rpw_helena Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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4	Women in Western Countries - Do you Feel Like A Lot of Claims About Sexism Against Women Are Made Up or Real? Exactly! If there's one thing that I've taken from my time browsing RPW and similar blogs, it's the value of hard work and personal strength. (Funny how I feel "stronger" and more "liberated" practicing RPW values than I've ever felt reading about feminism, huh?) Today's society doesn't do girls any favours when it comes to helping them cultivate character and resilience. If I have a daughter, I'll teach her to work hard for what she wants and to never feel sorry for herself.	/r/RedPillWomen	17/04/15 03:58 PM
3	Developing Feminine Sexuality? What I've found to be important and beneficial above all else is ensuring that whatever I'm doing comes off as genuine. Sexuality varies so much from woman to woman and man to man that it can be hard to know which advice to take sometimes, but the constant that will be present in essentially all men is a desire for mutual passion in the bedroom. How that passion manifests itself will differ depending on the man (as you saw, your husband doesn't like it when you dirty talk "like a whore," but /u/…	/r/RedPillWomen	17/04/15 03:54 PM
2	Dread Game Exactly this. Only in situations like what you described have I heard of the extreme dread game referenced in the OP being used; I don't think anyone is advocating for men openly cheating on their sweet, feminine girlfriends with whom they're having frequent and fulfilling sex.	/r/RedPillWomen	17/04/15 03:44 PM
1	Dread Game It's my understanding that dread game is more about a man having an abundance mentality and letting his partner know through subtle cues that he has other options. If my boyfriend ever cheated on me I would leave him on the spot no matter what; infidelity of any kind is a deal-breaker for both of us. Neither of us would want to be in a relationship wherein either party had any reason to stray. That said, my boyfriend is an attractive guy, and while he doesn't practice dread game intentionally (h…	/r/RedPillWomen	17/04/15 03:41 PM
9	Girl Game: Poise "Can this woman remain feminine under pressure?" Holy shit. Reading this sentence was completely pivotal for me and helped me to understand a concept that I mistakenly thought I already understood. Were I endorsed/5+, I would award you a point for this. Excellent comment.	/r/RedPillWomen	17/04/15 03:34 PM
6	Women in Western Countries - Do you Feel Like A Lot of Claims About Sexism Against Women Are Made Up or Real? As a woman who lives in Canada, I have not experienced one iota of sexism my whole life. Most complaints I've heard from women in my area have been about microaggressions at worst. I think the dissonance stems from a misunderstanding of what sexism is; as you said, having weird things said to you is not sexism. My assumption is that most women in the west have never experienced genuine sexism and use the term to apply to their own experiences which they understand.	/r/RedPillWomen	17/04/15 03:31 PM
2	SO wants me to get into video games. No, I haven't. It looks awesome! I really liked Human Revolution, haven't played the rest of the series. I haven't tried Heroes of the Storm yet either but I've heard from friends that it's pretty fun.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/04/15 09:51 PM
2	SO wants me to get into video games. Life is Strange Yes! I've yet to play through episode two, but I loved Chrysalis to pieces. Have you played The Vanishing of Ethan Carter? If you like story-driven games with gorgeous artwork, I bet it'd be right up your alley. Playing through it was such a treat. Also seconding Hearthstone as a top tier game that doesn't require too much commitment or prior video game knowledge.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/04/15 07:52 PM
8	SO wants me to get into video games. Warning: got a little out of hand and wrote a behemoth of a comment. TL;DR is maintain your interests, let him be your teacher, and don't get so caught up in the combative, masculine atmospheres of most gaming communities that you forget to treat your SO with girlfriendly respect. Yes, finally something I can speak about with some sort of authority around here! I'm a lady who has been passionately into video games her whole life. I spent my childhood on Runescape with my friends every day after …	/r/RedPillWomen	10/04/15 07:22 PM
2	What is your daily makeup routine? For my daily routine I wear a couple coats of black mascara (Too Faced's Better Than Sex) on my upper lashes, neaten my brows by filling in sparse areas (with an Anastasia brow pencil), and line my upper and lower outer corners with a brown eyeshadow (I usually use Estée Lauder for eyeshadow pallets). I also like to have fun with lipsticks and eyeshadows some days, but they're definitely not everyday wear for me. What your basic necessities are will depend on your individual needs, but you can n…	/r/RedPillWomen	08/04/15 02:24 PM
7	Bachelor Nation - 70% of Men 20-34 Not Married (and what that means for RPW) I think we should keep in mind that this statistic includes a lot of early to mid 20s men who I wouldn't expect to be married yet anyways. That's not to say that there's still tons to take away from the article, but I don't think we should be taking 70% as "70% of men who have gone through the dating scene, had a few relationships, and still don't want to get married".	/r/RedPillWomen	31/03/15 04:43 AM
7	How to be strong for my struggling captain without being controlling/mothering? So this turned into quite the long-winded ramble, apologies! Didn't realize I'd written so much. I grew up with a depressed father with severe PTSD. I love my father, I've always loved my father. He has been through so much and the things he's accomplished are constant sources of inspiration for me. I would never blame him for any of what has transpired between us. That doesn't mean that living with him wasn't enormously taxing on my well being. I guess what I'm trying to say is that the people …	/r/RedPillWomen	26/03/15 05:06 PM
3	How do you look feminine/ beautiful every day without looking like you are trying too hard? I am in my 20s. There are no negative effects to my knowledge of using a retinoid at my age. All I can tell you is that using a retinol serum has absolutely transformed my skin. My pores are less notable, my skin is much softer and smoother and feels full. I feel like I'm glowing thanks to my use of a retinol. It won't work for everyone, of course, and there are side effects (photosensitivity, for example), but it will not harm you to start young. I've always thought prevention was the most effe…	/r/RedPillWomen	23/03/15 03:34 PM
13	How do you look feminine/ beautiful every day without looking like you are trying too hard? Sure thing! I've included Sephora links to the products as well. Should be noted that I have very dry skin and that this will not work for everyone. I supplement it by being obsessive about my daily water intake/eating well/exercising as well. Have you used a retinol before? If not, I'd highly recommend it. It takes about 12 weeks to see a difference (it quickens the cell turnover rate to 12 weeks from about 16 IIRC, which results in smooth plump wonderful skin) and is probably the most drastica…	/r/RedPillWomen	23/03/15 05:24 AM
9	10,000 Subscribers! Lurkers, come say hi! Hi! My name is Helena. I've been a lurker for well over a year and just recently made this account. I live with my wonderful boyfriend of 1.5 years and am a student of literature, but I take my classes online so I can stay home and take care of the apartment and have more time for personal projects. I'm a writer, passionately into ancient history, a little unhealthily obsessed with politics, and an opera singer in training hoping to sing professionally after I complete my training over the next …	/r/RedPillWomen	23/03/15 05:09 AM
20	How do you look feminine/ beautiful every day without looking like you are trying too hard? The secret to not looking like you're trying too hard is to polish up every small, individually tiny detail of yourself instead of doing something big and obvious. I get professional manicures and wear a pearly pink nail polish on medium length, rounded nails. I shave daily, pluck every single stray hair, use fancy face masks, spray perfume just so, anything subtle that will play with the rest of my look to make me look subtly polished. Keeping clothing clean and ironed(!!) works as well. I find…	/r/RedPillWomen	23/03/15 05:02 AM