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Genuine question, what's retarded about lifting M/W/F on SL 5x5? I'm only lifting M/Th this week and next week to manage soreness since it was worse than I'd expected. The goal is to lift 3 days/week and run 2 days/week, if my phrasing was bad.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/21 01:11 PM
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I appreciate your reply. With that said, how can you Escoffier your vegetables so that you can truly enjoy the fruits of your labor? Don't be afraid to think outside of the box. Yeah I've been trying different things, and I'm still working at it. I'll figure it out; it'll just take some time. DOMS will go away in a couple of weeks. You want to run an lift then run and lift, get your BF down. I agree completely. Here's my tentative plan to try to transition into both: Lift M/Th for two weeks, wal…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/06/21 10:54 AM
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OYS #3 Previous: #0 #1 #2 36 years old, 5'9", ~193 lbs, ~26 percent BF Cool Stuff I took a Mon-Fri vacation last week to the beach. I typically go to a quiet motel with beach and pier access like 25 feet away that's mostly filled with old men who just want to fish and families with well-behaved children. I took my LTRs with me, and I had a good time. Even though we've been out of our covid restrictions in my state for like a month or so, a community center relatively close to me has finally open…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/06/21 07:00 PM
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Two weeks ago, you commented the following: Many believe that women are more attracted to “bad boys” than “nice guys”. It’s the reason why some men intentionally act like assholes. There’s a Reddit community of men that basically discuss these “bad boy” tactics to get women interested in them. It’s called the r/theredpill and honestly I think you should read a few posts to see what goes on in the minds of these men that you find more attractive. What seems to you as more fun and a challenge come…
/r/askMRP23/06/21 02:01 AM
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I don't think either of these are shit tests. Your sister is playing her little game, and your wife is pissed that you won't stand up to your sister. It's not a shit test just because a woman says or does something you don't like or that makes you uncomfortable. Your wife also happens to be right. You can't "hold frame" here because you don't appear to have one. Putting this a different way, not one time in this entire post did you talk about how either choice benefits you or what you actually w…
/r/askMRP09/06/21 09:56 AM
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Sexual competition, but this question shows you've done little to none of the recommended reading
/r/askTRP09/06/21 07:50 AM
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You don't appear to understand what hypergamy is in the context of TRP. and a good woman who values you will put it the effort to override it. And why would she value you?
/r/askTRP09/06/21 04:32 AM
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I haven't met the right girl blah blah
/r/askTRP09/06/21 04:24 AM
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Why did she insult her friend (it was not in a joking way) It doesn't matter. and how should I respond the next time? You shouldn't. It doesn't have anything to do with you or your goals.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 04:23 AM
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They're both bullshit terms designed to keep you under control and service a feminine-centric society. Decide for yourself what your values are instead.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 04:22 AM
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I was so mad that I left my gf at home and actually went back to find this guy, found him but still with his friends so decided to go back home. Good job dumbass. You could have easily ended up getting your brains split across the pavement because your little fee fees were hurt. Quit giving a shit what other people think, and you won't have this problem.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 04:21 AM
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As a man who likes dick: Women don't get preselection from guys wanting to fuck you. Guys won't dick around with being friend-zoned to other guys. It's too easy to find someone else to fuck. "Taking things slow" between two guys means waiting an hour to get raw dick up the ass in a Walmart bathroom stall.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 04:19 AM
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I have two girls living with me and see another 1-2 times a week. I run a business and am building another. I'm busy as fuck, and I totally feel you. Be careful buying into the bullshit larping some people spout off like they have 10 plates and blah blah. Do what works for you.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 04:17 AM
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You aren't BPD. You aren't a sociopath. You aren't "evil." You aren't special. You're just another dipshit with a bad childhood who can't control his emotions like most of the rest of us were at some point. Your actual problem is that you have no frame. That's the source of your emotional swings. Work on that, and the rest of the symptoms will fall in line.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 04:15 AM
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"Maybe some other time. I'm going to [Ramen place]." If she responds with whining about wanting to go somewhere else, don't respond for a couple of days.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 04:11 AM
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She doesn't want to look like a slut. It's no big deal.
/r/askTRP09/06/21 04:10 AM
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I'll give you a blueprint, but you probably won't follow it: Get a notebook just for this shit Do the basic required reading ("No More Mr Nice Guy" and "When I Say No I Feel Guilty" in particular) while taking notes daily. Also find Rian Stone's YouTube playlist for the sidebar where he breaks the chapters down from each book one at a time. Listen to the video on each respective chapter after you finish reading it. Apply what you learn, post questions about it, etc. Start working out 3-4 times e…
/r/askTRP09/06/21 02:20 AM
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OYS #2 Previous: #0 #1 36 years old, 5'9", 193.0 lbs, 26.3% body fat (navy method) Comfort Issues I read red pill stuff for like six months maybe a decade ago, and there wasn't much talk about comfort tests and quelling that anxiety, at least in what I read at the time. Athol may have been the only person I saw talk about it, but I'd kind of blown him off for various reasons. Despite my validation seeking, I was already fairly natural in terms of having conversation with girls and flirting, and …
/r/MarriedRedPill09/06/21 02:16 AM
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Yes.
/r/askTRP08/06/21 08:52 PM
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NMMNG is the book to focus on for this.
/r/askTRP08/06/21 08:44 PM
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What's your question?
/r/askTRP08/06/21 08:43 PM
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You can't build with women, so go ahead and get that out of your head. That's a Disney fairy tale that doesn't exist.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 12:24 PM
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This is the point of TRP. You've been conditioned to feel this way on purpose so that you better serve the needs of women for the "betterment of society." You defeat this by conditioning yourself in the opposite direction in terms of making yourself your own mental point of origin. Start with the Rational Male article "Mental Point of Origin" and go from there.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 12:23 PM
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On the other hand they are aware of their low SMV and resent you for dating them. More specifically, this is low self esteem girls. There are plenty of girls who look great but who have low self esteem and will do the same thing.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 12:22 PM
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The age of consent in most areas is lower than 18. I don't see any mention of what your local age of consent is.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 12:21 PM
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Okay that's more or less what I thought. Thanks again.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 12:47 AM
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I personally do not like leading girls on It doesn't matter what you like. They like it a lot.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 11:44 AM
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Hence why it sort of bums me out that all my hard work will never lead to a perfect woman. That's a covert contract from hell.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 11:43 AM
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What you're feeling was intentionally conditioned in you. You were not born feeling this way. The despair that you're experiencing was intentionally used as a weapon to hurt you to keep you in line. It will pass with time as your brain gets conditioned to a different paradigm, but the key is that you have to give it time. You didn't get to the point you're at now in your conditioning in a day. It'll take more than a day to undo it. Once you're past this, there's an entire world of happiness and …
/r/askTRP04/06/21 11:42 AM
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You need to understand first and foremost that you are not getting that money back under any circumstances. Don't think that you'll have a chance of getting it back if you stay with her because you won't. You're using that as an excuse to stop yourself from doing what you want to do.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 11:39 AM
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I'm of the opinion that this is primarily for attention/beta testing and not for trying to attract you for sex. If she was trying to primarily attract you for sex, then she would have hit you up when she was nearby. You can also view this as a test to see if you'll take the beta bait. My advice is to open it and not respond. If she does something else in the near future, cool. You can figure that out when you come to it. If not, that's cool too.
/r/askTRP04/06/21 11:37 AM
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Hey man, loved the video series you did. It's what led me to read the actual book. Thank you for your work. TL;DR: The first place I checked was the bibliography (to no avail) before doing some Googling and eventually asking here on a hail mary. I understand the idea intuitively but was very interested in reading more since I'm sure they didn't just pull the idea out of their asses considering the way the book was put together.. On page 12 in chapter 2 (Female Neuropsychology), there's a section…
/r/askTRP03/06/21 11:58 PM
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I've listened to his entire series on the book and have read the book itself. I found the blueprints topic interesting, but there wasn't a ton of elaboration in the book or in Rian's series, so I thought I'd ask here. Thanks.
/r/askTRP03/06/21 02:17 AM
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OYS #1 Previous: #0 36 years old, 5'9", 193.2 lbs, 27% body fat (navy method) I decided to renumber my previous one as 0 and this as 1 since most of the other was backstory, and I posted it on the tail-end of last week. Fitness This week I'm focusing on primarily drinking water. About half of what I currently drink is soda, and I don't want that to be the case. I'm running a couple times weekly with long walks in between. This helps with my IT band issues. I want to run a local 5K event in a few…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/21 04:30 PM
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Thanks
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/21 08:01 PM
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I’m curious about the dynamic of two live in girls? I’m in a monogamous relationship but not sure if it’s for me long term. I like variety too much. As for the dynamic, they're basically close friends who bump pussies occasionally and call each other "girlfriend." They're really good with each other (and with the other girl who lives up the road) and get along better than you'd see most women ever get along. The problem is that I set the whole thing up for the wrong reasons. I was doing it for v…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/21 01:14 AM
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OYS #0 36 years old, 5'9", 193.2 lbs, 27% body fat (navy method) I imagine this one will be longer because it's my first, but I'll try to keep it from looking like a fucking blog post. Why I'm Here My mother was in and out of my life as a kid, and I turned into the typical NMMNG-style "nice guy" chasing validation from women as a result. I bumblefucked around with some RP stuff maybe a decade ago like Athol, Roissy, Rollo, etc. I picked up just enough to play "build a better beta" with myself. I…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/21 06:44 PM
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There are no good girls. There are only girls who haven't been caught.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 12:38 PM
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Because it means they have to compete.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 12:37 PM
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Once you firmly establish that you can get it, it loses a lot of its appeal no matter how easily accessible it is. Sometimes it being more accessible makes it less fun. Testosterone doesn't just want to nut in something; it wants to win. If it's given to you on a silver platter, it doesn't necessarily feel like winning.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 12:34 PM
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I appreciate any advice or hard truths. You're playing out something from your childhood upbringing along the lines of wanting mommy's approval or something like that with this girl. It's not about her.
/r/askTRP25/05/21 12:32 PM
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A good way to approach it mentally is to think of the ability to pull as a side effect of your goals instead of the goals themselves. It shouldn't be the focus (and won't be if you focus on your actual goals properly). Best wishes my dude.
/r/askTRP24/05/21 12:03 PM
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Chicks far below what I should be able to pull Go ahead and knock it off with this "what I should be able to" do shit. Your problem isn't approaching sets of more than one girl. Your problem is that you're self-defeating and appear to be basing your self-worth on your ability to pull.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 11:56 AM
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Therapy can be very good, or it can be very bad. It depends on how you go about it and what your particular issues are. If you have something like PTSD, C-PTSD, general anxiety issues or a phobia, then CBT can be a tremendous help in a relatively short period of time. On the other hand, if you have a personality disorder, for example, then something like DBT will often have to become a regular part of your life for the rest of your life for it to be effective. Other therapists, especially with o…
/r/askTRP23/05/21 11:54 AM
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Is 28 too late to start over, make some drastic changes, and really start living? No. I'll go through what you wrote and comment on whatever stands out to me. Okay I just read all of that, and it's all pointing to the same thing: I don't say this to be a dick, but you've never figured out how to be a man because you've still got your mom's tit stuck in your mouth. Let me put this another way: You've never been forced to do things that are uncomfortable. You don't have a tolerance for something a…
/r/askTRP23/05/21 11:49 AM
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“I’ve wanted to talk to you about this. You’re such a great and nice guy and I had an amazing time on our date, but the last person I was seeing has really messed me up and I’m not ready to go out again but in a few weeks time maybe I will be”. "Okay cool." That's it man. She's interested, but you need to give her some time. Keep it light but flirty, and let it play out however it plays out from there. What you want to avoid is exposing yourself too much to her at this point. That's how you'll e…
/r/askTRP22/05/21 01:26 PM
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It comes from a shift in priorities. When your priority is achieving excellence, however you've defined it, then it'll just happen naturally that what other people think won't matter much to you.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 04:54 PM
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You stop trying to control what other people feel.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 04:53 PM
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Women think that guys who look like that are attractive, and you somehow come away from that observation thinking this is contradictory to TRP. My only guess is that you drastically misunderstand what TRP says about what women are attracted to.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 11:25 AM
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She can't miss you if you never go away.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 11:22 AM
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Quit with the cutesy shit. She wants to be the girl in the situation, and you're taking that from her. In your other comments, you're basically asking about when and how should you be supplying comfort (sometimes called good beta). You should be supplying comfort in small doses here and there once you've established a strong base of attraction. You do not have that strong base of attraction yet, so you should chill out with it.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 03:56 AM
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It's not simply oneitis. Yes, it is. It doesn't matter if you think it is or not. That's exactly what it is. Your problem isn't this situation. It's everything that led up to this situation. You need to forget this girl and start working on yourself so that you have a better position in the next spot you find yourself in.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 03:54 AM
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It's because there are a shitload of single moms on dating sites.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 03:53 AM
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Stop trying to project male characteristics on women. This includes things like logic. For example, you're asking what the logic is in how they're acting. Your mistake is assuming there is some to begin with.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 03:52 AM
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It doesn't change anything at all. Shit changes all the time. The plan you put in place in the beginning is never the exact plan you end up acting out. Adjust as needed, and carry on.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 03:51 AM
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There's nothing wrong with it outside of your emotional reaction (ie: pisses me off so much). An alternative you may want to consider is punishing them for it since it can help to preserve the few that actually do have desire for you and had something legitimate come up instead of some bullshit excuse they give. A good, short video on this topic is "Why You Should PUNISH Flaky Women That Reschedule Dates" on YouTube via Rich Cooper.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 03:47 AM
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That feeling is at the core of your conditioning that TRP is set up to undo. You weren't born feeling that way in response to the given stimulus. Instead, you were conditioned that way so that you will better service the feminine-primary social order. A really good place to start on this particular topic is the Rollo Tomassi article "Kill the Beta" that you can easily find via Google.
/r/askTRP21/05/21 03:44 AM
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