rpxzz Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	Tinder date mismatch	rpxzz	/r/askTRP	26/02/17 04:19 AM
1	Software Engineer burn out	rpxzz	/r/askTRP	26/01/17 08:32 AM
0	Declined entry to bars and clubs	rpxzz	/r/askTRP	09/03/17 10:36 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Tinder date mismatch I had them in my bag that could really only fit 2. I had one anyway when she declined fwiw. I get it I guess, always bring a six pack or cooler if I'm going to bring beers. I was actually a bit taken a back internally after she said that though. Like I had been tricked or something. Thought I might just call her out but didn't want to react. Edit: She mentioned about her doing meditation and that was what prompted me to talk as I thought maybe I'd try to connect. But there was no point going int…	/r/askTRP	26/02/17 09:31 PM
1	Tinder date mismatch I do need practice. This was near the end of the date way after the failed shit test. Was annoying to hear it tbh. I need to always remember to assume the sale.	/r/askTRP	26/02/17 06:56 PM
1	Tinder date mismatch Yeah I need to remember this. At the moment I am still doing things to avoid 'no' sometimes as I am not in abundance.. have only been able to set up max 1 date a week with my rate of matches.	/r/askTRP	26/02/17 06:54 PM
2	Tinder date mismatch logistics I believed that there was no point after failing that shit test, basically I gave up. Maybe I should have left then? Or just not made that mistake. If you find out a girl is not interested do you just leave? I agree with not sharing about me, actually just wanted to not play the game after that. Also on a side note didn't really think about the whole getting roofied thing. I brought 2 from home unopened of course..	/r/askTRP	26/02/17 06:49 PM
1	Tinder date mismatch Thanks, I will use a line like this. I need to learn from this mistake and not make it again.	/r/askTRP	26/02/17 06:46 PM
1	10 logical fallacies that block you from success, plus Beachbloke's Lazy Lay method Fallacy 1) You are good enough for anyone - There is a big totem pole of SMV and you fit into it somewhere. You aren't at the top. You can improve your SMV, but you will never be hot enough for every woman. Why would you believe that you aren't good enough for a girl? If you are telling yourself this, how can you approach and have it go well? E.g. for hard case newbies here, who may a habit of negative self talk?	/r/TheRedPill	26/02/17 03:47 AM
1	Software Engineer burn out I've had a few coding jobs. Most though expect you to sit down and code for a lot of the day, otherwise you're in meetings. If you're in a services company you may be able to visit clients. Maybe I just haven't found that perfect coding job.	/r/askTRP	26/01/17 06:31 PM
1	Software Engineer burn out I could try reducing my hours, if I was looking to fill it with something else I guess. Though not sure how it would fly, or how I would explain it. I don't actually mean working with women. I mean doing something that allows me to socialise more instead of coding, something that actually helps me in getting better talking to people. Like sales for example. I already go to meetups to try to improve my social skills and make friends, but sitting in doors coding seems to work against my social ski…	/r/askTRP	26/01/17 06:31 PM
1	Software Engineer burn out I can get at least a 3 week holiday at my current place, would probably have to suck it up for another few months.	/r/askTRP	26/01/17 06:23 PM
1	Software Engineer burn out Yes, I have about 65k saved, no debts. So I can try various things. I've tried being a contractor last year but as my contract was nearing the end and as it was near the end of the year it would have been hard to find a new one, so I accepted a full time offer employee offer from my current place. I haven't looked into freelancing, so not sure what complexity/pay it is compared to contracting/full time.	/r/askTRP	26/01/17 06:21 PM