rpwthrowawayyy Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
–	Decided between career and relationship at 22 , but that doesn't mean it's a guarantee he will marry you. I am aware of that. My goal is to make this relationship work because I love being with him. If it doesn't work, it doesn't. I'd rather lose a few months of my 20s trying to make this relationship last than end it now.	/r/RedPillWives	22/01/17 11:48 PM
–	Decided between career and relationship at 22 Why do you keep saying this? I am strongly considering giving up a very good job opportunity just to be with him! How does that say that I don't sound crazy about him? I am not stringing him along. We have both been talking about this and what will happen if I move, how we will make it work, and timelines for moving to one place or the other.	/r/RedPillWives	22/01/17 11:41 PM
–	Decided between career and relationship at 22 you don't know if he'll make a good captain because you don't live together It's been my choice for us to live apart. We do spend every night together, but we each have our own places. I don't want to live with a partner unless we are engaged or married. I don't know why everyone says that I'm not thrilled about him. I am strongly considering giving up a great job opportunity just to be with him! Of course I am thrilled about him.	/r/RedPillWives	22/01/17 11:37 PM
–	Decided between career and relationship at 22 I am not "meh" about him. I am considering throwing away a great job opportunity just so I can be with him. I wouldn't consider that "meh", but maybe that's just me. I am 22. I see myself marrying him now. But who knows what will happen in 2-3 years. Do NOT ask a man that you are "meh" about to change his life and follow you; you will ruin his life and then dump him as soon as you meet someone else. I never said anything about having him change his life. I understand that he doesn't want to move…	/r/RedPillWives	22/01/17 01:36 PM
–	Decided between career and relationship at 22 It isn't a magical age. It is the age at which I'd like to get married. 22 seems quite young. I just graduated college. I am getting my very first job. My boyfriend has a good job, but is still figuring out what he wants to do with his life (not work in 9-5 corporate culture for the rest of his life - he wants more than that). What is wrong with 25 exactly? As I've said, I don't believe in divorce and will not be getting a divorce unless dire circumstances warrant one like abuse or addiction. We…	/r/RedPillWives	22/01/17 01:32 PM
–	Decided between career and relationship at 22 When we first started dating he frequently said that I was "the one". He still says things like "when we have kids". I have straight up asked if he actually sees us together for the rest of our lives - and he says that he does. I don't need a concrete wedding date, I'm 22. At the same time, I do realize that men will string women along for years and then dumb them for someone 5-10 years younger. This is why I said I'd wait a year and then need a concrete answer. If he still doesn't know, then I …	/r/RedPillWives	22/01/17 01:10 PM
–	Decided between career and relationship at 22 It's a red flag to me when men say they can see themselves getting married nearly a decade from now, especially to a woman they've dated for years already. As I mentioned in the OP, we were talking about when we see ourselves getting married. When he said 30 and I countered with 25, he said that 30 was not a hard number (as in he's willing to compromise). He just figures that he will be prepared for marriage at 30. I have shared all information with him. He would like to make things work. I will…	/r/RedPillWives	22/01/17 12:52 PM
–	Decided between career and relationship at 22 I really dislike the idea that if he isn't ready to get married at 22, then marriage isn't a priority for him. I am not ready to get married at 22. I'd like to be married around 25-26. It is very unusual for people to get married at 22 where I live (unless they are incredibly religious). He sees us being married and having children. Just not NOW. I do have an "end date" at which I would no longer continue the relationship ~1 year from now (when we'll both just be turning 24). I have spent a lot …	/r/RedPillWives	22/01/17 12:39 PM