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Don't be afraid to game EVER but do be smart about it. In a small social circle, don't open or close as hard as you normally would, don't burn sets to the ground, and take a longer term approach. Be social first, seductive a DISTANT second.
/r/seduction12/10/12 04:45 AM
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How often are you going out? It sounds like you need lots of field time and practice... and when you practice, focus on the positives... if you get blown out nine times and one girl smiles at you, remember the smile and forget the blowouts. Develop a selective memory for helpful facts.
/r/seduction12/10/12 04:44 AM
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Take more risks, be more sexual, interrupt more readily, talk louder, lead more...
/r/seduction12/10/12 04:39 AM
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Anything is possible, but I wouldn't make this a goal because it's not something within your direct control. However I can pretty much guarantee you that as you get better at 'game' you'll start to see lots of other great things begin to happen in your life...
/r/seduction12/10/12 04:33 AM
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Awesome, and thanks, glad I could help out.
/r/seduction12/10/12 04:31 AM
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I'll always answer specifics... or I'll at least TRY. I certainly don't have all the answers
/r/seduction10/10/12 04:39 AM
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Okay, I think that's pretty much it for now. I'll check back a couple of times over the next few days and see if anything else comes up. Other good sources of knowledge for you guys would be: http://www.rsdnation.com/ That is the best BY FAR, so go there first, but there is also: http://www.youtube.com/rsdtodd http://www.youtube.com/toddfreetour https://twitter.com/rsdtodd http://www.facebook.com/RSDTodd And for ongoing training, check out www.rsdinnercircle.com Thanks guys and I hope I was some…
/r/seduction10/10/12 04:35 AM
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Yes and no. I'm getting hotter and more amazing girls than I ever dreamed of. Like I wouldn't date any of the girls I crushed on as a kid now... however the grass is always greener and you can always do better, right? ;) And np. I like answering questions
/r/seduction10/10/12 04:33 AM
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Ignore if possible, cut him out physically, focus on the girl and zone him out, make him qualify himself if nothing else works, physically remover her from the situation. This is a really involved topic and very tough to teach without demonstration... but you just gave me a good idea for a future video, so thanks.
/r/seduction10/10/12 04:28 AM
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Go out a lot. Expect nothing and embrace EVERY small victory. Go out some more. Rinse. Repeat.
/r/seduction10/10/12 04:24 AM
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Project Hollywood was AMAZING. It was wonderful to be a part of that special time in history... The tent was amazing. Easiest place I've ever had to pull, and one of the most fun as well. Totally misrepresented in the book the game. Far more magical and less drama than you would think. As far as brutal rejection stories, I once got blown out of a set (i.e. AMOGed) by a 65-year-old. He was REALLY good. Decades of experience :P
/r/seduction10/10/12 04:19 AM
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Your text phone game might just totally suck if you feel you are getting solid numbers and they're still flaking... But like you said, it's super tough to do individual diagnosis without actually seeing a set.
/r/seduction10/10/12 04:10 AM
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"Are these your friends? Introduce me!" "Wow, hey, so much stimulus! Hi guys I'm Todd..." "No, she's mine now! We're in love and you can't have her." "I just need two minutes and then she's all yours... or you could stay and chat if you like..." There are hundreds of variations, but you get the point Mostly it's not about what you say, but the fact that you say SOMETHING!
/r/seduction10/10/12 04:06 AM
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check out this video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1G9iv5sIyOQ&feature=plcp basically realize that the idea is to get them to the most intimate means of communication (in person) as quickly as possible, so treat the phone as a tool rather than an end result. Keep offering value and not asking for anything until they 'pop' and start pursuing the conversation, then get them out on a date ASAP. There is much more detail in the video though.
/r/seduction10/10/12 04:03 AM
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I stopped counting a little before 100 several years ago... I have no idea now
/r/seduction10/10/12 03:58 AM
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Lol
/r/seduction10/10/12 03:55 AM
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I try not to focus on state so much as action. Just take right action and let that get you into state. And even if it doesn't you can feel good about the fact that you took right action... and feeling good is, well STATE. So keep taking positive actions until you get there... or until you don't but you've had a night you can be spiritually proud of. That's what I personally do... however here is a band-aid solution as well: Work on your emotions through working on your physiology. Make yourself …
/r/seduction10/10/12 03:54 AM
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This is a REALLY good question. Ironically I find my results improve MORE rapidly now than they did when I was first starting out. This is probably because now I'm at a point where even when I fail I'm not too far off, so the little tweaks make a huge difference. But as far as PROCESS FOR IMPROVING... watch this video: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h6WPYMoK2d4&feature=plcp The key thing is to make sure that you are always practicing with a purpose and are always trying new things. Even to the …
/r/seduction10/10/12 03:48 AM
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I say it better in this video than I ever could in text: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uk8jM9ur6cE&feature=plcp
/r/seduction10/10/12 03:39 AM
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Regional conferences will be SIMILAR to hotseat 1 (so yes different videos) in that in-field video will be shown with instructor break down. There will also be instructional content from myself and other instructors and live exercises with instructor critiques... for how to do approaches, how to handle shit tests, how to build state, how to self-amuse etc. Depending on the size of the program we may even to some small parts in-field (not guaranteeing this but I have clearance from Tyler to use m…
/r/seduction10/10/12 03:37 AM
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This is a slightly different question: In this case you must reject their standards and embrace your own, and you must hold your frame more strongly. This is similar to assuming value over a hot chick in a club in spite of the fact that within club culture she is measurably of higher value. You must decide what you value and be very clear in it... deciding through topics and frames what will be considered value within the scope of the interaction. You must also do this gradually and softly enoug…
/r/seduction10/10/12 03:25 AM
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Lol. Wow. You just put me into a bit of a loop. Let me see if I can untangle both of us. I think you are mixing two concepts in your head and you are therefore getting cause and effect reversed in some cases. First... girls DO NOT respond to your inner state, they respond to your actions and projections. However these REFLECT your inner state so managing your state makes a big difference. It's not like girls are literally looking into your soul though. At twelve years in, I can game better out o…
/r/seduction10/10/12 03:18 AM
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As far as what intent is, watch this video: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uk8jM9ur6cE&feature=plcp As far as exercises... here are a few off the top of my head: -Try to get slapped -Answer every compliment with "so are you ready to get out of here then?" -Say "that's what she said" often -Create a list of physical escalation moves then try to run through them as quickly as possible in set -Don't ever break eye contact -Move girls around the bar for no reason constantly during the set -Try to ge…
/r/seduction10/10/12 03:01 AM
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I can't remember... how weird is that?! I just tried really hard to think back. I did tons and tons of day 2s at first, so I had probably slept with 15 or 20 girls from cold approaches (maybe more?!) before I had my first true pull, so when it happened it wasn't such a big deal for me. Even to this day, I don't tend to get a lot of one-night-stand type pulls. I do pull lots, but the girls really fall in love with me and often it's the start of a relationship rather than just a random encounter. …
/r/seduction10/10/12 02:54 AM
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Read my reply to the first question in this discussion. Also focus on slowing down and being more sincere. Really get to know the girl... even ask some 'chode' questions. You should not be getting a 95% flake rate, that is ridiculous. Try to be more normal and less 'gamey'. Don't even worry about getting indicators of interest. Instead just try to find out what is cool and interesting about the girl you are talking to. Once you get a more reasonable flake rate, then start pumping buying temperat…
/r/seduction10/10/12 02:47 AM
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Ya, that's really tough when you dealing with all those entrenched expectations and also often with the people throwing the party... In super cliquey situations it is often MORE IMPORTANT to deal with the group than with the individual girl. It is also often more productive to work with a longer time horizon. If you know the girl is going to like you and get dragged away, then the bigger issue you should be focusing on is the peer group, not the girl herself. Make friends with all of them. Take …
/r/seduction10/10/12 02:43 AM
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It happens naturally with repeated positive experiences. Just relax and be patient. Focus on the process. Take control of what you DO, and one day you'll wake up and love what you've BECOME.
/r/seduction10/10/12 02:34 AM
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Haha, I've heard a lot of interesting answers for this over the years. From singing lame songs about being in love to imagining a girl defecating... End of the day, the best solution to oneitus is abundance. When a girl you are dating starts acting up, it's a lot easier to put her in her place or walk away if you know you have four other girls waiting to catch your fall. The second best solution is to have other projects/priorities in your life that are more important than girls. Again, the idea…
/r/seduction10/10/12 02:29 AM
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Officially, no. Unofficially, email [email protected] or call our office at 310-652-0137 and say Todd sent you to see if they can hook you up.
/r/seduction10/10/12 02:22 AM
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Completely. I was very young when I got into the game, and it has shaped me to a great degree (my girlfriends would probably argue too much). I very rarely feel negative emotions, I never panic, I feel like I can handle anything. I also do what I actually want rather than what I think people will accept. This all makes me MUCH MUCH happier, more productive, and more fulfilled. Oh, and I also date tons of hot girls and have tons of sex ;)
/r/seduction10/10/12 02:20 AM
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Yes, hopefully lots of videos on it. I'd like to do a significant portion of my hotseat (when I eventually record one) in daytime. It might not be quite as flashy, but it should give viewers a doctorate in verbal game. It should also clear up a lot of inner game issues guys have about 'disturbing' girls during the daytime or awkwardness of interrupting someone's day. The biggest advice I can give for adjusting to calmer quieter environments is to realize that you should calm down a lot as well. …
/r/seduction10/10/12 02:17 AM
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Both inner and outer game are important. What's more important, I think is the balance between the two. Basically what I've found to be true is that you will get results in line with whichever is your weakest area. If your inner game is a 10 and your outer game is a 7, then your game is a 7. If your inner game is a 7 and your outer game is a 10, then your game is again a 7. I personally learned outer game first, but I think that learning inner game first is more efficient because most of outer g…
/r/seduction10/10/12 02:03 AM
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There are a few interesting point and assumptions here: Firstly, I find it interesting that your numbers are generally going nowhere for both types of approaches. I would think that the longer sets should typically lead to more solid numbers. Tough to know why that's the case without seeing your sets, but based on my experience it strikes me as odd. Second, why does it have to be either/or? Why can't you start a set slow and then get physical? Why can't you make out quickly then chill back and m…
/r/seduction10/10/12 01:53 AM
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There are a number of different things you could to to improve your results, though no one individually is a "magic pill". Here are a few suggestions off the top of my head: Use a false time constraint if they seem nervous or in a hurry so they won't feel you are going to take up their whole day. Go more conversational rather than super direct IF THEY SEEM NERVOUS OR NOT INTO THE CONVERSATION initially. Make sure your persistence is playful... not just pushy... You can trick them into a conversa…
/r/seduction10/10/12 01:43 AM
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Tip #1. DO solo game. It is good for the soul and the best possible learning experience. There are no excuses, and nobody but yourself to rely on. As far as tips for making it work: -Be creative with logistics. You will have to find a lot of interesting situations for logistics. Sometimes you'll need to recruit a wingman to deal with one of her friends. Sometimes you'll need to just jump in the cab with them at the end of the night and embrace the adventure to come. Alex has a great philosophy f…
/r/seduction10/10/12 01:33 AM
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Wow, that's a LOT... I'll cherry pick a few for now, but feel free to ask me the rest later on. All instructors have very different styles but they are all based on the same core principles of what works... dominance, leading, self amusing, avoiding triggering girls' defenses, frame control etc. I personally try to have no style and rather do what is effective... but my style naturally reflects my personality... chill The best game I've ever seen was actually from a student we had in Amsterdam. …
/r/seduction10/10/12 01:22 AM
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In order to self-amuse and get "out of my head" what I have been doing lately is giving myself 'missions' other than picking up the girl... Like try to take it as far as I can without talking... or try to say "that's what she said" as often as possible. Or spin the girl as many times as possible until she gets dizzy... or talk in an accent. I also dance, sing along to the songs in the club, and try to repeat as many lines as possible from my twitter feed. Essentially I do whatever I find fun and…
/r/seduction10/10/12 01:12 AM
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Oh... I was actually waiting for a question before posting. But ya, welcome and feel free to ask me anything... though let's try to keep it to education helpful topics mostly...
/r/seduction10/10/12 01:02 AM
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