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Inner Game rpphil96/r/seduction28/12/25 09:51 PM
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Conversationrpphil96/r/seduction21/09/25 06:17 PM
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Fundamentals rpphil96/r/seduction11/07/25 10:40 AM
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Fundamentals rpphil96/r/seduction21/04/25 02:23 PM
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You're in for a world of hurt with her.
/r/seduction27/01/26 12:14 PM
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I want to. Just gotta get out of my own head
/r/seduction29/12/25 05:22 PM
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I know it is but of the two I prefer outright rejection,it as least shows you acknowledge me as more than scum to be ignored.
/r/seduction29/12/25 11:20 AM
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Not to me,give it to me straight. I don't even need an explanation. I actually thanked a girl for outright rejecting me at a bar once,I said thanks for being honest and not just giving me a number to get rid of me. I wished her well.
/r/seduction29/12/25 11:14 AM
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It's difficult to have an abundance mentality when you've never gotten laid or had a girl for more than a few weeks. I'm gonna try and turn my brain off and just not think.
/r/seduction29/12/25 11:12 AM
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I don't unless she's psycho. I'm honest because I know how frustrating getting ghosted is. I'd much rather know where I stand. I think its wrong to ghost,it shows a lack of honesty.
/r/seduction29/12/25 11:10 AM
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I could do that I guess but I wonder if I'll even have the balls once I get there to ask a girl to dance. I don't want to end up leaning on the wall like I did in all the dances of my youth.
/r/seduction29/12/25 11:08 AM
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I no longer fear rejection. Honestly I don't know what I'm so afraid of. I'd much rather be outright rejected than given a number and then ghosted later.
/r/seduction29/12/25 11:07 AM
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If I was gonna pay an escort then why the hell an I here asking about seduction?
/r/seduction29/12/25 05:57 AM
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Great! Take drugs to help with talking to girls. Great fucking advice.
/r/seduction29/12/25 05:13 AM
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Every interaction is different
/r/seduction29/12/25 02:57 AM
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I just wish I could shut off my fucking brain. Its not so much rejection I fear but I fear that I'll never figure this out and find someone. It comes so naturally to some guys but not me
/r/seduction29/12/25 12:58 AM
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I enjoy the rare times I get to take a lady out on a date but actually making the approach,holding a conversation and getting a number are so difficult and not fun. Especially when I get ghosted or brushed off most of the time. I know I shouldn't fear or care about rejection but it just feels like I put a bunch of effort into something so difficult for me for nothing.
/r/seduction29/12/25 12:56 AM
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Real fuckin helpful dude. Either offer real advice or go away
/r/seduction29/12/25 12:34 AM
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/r/seduction29/12/25 12:28 AM
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I try to have an abundance mindset but an average guy like me has to face facts;I have limited options. There's been nights where I've gotten numbers only to get brushed off later,or just ghosted. I know I shouldn't care but it makes the whole thing seem like a waste. I've gone to several singles events now and it doesn't seem like my skills are improving.
/r/seduction29/12/25 12:27 AM
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I can't just change my mindset,I don't know why I think the way I do but its a fucking curse.
/r/seduction28/12/25 11:00 PM
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Its hard to feel self worth when I'm a virgin mere months away from 30 and have never had a girl for more than a few weeks.
/r/seduction28/12/25 10:52 PM
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I've gotten 7 numbers this year and it hasn't gotten any easier. Getting ghosted by most of them makes it worse
/r/seduction28/12/25 10:48 PM
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I can't turn off my mind long enough to talk to them like my dude friends. If I'm attracted then there's pressure,I'm really cool around girls that are off-limits or I don't find attractive.
/r/seduction28/12/25 10:47 PM
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It's hard to think of this as a game if I'm not having fun. Trying to chat up these girls are make them like me is not fun. Not to mention my options are so limited.
/r/seduction28/12/25 10:45 PM
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You're going into this with the wrong mindset. You're putting yourself down and expecting the worst possible outcome,try to think positively. Also this is coming from a 29 year old virgin that didn't get his first kiss until 27,and I didn't kiss another girl until this year but didn't seal the deal. Keep your chin up,think positively and keep trying. PS: The first girl I kissed/made out with was an experienced 40 year old and she said I was a good kisser and had no idea I'd never done it before.…
/r/seduction25/12/25 04:07 PM
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Don't lose hope. You're doing good. I haven't gotten a number in over a month. I got two that night both of which gave me the brush. I'm very lonely and unconfident right now. You're doing way better than me. I'm gonna have another whiskey.
/r/seduction14/12/25 01:20 AM
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Incels hate women and believe they are owed sex. This guy doesn't seem like that. Not having much experience doesn't make you an incel.
/r/seduction21/11/25 11:20 AM
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Trying to date and trying to be an astronaut are obviously not the same thing,you're making an unfair and unreasonable comparison. Many uglier and worse men than me have dated successfully. If you think it's too much work or it's impossible, then feel free to give up. I'm not going to.
/r/seduction02/11/25 10:07 AM
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I do hope you're joking
/r/seduction30/10/25 01:35 AM
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I mean. You make your own decisions, but the way I see it, you'll never accomplish anything in life without trying. It is better to try and fail than to never try. Trust me, I've wanted to give up on women many times, and I haven't been actively trying very long. I count my accomplishments, although small, and treat failures as lessons. I think of it this way. I may still be a virgin, but I've gotten several numbers this year. I've been on 9 dates and kissed two girls. But last year,I had no num…
/r/seduction29/10/25 12:39 PM
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Why not give up? Is that what you're asking?
/r/seduction29/10/25 11:21 AM
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The measure of a man is how high he bounces after a fall.
/r/seduction29/10/25 11:21 AM
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Why not? With this process, you'll have moments of sadness and moments of anger. But you get past it and keep trying. I know I have had those moments, but I haven't given up.
/r/seduction29/10/25 10:08 AM
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Hating the process is ok,crying is ok,anger is ok,failure is ok,rejection is ok,quitting is not
/r/seduction29/10/25 08:23 AM
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Fair enough.
/r/seduction22/09/25 08:25 AM
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Honestly, the first sentence confuses me. He says don't worry but then says I'll blow it soon.
/r/seduction22/09/25 07:47 AM
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👍
/r/seduction21/09/25 06:44 PM
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Did you mean to post another comment or just copy and paste it by mistake?
/r/seduction21/09/25 06:42 PM
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I'll remember that last sentence.
/r/seduction21/09/25 06:35 PM
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Actually, everything just works when we're together. I forget all about my self doubt then. It's in the back of my mind when I'm alone with my thoughts. In a way, she brings out my true self. It's me thinking too damn much that makes me worry for no reason.
/r/seduction21/09/25 06:34 PM
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I'm in a similar position, dude. I'm 29 and have only made out a few times,no sex,no real relationships. Your past is your past. You can't change it. I feel sometimes like I wasted my youth, too, but there's literally nothing I can do about it. Look towards the future. Talk to girls,turn off your brain, and put yourself out there. If you have to recite how great you are to yourself every day, then do it. You got this, brother. And if you have a friend who is decent with girls, confide your probl…
/r/seduction14/08/25 02:28 PM
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Failing is ok,rejection is ok,pain is ok,crying is ok. Quitting is not.
/r/seduction08/08/25 11:11 PM
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I'm 18 pounds down,22 to go. Considerably less gut. It helps with confidence, too.
/r/seduction05/08/25 01:16 AM
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5'7 29 no lays. For the first real time, I'm actually trying, though
/r/seduction21/07/25 08:48 AM
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I'm a 29 year old virgin. Posts like these kinda boil my blood.
/r/seduction11/07/25 02:06 PM
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I hope you're right. Call me old-fashioned, but I want exactly what your brother in law has. If I met my wife tomorrow and never had sex with another woman, I could die happy. I want to be a husband someday,not a PUA.
/r/seduction11/07/25 01:57 PM
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You're 18 and not a virgin. You'll be fine
/r/seduction11/07/25 01:31 PM
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Is the bar a good place to meet girls anymore? Maybe in my early 20s, but now? I won't go back on the apps. They've brought nothing but frustration no matter how many times I've upgraded my pictures. I'm just not in the top 10% of men who get attention on apps. I hope it's not too late. I wanna get laid, but I'm primarily looking for a long-term relationship
/r/seduction11/07/25 12:39 PM
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I've never had a success on dating apps at all. Even with girls I wasn't that attracted to. I deleted them all
/r/seduction11/07/25 12:32 PM
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Honestly, I've thought a lot about it. I turn 30 in April. If nothing happens before then, I might. Just won't take virginity into my 30s
/r/seduction11/07/25 11:51 AM
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At this low point, you're probably better off focusing on yourself for a while. Women can be a distraction, and dates are expensive. Work on keeping yourself clean,finding a place to live, and making money. Women come later.
/r/seduction11/07/25 10:42 AM
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And you can filter by size
/r/seduction18/06/25 08:24 PM
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I'm mostly poking fun at myself. I'm an electrician with no bitches haha. Most electricians I know are married or have girlfriends, but it is true that you'll likely not meet one through work.
/r/seduction31/05/25 01:58 AM
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Not the good kind of scary,but the good kind of trouble if you like that. I like nice girls
/r/seduction31/05/25 12:08 AM
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Never heard that one before
/r/seduction30/05/25 10:54 PM
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I'd say those who make the most are elevator guys. Anyway, my point is the lack of women on the jobsite, and those who are there are scary or trouble.
/r/seduction30/05/25 10:51 PM
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I hope to make the move into service one day,it'll be easier to meet women then. The only ones on the jobsite are scary or too much trouble,lol
/r/seduction30/05/25 10:48 PM
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I can tell you it's not electricians
/r/seduction30/05/25 10:38 PM
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A budding rapist right here.....
/r/seduction21/04/25 06:01 PM
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