my best deadlift in two weeks -_- Yep just a thank you post. I know I made him sound pouty but I swear he wasn't :) | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/07/14 03:21 PM |
| 6 | [FR] Apologizing - I left him behind...He wasn't really pouty about it, just mad that I basically ditched him without thinking. It was just a casual ride, no PRs were to be broken. He would never leave me behind like that. Also in pertaining to the story, there are some lifts that I'm stronger than him on (for now... not for long... >.>) He's never pouty about it, just wants pointers on how to improve. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/07/14 03:08 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Apologizing - I left him behind...Hes new to lifting and fitness. I have been ridding my bike for a long time now. I could easily do a 20mil ride. I also have a much better bike than him. That 10mil was the longest hes ever done, and I was pushing 15-20mph When I say he was left behind, I mean he was a good maybe 3+ blocks behind. (weren't on blocks, but that's a good estimate). He's also on high dose allergy shots right now, that is seriously draining his energy. :/ | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/07/14 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Pet NamesI call him sexy, he calls me beautiful. Other than that ill call him love or handsome, and he will call me love or sexy. Not very creative but it works for us. Cutesy names (those ending with a y sound) just never felt right. He actually just called me cutey today and it threw me off for a moment! Occasionally there are some other words used but thats for a different thread ;) | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/07/14 06:26 PM |
| 2 | Cooking Advice - Roast ChickenSomething I like do do with my chickens, is to pan fry the outside first so the skin gets crispy and holds in the flavor and juices: let it come to room tempature preheat oven to 375° take a cast iron skillet of an oven safe pan, put just under a 1/4 in of oil in it. Heat pan on stove top on medium heat. (Oils hot enough right before it begins to smoke) While pan is heating, rub down chicken with Salt, Pepper, Garlic, Paprika, and Basil. When pan is done heating, put the chicken on it breast sid… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/07/14 12:00 PM |
| 2 | Wow. I'm amazed at how threatened some women are by other women's femininity [x-post from /r/pics]True. But I love trying new things. It's something I've done a lot of growing up. I was into anything and everything. From baking to bmx, archery to sewing! Notice I said try some of those things. There are somethings I'd rather not do and just watch... like skydiving xD Seeing a cake like that makes me want to try my hand at cake decorating again. Looks like fun :D | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/07/14 11:44 AM |
| 8 | [FR] "I want to go"OP: I made my interest known, I didn't push the issue Sounds like she did this part: asking to go, hearing him respectfully say it's a guy trip, and then Dropped the issue. Could be wrong, but that's the impression I got. *edit formatting | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/07/14 01:55 AM |
| 10 | [FR] "I want to go"It's not a mind game. The point is pretty obvious. If you're pushey, people will resent you. Notice OP said it was a trip with her SO and his friend. This means it was probably a guys trip he really wanted to do. Since he planned it and went, she didn't have any other objection to it other than she would have liked to have gone. If she nagged or kept asking to go then yeah, he would have felt obliged to bring her and he would have resented her for being pushy. No one likes pushy people. They way… | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/07/14 01:42 AM |
| 15 | Wow. I'm amazed at how threatened some women are by other women's femininity [x-post from /r/pics]When I see incredible talent like that, all it does is make me go wow. Then it encourages me to try some of those things and work hard at it. I don't understand jealousy. Greatness from others should motivate you to improve on your own skills. Bashing and finding flaws in greatness cheapens yourself because you're taking the easy way out instead of putting in actual effort. I also hate how one person bashing leads to a bandwagon of others. Grow up. Learns skills that makes you proud of yourself.… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/06/14 11:51 PM |
| 2 | Which way do you cook?Definatly a mix for me. If its something I have never done before, then I might follow a recipe strict. But I have a good enough experience now that I have an idea if something will be good or not. Because of allergies and other health problems, restaurants are a risk. So I cook basically everything we eat. You would be amazed at what I can do with a head of cauliflower! Pintrest definitely helps me find new ideas. Actually without pintrest I'd probably have a small list of ideas so, yay interne… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/06/14 12:00 PM |
| 8 | Beta Feminist Male friend, or why I shouldn't get into Debates on FB"A truly great marrige will have farts in sex" I'm sorry, but that is hilarious! XD Anyway, yeah. This is why I don't hang out on Facebook, or debate things online. You get nowhere. In person you can have a real conversation (sometimes). Online, there is a very very very low chance that someone will change their view or admit they are wrong. When we do things online we tend to just type our thoughts out, not type what we would actually say. Nothing you could have said would have changed his view… | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/06/14 01:49 PM |
| 2 | Bill for Student Safety: Sexual AssaultLack of protest or resistance does not mean consent, nor does silence mean consent. If you were in your right mind and didn't say no and went along with it, then you are partially responsible for not outright objecting. You can't put full blame the other person because you are half responsible. How is this not a hard concept to grasp? Consent must be present ongoing throughout a sexual encounter and can be revoked at any time. Does this include after the fact? Can the non-consenting party say Oh… | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/06/14 01:39 PM |
| 4 | How to get my BF to swallow The Red Pill?You can send him links and say "be more like this", or you can look at yourself make changes and encourage him to be the best he can be. I'm in this situation (making my SO more RP like) and over the past 3 months working on my own plan, my SO has stepped up and started improving. Its all about stepping back and encouragement. Just one example, I'd love my SO to dress better when we go out. But telling him this really didn't do anything. I noticed areas in myself I could improve on like wearing … | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/06/14 03:13 AM |
| 5 | Is this behaviour accepted in women?Is this really common? Do women really act like this!? Thats was worse then a 3 year old. I can reason and discipline with a 3 year old. How can anyone think that is acceptable behavior!? I'm just still in shock that there are women out there that do this. I can't wrap my head around it. It's just hard to believe... | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/05/14 01:14 PM |
| 3 | Thanks Moderators, we'll miss you MargeryM!Thank you! All of yall! I know what it takes to be a mod on forums (gaming, and clans), so I can imagine just how hard it is to mod a place like this. This subreddit really means a lot to me; learning, helping me to become a better person and wife. Thank you for keeping this a safe place, a safe community, where I can continue on my journey. internet hugs to all | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/05/14 01:09 AM |
| 8 | What made you into a "red pill woman"?Straight up, I found this place looking up the effects on coconut oil and condoms... one blog led to another... But I've always been mostly RP, I like being submissive and wanting to make others happy. I think most of it was the way my family raised me. My father didn't like me watching shows that portrayed parents and men as being dumb husbands, and he commanded respect from us in a way that makes you want to work with him. Then I met my SO (just realised now he wife tested me from the first co… | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/05/14 02:16 AM |
| 2 | Broth fasting stories or recipes?When you finally have the time, please please do write it! I've been following paleo and working on healing my digestive system for about 7 months but I still have so much more I need to learn about and do to get where I'm supposed to be. You've already helped me out a good bit, I would love to see a blog post laying it all out! (just a little desperate in trying to feel better, and I know its all related to gut damage) | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/05/14 02:36 PM |
| 3 | Broth fasting stories or recipes?I second doing a whole30. It includes bone broths but your also not starving yourself. I have a good bit of digestive issues myself, so every now and then I do a whole30 and it helps me to reset my body. After my first go, and slowly reintroducing the no list back into my diet, I discovered foods that my body really didn't tolerate that I wasn't aware of. (For me that was potatos, rice, corn, among others that will trigger ibs and other symptoms) So those items are now out of my diet. This is a … | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/05/14 12:53 PM |
| 2 | A guide to feminine shaving (NSFW)Sounds painful... | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/05/14 01:53 PM |
| 3 | A guide to feminine shaving (NSFW)Thank you! I would like to add something that works for me with razor burn and itchiness is applying coconut oil to the area about 3 times a day. Since I started doing that it seems the red bumps and ingrown hairs have mostly diapeared! And I'm not wanting to rub it with sandpaper from itching all day. Another thing is after shaving, dont wear bikini style underwear (or any with the seam in the leg crease). I notice when I do it aggravates the leg crease area. Wearing boy shorts helps, so does g… | /r/RedPillWomen | 21/05/14 11:47 AM |
| 1 | What does your week look like with regard to exercise?Yeah I know :P but thank you. Went paleo because I have Celiac disease, but just being gluten free wasn't enough. Main problem is that not many people understand that passing their bread over my plate, or using the same spoon to stir all the different food, is enough to get me sick. >.< | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/05/14 03:47 PM |
| 2 | Getting rid of oneitis...for a guy.it just seems like a waste of time. Nothing is happening. Because nothing is happening But I can't stop being friends with him. I can't stop craving his attention and company. It is driving me up the wall. Yes. Stop being friends with him. Cut him out. He is doing nothing, and you are torturing yourself. Stop it. I also don't understand why he keeps on hanging out with me if he isn't attracted to me. He might be, but obviously not enough to do anything about it. Drop him. Men and women can't be … | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/05/14 03:09 PM |
| 1 | What does your week look like with regard to exercise?Currently its MWF 3 sets 8 reps Bench press (chest) Shoulder press (shoulders) Bent over rows (upper back) Deadlift (lower back) Bicep Curl (biceps) Tricep extension (triceps) V-ups (abs) Squats (legs) Calf Raises (calves) Then if I have time I'll go outside and do hiit sprints (20secs runing 45sec rest 8 times) Then cool down with stretches. Goal is muscle gain and fat loss. This isn't always as it is though. I haven't done it in 3 weeks due to autoimmune problems. Its why my diet is so strict.… | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/05/14 01:31 PM |
| 1 | What does your week look like with regard to exercise?I follow the primal diet (paleo + dairy) Lift heavy 3x week with full body routines and a hiit finisher. On off days I run/dance with the xbox kinect. At least thats what I try to do when I'm not sick. If I can't workout, my diet keeps everything in check. Don't have to count calories or macros either. | /r/RedPillWomen | 18/05/14 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Married and LTR RPW: Who buys his clothes?With my DH, his mom took over all of his clothing stuff, did the shopping and pre-pairing outfits for him. When we married he had no clue what to wear or what "worked". His form of shopping was buying nerdy t-shirts online. I buy all his basics (underwear, socks, ect...) but I do encourage him to pick and choose his own clothing, which means we shop together. I'll help him out by grabbing a bunch of items I think he will like and look good in, then he picks from the pile to try on. I do lay out … | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/05/14 10:21 PM |
| 19 | Do men become happier while women become unhappier with age? Fox News "debate""When men are married to women who scream like you, they just want to die sooner" I love him for that. But that was painful to watch... That wasn't even a debate. All of his valid points were brushed off woth emotional responses that made no sense. (Paraphrasing) 'women are happier at the end of the day because we're stronger' How so? In what way? Proof? No? Ok then keep whining. The loudest person must be the one that is right! | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/05/14 02:38 PM |
| 3 | Why this subreddit has its head on straight. (Meta)Dont worry! TheToastTot is a RPW :P She was quoting a comment from the thread and posting what probably goes through the mind of her husband. Sad thing is, that's probably how her husband really feels, and she can't see past her own mind how toxic her attitude is. :/ | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/05/14 03:57 AM |
| 5 | Why this subreddit has its head on straight. (Meta)Read the link to the article. I just... well... I'm stunned... none of their arguments against us make sense to me. A chunck of the comments were about that arricle on pleasing your man... dont they realize if you keep him happy and do things for him, then he will want to do things back to you in return? Is that a hard concept to grasp? Put him first, then he'll put you first, and you enter a loop of happiness for both. Its obvious they have little trust for their SOs to take care of them. If th… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/05/14 02:21 PM |
| 9 | Girl game field reportYes. I honestly can't stand it to hear a girl complain about her man. I hate it. I've actually walked away while my MIL and her mom were talking about my FIL in a disrespectful way. I don't want to hear about how hes an imbecile. Complaining to me won't solve your problems. If you have a genuine a concern about him or his behaviors and your asking for advice or help, sure tell me about it. But I'm not going to sit there and listen to you gripe. I've never understood the girls night outs where th… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/05/14 07:17 PM |
| 1 | What are your goals for this weekend and next week?hugs back Maybe so, sounds interesting. The only thing pain meds does is cut the edge off. I've even tried the muscle relaxer I had left over from dentist work, all that did was put me to sleep. The positive is as long as I avoid gluten to the extreme, I have no pain, it all goes away, but one stupid little crumb and I'm back feeling like crap. Down side no more restaurants or eating out. Plus side, I'm an awesome cook. Down side so much pots and pans washing. Of course I'll share. I made a prev… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/05/14 02:33 PM |
| 2 | What are your goals for this weekend and next week?Thanks! On the bright side it is the last symptom I go through, so the end should be near, just waiting on when that is! | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/05/14 02:06 PM |
| 4 | What are your goals for this weekend and next week?Right now this weekend is all about healing for me. I have celiac and unknowingly ate something I shouldn't have so now I'm fighting strong fibromyalgia back pains. I haven't done anything all week but lay on my back. Meaning my DH has had to pick up my slack and the house is a semi-disater. He's very loving and understanding and helps me with everything, but I still feel so bad that I have to go through this and put it all on him. I hate feeling useless like this. My goals for next week are dep… | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/05/14 01:41 PM |
| 1 | HairIts hard to say what will look good on you without seeing/knowing your face shape. I personally love my hair with layers and shaped side bangs. It compliments my face and helps softens my squarish jaw. Especially when I throw my hair in a ponytail. I love the way my bangs look with my ponytail. (Cept it does get annoying constantly moving them over to the side.) You could always ask a stylist if she thinks it will look good on you and will compliment your features. | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/05/14 02:39 AM |
| 8 | Anecdotal experience: Went to a wedding this weekend, proved a LOT of RP theory for meThat's so friggin' messed up. So disrespectful in so many ways. This is such a horrible way to start a life together. The whole thing sounds like it's set up for failure. Is it possible she's using him just for citizenship and then planning to dump him later? I still find it hard to believe women can act like this. I feel like I've been sheltered from this crap most of my life with mostly good examples of relationships (parents, grandparents, heavy doses of "southern values" from being on/in a f… | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/05/14 02:58 PM |
| 1 | Any 15 Minute (Or So) Daily Exercises I Can Do To Keep My Form In Good Shape In Addition To My Jog?Ever heard of HIIT? This is a good example. That site has a bunch of good workouts. I love it. Its short and to the point but yet still hard and has good results. Definitely recommend it if you are looking to drop a few pounds. I lift weights and do hiit throughout the week, but if something comes and I dont have time for a weight session another round of hiit is my go too. | /r/RedPillWomen | 08/05/14 03:41 AM |
| 2 | The case for men's sex driveI really like the way you put that. Makes it easier to understand just how strong the need is and just how important sex is. This was/is the biggest concept for me to grasp, the fact that it is a true need. Also makes me regret all the unjustified denying/withholding I did... | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/05/14 08:18 PM |
| 2 | "So, tell me more about yourself""Uh... I like video games, cooking, and art" That is how I got my husbands attention. Though I do know if I was better then him at games it probably wouldn't have worked out so well in the beginning. I hate loosing but I love taking on challenges. I told him upfront that he was never allowed to have mercy and let me win. So it turned into a perpetual loop of me saying "best out of three? (i loose) Best out of five? Ok... how about best out of twenty? We had a lot of online gaming dates... And si… | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/05/14 02:17 PM |
| 3 | RPW Bedroom tips, tricks, and techniques while you're in an LTRFirst thought in my head was that scene in the naked gun... Also +1 to coconut oil. That stuff is a magic liquid (semi-solid?) only thing we've found that doesn't irritate me. It good for everything! | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/05/14 01:24 PM |
| 2 | Sharing what I've learned about myself in the past month of reading. Discovering a trust issue I didn't know was there!I guess, yeah it was hamstering. I just suck at trying to articulate what I want to say most of the time when I type stuff. But I meant sorry because I know that my post wasn't as clear as I meant it to be. What I commented back to you was what I actually was trying to get across for the main post. :/ | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/05/14 12:41 AM |
| 2 | Sharing what I've learned about myself in the past month of reading. Discovering a trust issue I didn't know was there!I did think I was mad because he was jerking off, but that wasn't the real issue. I was mad because he wasnt coming to me anymore. But I can't blame him because it was completely my fault. I started rejecting him and withholding sex. Who wants to come to someone that rejects you the majority of the time. When I saw what was going on my hamster kicked in and thought the solution was to show him as much sexytime as I could. So I initiated all the time and he took a passive role. Reading redpill ma… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/05/14 03:29 PM |
| 2 | Your tips for setting up a new home?Yes room by room! This will help you a lot! Doesn't mean you cant deviate and be like "kitchen stuff, kitchen stuff, kitchen stuff.... oh that would be perfect in the bedroom! Kitchen stuff... kitchen stuff..." :P After I got married and moved in, I was overwhelmed by the emptiness and what needed to be done. I actually took awhile to get started. So I sat down and actually sketched out ideas. I started woth the living room first because thats where we spend most of our time and also its where w… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/05/14 12:19 AM |
| 1 | Sharing what I've learned about myself in the past month of reading. Discovering a trust issue I didn't know was there!I see what you mean. And I do agree. But I would like to add that when we first got married he told me he wouldn't jerk anymore, that he had me now so he didn't have to. I see now that was setting up for failures to happen. All of a sudden two people (both virgins) get together and say "well because we're married, that means you take care of all my desires, and I'll take care of yours. Your body belongs to me, as does my body belongs to you." With that start, any slip up can be taken as a person… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/05/14 12:05 PM |
| 1 | Sharing what I've learned about myself in the past month of reading. Discovering a trust issue I didn't know was there!I could be wrong but, I dont understand how a man would get bored by having sex with his wife when/where/how he wanted. Maybe if theres no variety or changing up. but the way I see it, unless there is a good legit excuse to deny him, then denying can lead to other issues, and feelings of being unwanted. Did your friend give a reason why it would eventually become boring? | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/05/14 11:16 PM |
| 1 | Sharing what I've learned about myself in the past month of reading. Discovering a trust issue I didn't know was there!I like the way you put it. not because she likes being in control, it's because she doesn't trust her SO to have the situation in control There's a women on my SO's side that has a strong desire to control everything in here life. Because of this, her husband has just slipped back and lets her. Hes miserable, shes miserable, but I know nothing is ever going to change because she can't let things go. She can not just let him step up. Side effect, their daughter has no respect for the dad either, … | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/05/14 08:25 PM |
| 2 | Sharing what I've learned about myself in the past month of reading. Discovering a trust issue I didn't know was there!That was kind of the problem. I guess because I brushed his needs aside so much that when I realized he wasn't coming to me for his needs my brain clicked into hyper mode and took over it all. In my mind I really thought I was just being a super wife. Didn't realise how controling with it I was becoming. Its still hard to sit back and let him take the lead in this area. I'm trying to let him come to me when he wants me instead of throwing myself on him. Letting him lead in every other place seem… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/05/14 04:42 PM |
| 3 | Sharing what I've learned about myself in the past month of reading. Discovering a trust issue I didn't know was there!I know he will. And I'm ok with it now. Mainly because in the past he was doing it because I was ignoring him and his needs, putting him aside because I veiwed it as unimportant. But now if he does jack off, its not because I'm neglecting him. I don't view it as a personal attack anymore. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/05/14 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Weekly Post: What Are You Making? Show Off Your Arts, Crafts or Pretty Cooking!I cook every everything that we eat (due to an auto-immune disease and food allergies me and the DH are full paleo/primal) So when I make something it isn't always that special to me. Before learning about my problems I baked ALL the time. I cant do that anymore, because I can't use normal flour, and Almond flour is a bit pricey, so baked goodies rare. But today I decided I wanted a baked treat. So I found a recipe, tweaked it, and made an almond flour banana bread with chocolate chips and cinna… | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/05/14 01:04 AM |
| 2 | What to do when you're not "in the mood"?This happens to me all the time! We could just be kissing, going slow, then he brushes my neck in a funny way, and BAM the giggle box is on and no matter what he does tickles. I've found two ways to over come it. Using strong focus and mental discipline, which kills the mood for me and takes extra time to re-warm up. have him completely stop touching me for a minute or to so I can "reset" And then there's the third option... I think he likes this one the best... Tickle torture. Tickle torture to… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/04/14 09:51 PM |
| 3 | We Hit 5000!! Lurkers and Newbies--Come out and Say "Hi!"Thank you both for the link! Side note though, I was re-reading my comment and remembered why I lurk or pre-type my replies and sit on them for a few hours or so... When I just type what I think to respond I sound like a hyper 12 year old, that or an over-joyed paid testimonial... | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/04/14 09:32 PM |
| 5 | We Hit 5000!! Lurkers and Newbies--Come out and Say "Hi!"Well hi _/ I've made I think three comments here... I actually made a reddit account just to follow this board. As computer geek I feel ashamed for ignoring the greatness of reddit XD I actually found this place from a random google search that lead me the a blog "AverageMarriedDad" which led to another blog to another to another to here. A fun rabbit hole jump to wonderland! hehe... Well im 21, going on my second year of marriage, and just happy I found a sliver of the web that agrees with my l… | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/04/14 06:51 PM |
| 2 | [RANT] I'm Getting Bullied By Tumblr FeministsThe internet's reaction to things is why I mostly lurk in places now. No one can have a civilized opinion or thought without being called out on it. I think one of the reasons for this is 1.the anonymity of the web, but also 2.When we type things out, we tend to write the first thing we think of, or the first thought in our head. Because of the anonymity of the web there's no need to "think before you speak". We would never say those things to an actual human being, but oh look, here are my thou… | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/04/14 01:20 PM |
| 2 | Why are you a red pill woman?I discovered TRP just under a month ago, and completely agree with almost everything. I'm 21(almost) married (going on second year), and always held more traditional values. RPW just seems like a natural fit to me. I grew up in a husband/father leading household, and saw how well it worked, as well have quite a few friends that are strong feminist that I see have a hard time in their relationship. Everything I've found here and in TRP network is encouraging me to be a better version of myself. I… | /r/RedPillWomen | 17/04/14 12:43 PM |
| 3 | What do you think about spinning plates?I don't really like the idea myself, virginity was one of the things important to me and my future spouse for several different reasons. (That was my choice though, no judgment if you have a different opinion) But I do know that what I have is rare and a lot of women theses days don't value themselves or hold them to high standards like our great grandparents. If women want to throw that away and give their body out, sleep with whomever, then let the guy spin her plate. Shes putting it out there… | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/04/14 01:13 PM |
| 2 | Tips for looking olderYes! This is my problem too! I'm a few days shy of 21, 5'2" and a DD, been like this since I was about 13. Then main thing I don't understand is that when I was 14ish people would sometimes mistake me for 18. But when I turned 18 people asked me if I was 14-16! This one time I was at the store with my mom and this old lady we were talking too asked me my age, then said "oh I thought you were about 12".... As soon as that happened I went out, bought new make up, and dyed my hair dark red. Which d… | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/04/14 01:38 PM |
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