rpsatisf Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
18	My gf said shes unsatisfied with sex life lately...		rpsatisf	/r/askTRP	15/11/17 08:43 AM

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1	How to develop a “go-getter,” “take-what-you-want,” “IDGAF” mentality (20M)? i havent had a super similar life but i understand the sheltered kid thing, I was sheltered and i think you have the same problems I once had- the fear of making a mistake. I still struggle with it in certain facets of life. When it comes to careers and friendships Ive squashed it completely though. My advice to you is to go out there and fail a bunch of times. Offend them. Get put in your place. Listen to them scold you. And then go try again. I imagine you're still under 20-22, you can fail fo…	/r/askTRP	15/11/17 11:23 AM
4	My gf said shes unsatisfied with sex life lately... The simple answer is that it happened over time. Year 1- blowjobs every time, 2-3 rounds every time we saw each other Year 2- blowjobs once a month, 1 round nearly every time we saw each other Year 3- blowjobs once every 3 months, never more than 1 round , 2-5 times a week When things are good you don't mind a little loss on the sex game because it can always get better when i become better at life and attraction, when things are bad you are in a sunken cost fallacy that could get better at any …	/r/askTRP	15/11/17 11:16 AM
2	Officially ended LTR after being strung along like a pussy - best book to read given the situation? Hey, read the Fountainhead by Ayn Rand. It goes too far into the deep end, but it makes an excellent excellent point about how ego and huge amount of self respect and selfishness have been made to be sick words when really they are absolute requirements to be a healthy functioning person. You will find many many similarities in your story to what some characters in the book are like. I'll give you just one quote so as to not spoil your experience, to convince you that this is the book you desire…	/r/askTRP	15/11/17 11:11 AM
5	My gf said shes unsatisfied with sex life lately... Hey, I see your point. I've actually made it a point and am happy to say that the entire month I didn't start any conversations about our sex frequency or anything, didn't attempt to negotiate desire in that sense, I just was focusing on myself and then this happened. I see how offering solution was kind of deering and negotiating, should have just said uhuh and then destroyed her next chance I have. No i don't. She doesn't get off from sex, never has, says I sometimes get her close but never ha…	/r/askTRP	15/11/17 11:01 AM
3	My gf said shes unsatisfied with sex life lately... Yep. I will do all of the above. My emotional response to it all has gone down so much, I'm much calmer now and just simply will do as I was going to do. Shit shook me tho came out of nowhere . I would hope she already loves me after telling me so daily for 2 and a half years lol	/r/askTRP	15/11/17 09:52 AM
2	What's your life mission? I've whittled it down to this- art, family, physical health. I want to continue my art career, eventually moving onto short films, eventually directing my own movie perhaps. I want to consume good art. I want to spend my whole life finding things to say "that shit looks cool" to - be it my own or other peoples. I want a wife and kids, i want to write a book of life lessons I wish I knew and give it to my children and the internet when im way older. I want a six pack and to stand up straight even…	/r/askTRP	15/11/17 09:23 AM
3	How did I handle this? Dude what are you doing. Suggest date, suggest time, suggest activity. Never do this shit again. You can't talk to her like shes your guy friend and youre trying to see if you want to play call of duty or jerk each other off. Want to x at 9 on Friday? How's 9 for x on Friday? Lets watch x around 6 on Sat? etc etc. Anything. In my tinder days, my last message to them was "ill send you something dirty so you know its me" and then text a picture of a cute pig or dog rolling in mud. Then I suggest a…	/r/askTRP	15/11/17 09:13 AM
2	My gf said shes unsatisfied with sex life lately... Some more thoughts that have come into my head since posting On one hand it is good that she is unhappy with the frequency, this means it can go up or down but it likely won't stay here. It would have been worse if she didn't notice we haven't had good sex in 3 weeks I shouldn't get too insecure about quality of sex, ultimately all I can do is try to be as caveman as possible and implement DEVI as best as I can. All I can do is analyze weakpoints (such as flirting outside the bedroom, could use …	/r/askTRP	15/11/17 09:08 AM