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This isn't true in my experience. I'm way over 40 and still get dates with women in their 20s from Tinder, Bumble, etc. There are lots of younger women out there with serious daddy fetishes. It also helps to be fit and look good.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/23 09:36 AM
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I used to be distant and cold with women but I found that they eventually get pissed off with a guy who is basically just a robot with a dick. Lately I've been opening myself up emotionally with my plates and they have been much more responsive. Sex is better, they are more playful, they're more invested and I find I'm a lot more natural around them. It's more fun in general. Just remember you're the one in control. It's fine to do some emotional bonding, but you have to be the daddy in the rela…
/r/TheRedPill27/08/20 02:23 AM
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See what the bartenders reaction is next time you see her. If it looks like she wants an apology, apologize. Don't be a pussy about it, but own your behaviour. If she sees you as a high value man she'll get over it and you can keep banging her. If not then you lost a plate. No big deal, there will be others.
/r/TheRedPill16/06/20 09:38 AM
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I think this has been happening since humans started living in large groups. The only thing different is that the legal and moral frameworks in Western societies have changed to the point that women now feel comfortable discussing it openly. Women's nature hasn't changed. The fact that they are free to talk about it has changed.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/20 11:08 AM
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The same principle works for outdoor activities like hiking, climbing, etc. Women find these activities exciting, it makes them look cool on social media and it's a chance for me to show off my skills in a natural way. It's also a good way to make her qualify herself. I'm always getting women asking me to take them out into nature, my response is "Are you fit? I only do this with fit people because I can't be dragging you uphill with me". It drives them nuts, they immediately start justifying wh…
/r/TheRedPill03/06/20 09:08 AM
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I've often found the most "Alpha" women are the most submissive in bed. The toughness is all an act to cover up for the fact that they love getting ridden hard.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/20 08:50 AM
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Remember to add "...right now" to everything a woman says. "I don't want to get married...right now" Eventually they all want to get married.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/20 07:25 AM
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This is great. The only thing I would add is that the upper body movements start to need more volume than the lower body movements. I found this to be a very useful approach: https://startingstrength.com/article/intermediate-programming-for-the-upper-body-lifts
/r/TheRedPill09/12/19 04:31 AM
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I had the same thing recently. We matched on Tinder, she wrote a monologue about how her life feels empty and unfulfilled. She's an air stewardess and is good looking. She seemed like the classic case of a nice looking chick seeking attention, so I keep my replies minimal and each message is short. Eventually she complains that guys are just looking to fuck and nobody wants to be friends any more. I reply saying that she's right - all guys do want to get laid but some are more subtle about it th…
/r/TheRedPill26/07/18 06:19 AM
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I had similar results with Starting Strength and I'm in my late 40s. When I started I could barely squat one plate and my form was horrible. Two years later and I'm squatting three and a half plates for reps and deadlifting close to four plates for reps. These are not huge numbers compared to the rest of the world but they are far in excess of what I expected to achieve when I started. I've put on a bunch of muscle and women compliment me on how strong I am. Pay attention to diet, supplements an…
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 04:33 AM
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How old is she? If she's approaching the age when women want to "settle down" then she might be looking for an LTR. If she doesn't get that LTR feeling from you (i.e. she just sees you as a FWB) then she might be moving on to someone she can lock down. Whatever the reason, don't sweat it too much. Spin your other plates, keep the pipeline moving and have fun. It sounds like you have your life in order, keep it up!
/r/TheRedPill18/05/18 09:47 AM
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In my experience the vast majority of women are at the gym to work out and are not wanting to be hit on. There are exceptions but generally women open to being picked up at the gym are not worth it (sluts, attention seeking, etc). If you really want to try, ask her questions about the exercise she is doing, about her routine etc. Do NOT offer any fitness advice. Everybody hates the douche who offers unsolicited gym advice. Honestly though, you're better off spending your gym time working out.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 04:51 AM
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I think in your rush to insult me you've lost the thread of the argument. Note what the OP said: I highly recommend neck curls when starting out Hence my response: If you weigh 110 pounds and start doing "neck curls" you're not suddenly going to look like Arnie My assertion stands. Beginning lifters should not attempt neck isolation exercises, with the corollary that isolation exercises in general are a waste of time if you are not cheating (i.e. using PEDs). I await the next batch of insults. F…
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 03:55 AM
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Because, in general, isolation exercises are not a good way to look stronger. Being stronger is a good way to look stronger. Isolation exercises are good if you are juicing, i.e. if you can't handle lifting naturally. Isolation exercises are also good if you want to get that gorilla gymbro look - huge pecs, biceps, triceps, hunched shoulders due to lack of back development and tiny chicken legs. Ridiculous. My main issue with this post is that encouraging an untrained person to do isolation exer…
/r/TheRedPill14/05/18 03:23 AM
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Nope. You made the assertion, you prove it. I'm happy with the size of my neck and traps, and I got that way through strength training. I don't like looking stronger, I like being stronger. I didn't get that way by doing "neck curls".
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 06:16 AM
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Riiiiight. Awesome. I'll just go look up "Do neck exercises make you look jacked" on pubmed. As I said, total bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 04:35 AM
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Please provide links to these studies
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 07:09 PM
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What is this bullshit? If you weigh 110 pounds and start doing "neck curls" you're not suddenly going to look like Arnie. If you want a big neck then get the rest of your body stronger. Squat, deadlift, bench, overhead press. Read "Starting Strength" and apply it.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/18 05:21 AM
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http://www.andybaker.com/10-stupid-simple-muscle-meals-50g-protein-50g-carbs/
/r/TheRedPill15/01/18 03:18 AM
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Read this: http://aasgaardco.com/store/books/the-barbell-prescription And also this: http://aasgaardco.com/store/books/starting-strength-basic-barbell-training-413 Both are also available on Kindle. Do the program and fix your diet to promote testosterone production and you won't need TRT.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 05:14 AM
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Any side effects from the hormone/HGH therapy? I'm in my late 40s and I'm considering it.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/17 08:43 AM
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It's all about boundaries. If you keep throwing expensive drinks at a girl and expect to get laid, you've set your boundary too low. If you take a model out on a date and refuse to buy her anything, you've set your boundary too high. You need to make a judgement on how much investment a girl is worth. I've had lots of low-quality women approach me in bars asking me to buy them drinks and I deflect them with "Sorry, I'm not rich enough". However, if a girl shows she is worth my time and investmen…
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 09:25 AM
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Exactly right. You'll know within about ten minutes if she's into you or not. If she is, great - buy her a few more drinks and enjoy yourself. As I said above, make her laugh, touch her, tease her, take her home and fuck her. If she isn't into you, end the date and go do something else fun. Don't over-think it, it's just a date.
/r/TheRedPill28/04/17 09:20 AM
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The exact same thing happened to me recently. She told me face to face and I just said "OK, that's fine. Want to go get a drink?". While getting drinks she started kissing and hugging me at the bar and didn't want to let me go when it was time to head home. Over the next few days I didn't contact her at all. A week later she texted me that she still wants to hang out. I have responded to her in a friendly manner but told her I haven't got time to meet at the moment (which is true). She's still t…
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 06:38 AM
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This was a shit test and you fucked up by being confusing about who was buying drinks. The best thing to do is avoid expensive places. Go to a cheap but atmospheric bar, pay for her drinks, make her laugh, touch her, tease her, take her home and fuck her. Stop thinking about the social context, gender privilege, entitlement, or trying to be "alpha" by getting a girl to buy you drinks. It's all bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill21/04/17 06:23 AM
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Each to their own, but you and I have very different definitions of "fun".
/r/TheRedPill07/04/17 08:59 AM
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These tests are mostly bullshit. The same type of thing as the "How much of a worrier are you?" surveys in women's magazines. From the Wikipedia article: "Although popular in the business sector, the MBTI exhibits significant psychometric deficiencies, notably including poor validity (i.e. not measuring what it purports to measure) and poor reliability (giving different results for the same person on different occasions)" https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Myers%E2%80%93Briggs_Type_Indicator#Criticis…
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 05:23 AM
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As soon as she said "Not interested" with dead eyes you should have walked away saying "Neither am I". She sounds like an awful person, go and chase someone else.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/17 09:16 AM
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I love crazy black chicks - 10/10 would bang. Then I'd run and hide.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 06:28 AM
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Bullshit. I've banged a whole bunch of Muslim women and they are total firecrackers in bed. The only reason they have to wear the scarf is that the men know how wild their women are.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 05:19 AM
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Sometimes I went back, sometimes it was a one night thing. I never stuck very long with any of them because I was in my 20s, and who wants to settle down with a girl in their 20s? Not me.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 03:22 PM
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It may be that she saw you as "boyfriend material" rather than someone to bang. Are you rich and does your apartment reflect that? If so she might have seen you as a better long-term prospect so she made you wait for sex. I've seen a number of reports on TRP from guys who miss out on sex because they are too much of a "catch". Either way, not worth putting up with her bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 10:14 AM
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Bullshit. I had screwed over 50 women by the time I was 24. Now that I'm in my 40s I've lost count.
/r/TheRedPill08/02/17 09:23 AM
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Zinc supplementation also helps with T levels.
/r/TheRedPill02/02/17 07:13 AM
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They will leave me to die alone, no matter what I've done or how much I love them, when I serve no more use to them This is one of the deepest, darkest truths about human relationships I've ever read.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 09:08 AM
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Energy drinks are bloody awful. Lift weights, eat protein rich foods and some healthy fats and oils, supplement with creatine and some BCAAs. Your testosterone will increase, your skin will look great, you'll sleep better and your teeth won't fall out of your head because of all the sugar in energy drinks.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 04:41 AM
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Only if you enjoy vastly overpaying for hookers. Better use Craigslist or whatever escort listing site applies in your country.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/16 12:49 PM
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Smack yourself in the face for even going into a strip club. Those places are 100% for suckers. If you want to spend money to get some sexy time go find a hooker.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 05:58 AM
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"Natural" is the dumbest reason in the world for taking a supplement. Nightshade, Fugu Fish liver, and Death Cap mushrooms are all "Natural" but that doesn't mean they won't kill you. Be careful with "Natural", "Herbal" supplements.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/16 03:16 AM
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Crazy manipulative bitch. Run as fast as you can. There are shades of BPD in this letter, read some of the horror stories about BPD women on this sub and learn from them.
/r/TheRedPill05/12/16 03:09 AM
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Mood, energy and recovery from training.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 11:12 AM
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Mid 40s. I take Zinc, Vitamin D3, Vitamin B complex, Fish Oil and Creatine. They have changed my life, I now sleep better, I'm more active when I'm awake, my mood is better and I can train harder. The cost is minimal compared to the improvement in the quality of my life.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/16 05:00 AM
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Get your girl to lift. Fucking a strong girl is one of life's great pleasures. Plus most of the other benefits apply to women as well - better mood, healthier lifestyle, less bitching about you being in the gym.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/16 05:22 AM
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This is excellent advice. I do all of this with all my dates, and go so far as to set expectations before we even meet. If we're chatting on Tinder, I make a bet with her about something stupid. If she wins, I say "Congrats, you've won the opportunity to buy me a drink". If she loses, I say "Now you have to buy me a drink". I also always remember that it's not a date, it's an audition. She's auditioning for my time. If she doesn't measure up I end the date and move on.
/r/TheRedPill24/11/16 05:42 AM
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I'm also a Kiwi but have lived outside of NZ for 20 of the past 25 years. I don't remember the last time I fucked a Kiwi chick. They tend to be trashy, loud and ignorant. They're easy to screw when they're outside of NZ though. They can see there is no scarcity of women so they know they have to put out to compete. They're also overseas so "it doesn't count".
/r/TheRedPill21/11/16 06:26 AM
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I agree and for this reason I recommend Starting Strength over Stronglifts. SS uses 3x5 instead of 5x5 and the progression is much less taxing although it does get brutally hard as you finish the novice phase. Rippetoe also knows what he's talking about and backs it up with research as opposed to the crap that Mehdi often talks.
/r/TheRedPill16/11/16 08:21 AM
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Completely correct. I speak two of the major languages where I live and trying to use them to fit in as a local makes women here completely dry up. You need to act completely as a westerner and therefore "exotic" and "macho", but you need to have some understanding of the local culture so you don't look like a chump.
/r/TheRedPill09/11/16 03:23 AM
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Settle down, princess. Part of being a man is knowing how to express yourself clearly. One of the most basic aspects of this is learning how to spell and use correct grammar. Other people will judge you by what you write just as I am judging you. I suggest that you start using a spelling and grammar checker before you post.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 12:52 PM
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Please learn to spell correctly. It's "Reins" as in the straps that are attached to a horse, not "Reigns", which is what a king does over his people. Not knowing how to spell makes you look ignorant, especially when it takes two seconds to verify spelling via Google.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 04:56 AM
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No. That's why it's ALL women. Take a woman out of her social milieu, away from her judgemental peers, give her a situation where there are no repercussions for her behaviour, show her Leo DeCaprio and she will fuck him. "I don't know what came over me, it just happened!" Things get interesting when you realise there are very few repercussions for bad behaviour by females in western society RIGHT NOW. Just look at all the threads on TRP about BPD women, divorce rape, cheating wives. The combinat…
/r/TheRedPill28/10/16 01:45 AM
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Which part of "AWALT" do you not understand?
/r/TheRedPill27/10/16 04:32 AM
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You need to learn how to set boundaries and make them clear to the women you are seeing. If a woman crosses one of your boundaries, tell her so, and tell her you won't tolerate her doing it again. If she continues to do so, dump her.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 09:12 AM
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This is bullshit. Max of two dates, the first should at least end with a kiss. If you haven't done the horizontal Mambo by the second date then don't bother seeing her again.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 08:39 AM
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You did the right thing. Hit the gym, get busy with your work/study. Block her on all social media, block her number, block her altogether. If she tries to manipulate you into getting back with her, use the broken record "I need to concentrate on myself for a while, so I can't be in a relationship with you".
/r/TheRedPill26/10/16 04:26 AM
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I recommend that you re-read "How to Manage Your Bitches" from the sidebar. It gives good insight into when an upgrade is justified. It sounds like her clock is ticking. Be careful when you are fucking her - always wrap it up and always make sure you dispose of the condom. Note - YOU dispose of it. Don't trust her to do it. If you do decide to get into an LTR then don't move in together or have any shared finances until you are 100% sure you want to be committed to her.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 01:57 PM
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There was a post on here a few months back that ended with a thought-provoking quote: "A man can choose to give a pussy value, but a woman cannot choose to give a dick value, it is already worth nothing". The woman in this article is merely proving the truth of this aphorism.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 09:47 AM
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If you're talking with a hooker, a stripper or a bargirl then they're pretending. They're either playing the short game or the long game. Short game - she gets money out of you by giving you a lapdance or by fucking you that night. Long game - she gets you into a "relationship" and extracts money and other resources from you over a longer period of time. "Beware of whores who say they don’t want money. The hell they don’t. What they mean is they want MORE MONEY, much more" - William S Burroughs.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 09:21 AM
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Agree on the manipulation, they are masters at wrapping men around their fingers. Charming, coy, playful, feminine. I'm aware that they are trying to manipulate me but I still find it charming and it's part of the attraction. By contrast Europeans leave me completely cold. Even the Eastern Europeans act like entitled bitches in my experience. Each to their own I guess.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 09:15 AM
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As others have pointed out, this is called "Retrograde Ejaculation" and is not healthy. Read "The Multi-Orgasmic Man" for details on how to orgasm without ejaculating in a safe manner.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 08:22 AM
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It's all true. You can get almost anything you want and the prices are very reasonable. As for motivation, that's hard to describe. For a some time after doing this I felt a lot of contempt for women. But then I got some perspective. Everyone is playing the same game, with hookers it's just much more explicit. The trick is not to worry so much about it.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 04:04 AM
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It depends where you live. Where I am it costs $100 USD to fly to Thailand. If you think that "most" western guys go for fugly Thai chicks then you're hanging out with the wrong people. If you think that BKK is a shithole then you obviously haven't been there recently. If you get scammed in Thailand then you're a chump. I've been to the FKKs. 50 EUR for a half hour of listless starfish sex with a jaded Eastern European? No thanks, I'll stick with the gorgeous Thai sex kittens who show so much af…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/16 04:00 AM
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Disagree completely about seeing escorts. Screwing hookers is a great way to build abundance mentality. Once you've experienced sex with several hot hookers you'll never put women on a pedestal again. The reality of the sexual marketplace becomes a lot clearer and you will realise that "normal" women market themselves just as much as hookers do, albeit more subtly. If you're short of funds, get a cheap ticket to the Philippines or Thailand and go nuts for a week or two.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/16 09:34 AM
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If you are not a troll, then take this advice: Strip clubs are 100% for suckers. They exist to extract money from horny, lonely losers. There are two reasons to visit a strip club: You like looking at tits and ass while you drink expensive warm beer and listen to shitty music. You are looking for an expensive hooker.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/16 08:42 AM
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If you are doing a weight training program, you are sleeping well and you aren't growing bigger then you definitely do need to eat more.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/16 07:27 AM
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It's similar but not the same. Starting Strength insists on performing each lift correctly and the book goes into great detail as to how to achieve this. As I outlined in my previous comment, the program advocates 3x5 and also goes into quite a bit of detail for the reasoning behind this. There is also a companion book called "Practical Programming for Strength Training" for when you have completed your novice linear progression and want to advance further. There is a comprehensive and challengi…
/r/TheRedPill20/10/16 07:25 AM
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No, it includes portions of the book. You need to read the whole book to do the program successfully.
/r/TheRedPill20/10/16 07:14 AM
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I bought 2 30 lbs weights and I’m really trying now. This is a good start, but you need to use barbells. Either buy a barbell, weights and a power rack to use at home or join a gym that has them. If you think you're making progress now, wait until you try barbell training.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/16 12:17 PM
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Stronglifts will limit your gains because recovering from 5x5 on a linear progression gets very hard very quickly. Medhi is a better marketer than a strength coach. Starting Strength is a much more comprehensively designed program and the kindle edition of the book only costs 10 bucks.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/16 12:14 PM
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Do NOT attempt to do Starting Strength without first reading the book and watching a bunch of videos. Even better, contact a Starting Strength coach and get trained properly. The squat in particular is deceptively technical and you will fuck yourself up if you just try to use the app to coach yourself.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/16 12:12 PM
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You need to sort your nutrition out. Firstly, eat. Concentrate on eating lots of protein, some fats and some healthy carbs. Supplement with protein powder if necessary. Creatine is also good. Supplementing with a multivitamin, perhaps zinc, fish oil and vitamin D may also help. But basically you need to eat more.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/16 12:10 PM
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Exactly. The thing I like about Hatebreed is their emphasis on self-improvement and positivity. A lot of metal/punk is all "Boo hoo my life sucks and nobody understands me, the world is so daaaaaaark". Hatebreed acknowledge that the world is a piece of shit but it is your responsibility to deal with it, and that you have the power to change yourself from within. Another classic track with red pill overtones: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BcNyq8QtSh8 EDIT: Lyrics link http://www.azlyrics.com/ly…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/16 07:21 AM
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It's white-knighting to save someone from rape/robbery? What planet are you from?
/r/TheRedPill04/10/16 07:16 AM
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You're listening to the wrong music: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ur2hNZLynhQ
/r/TheRedPill04/10/16 03:19 AM
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You're punishing her because of your neediness. This is your fuckup but she's getting the blame. Nevertheless her distant behaviour is probably a good marker of how invested she is. She still sees value in you because she's coming back and trying to make things right. I would plate her and see how things go. Indonesian Chinese are still ethnically and culturally Chinese, although they are more easygoing than the mainlanders. If she's anything like the overseas Chinese girls I've experienced she …
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 06:46 AM
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You fucked up. You shouldn't have told her that you were feeling depressed while she was away. Chicks don't want to hear that shit. You also fucked up by expecting her to message you frequently while she was enjoying herself on holiday. That kept you in her frame. Whining about it being "disrespectful" made it worse. Don't sit around waiting for text messages. You've got things to do. Here's what you should have done. During the time that she was away you should have pretended that she didn't ex…
/r/TheRedPill28/09/16 04:46 AM
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