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Hearing loss doesn't mean complete deafness. Hearing aids exist.
/r/TheRedPill05/06/23 01:18 PM
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It’s because men and women are different. This is really the Red Pill. It's the foundation. Everything else is details. Men and women aren't just physically different, we think differently. We generally want different things. We have different strategies available to us to try to get those goals. Our pursuits of those different goals and applications of those strategies are impacted differently by societal norms. Both TRP and RPW are fairly strategy and tactic focused, so if you're new it can be…
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/22 01:43 PM
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It's not even the right self-talk line though, that would be "I could sleep with other people if I wanted to." It's a way of saying "I'm high-value, other women see me as high value." It's "I have options", but in married men's red pill, there's an implied corollary that "From those options, I chose and continue to choose you." ETA I just want to clarify that even getting the line right, it's intended as self-talk (not something said out loud) to reinforce an abundance mindset.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/22 11:50 AM
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Yes, compliments are good (men really tend not to get physical compliments, so it will go a long way), and more specific compliments are always better.
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/22 08:30 PM
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I read somewhere (I think it was The Millionaire Next Door but I'm not sure) about the concept of one spouse being on "offense" and the other being on "defense". That is, his role is to try to increase money coming in to the household, while your financial role will be to find ways to decrease outflows. I think that's a helpful mental framework. If you aren't already doing it, talk to him about you taking over the household budget as part of being a homemaker. Adopt a mindset that part of your "…
/r/RedPillWomen16/06/22 09:57 PM
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This is a great answer. It reminds me of the four in-depth conversations Dave Ramsey recommends before marriage: money, religion, children, in-laws.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/22 08:29 PM
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Also, China probably doesn't want to precipitate a US debt crisis because they hold so much US debt. It's like the saying: if you owe $100 and can't pay that's your problem, but if you owe $100 million and can't pay that's the bank's problem.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/22 12:23 PM
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It's an office party for employees only, so she can't take you, and it sounds like it's during working hours, so she probably can't skip it. So what would you have her do?
/r/askTRP12/12/19 09:04 PM
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That's the concept called "children of the revolution").
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/12/19 12:41 PM
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I don't really have any good ideas to add, but I wanted to say how much I like the idea, not of forcing romance, but of deliberately creating an environment where romance can spontaneously happen.
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/19 02:46 PM
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You may want to report her assault (attempted?) to the police. Even if nothing directly comes from it, you may want that on the record in case she turns around and tries to accuse you of something.
/r/askTRP17/11/19 04:14 PM
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One of the fundamental principles of sales is to focus on the customer. "Here's what's in it for you." No one makes a sale by telling the customer about the commission they're going to make or how they need this sale to make quota. Yet somehow older women keep taking exactly that approach to dating.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/11/19 03:49 PM
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She only wants to text for logistics and she says she doesn't want a relationship. She's literally telling you she's a plate and it's your turn. What's the problem?
/r/askTRP04/11/19 11:50 AM
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Men need to open their eyes to the amazing women in their own age bracket. Why? She explains at length why this is a problem for single middle-aged women, but then, in a fairly typical female manner, wants men to change what they're doing to make things easier for women.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen04/11/19 11:45 AM
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Cost of living is great in the Midwest. You can work in a not-too-stressful job with reasonable hours, own a decent home on one income, and when you visit more exciting places you can afford to actually enjoy them rather than just scraping by to live there.
/r/askTRP28/10/19 08:25 PM
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No, as long as you don't wind up with debt from an education/degree that you won't be using. That would be a red flag, because either you'd wind up changing your mind and working (a problem if he's expecting you to be a SAHM) or he's going to be paying for your unused education when you stop working. Either way it's a problem.
/r/RedPillWomen28/10/19 08:11 PM
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A business degree will prepare you for being an accountant, an auditor, or a middle manager at a huge company. Entrepreneurship requires a whole different set of skills which I doubt any school is teaching. The way to learn entrepreneurship is to do it. Just always be on the lookout for opportunities, especially small opportunities for now. Whether it's goods or services you sell, the biggest thing is to get in the habit of noticing those opportunities and trying to do something with them.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 11:48 PM
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OP lied to her too.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 01:14 AM
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I generally find that regularly working out first thing in the morning is the best way for me to maintain a good sleep schedule. I think it helps really wake you up in the morning, which in turn helps you feel tired enough to go to sleep at a suitable time.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/19 01:27 AM
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Lock your phone. Hard next.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 12:35 PM
1

This is pretty good though you forgot low n-count. I'd add that there should be few or no red flags among her closest female friends.
/r/RedPillWomen27/09/19 06:39 PM
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OP, do this. There are studies that confirm that experiences provide more lasting happiness than things. Even ignoring details of the relationship dynamic, giving an experience is better.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 03:47 PM
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I'm guessing get out of the house, get out and meet people, get out and approach. Don't just sit at home with the kids.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 10:16 PM
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Everyone comes to me to vent, and I have to be happy and uplifting all the time Fuck that. Why are you stuck being everyone's emotional tampon?
/r/askTRP20/09/19 08:30 PM
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It's partly a shit test (when she says "jump", does he?) but more a comfort test (she wants to know that he thinks about her when she's not with him). I think OP needs to not "check up on her" because that puts him in her frame (at this point, even if he wanted to check up on her, he shouldn't because she'll assume it's because she said so) but should consider looking for a way to give a little comfort too.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 11:36 AM
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Does PR not pay US Federal income tax?
/r/askTRP20/08/19 08:05 PM
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For some reason, it's so much easier to answer. It's a solution to the paradox of choice. If you're not familiar with that concept, the short explanation is that having too many options can lead to decision paralysis and buyer's regret (wondering if you chose the best option). When choices are limited, even artificially, it becomes easier to choose the best/preferred option and, assuming that the limited outings are still desirable, results in a happier outcome.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/19 12:06 PM
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Even if they don't treat it as parental kidnapping or contempt of court, reporting it creates a record which may be useful eventually.
/r/askTRP17/06/19 02:19 PM
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Even when it comes to illegal activities, men are doing all the work.
/r/TheRedPill19/04/19 11:41 AM
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Only 8-10 US states (two states are unclear) plus DC still recognize common law marriage, and in all cases, cohabitation is not enough. A necessary requirement is for both spouses to hold themselves out to the public as being married (e.g. introducing the other person as their spouse). I'm pretty sure that there is nowhere in the US where you can be legally considered married only by cohabitation, regardless of the duration.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/19 01:15 PM
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So usually end up paying a handsome sum. But it's a known sum, as opposed to the unknown (and possibly much higher) cost of divorce rape. Plus, in those countries it comes with legally enforceable rights, because you bought that dishwasher+toaster+sex.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/19 12:57 PM
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This. I can't speak for other parts of the world, but at least in much of the US, black suits should be avoided unless your job specifically requires you to wear that. Charcoal or dark gray would be the best bet if you're only going to have one suit. Those shades are serious enough for conservative businesses, somber enough for funerals, or can be livened up by a colorful shirt, tie, pocket square, etc. for lighter events.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/19 01:37 PM
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Maybe you should drop some of those interests? If OP likes them, he shouldn't drop them. What he should do is give careful thought to how he presents them. Be an athlete who likes some nerdy things rather than a nerd who lifts. Tennessee's men's basketball team plays Settlers of Catan on their road trips and Duke's star player likes anime. It's fine to let people see a little of that side of you, just make sure it's balanced against other things. Also, unless you're doing competitions, I wouldn'…
/r/askTRP23/03/19 11:31 PM
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I 100% agree. OP, you said your sister is 13. If you're not comfortable leaving her in this situation now, when will you be comfortable with it? If you say something soon, like 14, what's going to change between now and then? If you say something like 16, you've decided that for the next three years anyone you date or even marry will take second place behind the responsibility you've chosen to assume for your sister. I'm willing to bet that this would eventually come to be a deal-breaker for man…
/r/RedPillWomen22/03/19 11:57 AM
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Inviting her over for Netflix is the exact right amount of low effort.
/r/askTRP10/03/19 04:14 PM
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Not just cell phone, all screens (computer, TV, etc.).
/r/askTRP06/03/19 12:25 AM
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As an alternative to trying to be "more white", she could also consider playing up her foreignness (find subtle ways to emphasize that she's from Africa, not African-American).
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/19 08:05 PM
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We don't tend to talk about directly very often because it's so basic, but I think one of the foundations of TRP is accepting reality as it is, rather than how you would like it to be.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/19 09:56 AM
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Years ago, as a low-level manager, I had to fire a good employee because he had claimed a college degree, and he hadn't quite finished. A college degree wasn't a job requirement and most of my employees didn't have one, but because he had lied in the course of his job application, I had to immediately fire him.
/r/askTRP24/01/19 08:55 PM
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Fudge a little, fine, but make sure you've got plausible deniability, and be very careful about out-and-out lies. If you get hired at a larger company, you will probably eventually get caught, and most large companies have zero-tolerance policies toward lying on your resume or application.
/r/askTRP24/01/19 08:50 PM
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Read the sidebar about oneitis, which you have, and abundance mentality, which you lack.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 04:32 PM
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If they flex on you, let them know you have value that will be respected elsewhere. It’s just like with females Abundance mentality. Something else to think about is whether you're getting anything out of this job other than a paycheck. Obviously the paycheck is important, but especially if you're early in your career, are you learning your craft/profession and are you building your network?
/r/askTRP20/01/19 09:29 AM
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A few months back, someone posted a nice chart on here illustrating the scale. It suggested, and I agree, that there really is no such thing as a 10. A 9 who checks off your personal preferences may be a 10 to you, but to the rest of us she's still a 9.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/18 11:29 PM
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I'm not accustomed to seeing serious (academically valid) research funded in such a manner. Why is Dr. Veissiere seeking to crowdfund this rather than using more traditional funding sources?
/r/becomeaman15/12/18 11:42 PM
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I stared at that sentence for way too long trying to figure out wtf she was trying to say. (I eventually gave up.)
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen12/12/18 07:49 PM
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The Rules of TRP: Lift. Sidebar.
/r/askTRP22/10/18 11:40 AM
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This. There's some heavy selection bias occurring. Very rarely does someone come here to post about how he approached 10 girls today and got rejected by all of them.
/r/askTRP12/10/18 10:46 PM
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There's a huge difference between expecting everyone to bend over backwards for you versus expecting someone you've been in a relationship with for four years to consider your wants as a factor when he's making decisions. So again, if OP's boyfriend of four years, with whom she's made some sort of plans for marriage, is not even interested in pleasing her but instead has "raised his shields", then OP has much bigger problems to deal with than how she phrases her desire to go to the zoo.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/18 11:30 AM
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If you outright say "I want .." that could work with a man who is receptive and wants to please you, but if he's already raised his shields/resentment, he'll probably go full turtle. If you're with a man who's not interested in pleasing you, how you choose to phrase things is the least of your issues.
/r/RedPillWomen20/09/18 10:23 AM
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Might seem harsh, but it's 100% true.
/r/RedPillWomen19/09/18 06:35 PM
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Because the difference in being photogenic and not photogenic is often your nose. Apparently not in this case though.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/18 02:51 PM
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She's separated, not divorced (yet), so technically he's still her husband.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/08/18 03:52 AM
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Aside from this comment being wrong (always wrap it up) pool sex is one of those things that sounds a lot better than it actually is. Make sure you have waterproof lube handy.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 09:58 AM
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I was going to comment on this post (man, 40, single), but I think Dundalk nailed it here when he wrote about showing genuine interest and having some progression. The only thing I'd add is that it can be a red flag if it seems that a woman is taking things much slower with me than she has with other men. That makes it seem to me that I'm being used for attention. If you're going to take things slow, try to make that your rule for everyone.
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/18 02:46 PM
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Even if you ask for ID and she shows you a fake ID, you're still going to jail.
/r/askTRP31/07/18 06:12 PM
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I think once per friend per year is about the right frequency.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 12:39 PM
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By definition, 1 in 10 men are in the top 10%. If you saw 8 men that you consider "top 10%", unless you only saw 80 men the whole trip (seems unlikely), either top 10% men are disproportionately avoiding airports (would have to be extremely disproportionate) or your assessment of what it takes to be top 10% is off. My money is on the latter; the top 10% ain't what it used to be. As you mentioned, that's great news for any man who's willing to do the work to improve himself.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 11:00 AM
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The primary difference between traditional and Roth is paying taxes now or later, and therefore the primary determinant of which is better is whether your marginal tax rate is higher in the year you contribute or higher in the year you withdraw. Given that marginal tax rates have been at historical lows for about 15 years, it's reasonably likely that many people will be at a higher marginal rate in the future. For anyone under age 50 who's considering investing (i.e., excluding anyone who's livi…
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 11:01 AM
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First, 401(k) enough to get any match your employer offers. Then Roth IRA. Then more 401(k). Then nonretirement investments. Remember that many 401(k) plans now allow "designated Roth" contributions also.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/18 01:38 AM
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A "creepy old guy" is any older man she's not attracted to. If you're attractive she won't think of you as creepy.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 08:23 AM
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Also "smokes often".
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/04/18 01:09 PM
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I also want to just give her a earful about fucking disrespecting me, bailing on hang outs, etc. Acta non verba. There's no upside to talking to her about this. Show a girl that she's misbehaving by withdrawing affection/attention. In this case, though, you may be done with this plate. I suspect it's time to move on.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 10:45 AM
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Especially since it's your very first time, set an activity-based goal instead of an outcome-based goal. What that means is instead of having a goal of getting X numbers (which is dependent on the girls' responses to you), make your goal X approaches. The point of this is that your goal should be based as much as possible on factors in your control. As to what you're learning today, learn to embrace the discomfort. Approaching, especially day game, can feel awkward when you're not used to it. Pr…
/r/askTRP28/04/18 10:39 AM
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I think he's talking about allowing the ex to have the son overnight.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 02:02 PM
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The only problem with that is that feminism isn't genetically transmitted, it's culturally transmitted.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/18 12:42 AM
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Comfort tests are generally easier to pass than shit tests...IF you can identify them as comfort tests. This sub is littered with stories from guys who responded to comfort tests as though they were shit tests...It doesn't end well.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 12:31 AM
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There's a balance you have to hit in a LTR between comfort and dread. Too far in one direction and she'll lose respect and attraction, you'll be a beta provider. Too far in the other direction and you risk her seeing you as a "player" who's not suitable LTR material. It sounds like you made a necessary adjustment, but you may have gone too far too fast. Keep up the changes, but be prepared to handle increased comfort tests.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 04:09 PM
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Just tell her you handled it and not to worry about it. You really should have just dealt with the roomie to begin with and not stuff anything to her, but it's obviously too late for that.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 11:46 AM
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Everyone is their own self, but statistically they're probably near the middle of the bell curve. Any actions that assume a person is an outlier are probably misguided.
/r/RedPillWomen21/04/18 05:12 AM
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Geto Boys - Let a Ho Be a Ho
/r/askTRP03/02/18 12:00 PM
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And you have stated you want to be with him. Imagine he will never change. Do you still want to be with him? A lot of good advice in this thread, but I think this is the best comment. Too many people go into relationships wanting or expecting the other person to change. I think we're all well-served by asking ourselves this sort of question (especially early in a relationship).
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/18 11:10 AM
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She's not yours, it's just your turn. If she's great in bed and she's great out of bed, enjoy your turn for however long it lasts. Don't worry about who came before, and don't worry about who will come after.
/r/askTRP09/01/18 03:32 AM
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I don't normally recommend Facebook, but the Events function is pretty nice.
/r/askTRP07/01/18 04:21 AM
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It's important to learn what he does and doesn't like. I'd appreciate my favorite dish with a mediocre execution much more than outstanding execution of a dish I don't like as much. This can be a case where it's the thought that counts -- the effort to make his favorite dish, as long as the result is at least decent.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/18 03:47 AM
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There are two ways to whiten teeth: chemical and abrasive. Abrasive can be easier to get good results at home, but there's a risk of damaging your teeth if you do it too much in the long term. Chemical whitening works on different types of stains/discolorations, and is likely to work better when done by a dentist (higher chemical concentration).
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 03:42 AM
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Most western countries have a copyright duration of 70 years post mortem auctoris (after the death of the creator), while much of Central America is 75-100 years.
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 03:35 AM
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Not surprised it upped the response rate, but was there a decrease in your closing rate at the same time? I'd expect it to generate more initial interest but I'd also think that it would put girls in a mindset of you as a betabux provider.
/r/askTRP06/01/18 10:59 AM
1

It's a simple question of calories in versus calories out. Estimate the calories you consumed (if the pizza was from a chain or store-bought this should be easy). Estimate your daily calories burned (Google TDEE calculator). Regardless of calories, it's probably a bad idea not to make too much of a habit of this for nutrition reasons (you might not get fat, but that doesn't mean it's healthy).
/r/askTRP28/12/17 03:41 PM
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Pregnant from precum isn't impossible but very unlikely. Then add in the claimed unsuccessful medical abortion, the name thing, etc... I'd be willing to bet that this isn't your child.
/r/askTRP15/12/17 07:28 PM
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we started making out and I felt her up a bit. But after a while she said it was getting late... I was feeling up on her for about an hour or two Mistake #1: you're moving too slow (not once, but twice on consecutive dates). As I keep trying to escalate it towards sex, she flat out says, "we're not gonna fuck". So I give up my attempts Mistake #2: You were both naked in her bed. Of course she was down to fuck. This was LMR and you failed.
/r/askTRP04/12/17 11:18 AM
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Down in the comments she suggested that both stepdaughters, in their late 20s, blame her for their parents' divorce. I think there's more back-story to this that she's not sharing.
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/17 11:04 AM
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No, I'm in finance.
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/17 02:47 AM
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Nope, it's 16 as long as your not an authority figure. The close-in-age exemption is for ages 12-15. ETA: But no photos or videos, since under 18 is "child pornography".
/r/askTRP02/12/17 12:09 PM
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I like the SMART acronym for goals. There are a few different versions, but I think the best is Specific, Measurable, Achievable, Relevant, and Time-bound.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/17 11:36 AM
2

Yes, it does depend on the pension plan (for those lucky enough to have one). Defined contribution plans like 401(k) and 403(b) plans tend to be much more flexible in terms of who can be named as a beneficiary, though spousal beneficiaries do receive favorable tax treatment there, because they can commingle the inherited assets with their own retirement accounts, while non-spousal beneficiaries must segregate the inherited funds, and most begin distributions on a different (less favorable) time …
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/17 07:40 PM
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It's uncommon (and even more uncommon for someone to elect it) but it is legally permissible, and some plans do offer it. I've had clients elect a joint/survivor option for an unmarried partner (mostly prior to federal recognition of same-sex marriages), and even had one person who got a quote for a joint/survivor option for her daughter...Of course once she saw how much that one reduced the benefit she immediately changed her mind!
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/17 07:29 PM
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Pensions also tend to provide options that will provide for the remaining spouse when her partner dies. This benefit is not available to anyone but your spouse. This is incorrect. A pension election of joint & survivor annuity payments is not limited to a spouse. A spouse does have certain rights with regard to most pensions and retirement plans (under ERISA, the right to be the sole primary beneficiary and the right to a survivor benefit) but an unmarried plan participant can usually choose to …
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/17 07:00 PM
2

That sounds entirely unproductive but maybe fun! I'm near Cleveland...do you mind sharing what company hosted/organized this event?
/r/askTRP27/11/17 08:02 PM
1

Sadly the Z$ was formally demonetized in 2015 (the currencies of 9 other countries are now legally accepted in Zimbabwe), at a final exchange rate of US$1 to Z$35,000,000,000,000,000 ($35 quadrillion). Your best bet for $100,000 now is probably Liberian dollars (that would be about US$800). If you're looking for six figures and you're not committed to dollars, the Vietnamese Dong is probably the most worthless currency in use today. As of this morning, US$4.42 gets you six figures (100,000₫).
/r/askTRP27/11/17 03:11 PM
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men want sex very early on...sex is so widely available these days that they wouldn't commit before at least knowing if they'll be satisfied sexually in the relationship. This is a demonstration of the truth of the red pill. It's a fundamental red pill concept (maybe THE fundamental concept) that traditionally men are the gatekeepers of commitment and women are the gatekeepers of sex, and that since so many Western women have abdicated that gatekeeper role there is little or no need for men to o…
/r/RedPillWomen27/11/17 02:19 PM
1

I get what you're saying, but I think text messaging is an inherently bad medium for that kind of communication. If it's a long-distance relationship, and if phone calls don't work for you (e.g., schedules don't line up), email is a better way to have that kind of deep communication. Or even old-fashioned letter-writing, which, although much slower, adds a tactile element.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/17 10:41 AM
2

That was a clear comfort test, not a shit test, and you failed it hard. A shit test generally tests your SMV. A comfort test generally asks you to validate her SMV. Your wife just asked you if you wanted to see her in lingerie, and you told her "no". Stop for a minute and think about that one.
/r/askTRP25/11/17 11:04 AM
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Nagging is negative reinforcement. A nagger hopes that the he will respond by changing/improving the behavior to avoid future nagging. The problem is that negative reinforcement can also lead to active avoidance: instead of changing behavior to remove the negative stimulus, he avoids the source of the negative stimulus -- you. Instead of trying to punish "undesirable" things, try to reward the things you like. This could be as simple as verbal praise ("I really like how you did your hair today")…
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/17 10:49 AM
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Over at TRP a common refrain is "text for logistics only". Texting isn't really going to move things forward for either of you. It can sometimes give a feeling of sharing and closeness, but it's false, like the false closeness engendered by social media. Real sharing and talking happen in person. Once you know you're both sufficiently serious, talk on the phone or video chat in a pinch (e.g., if one of you is traveling for an extended time) but in-person is always best.
/r/RedPillWomen25/11/17 10:21 AM
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Well, men do like women who are malleable. I'd qualify this statement. Men like women who are malleable for them, not necessarily who are malleable in general. It's a public/private dichotomy akin to "lady in the streets, freak in the sheets".
/r/RedPillWomen24/11/17 05:06 PM
1

I disagree with saying why you're leaving (unless you give an extremely vague answer). Also, I suggest specifying the last day that you will be working there rather than just saying "two weeks".
/r/askTRP24/11/17 10:42 AM
1

To add to this, some companies will want your notice in writing. If that's the case, don't give any extra details, just confirm that your last day working there will be DATE.
/r/askTRP24/11/17 10:39 AM
2

It's not having riches that makes one pathetic, it's having nothing else to offer that makes one pathetic.
/r/askTRP23/11/17 09:28 PM
4

This US Department of Education page suggests that being homeless (you mentioned that you're living in a tent in a park) can trigger treatment as an independent student. Get the necessary determination that you're homeless and you can qualify for need-based financial aid based on just your income.
/r/askTRP22/11/17 09:20 AM
1

I obviously can't speak for you, but when I'm at a concert I'm not texting. When I'm out with friends I'm not texting. When I'm reading I'm not texting. When I'm working out I'm not texting. When I'm at work I'm (mostly) not texting. Focus on where you are and what you're doing and you'll get better results (and enjoy it more). I'm not a hard-core text-for-logistics-only person, but having "conversations" via text really doesn't accomplish much other than feeding her ego and running the risk of …
/r/askTRP19/11/17 07:12 PM
2

Life's too short and time's too precious to spend with someone who's "boring as hell" regardless of how good their heart is.
/r/askTRP19/11/17 06:58 PM
1

If she's so boring, why do you want a relationship?
/r/askTRP19/11/17 06:50 PM
1

Can't text them all day every day either, so what's your point?
/r/askTRP19/11/17 06:48 PM
3

Talk to them in person. You're not going to develop a relationship by texting.
/r/askTRP19/11/17 06:44 PM
3

The Little Red (Pill) Book
/r/TheRedPill18/11/17 12:08 PM
4

get her to send you some emails or texts about her fantasies ahead of time (as proof in the unlikely event she pulls a FRA on you, plus it will give you more info about her kinks). This right here is a winning move on multiple levels.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 01:42 AM
1

Mini golf is way underrated as a date activity. Casual, easy to kino, easy to talk, relatively inexpensive, not locked into a long activity/event.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 12:40 AM
1

This is good advice. Make your ask specific (day, activity/location) and make it something you will or would do without her anyway.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 12:20 AM
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Honestly, that's a pretty common fantasy for women. There's an adrenaline kick from feeling out of control, even when her conscious mind knows she's safe. Her opening up about this with you possibly indicates a level of trust and comfort. Especially since she's watching BDSM porn, you might find some tips by asking at r/BDSMcommunity.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 12:08 AM
3

This is one of the biggest things about any improvisation that a lot of people don't understand. Whether you are a jazz musician, an orator, an improv comedian, etc. you aren't just making shit up on the spot. Musicians practice scales, arpeggios, turns, etc. including practicing different ways to string them together. Here's a fascinating article about Martin Luther King's improvisation in his famous "I have a dream" speech that makes the same point. It's about having ideas and phrases ready to…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 05:06 PM
10

Also, I'd suggest that the War of 1812 was an existential war for the US (probably more so than World War II), which blows up the 80-year cycle theory.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/17 08:28 AM
3

Set boundaries with actions, not words.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 10:41 PM
2

In 3 years, start putting the entire 17% toward retirement. You won't miss it since you don't have it now. The value of this is two-fold. First, obviously, you'll be dumping a ton of money into your retirement account, and it will grow pretty fast. Second, and this is actually more important, if you're saving 20% of your income, that means you only need to save enough to replace about 64% of your pay, since that's what you're living on (assuming you're saving 20% pre-tax and paying 20% taxes on …
/r/TheRedPill14/11/17 09:29 PM
3

The goal is to progress from social media to in-person, not the other way around.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 08:16 PM
12

Neither the septum nor the stretched ears (at the gauge you mentioned) are likely to be deal breakers, but they may be seen as red flags or indicators that hold you back from some relationships. Here's how i think of it. You can't go into a relationship assuming someone is going to change. If you're wearing those now, I'd have to assume you intend to keep wearing them indefinitely. I work for a large, conservative business, and I'm going to have a hard time picturing myself taking you to dinners…
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/17 11:38 AM
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You don't know that there are no RP teachers. Law 38: Think as you like, but behave like others. Especially in a profession like teaching, you can be damn sure that anyone who's swallowed the red pill is going to be extremely careful about how they're perceived.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/17 10:34 PM
1

Where I live even a tiny 700 square foot apartment is at least a couple grand a month. Even with a full time job I wouldn't be able to afford it. Then move somewhere else.
/r/askTRP13/11/17 11:30 AM
4

The consensus on TRP seems to be that commitment is no longer a sensible option for men (at least in the US), and that endlessly spinning plates is the way to go. Although I accept that there is some amount of logic behind that argument, I can't give up on the notion that there is -- or should be -- more to male-female relationships than just sex. Lurking here reminds me that there are still some women who are worth committing to.
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/17 09:37 PM
2

Also, I highly recommend reading the CorporateLand posts by u/VasiliyZaitzev
/r/askTRP12/11/17 02:36 PM
1

As a recent college grad about to be making good money, save a good chunk of it. The easiest time to set yourself up for financial security is at the beginning of your career. You're probably used to living on fast less than that. Spend some of it to enjoy life -- I'm NOT advocating living super cheap -- but at this moment you should be able to save a lot without really feeling it. For example, if you were living on $25,000/year as a college student, you could now live on $50,000 and save $30,00…
/r/askTRP12/11/17 11:40 AM
1

I agree with you, but OP stated that he considers it killing a baby, and since we're talking about a personal decision, it's his moral belief that matters, not yours, not mine, and not the facts of fetal development. He's the one who will have to live with feeling like he's killed a child even if the rest of us were to agree that he hasn't actually done so.
/r/askTRP12/11/17 11:29 AM
1

Here's an explanation of the difference.
/r/askTRP10/11/17 07:04 PM
1

College courses on interpersonal communication will mostly focus on theories of interpersonal communication, not practical communication skills.
/r/askTRP10/11/17 06:35 PM
1

There are some jobs that require a degree (MD, teacher). There are some jobs that may not formally require it but not having one is usually a deal-breaker (many corporate jobs, including marketing positions). There are jobs where it just doesn't matter. By and large, sales is a career where having a degree doesn't matter. And to be blunt, you're unlikely to be learning any sales skills in college. Maybe spend some time thinking about sales versus marketing jobs. How you'd get one is different fr…
/r/askTRP10/11/17 10:56 AM
1

Make it an "I" statement to indicate that her ass only has value when you're appreciating it. For example, "I love the way your ass looks when I'm fucking you from behind" or whatever.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/17 04:22 PM
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As sometime with ~20 years in CorporateLand, a good chunk of that spent as a hiring manager, those three posts nail it 100%. FYI, on the salary negotiation front, a small but growing number of states prohibit companies from requesting or considering an applicant's salary history, and in the interest of standardization, some companies that operate nationwide are moving away from asking those questions even in states that still allow it.
/r/askTRP08/11/17 12:30 PM
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