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Beta rationalization for masturbating
/r/askTRP03/09/20 03:26 PM
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It would last for as long as you keep a good diet that fosters healthy gut bacteria.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 06:31 AM
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Fasting usually fixed my stomach/gut problems. Try a 24 hour water fast. When the fast is over, start with liquids such as broth and fermented foods (yogurt, cheese, et). This helps to build a good gut ecosystem and should improve digestive problems. Worst case scenario, you could always do a fecal transplant.
/r/askTRP27/08/20 08:50 AM
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You don't. You attract with personality, not that funny hat. Dress for the occasion.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 06:28 PM
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Then more the reason to come to the conclusion yourself by spinning plates. Word of caution, marriage should not be the end goal. I hope you're not looking for a unicorn.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 06:25 PM
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Correction, it's fun only and stupid, reckless, and immature on the other end. And the line is drawn when that single action has the potential to do long term damage. Like drunk driving. If you crashed, you could be crippled for life or worse, you could've killed someone.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 06:21 PM
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You can't. It's more of a weighted sum approach by every women. Some put more weight on looks, some more on money.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 06:12 PM
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Get the audiobook. His writing style is pretty atrocious on paper. Listening to it is much easier. Oh and the sequels get progressively pretentious, so don't get hung up on theory. Practice is king.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 06:06 PM
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All those suggesting bullshit excuse would fail the shit test. If she asks, she knows, and it's a shit test. It could go many ways. Agree and amplify, "oh this? Women just can't resist" Pressure flip: "what? You want one too?" Et
/r/askTRP28/07/20 06:03 PM
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I skimmed until the end, so I may miss some points. First, 'good' is different for everyone, so it depends on what you're looking for. And you wouldn't know what you are looking for until you've spun enough plates. Second, good for what? Good for marriage? Good for a one night lay? What are you looking for really. To roughly answer your question, I'd say your plates should be minimum self-responsible and non-feminist so you don't get rape claims.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 05:57 PM
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Think about the message you're sending. Or better, imagine if you were at their place and they kicked out out after they're done. Would you want to have sex at their place again? To the women, it clearly sends the message: You are only for sex and this triggers their anti-slut defense to not associate with you again.
/r/askTRP28/07/20 05:13 AM
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Fit check Money check Fuck I have no purpose
/r/askTRP25/07/20 07:40 PM
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Because the women have more red flags than a chinese parade
/r/askTRP21/07/20 01:23 AM
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You are absolutely right. Current friends like to call out plate spinning.
/r/askTRP21/07/20 01:22 AM
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So have you met RP people in real life?
/r/askTRP21/07/20 01:05 AM
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Coach red pill is good. I find ams leaning on the pua side, which I don't really like. Richard Cooper (Entrepreneur in Cars) have some nice older videos, but his new ones are sellouts. Find what works for you.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 06:10 PM
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Don't buy his fragrance though. It's pretty much garbage.
/r/askTRP17/07/20 07:18 AM
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This. So much. LTR and n=0 is the blue-pilled
/r/askTRP17/07/20 07:14 AM
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Sorry, I'm an engineer by trade. So yeah. I overanalyzed everything for better or worse.
/r/askTRP30/06/20 10:53 AM
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Do you have your own rules for plate spinning? I've avoided spinning virgins after one went batshit crazy after she's dropped. Never had the same problem with higher notch count women...
/r/askTRP30/06/20 10:52 AM
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Sorry for asking a personal question. Has plate spinning affected your pair bonding instinct/integrity? Not that it matters if fun is the goal.
/r/askTRP30/06/20 10:22 AM
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Solid advice. Other words, you won't be plating a high quality anyway, so fuck it and have fun is what I am getting.
/r/askTRP30/06/20 10:15 AM
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Truly a tragedy of the commons...
/r/askTRP30/06/20 10:12 AM
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I see your point. So just spin plates, it should not have much effect on society...?
/r/askTRP30/06/20 10:03 AM
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Read the question more carefully. I never said I have LTR goals.
/r/askTRP30/06/20 09:52 AM
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Interesting idea on the feedback loop. Sadly, other responses seem to assume that I am seeking an LTR and do not really consider the question. I feel that the RP community has descended into dogma and a lot less critical thinking.
/r/askTRP30/06/20 09:48 AM
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It also makes assumptions about this 'community': " our community also disqualifies women who have high notch/bang counts". Can't post links here, but it's a post by a senior endorsed contributor on the main sub. You seem to have a very traditional view of relationships in which a man should spend his youth sowing his wild oats until he meets a unicorn and has a traditional nuclear family. No, I do practice plate theory, I just find there to be an underlying numbers problem. I have never implied…
/r/askTRP30/06/20 09:45 AM
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Nice take on habit building. I see the importance of goals. If you don't mind elaborating further, how do you hold yourself accountable to said goals?
/r/askTRP29/04/20 08:29 AM
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Oh yes. Someone finally mentions this book. I couldn't make it through the first three chapters.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 03:29 AM
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The key is to be so high quality, she can't find attention at your caliber anywhere else. There's a trillion Zimbabwe dollars and a US dollar. You don't want your attention to be worth the former.
/r/askTRP25/04/20 07:00 PM
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How did you find the redpill? For many, it's some form of trauma, and that trauma just outright erases the blue pill.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 02:52 AM
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Lack of attention. There. You even have first hand experience.
/r/askTRP23/04/20 02:51 AM
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Oh sh*t that's right. I'm in Asia and the storms already settling. Still, tinder just has too low of a return on investment
/r/askTRP26/03/20 11:47 AM
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Best advice is to get off tinder and get matched irl
/r/askTRP24/03/20 04:45 PM
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If you have to ask, the answer is no.
/r/askTRP14/10/19 12:42 AM
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Always wear a condom. How hard can it be.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 08:15 AM
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Meditation and journaling
/r/askTRP02/10/19 05:06 AM
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Very well. There is no rationalization. Women are not rational creatures. I've been through something very similar to your story, which ended in a hard break with me discovering the red pill. Message me if y ou want more details. As for your question. Break it off cleanly. You have a case of oneitis, and you've already broke frame. Never show women true weakness. Once you've broke frame, you're never recovering. She kept her options opened while you worked long hours because women need attention…
/r/askTRP02/10/19 12:16 AM
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ONEITIS ALERT
/r/askTRP02/10/19 12:07 AM
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'compliment a girl to make me look cool' is the wrong way to approach it. Any compliment you give that is geniune, humurous, and non-needy will come off as cool. Genuine - this needs no explanation Humurous - see push-pull Non-needy - you aren't expecting anything in return. ​ If you compliment because you want to get laid, you've already failed edit: look up Russel Brand for a natural
/r/askTRP01/10/19 11:47 PM
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Consult a friendly ex or you can kiss me and I'll tell you #nohomo
/r/askTRP30/09/19 04:28 PM
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Since you're mid-twenties, YOU have to be the cool guy and lead the younglings. You've got more experience so let it shine. Participate in sports/arts clubs (somewhere productive) and you'll naturally make friends. Just don't go partying all day because it'll be a waste of time when you look back in the future.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 04:25 PM
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Japan. Younger generation are familiar with RP theory. But more purple-pilled in general. Had a female friend blantly declare to me that she'll dump her bf if a better option appears. Male friends are usually purple-pilled with plate spinning 20s and LTR 30s. In some way, having a family is a status symbol.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 02:38 PM
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Pass out? You must be having the time of your life. I don't go three in quick succession, it's more like spread out over two hours or so. I remember reading somewhere that sperm retention is more or less like a logarithmic curve where x-axis: time and y-axis: sperm count So it wouldn't take too long to reach full capacity.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 02:17 PM
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Personally, I can go three rounds in a night if I did a week of retention.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 02:04 PM
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Whine. Have you done the work?
/r/askTRP30/09/19 02:02 PM
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Yes love this reply Be assertive to entitled women
/r/askTRP30/09/19 02:00 PM
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Here's another analogy Imagine frame being the channel of a river. You're suppose to direct the flow of water and not break even in a flood; the water being the bullshit people (men and women) throw at you.
/r/askTRP28/09/19 03:48 AM
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East Asia, I'd like to remain anonymous because of other posts.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 03:09 PM
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"one of the girls I've hooked up with twice before" " I've never gotten laid before " ​ What. Do you know what hooking up means?
/r/askTRP27/09/19 09:18 AM
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I am a good cook, so it's very easy for me to go, "Oh, I made some ______. Would you like a taste test?" and the ones interested end up inside my house. There are many ways to go about this. "After party, my place; here's a ticket for you to get in (scribbles a ticket)" is playfully cocky "Let's watch some netflix (and chill)" is time tested Or you can escalate/make-out right in front of your house, and you'll naturally end up inside. But "let's talk a bit" usually does the job.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 01:47 AM
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Sidebar. Or go back to bluepill You didn't swallow the red pill. Stop contradicting yourself.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 01:09 AM
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Remember, eye contact with everyone; not just girls. Practicing it with guys helps build a non-creepy/natural gaze. And sorry to break it to you, little eye contact from girls = you are invisible. You may a little work in the appearance/aura department; i.e. grooming, fashion, build, and most importantly confidence.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 05:07 PM
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Stop lying to yourself. And, are you on the spectrum?
/r/askTRP26/09/19 04:29 PM
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Practice on going out of your comfort zone. Here's an exercise from 4-hour work week Learn the Eye Gaze* People are typically are uncomfortable when eye contact is made for a long time. In conversation, maintain eye contact when you are speaking. Practice with people bigger or more confident than yourself. If a passerby asks you what the hell you’re staring at, just smile and respond, "sorry about that. I thought you were an old friend of mine." Focus on one eye and be sure to blink occasionally…
/r/askTRP26/09/19 04:27 PM
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It's a shit-test There are many ways you can go about this. Here, you can agree and amplify "Why don't you find your other girls fuckboi" "Well I don't have a girl for ______ (day of week) yet" Look up the shit test encyclopedia on Reddit or google for more responses, because this is a common one.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 04:19 PM
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Here's something that you can work on before going on-field: mindful meditation. With enough practice, you will acquire a strong sense of mindfulness. Mindfulness allows you to separate the physical response of freezing (e.g. increased heart rate, tense muscles) and the emotion (anxiety). You will learn to quickly calm yourself down and rewrite the emotion (say excitement) and approach with confidence. Edit: look up 'The Attention Revolution'
/r/askTRP26/09/19 03:46 PM
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Reddit in general or the rp community?
/r/askTRP26/09/19 03:38 PM
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There really isn't much to it. You just have to go out of your comfort zone. Try taking to take cold showers. The hesitance to cold water is a good benchmark of your willingness to confront discomfort.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 03:37 PM
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Be explicit when you spin plates. Or you have this bullshit, and it's you're own responsibility. You fucked up. Carry on and maintain frame.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 01:43 PM
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The lines that don't work: Neediness (obviously wanting to escalate) Last line: non-neediness You need to give women the excuse of "Oh I was just there to talk and one thing let to another". It's the anti-slut defense doing work.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 12:44 PM
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Send her place and time over text (like attaching location). Add a "see you then" She flakes, you next.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 11:30 AM
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Cognitive dissonance The blue or the red pill. You have to pick one.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 11:26 AM
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You're right. Don't keep asking. Another thing to note here is you don't use the "let me know when you're free". It gives your power away as if to accomodate her schedule. Instead, say "Saturday noon, coffee", and if shes not free and doesn't give you an alternative time, shes not interested. Women always have time for the guy they're interested in. Read Art of Seduction by Robert Greene, it'll help you in the future.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 11:24 AM
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Ask to meet-up, set a specific time and date. No specifics? Next. Shes not interested. You're better spending your time elsewhere. Don't beat a dead horse.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 11:18 AM
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Be professional and show that you have already moved on in life, and you should be fine. Probably. It's still a bad idea. Worst case sceneario: you lose the gig and the girls Best case scenario: you have a threesome
/r/askTRP26/09/19 06:33 AM
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Quoting The Rational Male here: Iron Rule of Tomassi #7 It is always time and effort better spent developing new, fresh, prospective women than it will ever be in attempting to reconstruct a failed relationship. Never root through the trash once the garbage has been dragged to the curb. You get messy, your neighbors see you do it, and what you thought was worth digging for is never as valuable as you thought it was. The same applies for friends. Keep working on whatever you're working on, and yo…
/r/askTRP26/09/19 06:30 AM
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Don't overthink it. Your neediness will seep out. But since you asked: 1. Where should the date be? Will any regular bar work? I'm not trying to spend too much money. You should go some place you are more familiar with to have the home advantage. 2. Should I volunteer to pick her up, or should we just meet there? You could pick her up at a bus/train station near the location, but don't pick her up at her place, that's just creepy for a tinder date. 3. What should we talk about? I know you should…
/r/askTRP26/09/19 06:25 AM
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Noted. Nice for you to have traveling contacts/hometown honeys. I hardly lived back home so I'm basically without any contacts. Because of social stigma against casual hookup here, women who are DTF are usually bottom shelf material. It's a blue-pilled society that considers relationship before sex. I'm going off on a tangent so I'll end it here. Again thanks for the heads up.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 05:06 AM
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Yeh LDRs don't work for the long-term; I'm keeping my LDR there because there is no reason to end it and because I will be going back anyways. That being said, I will not be passing up any opportunities here back home. If she cheats, I will find out eventually and that'll be a hard next. She is from a place with a lot of social stigma against cheating and casual sex. So I believe that is enough to keep her in check. But yeah, thanks for the heads-up, but I'm not keeping her for the long run, so …
/r/askTRP26/09/19 04:15 AM
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I suspect this too; it's pretty much on the line of clingy family and clingy girl which is very creepy. She stopped exercising because she's lazy. And she doesn't socialize because she can't seem to go out of her comfort zone. It's ridiculous. She's like a female incel.
/r/askTRP26/09/19 03:21 AM
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I'm in a place where people usually live with their parents. It's Asia, girls here are generally conservative. I do already have a girlfriend overseas, but we're on temporary LDR while I take of business here (but hey, if no one finds out...).
/r/askTRP26/09/19 02:43 AM
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Sounds like you haven't internalized the red pill. Are you lifting to get women or are you lifting for yourself? A few months of lifting is hardly enough to shake off incel-ness. More details. Where do you put yourself in the SMV scale. And game. What game are you playing? Cold approaches are needy. Your post is needy. If you get anxiety from multiple failed approaches, you're needy. I mean why the fuck would you care about rejection. Know the difference between game and internalized game. Swall…
/r/askTRP25/09/19 03:34 PM
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Well you might get a dildo up your bum and have a whole new world opened
/r/askTRP25/09/19 03:26 PM
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Dammit. Can't wait to cross "sportf*ck a whale" off my bucket list. In all seriousness, it's creepy as hell.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 03:20 PM
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I'd like to add that she would not do anything. And even if I'm dismissive, it's the little things that creep me out. And I don't think she'll move on until I leave the house because she has no social life, no friends or anything. I believe everything stems for the lack of content in her life.
/r/askTRP25/09/19 03:18 PM
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Sadly she has no social life; hence this approach on cousin
/r/askTRP25/09/19 12:08 PM
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