rpwhisper Archive

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16	Stop caring about her. Start caring about yourself. Thank you. Seriously. I've been trying to swallow the pill for over a year in an attempt to solidify and fix our relationship. I was in an 8year LTR and back in May 2015 she finally ended it, Ive seen it coming for some time and had tried to self improve before it came, but I was a little too late. She dumped my ass when she got back in shape and saw her options available to her (great that she was working at a gym flirting with jacked guys all the time) The beta pull is real. I think about her …	/r/TheRedPill	23/09/15 04:15 PM
1	Lift - not so often I'm doing a 5x5 workout 3 times a week - at this point I can't imagine doing it more then 3, I'm so worn out the next day. I'm about 4 months in, 20lbs down and feel noticably stronger, although I definitely have trouble jumping up in weight. My arms feel so tight compared to what I'm used to though, its great!	/r/MarriedRedPill	22/07/15 08:37 PM
1	[FR] Finally going my own way: getting divorced Far overdue, sounds just like my LTR. Been together for 8 years, and now single for about 2 months, and the beta pull is real. I feel the mentality dragging me back every day. I don't want plates, I want another LTR. I wish you the best man - it's going to be tough, and its going to be painful but push on, continue improving yourself and reading red pill philosophy. I've been starting slow with hobbies, but I've picked up something I've always wanted to do - drawing, and this time I'm sticking w…	/r/MarriedRedPill	29/06/15 10:45 PM
1	[Question] What is the desired body fat range we are going for here to achieve our goals? 13%-15% looks pretty good for me. I'll probably strive for that.	/r/MarriedRedPill	04/06/15 04:29 PM
2	LIFT vs. don't be a fat guy I've found a 5x5 routine that incorporates cardio instead of rest periods inbetween sets, so I typically will do my set, and then eliptical my ass off for 1:30min until my heart is pounding - only downside is it absolutely wrecks your legs for deadlift. I'm 28, 6'1 - I've been told my face is a solid 8-9, but I started my red pill journey weighing 290lbs. I had the same fear, that I'd have to lose first before I bulk up. My common law partner of 8 years SMV started to skyrocket when she started …	/r/MarriedRedPill	02/06/15 07:50 PM
3	Opinions on playing video games It's hard to accept that video games are merely a filler activity - I have started to lessen the time I play games. It's a great stress reliever, especially with my breakup happening right now but I want to go monk. I want to improve my market value and to do what I need to improve - ie. read, learn new skills, and play bonding sports instead of junk sports (games). My friend and I play paintball, great exercise - get's your adrenaline pumping. He's also invited me for dragonboating , so I'll ch…	/r/MarriedRedPill	29/05/15 06:22 PM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - May 26, 2015 Thanks - Any resources you can recommend for practicing / learning day game (aside from whats on the bar)? I'm guessing I'm going to be utter shit at talking with women for a little while, so anything will help haha.	/r/MarriedRedPill	27/05/15 08:06 PM
1	[FR] Started my RP journey with a beard Grats on ya buddy - with my recent change to single status, I too am growing a beard.	/r/MarriedRedPill	27/05/15 08:04 PM
2	Own Your Shit Weekly - May 26, 2015 no, common law - I count myself lucky. Just a lot of years, she's also my first and only. The only kids we have are our pets - likely she'll take them all, but I'll tough it out.	/r/MarriedRedPill	26/05/15 08:41 PM
4	Own Your Shit Weekly - May 26, 2015 I said too much. I told her the truth - that I will not be part of a dead bedroom relationship. I told her if I all I wanted from her was companionship, I'd just visit my friends. Intimacy is a privilege only her and I share. This little statement made her hamster go into overdrive. As a result, she is now breaking up with me, and truthfully, in a way it's been a sigh of relief. I started taking the pill about 3 months ago, lifting about 1 1/2 months ago. Have tried being stoic, but she has foug…	/r/MarriedRedPill	26/05/15 07:46 PM
1	Own Your Shit Weekly - May 19, 2015 Doing great until last night - ordered a pizza, breadsticks because I was feeling like a lazy beta. Slept in this morning instead of lifting, procrastination was kicking in - my first problem. My gf works nights at a gym so gets home at roughly the same time I wake up, but usually stays awake for another 2-3 hours before she goes to bed. When I get downstairs, she's doing stretches - arched back, on all fours - great view. I sit on my chair, look at her, tell her 'nice view - why don't you go up…	/r/MarriedRedPill	22/05/15 02:35 PM
1	Lifting: Large Change Needs Small Changes and Small Changes Need Small Goals. Set Goals and Be a Winner Thanks - it would be nice if we had something like this on the sidebar for reference. Whether or not r/fitness has this type of content it is still a core principal of frame in RP. I'm happy to see that my own routine I've been following for just over a month here basically includes the same exercises. I workout at home and have a workout bench, so I've been basically doing everything listed here except for Pull ups. I'll have to look into getting a bar for that.	/r/MarriedRedPill	21/05/15 09:57 PM
1	Nothing matters if you don't LIFT! I've used it in the past, but have a tendency to forget about it and not record the correct calories per day. Now that you've brought it up though, I definitely should start using it again - great app	/r/MarriedRedPill	21/05/15 07:44 PM
2	Mission Accomplished. Lessons Learned. Excellent FR - thanks so much.	/r/MarriedRedPill	21/05/15 04:22 PM
1	Nothing matters if you don't LIFT! Thanks - Always good to hear reports like this. I'm sitting at 285lbs right now, my goal being 200lbs (any less and I'd look really slim). This is probably the hardest part of swallowing the pill - realizing that this integral part of your frame is necessary for the rest to fall into place. I have been lifting for just over a month now, and although I haven't lost a lot of weight (about 10lbs so far) - I already feel far better then I used to. The mindset alone of you realizing you're making a d…	/r/MarriedRedPill	21/05/15 04:08 PM
1	Stoicism: A primer for how to be Great post - A good reminder of the dedication this journey takes. Solid points, thank you.	/r/MarriedRedPill	20/05/15 02:29 PM
1	"On Anger" [Cross post from r/TRP] This is what I've been doing - I used to dwell and just vent on my SO, spiraled out of control with the eventual result being that both our nights were ruined. Better to stow it and move on - save you both some grief, and definitely makes you realize that most things are minor and not worth caring about. Let it goooooooooo	/r/MarriedRedPill	15/05/15 04:19 PM
2	[FR] Woke Up One Morning, I Was An Alpha Thanks man. It's a tough pill to swallow but hearing the end results (consistently), just reassures me of the lonnngggg journey ahead, and the great results it will yield. Bravo - you're an inspiration!	/r/MarriedRedPill	13/05/15 08:56 PM