rrsreal Archive

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5	How much effort do you put into your outfits when going on dates? Exactly. If you show up, on a first date when you're trying to make a decent impression looking like you just rolled out of bed - you're not even meeting the bare minimum (which to me is hygiene and self-care). Hard no.	/r/RedPillWomen	11/01/21 05:11 PM
2	Showing vulnerability or need as a self sufficient woman The best are the ones who fill this role without asking, and without having to ask you. It doesn't have to be in large ways initially, either. He would let me know where we're going for dinner, grab my hand and lead the way, drive most times when we went places. These then graduate to other things. I found myself feeling like I had a confident partner and not someone who stole any of my self sufficiency or identity. Just be careful about the mommy hunters as an independent woman. I (very shortly…	/r/RedPillWomen	08/01/21 04:57 PM
1	"Equity" training at work I had plenty of male mentors while I was in the military. Most of my coworkers were men, the few women were.. well, not nice. And yes, there were always rumors. Perception is reality, ha, the immense truth of that statement. unless they have an ulterior motive Well, if you're a relatively attractive woman, this is the case in more places than just work. I've found it to almost always be the case. However, you can still have good relationships / mentorship opportunities with someone who has that …	/r/RedPillWomen	23/12/20 07:21 PM
20	Older LVM This is so true. I had a coworker who was 25, dating an 18 year old. A GIRL who lived with her parents and was still in high school when they met! Once I got to know the guy, I realized it was because he was quite a loser, very insecure, and couldn't match the intelligence / life experience of those his age and wanted to feel superior. It was hard to watch. He'd still spout things like "I know my worth." (insert chest puff). Like others have written, what are you talking about? You are a loser, …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/12/20 10:43 PM
12	Why are attractive people less confident about their looks than unattractive people? No idea if there’s any science behind this, but for some attractive people they’re always valued for their looks and it actually causes them to be hyperaware and hypercritical of the way they look, which can make them have low self esteem. I'll start this off with quoting alien_eater 289. Maybe no science, but it's truth. When the number one thing men say to you is you are hot and gorgeous, over and over, they themselves create a stigma within that person. When all the guys are lushing after you…	/r/RedPillWomen	17/12/20 10:52 PM
1	Decline too early sexual advances I felt uncomfortable because I pictured that if it had been an in person date, as the next meet up would have been, he would definitely have swooped in for a kiss. Ha "innocent hugs" I see those as I hugged you on the first date, we shall then progress to a kiss on the second, and on the third date whammo. I so agree about the hugs for sure. I don't think there is a smooth solution for that situation - don't hug them, it gets awkward immediately because "it's just a hug. Hug them, you're laying …	/r/RedPillWomen	17/12/20 10:38 PM
1	Decline too early sexual advances I like that you posted this because I needed the answer as well. I had a video call with one guy from OLD. First time we'd spoken. At the end of call when we went to say goodbye, he held out his arms and said "Air hug! Or, something more! Whatever you're comfortable with!" And I had no idea how to respond. It was odd, how he had ended it with "whatever you're comfortable with" while making me feel uncomfortable.	/r/RedPillWomen	17/12/20 09:55 PM
3	Decline too early sexual advances This is actually why I stopped meeting / going on dates (okay, I went on one in real life) in OLD! I'm used to IRL, getting to know someone and over many interactions finding that connection and going on the first date that, finally ends in a kiss. But there's no "Finally" with a first date, you just met the guy. I didn't kiss him on the first date, didn't want to - we had good conversation but smacking lips with a stranger was not appealing in the slightest. But then it digs up the question, if…	/r/RedPillWomen	17/12/20 09:54 PM
2	Boyfriend wants me to be the dominant one? Gross. I don't know how you could put up with that long-term. I have a kid, don't need another one.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/09/20 05:14 PM
5	Boyfriend wants me to be the dominant one? It is not possible. You can't change him. "lack of leadership, lack of accountability, and lack of assertiveness" vomit. I lasted 4 weeks with a guy like this. When I finally snapped and told him I was sick of him following me around and acting like a submissive puppy, he whined "But you're confident and dominant. I thought that meant you like being the leader all the time." No. I want a confident, dominant man who will dominate with me and at times take charge, not a wimpy guy trailing behind m…	/r/RedPillWomen	09/09/20 08:16 PM
1	Male friends I would say absolutely not. If you are a relatively attractive person, it'll never work. They could say until they're blue in the face to me they have no feelings, but it never fails - after a while I always get what I call the "puppy dog look" and I know. 1st male best friend: Eventually told me his feelings. When I didn't return them, he said I never give the "good guys a chance" and the friendship was ended. 2nd male best friend: Eventually told me his feelings. When I didn't return them, the…	/r/RedPillWomen	09/09/20 08:08 PM