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| 2 | Attractive girl at my jobIt's all about being genuine. I think you already have your genuine motivation: from meeting her and being cordial, you think she's someone worth getting to know. Just tell her that and you'll be fine. Literally "You already seem pretty great. I'd like to get to know you better. Would you be interested in (insert any activity you think would be fun to do with a girl you don't really know) some time? I think we'd have fun together." Maybe y'all will date, maybe you'll be friends, worst case you'l… | /r/seduction | 05/03/22 04:35 AM |
| 3 | I'm very confident at chatting to girls, very uncomfortable hitting on themI was like this for a long time. Basically for me, I felt like a total dog for being that classic "frat guy douche" hitting on girls. Hell, even the term "hitting on girls" made me feel like an asshole. To get past this, you have to remember a couple of things. First, you're not a creep for hitting on girls. It's funny because, actually the opposite is true. If you oogle at girls and try to cover it up ( think about the guy breathing deeply in the corner and never saying anything ), you'll actua… | /r/seduction | 31/05/15 10:33 PM |
| 133 | [FR] Tried the "wait" line on a first dateI think you forget that these things don't come naturally to everyone. If it doesn't come naturally, then you're doing something out of the normal that brings you success, thus the feeling that it's a "trick." With time and success, it'll become second nature to those who see it as a trick, so who cares what he calls it now? Let's be happy he's learning and doing instead of looking and wishing. | /r/seduction | 25/03/15 09:26 PM |
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