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To that I say: I accept everyone and their past, but that doesnt mean I have to commit to them.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 04:54 PM
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LOL. We have the greatest military in the world.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/15 04:50 PM
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Yet people are so stupid that this is totally lost on almost everyone, and they think equal means identical. Two sides of an algebra equation are equal, but not identical.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 08:22 AM
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There it is again, the under 5 lie. Ive been seeing it so much recently Im tempted to say AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 04:11 PM
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Honestly with the sheer number of available, hot girls between the ages of 18-25 on the market looking to get fucked by men between the ages of 25-45, I dont even see or notice girls that are in their 30's. They might as well be 90.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 04:06 PM
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This is a horrible idea and its going to lead you to a very difficult, lonely, painful place if you actually keep going with it.
/r/askTRP06/08/14 04:41 PM
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Thats impossible, this isnt a RPG where "Psychopathy" is a skill that can be trained. Obviously though your ignorance is at level 100 and needs no more training.
/r/askTRP06/08/14 04:41 PM
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Its when they expect me to cry about something that they really learn how heartless I am. I didnt even cry in front of my GF when my mother died. I just stared out the window for like 30 seconds then went about my day.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/14 11:28 AM
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You're not wrong, people are just stupid. What you say is obvious to anyone who can critically think.
/r/askTRP06/08/14 10:19 AM
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This is the paradox. By learning RP (meaning essentially learning to become a man without having had a distinct male role model growing up) and using it to fuck multiple women, we perpetuate the very system we are unhappy with, a system that produces women that are basically unmarriageable and men that are not men but deluded losers. Every time we fuck a girl, she gives us social value. That exchange is permanent. You have now always fucked this girl and she has always been fucked by you. This i…
/r/askTRP05/08/14 09:02 PM
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Actually crying over this is one of the few things a woman usually wont lose respect over you for. Its if you cried over your car, or a broken finger, or something that she will think of you as weak. Mans best friend? Its probably like niagra falls in her panties if you are otherwise an alpha man.
/r/askTRP05/08/14 08:20 PM
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Seeking happiness? You're going to have a bad time. Seek fulfillment. Much better than happiness because it lasts even when you are upset, in pain, or dying.
/r/TheRedPill05/08/14 07:45 PM
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I dont think number does matter. What matters is the behaviors that the number implies. Most women have a high number due to validation seeking, attention seeking behaviors that are rooted in deeper problems of self esteem. This is compounded by the fact that its a perfect psychological crutch for a woman because it requires almost no effort for a moderately attractive girl to get laid. Men with high numbers have built and made that shit from the ground up. They have earned all the pussy they ha…
/r/askTRP05/08/14 07:33 PM
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Most men who are getting laid on a regular basis are getting laid by multiple women, and the ones who arent are not getting laid at all. Its not like one woman gets laid by one man. Its more like 2 or 3 women getting laid by one man who is alpha and has game. Since most men in our society are beta, they cant get pussy regularly. One RP truth we say around here is that multiple women would rather share an alpha man, than have a beta man all to herself. So you have 20 guys fucking 2-3 women each. …
/r/askTRP04/08/14 04:49 PM
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As for the "5 guys" thing, my theory is that women say this because it can still be "counted on one hand". If you need eight hands like a hindu god to count your number of partners... you might be a slut!
/r/TheRedPill04/08/14 03:39 PM
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You think of 100$ as a lot of money? You'll never be rich.
/r/askTRP03/08/14 05:49 PM
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I couldnt get past this statement, shut the video off the second it came out of her mouth.
/r/TheRedPill03/08/14 05:18 PM
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Shes hot, young, wearing a short skirt and fuck me boots, then walks through a GHETTO ass part of town, it looked like Chicago for christs sake, and wonders why she gets cat called? As a scientific study its horribly biased. Send that same girl to 100 cities and then tell me the results. Send her to paris, london, norway, different cities in the US. You send any hot, young girl through the Ghetto and shes going to get catcalled... Are these people fucking stupid?
/r/TheRedPill03/08/14 05:17 PM
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This is so true. I thought I had learned that lesson, I failed to act last night and I regretted it. An hour later Im sitting in my house thinking "Fuck, I did it again. I hate this feeling. Why do I do this to myself?" You just kill your own momentum when you fail to act. Always default to action.
/r/askTRP02/08/14 05:15 PM
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They dont like it, but maintain frame and give it time and they will respect it.
/r/TheRedPill02/08/14 07:44 AM
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Its more of I dont want ot give it up to just any guy and then get screwed over because it has happened before and im trying to learn my lesson Translates as: "Ive been riding the cock carousel and now I want to act and be seen as a good girl again. Ive been fucking guys on the first date for years but Im making an exception for you".
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 05:56 PM
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I hope you got up and walked away without saying anything. Thats what I would do. Well, I might laugh in her face first.
/r/TheRedPill01/08/14 04:36 PM
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Women like tall men, mostly this means they like men taller than they are. If you work out, you will have an advantage over all other men your height or shorter who dont. If you dont work out, you lose that advantage. If you work out and get fit, a nice 6 pack, and get some game, you can easily compete with men taller than you who are not fit and have no game. So get to the gym!
/r/askTRP31/07/14 05:08 PM
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When white american women act like women and not like women posturing and trying to be a man, then Ill place them higher on the ladder. The only reason I mostly talk to white american women is because they are in abundance where I am, I would much rather talk to asians, latinos, indian girls and mixed race girls, or any non-american white woman, than waste my time with these broken hos.
/r/TheRedPill31/07/14 04:15 PM
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Yet still it doesnt change the truth he sees nor the effectiveness of putting that truth into action.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 06:02 PM
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Which is why I said "Most men". Most men are clearly incapable of being both in a consistent or stable way. The men who can be both and maintain that for a longer period of time will be the most successful, because they will balance being kind and liberal with being stern and mean. So people will both respect and like that individual. As Machiavelli says, if you cannot be loved, its better to be feared. If you cant be liberal without being despised for being weak, its better to just be stern and…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 05:41 PM
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What tripe. Rodgers was a beta chump. He was a parody of a man. It had nothing to do with MRM, RP, PUA or anything else. It had everything to do with not having a male role model and being raised by society. I bet his father was distant, always working, and his mother let him do whatever he wanted. I bet he lacked discipline and was rarely punished for anything. He became instilled with a sense of entitlement rather than being instilled with the masculine ideal that the world owes you jack shit,…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 05:35 PM
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I bet shes crying in her pants though
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 05:19 PM
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Most men cant embody both beta and alpha. Either they are alphas who become betafied in LTRs, or they are betas who are always beta. Or alphas who never show any beta qualities and so are horrible LTR material. The nice thing is key though. I remember when I realized this... It was really when I swallowed the pill. I thought "Wow, I have no real friends. Im just so nice people cant find fault with me. Im so compliant, such a push over that nobody has ever had any reason to dislike me for a momen…
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 04:58 PM
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Yep, and the reason alpha men are often horrible providers and husbands is because they have been consistently rewarded throughout their life for being an emotionally distant jerk, often this reward is the hottest pussy around.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 04:54 PM
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This doesnt work. "Being yourself" for most men means being a weak, beta failure at life who never gets women. The reason guys come to forums like this is precisely because being themselves is not working and they are at a loss of what to do. Of course whatever you do is yourself. Hes being himself now by coming here, and later when he tries to implement what he learns here he is still being himself. How could anyone ever not be themselves? Its a silly idea.
/r/seduction29/07/14 04:21 PM
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Mothers should teach their daughters how to use a strap on, because the next generation of betas are going to be worse than the current one...
/r/TheRedPill29/07/14 06:17 AM
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Right? Its pretty amazing. Every album seems to have at least one song with the guy explaining his understanding of game. Also: Money over bitches.
/r/askTRP29/07/14 04:27 AM
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Can be? More like wrestling is the ultimate kino. Its literally dominating the girl in the context that you are "wrestling" and therefore non-sexual. Fuck you should have said "That sounds like a challenge, lets go outside!" and taken her into the yard. You missed an opportunity to wrestle her to the ground and kiss her.
/r/askTRP28/07/14 09:12 PM
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Beta men are boring and dont engage a womans senses or imagination. Alpha men are not, and they do engage her senses and imagination. Thats why being alpha works in my opinion.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 08:24 PM
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Cause its still countable on one hand.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 03:51 PM
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I. Drunken mistake II. Sober mistake III. Im a fucking idiot...
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 03:43 PM
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This is most important of all.
/r/seduction28/07/14 02:20 AM
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Well you can get a T test or you can research how to increase T and see how you feel doing that. The fact that you feel you cant go to at least your father about this is exactly why RP exists. Men like us lacked a male role model, we have nobody to turn too. Just distant caretakers who pay our way for 18 years and let the system raise us. Low T does cause beta behavior, yes, but thats definitely not the only factor. Being 20 you can look into getting a T test on your own, you dont need your pare…
/r/askTRP28/07/14 02:17 AM
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Then friendzone her, stop being romantic with her, make it clear you are just friends. In other words by being direct, you make it seem like shes being friendzoned. Then ask that she introduces you to her hot female friends, if she doesnt do this stop talking to her, if she does then shes a keeper as a friend.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 01:08 AM
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WTF. The word "mom" happened too many times in this post. Get your own place or move in with room mates!
/r/askTRP28/07/14 01:02 AM
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Its everywhere where I live. I also see fat + fat too.
/r/TheRedPill28/07/14 12:31 AM
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Secretly read it on the DL, dont tell youre wife, act like you didnt even notice her reading it in fact, be the oblivious husband. Then use what you learn on her and fucking make her go wild!
/r/askTRP27/07/14 09:28 PM
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Because Pussy > Hate Because you are projecting hate onto the wrong object, social conditioning is what made you beta, not women. Furthermore you're beta because you weren't raised to be alpha, so your parents are more to blame for your situation than women. As is yourself. Because women didn't chose their own natures, nor do men, but as a man you can have the choice to be beta or alpha. Because its a truth about men and women, so don't hate, learn to accept that women are different then men. If…
/r/askTRP27/07/14 09:26 PM
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You dont always want to bust their balls, though some guys can get away with this if they have the right frame. You find a balance between having a conversation/making small talk that seems serious and flirting/poking fun at her. You also have to find the balance between showing interest (open body language, eye contact, facing her, touching her) and being disinterested (turning away, looking around, not looking at her eyes or face while you talk). Furthermore if you develop amused mastery then …
/r/askTRP27/07/14 09:02 PM
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I learned that one the "hard" way...
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 08:43 PM
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Women arent insane. If they were, they couldnt be understood. Rather women conform to an order of behavior that is different from men, and in order to understand how they think its necessary to understand their order and process. If there was no process game couldnt exist, and RP wouldnt work. Because there is process, there is a system, systems are organized and orderly and therefore they make sense. Whatever makes sense, is not insane. Since you can take that system and work it in your favor, …
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 07:56 PM
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The bigger the woman, the more beta the man. I see it constantly because I work with the general public. Its almost like the bigger the women get, the skinner and more pathetic the men get.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 07:54 PM
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Like I said yesterday in another thread, I accept fat girls, I just dont want to fuck them. Hot girls accept me, but if Im beta they dont want to fuck me. Ill fuck fat girls for their personality as soon as hot girls fuck me for being a nice guy. I dont hate fat girls, and although I have a lot of strong dark triad traits, I feel for them because although I can turn empathy off, its good to have it on at all times until I need to be merciless for whatever reason. I know how they feel because as …
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 07:50 PM
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Sucks for her. Rather than having attractive men in her life fucking her she has this stupid situation where she is hungry for validation from an incompetent "man" and real men wont deal with her bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 07:39 PM
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Banter arises naturally when you have amused mastery and dont take yourself or situation seriously. Its when you have a serious attitude and mindset that you cant be fun, funny or even flirt well. Beta men are tense and serious, Alpha men are relaxed and easy going. Its not even that conversation itself is bad, its just that if you are having conversation and in your mind thinking "I want to know about her life, her interests, hobbies, and so forth" Then you are not in a gaming mindset and wont …
/r/askTRP27/07/14 07:29 PM
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If it bothers you about the condom, just tell her to stop. Dont make it about sperm jacking, just say you are worried her teeth might rip the condom and leave it at that, but tell her that you think its really hot she can do that so she feels validated and not like she did something wrong. Dont worry about her exes, thats beta shit. Be a man and she wont think of leaving you. You dropped your six figure, secure salary to pursue self employment and possibly massive wealth and total freedom? Sound…
/r/askTRP27/07/14 06:45 PM
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Heres some things I would consider. I. Target women shorter than you II. Get buff so women can see your strength/fitness/dominance. Even if you are fit, they cant see it unless you are also bigger. III. Learn playful banter/flirtation. Dont try to have deep conversations with girls at first. At first everything you do is a context for sexual innuendo, displaying interest and kino. Literally its all just a game, and the appearance (the conversation) is clothing the real intention (that you want t…
/r/askTRP27/07/14 06:24 PM
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I accept fat girls, I dont judge, I just dont want to fuck them. Hot girls accept me, they dont judge me, but if Im beta they sure as hell dont want to fuck me. Ill fuck fat girls for their personality as soon as hot girls will fuck me for my kindness.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/14 06:31 AM
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I had the same thought actually, I was like "well, ship em over here!"
/r/TheRedPill26/07/14 03:52 AM
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You could be sympathetic, say that you hope it goes well. Then wait a few minutes then ask her if she needs a distraction. Frame yourself as a distraction from her real life problems, if she drinks or smokes do that, then fuck her brains out. Thats my opinion...
/r/askTRP26/07/14 02:03 AM
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Just put a condom on it first
/r/TheRedPill24/07/14 04:38 AM
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Alpha fucks, beta bucks. Its the concept that women will be in a LTR with a blue pill man for emotional and financial support, often in a nearly sexless or completely sexless relationship, but then go off and fuck some ultra hot alpha guy on the side.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 08:07 AM
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AF/BB Example really. The last paragraph made me nauseous.
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 07:15 AM
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How is he fucking multiple attached women if hes so BP though? Never heard that before :/
/r/TheRedPill23/07/14 05:41 AM
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This is my take on it... Dominance is when you clearly display your superiority in body, energy/strength, or mind over another person. Control is when you try to specify what kinds of behavior you want others to exhibit, how you want them to exhibit it, when, and so forth. Women love displays of dominance, and most women like a man to have some control over their lives but most want a large deal of autonomy, and I dont blame them! When it comes to relationships, you control the relationship by d…
/r/askTRP21/07/14 05:07 PM
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If shes straight up asking to be FWB you are golden. Now you just tell her when to come over and sex is assumed, you can be totally relaxed because you know youre going to fuck her. You can escalate kino immediately, even kissing her right when you see her now, because everyone knows that its about sex and lust. Seriously why are you posting here if shes straight up said she wants FWB now. Tell her to put on something sexy and come to your place and fuck her brains out.
/r/askTRP20/07/14 03:47 PM
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Sure lets do a GW post, hand me the camera and get to sucking!
/r/TheRedPill15/07/14 04:34 PM
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Wow. Im actually impressed, and Im not impressed with many people. I wonder if this guy would ever do an AMA...
/r/becomeaman13/07/14 06:11 AM
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Some of these women sound horrible, good riddance.
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 05:57 PM
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RP isnt anti-women, thats just a myth. Beta men are the ones who actually become anti-women, and they treat women like hookers to be bought with favors, compliments and money. They fail to see the irony in the fact that despite treating women this way, they are against prostitution though they feel entitled to sex from any girl they do these things for and yet thats not prostitution to think you can buy a woman with favors and things? Beta men are the ones who slowly develop a hatred of women. A…
/r/TheRedPill12/07/14 05:46 PM
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If it were me I would buy toys. You cant fuck her, but you can still tie her up, blindfold her and have your way with her pussy, going down on her while fucking her with a dildo of your choosing! If youre brave find out what kind of porn she likes, then go down on her and finger her while she watches. Why do I say brave? You cant unlearn that shit bro, so be prepared for whatever. I dont know how many girls would dig this kind of thing, but its what comes to my mind and what I would do. It keeps…
/r/askTRP11/07/14 06:35 PM
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I can relate to you. I wasnt raised by a single mother, but my father was totally beta and lazy and my mother did everything for me. She finished my homework even and did whole projects for me well into middle school. She basically crippled my ability to set and accomplish goals for myself. It wasnt until a couple years ago I realized this, and I was almost 30 by then. The issue my friend is that our reward systems are not programmed to want to seek to accomplish things in life. This is why work…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 05:31 PM
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Right! I was impressed. Didnt even flinch as the ham-beast got all finger pointing in his face.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 04:55 PM
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When a girl doesnt give IOI's, dont worry about it. Sometimes you just dont click with a girl. Not every woman wants to jump your bones. So, in a club especially having an abundance mentality will help you just walk away and not seek her approval or validation. In many cases this is exactly what you need to do in order to get her interested in you as well.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 04:42 PM
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You should consider what value he brings to your life and the group, and act based on that. Is he really a friend, or just a good acquaintance who you have things in common with? Friends support you, help you grow, dont tear you dont, they dont take your women, your money, and if they ride on your status or SMV they do so respectfully acknowledging the social hierarchy and they work WITH you when gaming women not against you. At the same time friends can be flawed, have dark sides, or have thing…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 04:36 PM
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Exactly, Im not counting hugs or pining for validation. My initial reaction was offense but of course I didnt express this, I just rolled with it. I certainly wouldnt ask for hugs or force hugs to happen, its not only not that important but that just seems needy and clingy.
/r/askTRP08/07/14 10:03 PM
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heh!
/r/askTRP08/07/14 09:39 PM
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I wouldnt ask for a hug, they arent that important to me, but it would be like if all your guy friends stopped fist bumping you. You might not have any attachment to fist bumping or not, but when it stops suddenly you will wonder whats up, or at least I would wonder.
/r/askTRP08/07/14 05:48 PM
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So then what of the side hug? Is the side hug a kind of "im not sure yet/I dont know about you"? Is it like "Your slipping into the friend zone, but you arent quite there"?
/r/askTRP08/07/14 05:37 PM
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This is true. I definitely don't need the validation, for me it was more I was wondering if these girls were trying to straight up dis me by not giving me a hug. I noticed that since my behavior changed a new pattern of behavior has emerged from the women in my life, and I became curious as to its meaning. Upvote for saying it like it is!
/r/askTRP08/07/14 05:17 PM
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A very narrow space... ( ͡° ͜ʖ ͡°)
/r/TheRedPill07/07/14 04:22 PM
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I could see that. I dont know why but I see them as very distinct. RP is motivating me to work out and change my diet and other things, PUA on the other hand just motivated me to keep trying different tactics but not understanding the fundamental issue. The fundamental issue was and is my betaness. As that goes away, natural game emerges quite naturally because women are attracted to me due to being more alpha, not because of what I am or am not saying or doing. So all the calculated tactics and…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 03:53 AM
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Of course! I agree with this completely.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/14 03:47 AM
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When I first found TRP I was coming from studying PUA. I had tried PUA for about 3 or 4 years, off and on, with little success. Progress was slow because I had no idea of red pill/blue pill. I was still totally beta trying to implement PUA techniques that really only work if I come off as alpha, which I never did because I was too much of a nice guy. Alpha is explained poorly in PUA as well, since PUA mostly lacks RP knowledge. As it turned out, when I found TRP I actually needed it to help me g…
/r/TheRedPill04/07/14 05:16 PM
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Probably she means herself, her friends and the guy she fucked. The guy probably legitimately believed they were broken up, it sounds like she fucked one of her orbiters. His white knighting might prevent him from "morally" fucking an attached girl, so he might legitimately feel bad for having done this.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/14 06:18 PM
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"Yeah, the extra inches are in my trousers!"
/r/askTRP29/06/14 06:08 PM
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4,5,6,7,8,9 and 13 are all HORRIBLE ADVICE This is just my opinion of course, Im a recovering beta still, but I cringed at all these... Roman numerals because of reddits weird number formatting. IV. Do not at all costs be feminine. V. Dont be thoughtful. Dont think about girls. Be in permanent IDGAF mode. This combined with # IV from the article will get you friendzoned faster than you can say friendzone. Being feminine and thoughtful technically makes you one of her friends because you are no d…
/r/TheRedPill28/06/14 06:04 PM
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Maybe. I had considered this as well but I think so much of it depends on frame and how its presented. Actions in themselves are neither beta nor alpha, they are neutral. Its about who is doing them and how that makes them what they are. In general buying shit is a bad idea and usually a waste of money.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/14 08:27 PM
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This is probably more likely what happened. If she was having a bad night you could have just as easily complimented something about her, talked to her and given her eye contact, and if she wasnt bad looking and you actually wanted to game her you easily could have and probably gotten her number. Remember that buying a chick things is not your biggest asset by any means, its your interaction with her, your eye contact, your friendliness. Hindsight is 20/20, but if you had bought them all flowers…
/r/TheRedPill21/06/14 06:02 PM
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Maybe try learning from him. Seriously. The girl is gone, the guy obviously has some kind of game and is confident in his abilities. You could try to see past this, find a redeeming quality in him, and see what you can learn from him even just by observing what he does and how he does it. Or you can go on some quest for vengence, learn nothing, possibly lose a social circle, and make yourself look like an insecure, whiny beta in the process.
/r/askTRP19/06/14 05:32 PM
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You may be masturbating too much, if so then stop. Try cutting back and seeing what it does for your motivation and social skills.
/r/askTRP16/06/14 09:12 PM
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Well first off you can realize it could be worse. No really, it could. There are men with penises so small that sex is impossible or highly unlikely for them. Men with larger penises who cant get or keep an erection. Most men have insecurity even if they are average or above. You should pursue women who are more petite in frame. Typically a smaller frame means smaller vagina, means more pleasure for you and her both. This isnt universal, but its a rule of thumb. If you pursue taller girls you ar…
/r/askTRP16/06/14 09:03 PM
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I dont think of guys like this as assholes, just as alphas of their group. When they approach me like this, I usually agree and amplify and view them not as an enemy but as a potential wing. I watch their game, learn from them, play off them, play with them. True assholes are easy to deal with and eject from a group, even one they are already in, because real assholery is obvious. Women dont like negativity and never openly support it, so if it seems like a guy is being a huge jerk for no reason…
/r/TheRedPill16/06/14 08:31 PM
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This depends on your current salary. If you are making 30k a year, 10% is 3k. Thats an average of $250 less a month, then add in free time and "doing stuff" and you are spending even more on top of that. For an income so small, it could be bank breaking and decrease your quality of life. On the other hand 10% of 70k is just 7k, and 63K is still a respectable salary. You might need to cut out some luxuries, but you may not. Ultimately its about what you want and your personal goals. You can still…
/r/askTRP15/06/14 09:12 PM
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Lyrics: I hate you for the sacrifices you made for me I hate you for every time you ever bled for me I hate you for the way you smile when you look at me I hate you for never taking control of me I hate you for always saving me from myself I hate you for always choosing me and not someone else I hate you for always pulling me back from the edge I hate you for every kind word you ever said I'll bleed you dry now Blood, blood, blood Pump more through my veins Shut your dirty, dirty mouth I'm not t…
/r/TheRedPill03/01/14 09:29 AM
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Get a second :) Then a third :)
/r/askTRP28/12/13 04:47 AM
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Why take what these girls are saying seriously? If you are short and alpha you will get laid. If you are short and weak, pathetic and beta then you wont. If you are clingy, girls will think you are a creep. Being a short, beta man you probably have few options. So basically many short men get obsessed with any girl who gives them the time of day, and this attitude disgusts women. This is how it is with betas too in general, which is why man women "creep zone" many betas. Because women (and men r…
/r/TheRedPill25/12/13 08:12 PM
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I agree with VII. I may take another posters suggestion and change that to courtesy. After thinking about it, I dont treat everyone with respect, in fact I realized after looking up the actual definition of respect that I only respect a handful of people in my life. I disagree with some of VI. I learn from whoever I can if I think it will benefit me, even if I hate your guts if you are teaching me and therefore making me stronger, more intelligent, or better at some skill I will hide the fact th…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/13 08:35 AM
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Because I fall into a pattern where negative feelings are generated based on my past conditioning. For example, I will be doing fine with women until I try to start escalating kino. I understand body language well and how to escalate, but my mind starts projecting an immediate idea of being rejected even though she is will smiling at me and interacting with me. I will convince myself, based on my feelings, that my touch is unwanted, undesired and wrong. I will start to feel anxiety, then feel re…
/r/TheRedPill21/12/13 07:45 AM
1

Yes thanks! Im going to consider this and many other comments in this thread. I love the feedback!
/r/TheRedPill21/12/13 07:38 AM
4

HAHAHAHA! "Busting a nut in the family beagle". OMG I lost it at that image.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 08:56 PM
3

Obviously she is saying she wants to be fucked and treated like a dog. He should fucking brutalize her the next time they fuck.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 08:55 PM
7

The RP guy made his first mistake by even mentioning RP. Then he becomes BP when he starts justifying his actions to his friend rather than just realizing his friend is BP and dropping the subject all together (which would have saved him all this trouble). He descends into total BP-hood when he starts apologizing and virtually pleading. First rule: Dont talk about fight club.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 08:51 PM
1

Sounds like shes hitting the wall.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 06:32 AM
1

Women dont change. Hair, makup, clothes, and bitching when they are 15 and when they are 30.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 06:05 AM
1

Social pressures and the need to survive does amazing things. When every single person you know expects you to conform to some ideal, you are likely to go along with it whether or not it really "works" for you. Would an arranged marriage work for you? What if you were not really into the girl, or liked her sister better?
/r/TheRedPill03/12/13 08:26 AM
1

I agree and these are good points. Especially the focus on discipline. Its so hard, but so beneficial.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/13 07:52 AM
4

Youth and beauty is what will draw alpha men to you. Intelligence and kindness is what will keep them interested in you as more than a fuck toy. This is at least my generalized opinion, Im sure some men dont care if you are smart or kind.
/r/askTRP01/12/13 06:03 PM
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THE RED PILL TEACHES YOU HOW TO HANDLE THIS. Its not hard. Why would you go through all the trouble of rationalizing all this BS and posting it for us all to read when there is a plethora of information here about how to avoid this exact problem, and in fact avoiding these problems with women and getting what you want from them is the basis of TRP theory and practice. These are not your only choices. If you are RP and your methods are not working, there are extreme measures you can take includin…
/r/TheRedPill01/12/13 05:35 PM
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Most marriages happen way to quick. Thats why divorce rates are so high. Almost EVERYBODY I know gets married in under two years from the day they meet their SO, and most of them are engaged before they have even been together one year. People rush into things without thinking or knowing each other (or themselves) and that's the problem. Monogamy is not the problem.
/r/TheRedPill01/12/13 05:24 PM
3

Black men in America have status within their own social circle, which is all that matters. I mean on the one hand I can have high status in a social circle that a ghetto black man couldnt have, but if I went into his circle what kind of respect would I get? None really. I might earn some but I wouldnt just have status for being white or more wealthy or whatever. The women would shit test the hell out of me.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/13 12:42 AM
1

Not only does this help me understand things about black culture that I didn't see before, it confirms some theories of mine. Thanks so much for this post!
/r/TheRedPill27/11/13 12:37 AM
1

No. Hug her and pull her in a bit, let your arm slide off her, do it all innocently and unknowingly like this is how you hug everyone.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 02:54 AM
10

Nothing says easy like tattoos on the thighs of a chubby chick.
/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 02:46 AM
7

HAHAHAHAHA! OMG I made it to 30 seconds. What the fuck. This says it all "I consider myself a loner, I usually sit in the back of the room and just observe people, listen to people". In other words hes BETA AS FUCK. He sits in a corner by himself and doesn't talk to anyone, and nobody talks to him (for obvious reasons). Hes the definition of a creep.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/13 02:17 PM
10

Marriage. Not even once.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/13 12:21 PM
5

They burn/fizzle out too. They have some good years but get betaized by some chick and then disappear into a life of stable mediocrity.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/13 01:09 AM
1

Its cause these men are worse betas than the 20's guys, theyve had ten more years of being betaized, but the demographics you list are by and large alpha types. Frat bros/athletes and thugs all translates to a lot of aggression and testosterone. Hipster druggies are edgy, and that can be a draw for girls especially if the girls are getting drugs for free (which is usually whats happening). I know a guy who is almost 30, looks even older, and his life has been a mess but hes always fucking some h…
/r/TheRedPill24/11/13 01:08 AM
1

Hah!
/r/TheRedPill24/11/13 01:01 AM
1

Dont go out to game women, go out to have fun even if its with women. If you go out with the intention to fclose a girl you dont have outcome independence because you have a clear goal which, if not attained, means you failed. If your goal is to have as much fun as possible whatever that means or might entail, then you can never fail. Of course this sounds like selling yourself short, but its actually just a smart mental trick. You still go for what you want, but you dont have a host of expectat…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/13 06:09 PM
7

Well it does serve the purpose of yet again making the point of the superiority of RP over BP. The RP fucks the girls mouth, the BP sits in the hotel, apparently oblivious to his girlfriends horrible infidelity. The RP fucks the girl when she travels, the BP has to beg for her company back by buying her things and showing up at her work and supplicating her. Its a bit of a humblebrag (or not so humble) but at the same time its just insane how powerful this stuff is.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/13 05:59 PM
1

He sucks, is not a good wingman, and if he has to bash others to qualify himself he is low value. If you want to help him, put him in his place subtly and gently (basically showing that you wont take his shit) and see if he gets the hint. If he does, then take control and if you really want to get him laid, wing for him and show him how its done. Otherwise just avoid him (probably best) because thats a lot of effort for someone who will probably never pay it back and might not even understand wh…
/r/TheRedPill23/11/13 05:33 PM
7

This is whats currently happening with me as well. Interesting.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/13 05:25 AM
2

Hah. I do this. It works!
/r/TheRedPill17/11/13 04:59 AM
1

Its just conditioning, not evolution. You are conditioned to feel pain. You can recondition yourself to not give a fuck if women reject you.
/r/TheRedPill17/11/13 02:28 AM
7

Alpha males are more likely to meet violent and shocking ends because they live a life of freedom, and freedom is dangerous. Betas seek security and familiarity. The truth is we will all die eventually, so it really doesn't matter. You can cling to your life of security and live an extra 30, boring, mediocre years in your little suburban safe haven with a wife that doesn't fuck you and kids that annoy you. Or you can live a life of freedom, maybe die young, but at least you did your best and wer…
/r/TheRedPill16/11/13 05:40 PM
2

Dont expect much winging with guys you dont know. Dont wing with guys who fuck up sets so badly.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/13 05:37 PM
7

If this is real, its kind of sad. Just sit in your car and say "Want to take a ride with me?" LOL. I mean if you do that in a cheap car you're just a creep right? A stalker, murderer, rapist. So hilarious, but sad. Especially the girl who dissed her man. She would have came back to me being gone permanently.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/13 05:29 PM
2

Thats good, Ill have to try that one.
/r/seduction16/11/13 04:56 PM
3

I can see that approach then. Your first point is definitely true.
/r/seduction15/11/13 11:49 PM
2

Yeah that about sums it up. It would be like a guy talking about how he fucked a girl who was really loose. It would just make it seem like he has a small dick or fucked some nasty whore. Its not something you brag about... Not that having a big vagina is a bad thing. The kama sutra makes it clear that this is just how it is, and that those women are better suited for men who have bigger dicks for ultimate pleasure. Still, its not something you mention even if its not from sleeping around or wha…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 11:31 PM
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True, but it also depends on the circumstances and man. Having been with many men doesn't automatically disqualify a girl for me or lower her value. Take certain porn stars for example. Also if she made the men chase her. If shes not easy, but just promiscuous (therefore she values herself and what she has to offer, but just likes sex). Also if she makes good choices, are the men she fucks high value, or a bunch of chumps? If youve been with 4 men but they are all poor choices thats a huge SMV d…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 11:28 PM
2

Probably. I have never looked into it, and she doesn't talk about publicly (on Facebook at least) it if it happens.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 11:22 PM
7

Dont change, its easy. Only change if you want to, because you want to. You have every right to go out with your friends, invite her. If she makes it a huge issue, maybe she is not right for you since she doesn't want to live in your world, she just wants you to be in hers.
/r/askTRP15/11/13 11:20 PM
1

Maybe. Her book Santa Olivia addresses immigration issues, and she is well known to the fantasy world, even those who dont read erotica.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 11:08 PM
8

Jacqueline Careys Kushiel series. Its a fantasy novel with heavy sexual/BDSM themes. Its a great read though, I should reread it with a RP mindset I wonder what Ill think of it now. The main character is a sub, a girl, who cant experience pain without being turned on. She is every mans dream sub basically. She often mentions "That which yields (subs) is not always weak (inferior/stupid)". Its also an interesting alpha fucks/beta bucks story because her main love interest is a total beta, whereas…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 10:37 PM
1

Stop putting her on a pedestal. Do not tell her she is out of your league. No woman wants to think she married down or is staying in a relationship with a man of low value. Stop being needy and clingy. Distance yourself by focusing on what matters to you, but don't "be distant". If you give her the cold shoulder too much this deep into the relationship it will cause problems. Just eliminate your sexual energy towards her all together and stop directing clingy, needy, wanting energy in her direct…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 10:16 PM
2

Dont treat them like friends or put her on a pedestal. Treating her like a friend gets you friend zoned. Putting her on a pedestal turns her off right away.
/r/seduction15/11/13 09:48 PM
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Shes close but I feel like she doesn't quite get it. She is still justifying her feminist views and masculine lifestyle because she doesn't want to admit that men don't give a fuck about her success and stability. Her whole thing about not needing to be submissive was a red flag. Its not that she needs to be a mans servant, but to act submissive is to act feminine. As a favorite book of my says "That which yields is not always weak". She is justifying her masculine attitude and energy while at t…
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 09:01 PM
1

Just dont change your ways. Keep building yourself. Dont become beta. Relationships are fine, they are great. Sex on demand, companionship, fun, sharing, friendship, whatever. Check it out, see where it goes if its what you want.
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 08:54 PM
6

I left in the middle of her rant. The only girl that I was interested in was waiting for a fuck buddy to get done with work so I didn't re-engage the set because I was too intoxicated/it was too late for me to care that much to try to game her in front of her hookup in a set that I was almost a total newcomer to (they were also going to go all the way across town to another bar, and I was too drunk to drive that far). My night had been successful for me and I was happy with what I accomplished. …
/r/TheRedPill15/11/13 08:48 PM
1

This is true, and I am happy to see that if it works for them.
/r/askTRP14/11/13 08:24 AM
2

"Final form pimping" I like that.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 07:37 AM
2

You understand how attachment is formed. This is no different than drinking, smoking pot, or using another mind altering substance. If you look at it in that way, you will not think you are "in love" but understand that your feelings are based on your addiction forming brain, and not love. However that gives you space to examine with a clear head if love is possible and if a serious relationship with this person is worth examining.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 07:35 AM
7

The first and last letters of your post spell no.
/r/TheRedPill14/11/13 07:25 AM
2

You know the truth. You are rationalizing continuing a life of mediocrity because its what appears better due to it being comfortable and easy. You didn't fight for BP when you fought cancer, you fought to live your life. Now you can choose to live life knowing the truth, or you can choose to live life knowing that you are living a lie. But you didn't fight to live a lie, did you? One of the number one facts of RP is the certain knowledge of your own mortality anyways. You're 30, consider yourse…
/r/TheRedPill12/11/13 06:56 AM
2

This is probably what really happened. You danced with/hit on/kissed a number of women and didn't fuck any of them. It just made them all feel collectively creeped out because it makes no sense to go to all that effort then just eat a burger and call it a night.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/13 03:40 AM
1

This is secretly how I solve all my life problems.
/r/askTRP10/11/13 04:40 PM
10

The fact that she is deleting this stuff means she is trying to hide it. Why hide it if you have nothing to hide and have changed?
/r/askTRP10/11/13 03:33 PM
1

Since you know its from stress, indirectly address the problem. Either wait for the causes of stress to pass, or get her a massage, something like that. Help alleviate what is causing her to slack, and she might pick up the slack on her own. Although this may not be a RP way of handling it, its what I would do if I wanted to avoid a confrontation with her.
/r/askTRP10/11/13 03:30 PM
3

I agree. If the man is sober enough at least, he should refrain from sex if she appears really intoxicated. If she insists, maybe exchange oral sex and leave it at that. If she doesn't remember it in the morning, it wont be a huge deal. If she does remember it in the morning, the fact that you already did that with her greatly increases your chances of getting a nice morning after fuck from her. And why not? Drunk oral sex is fun.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 06:30 PM
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She is a victim of her own choices. If everyone is equal as we are told, then everyone is equally responsible for making the right choices. The right choice is to not get so intoxicated that you allow things like this to happen. Its called personal responsibility. Its not like every girl doesn't know this can happen from a young age. Every girl in school hears the stories, has friends, or makes that mistake at least once. Everyone knows the risks. Its like smoking. Nobody can blame the cigarette…
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 06:25 PM
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Mistake #1 isn't a mistake. Many clubs have water stations. Or just ask the bartender. When everyone is dancing hydration is essential, no shame in that. Mistake #2 is only a mistake because you let it shake your frame. Theres nothing wrong with a girl making a suggestion and a guy going along. You dont have to be like "No! No Pizza! We have to go here instead!" unless you have a valid reason or argument to do so such as "This place has the best Gyros" or whatever. Or you could have agreed with …
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 06:10 PM
5

True!
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 05:55 PM
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All the people defending the idea she was raped just disgust me now. If two people are drinking, both are intoxicated, why should the man still bear responsibility? I mean I was hammered one night and some huge whale descended upon me and I actually went home with her. I wasn't raped, but I SURE AS HELL would not have done that sober. No, never, no way, wouldn't happen. But by this girls definition, I was raped and should have pressed charges. LOL. Too bad, so sad, this is what happens when you …
/r/TheRedPill09/11/13 08:57 AM
1

TRP is neutral.
/r/askTRP08/11/13 08:39 PM
2

You punish her by withdrawing your attention from her and by ceasing to make her feel good. Dont maintain eye contact, and become more aloof. All the gifts you give her that she obviously doesn't deserve cause she treats you this way, you take all that away. If you treat her well even when she doesn't deserve it, she will stop respecting you. Most likely this has already happened which is why this has become a public affair, but perhaps it just went under your radar?
/r/askTRP08/11/13 07:58 PM
2

Meditation, Dharma in general. Not only can it lead you to a perfectly happy and free life from moment to moment, but with it you can conquer the entire realm of your own mind and become the creator of your reality rather than subject to the whims of your unconscious mind and emotions.
/r/seduction08/11/13 07:24 PM
2

Fuck her. Fuck her now. If its possible at all, just do it. If you dont, you will regret it when some other dude does and locks her down.
/r/seduction08/11/13 02:55 AM
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