rpwcaptain Archive

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2	Introductions and a quick question While it may be a jealousy issue, I would personally see it as an area I need to improve on. nearly all of my friendships with other women have gone down the toilet Two things I see: Since you are the only constant here, I'd take a hard look at my behavior and asses how I've contributed to the issue. There used to be a really nice format in this sub for addressing your responsibility in each situation. It easy to hand wave "oh, they're just jealous" and put your issues on other people, but that …	/r/RedPillWomen	18/04/16 12:24 AM
7	Day planner recommendations? My grandmother always used a leather bound diary, like this. She loved it, and now that she passed, I have years of these day planners in her handwriting. I tried getting into the habit, but it just wasn't practical for me. There were too many things competing for my attention to remember to write and read the planner regularly. Instead, and this might be TMI - I have a calendar & a pen hanging next to the commode in my bathroom. Mine is from the Nature Conservancy and has a blank area to write …	/r/RedPillWives	17/04/16 11:27 PM
4	Welcome to RPW! Please Read Before Posting Thanks! I really like the new look, too!	/r/RedPillWives	11/04/16 11:57 PM
4	Men Don't Fight like Women: How to Avoid Physical Aggression in your Relationship I think this hits an important point, that a woman properly vets the person she's committing to. I think emphasizing her vetting process, and a willingness to next unsuitable men will avoid unhappy surprises later on.	/r/RedPillWives	11/04/16 11:39 PM
4	Welcome to RPW! Please Read Before Posting You know, I'm glad I found this. I haven't ever been that active online, and Hubby and I have been traveling for the last few weeks (trip we've been planning for years) and when I returned, I started reading redpillwomen and it was ...strange. The tenor was different from what I remembered. I'm just glad I found you guys again, this is SO MUCH what I was looking for.	/r/RedPillWives	11/04/16 11:25 PM
1	Better to, or not to, tell boyfriend about best friend hitting on me? He came over to my place, had a few beers, we chatted about his recent ex (broke up only a few days ago), and that was it. I definitely know my boundaries and was not by any means flirting - and he's also very aware of my feelings for his friend. I mentioned my feelings multiple times that evening. He's testing the water. Tell your boyfriend. His reaction will tell you a lot about his quality as a man.	/r/RedPillWomen	11/04/16 11:13 PM
13	How to deal with the fact that my SMV will decrease so soon? I suspect you're over estimating your attractiveness, simply because you include 10 in your range. I think there's always room for improvement, and if you're seeing yourself as a 10, chances are you have a big blind spot. This can come across as arrogant and very unattractive. Instead, I would approach my looks more humbly, and honestly asses where improvements can be made. If you honestly can't think of any, why bother looking for a man? You're obviously perfect on your own... That said, if you…	/r/RedPillWomen	11/04/16 11:10 PM
2	I need major advice/ help Echoing the chorus: /r/xxketo Exercise alone will not get you where you want to be. If you're intimidated by where to start, try doing Yoga in the morning. There are a lot of videos on youtube that are great. Pick up an active hobby. I started sailing when I was about your age. It's kept me very fit over the years and given my husband and I great memories of us working together. Even though I was the more experienced sailor, I made him the Captain* even though he was nervous about the responsibi…	/r/RedPillWomen	25/04/15 11:55 PM
1	Dread Game and Boundaries Is it something that you can hint at though? He is who he is, and ultimately you have to decide what you accept and adapt to vs. what is truly a deal-breaker. I would personally make an effort to ignore this girl. Don't mention her name, don't ask about her, don't think about her. He's going to do what he's going to do. Trust him to do the right thing. Spending your energy worrying about the IF's and WHEN's will only make you crazy.	/r/RedPillWomen	25/04/15 11:35 PM
2	Dread Game and Boundaries If my husband's attention strays, I do my best to earn it back. It happens; there are natural ebbs and flows of attraction throughout the course of a relationship, and part of my job (as I see it) is to keep those little flutters from become a full blown change of course. But this is not something that should be happening in the honeymoon phase. I see some issues with your SO's behavior that would give me pause at least: He's careless with her feelings, and to some extent yours. He likes the att…	/r/RedPillWomen	24/04/15 11:59 PM
1	I don't know what to do in my marriage. You don't know if you can do what it takes to save a marriage you can't imagine leaving? Well, you better start imagining it, or start imagining yourself getting divorced when he decides to marry this girl. Imagine how much it will hurt your children having a step mother only a few years older than they are. Imagine how humiliating it will be when he takes her to their graduations, to their weddings. Still can't imagine fighting? Sometimes you have to get down and dirty to save what we love. The…	/r/askTRP	13/02/15 08:54 PM
2	I don't know what to do in my marriage. This will probably get deleted, but fuck it. I'm a RPW, and I think the biggest misconception about "traditional roles" is that while we let our men lead, we don't blindly follow. My husband absolutely believes he is the captain of our ship, and for the most part he is. But when he steers off course, I correct him, without him ever being the wiser. He continues having the illusion of being in charge, and we continue to have a solid, loving marriage. Right now it's your husband's ego that's in ch…	/r/askTRP	12/02/15 12:02 AM