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Because you have to be not dating a woman take a picture of some water of course
/r/MGTOW07/10/18 07:45 PM
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Some do just prefer chubby girls. Not that rare of a preference, really.
/r/MensRights08/10/17 02:31 PM
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Right..
/r/PussyPassDenied24/03/17 07:48 PM
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Always fun to see the /r/fatpeoplehate and /r/incel factions on hate subreddits like this get into it. Who deserves more hate?
/r/PussyPassDenied24/03/17 06:25 PM
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You're a brave soul
/r/PussyPassDenied06/11/16 11:25 PM
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So you don't vote based on policies, experience, ability to perform the duties of Commander in Chief, but on the way a TV station reports on a scuffle between a teenaged girl and a Trump supporter? This explains a lot
/r/PussyPassDenied06/11/16 11:24 PM
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You can be really ugly but extremely successful, charming, rich, funny, etc. and have no problem with women/men, but if you are very handsome but have severe social skills problems, your are going to have a much harder time finding a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/15 05:11 PM
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I think that's not limited to tinder. On tinder at least you can make yourself look better than the competition by taking some decent pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 03:19 PM
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If you just want to hook up, it's easier now than ever with tinder and the like.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/15 08:53 AM
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Why is it even a mistake if you had fun?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/15 02:36 PM
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What is low talking?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/15 12:52 PM
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Okay. I am not even familiar with Mr. nice guy, but I can see how a man in an abusive marriage would need to work on his self respect. The problem with trp is that it seems like they think all men are either trapped in such an unhealthy relationship, or doomed to end up there unless they follow trp. I think that's an incredibly warped view of gender relations. Also, how did you find these four month old posts?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/15 09:56 AM
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I'm not applying anything. Just relating my personal experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/15 09:50 AM
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You understood my point. I didn't mean indefinitely
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/15 02:53 PM
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I'm not saying people should constantly shower their women with attention and affection. I'm not very affectionate myself, and sometimes I can be quite cold - I think that if I was always super affectionate, my partners would find it annoying. Purposefully giving everybody else attention and affection while completely ignoring your partner is another thing altogether.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/15 04:18 PM
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explain?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/15 04:15 PM
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But how could he? No one would lie about a field report!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/15 09:00 AM
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I honestly wasn't trying to pick anything apart. I'm just trying to figure out what RPers think TRP is. Most, it seems, would argue that it isn't quite as subjective as you think it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/15 02:38 AM
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Okay, let's discuss your explanation. This is what OP described: I was crying because he kept wanting me to do this painful thing that brought me no pleasure and I felt like he only cared about his dick and not me at all. So I just shouted at him "fine! fucking do it if you want it so much!" I was hoping he would see I wasn't interested and he was just making me mad, but instead put himself in me and didn't stop when I was gasping and crying or even when I said stop it was hurting, I had to push…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/15 02:33 AM
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You consider TRP a social justice movement?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/15 02:28 AM
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Many of them ended because one or both of us had to move away to a different place. Life sometimes gets in the way. If I was older, or concerned about getting married or kids, maybe I would've made different choices, but I didn't end thing because they were the wrong kind of woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/15 02:27 AM
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It's not really an ad hominem. I'm not saying your statement was disturbing because you're a virgin, I was just musing that it might partly explain the anger and bitterness. Losing your virginity at 24 should not be something to feel bad about - it's perfectly normal. But if you spend a lot of time on a sub where men obsess about the sluttiness and hypergamy of women and about sleeping with as many of them as possible, while being a guy who wants to have lots of sex but can't, you are going to e…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/15 02:15 AM
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Why is it a mistake if they're not cheating on me?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/15 02:11 AM
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Soft Dread the way it's described - develop a great body, stay interesting, etc.. Isn't something I can object to. But purposefully giving everyone but your girlfriend attention.. It seems awfully counterproductive.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/15 02:10 AM
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And if half the (well-respected within their movement) feminists were genuinely arguing for the latter, I'd be pretty worried about the movement too. But I don't really see what this has to do with what we were talking about. TRP is internally entirely inconsistent - oh, but this straw feminist is even worse!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/15 02:08 AM
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He's giving everyone but his girlfriend attention and affection. I'd say that's at least failing to comply with social expectations, and pretty clearly a negative attitude.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/15 02:05 AM
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What mistake is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/15 02:03 AM
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Do you honestly believe every man who has been in more than a handful of serious relationships has to have been cheated on? That's a really warped perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/15 02:02 AM
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passive-aggressive behavior: "A personality trait marked by a pervasive pattern of negative attitudes and characterized by passive, sometimes obstructionist resistance to complying with expectations in interpersonal or occupational situations." Seems to fit the story quite well, don't you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/15 01:58 AM
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I have experience with relationships. However, I think I lack the incredibly negative experiences everyone on TRP is always complaining about. I think this is honestly the biggest circlejerk on TRP. If you only interact with men on TRP, you would think that every marriage ends in divorce rape, and every LTR ends with a cheating girlfriend. I've had plenty of LTRs, but I guess if none of them ended with cheating or humiliation, I don't really have any 'actual experience'. Or maybe, TRP is full of…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/15 01:55 AM
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Well, I'm not planning on getting married, so it's not something I fear. I also really doubt that actually cheating on your wife would have saved your marriage - it sounds like a terribly misguided guilt trip.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/15 01:47 AM
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That's not why it sounds ridiculous. It sounds ridiculous because successful relationships improve over time - as you get to know each other; the time you invest into the relationship isn't a sunk cost or a transaction for sex, but also something that will make your relationship better than a new relationship. Being ready to always completely abandon ship and jump over to the next girl to bang isn't something I see as an option for this reason, not because of 'SMV'.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/15 01:45 AM
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OK, so dread game isn't just born out of the dread of losing a woman, but it's also a way to improve your relationship by making a woman feel jealous? I don't think I'd have to do this in order to know that it's not going to improve anything. It's pretty well established that such low-level forms of psychological abuse can nurture dependence, but that seems like a desperate ploy to keep a woman from running away.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/15 01:41 AM
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That's an understatement.. It's pretty disturbing. I wanted to see just how RP this dude is, but it seems like this is what happens when you OD on the Red Pill as a 24 year old who just lost his virginity. It's what RP dismissively calls the 'anger phase', without acknowledging that their 'philosophy' actively turns this anger into straight up hate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/15 01:36 AM
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The point is; dread game is supposed to prevent your partner from running off to jump on a cock carousel after divorce-raping you. I've never been afraid of it happening, it's never happened to me, and I'm pretty sure that as long as I keep dating the same kind of women I've dated in the past, it's not going to happen in the future. Why would I risk such an extreme solution if I don't have a problem?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/15 01:21 AM
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There was a brief couple of months where things were truly in the middle and there was some good debate I remember a survey where it was pretty much exactly 50/50, which is really interesting and unique for a debate sub. Right now it's clearly just a RP circlejerk, unfortunately. I don't think safe spaces or narrow-minded worldviews have much to do with the BP exodus; I think the debates just became circular and BPers realized that their reality is so far removed from the RP reality that nobody …
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/15 01:18 AM
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Like I said to the other guy; I just don't think it would even work on any woman with even a little life experience. Unless it's an early-twenties college girl with an infatuation, women will look straight through this game and just consider it a laughably immature display of passive aggression. It sounds exhausting and I don't see the pay-off unless you're gunning for a very specific type of girl - the kind that I'm not interested in anyway. Dread like it's used in the situation above being con…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/15 01:08 AM
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I just don't think it would even work on any woman with even a little life experience. Unless it's an early-twenties college girl with an infatuation, women will look straight through this game and just consider it a laughably immature display of passive aggression. It sounds exhausting and I don't see the pay-off unless your gunning for a very specific type of girl - the kind that I'm not interested in anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/15 12:57 AM
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It's okay Mr. Bot, it's a 2-year old post.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/15 12:54 AM
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mostly women I think. Majority men, if the latest survey (2 years ago), is still accurate.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/15 12:50 AM
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lot of the BPers here don't even post in TBP. Whenever PPD comes up in TBP, almost everyone agrees that it's pointless to debate here, and that this sub is basically a form of TRP validation.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/15 12:48 AM
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So it's not dread game, but it works? Half the TRPers ITT are arguing that this is a perfect example of how Dread works, and the other half are saying that it's not dread game. Seems like nobody really knows what they're talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/15 12:43 AM
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Never thought passive aggressive calculated behaviour would be desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/15 12:39 AM
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It just seems like a lot of unnecessary hassle for no obvious reward. Scoring 4+ different women every week? Over 200 sex partners a year? At that rate, I'd always have to wear a condom, and still be worried about pregnancy or STDs. I'd never be able to really get to know any of the women, so the sex would be much worse, and more risky.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/15 12:34 AM
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I think I'm barely encroaching onto the top 5%... but I'm working my way up Why is your goal to be single dude having sex more than 4x a week? It seems like a strange 'elite' to want to be part of.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/15 11:02 AM
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trp
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/15 09:30 AM
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If that's really all that trp can help you with... It's not that hard. Just create a tinder profile, chat with some girls, meet up, get to know each other and get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/15 10:20 AM
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That's funny
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/15 01:37 PM
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Are those really your most likely "theories" for what attracts women to feminism? They are ugly lesbians? How would you explain male feminists?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/15 10:30 AM
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The argument that was made in the paper that you put forward was that men have become happier, and women have become unhappier. If you are going to use that as proof that women are unhappy because of their newfound sexual freedom, you can't also argue that men have become happier despite this factor.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/15 12:19 AM
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I'm not arguing that it's a bad thing to do just because it causes the woman to feel dread, I'm arguing that it's damaging the relationship itself because there should be no need to resort to dread game at all, and when you get to that point, there are much better alternatives than manipulating the person you are supposed to love into feeling jealous.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/15 12:16 AM
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But you're acting like it's some sort of enormous social movement that's sweeping the globe. It's a subreddit with less than 100k subscribers, probably including many like myself who don't actually subscribe to the ideas but just come to see the craziness. Simple answers to complex life issues have always drawn people, and those communities, groups, and individuals that promise to give its adherents the ability to make unlimited sexual conquests have been popular long before TRP or the internet …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/15 12:12 AM
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Eh, I'm sorry. You're right, I was being myopic. I'm not married and I don't have kids, so I guess it's a bit presumptuous to claim that I or anyone should or could just avoid ending up in that situation. You seem like a decent guy, so I hope you find a way to improve your situation. Do you really think TRP has helped you so far in that regard, though?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 11:56 PM
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How? This sounds like wishy washy "damage to their karma" nonsense. I don't really have the time to go into all the ways I feel TRP harms its adherents or those around them, but you must've heard these arguments before anyway. You think TRP would exist if a there was a demonstrably more effective method? There are, and have always been, many crazy little fringe groups with insane methods to achieving happiness, or just pussy. Some of them were crazier then TRP, others more sane. But for all of t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 11:51 PM
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You're right. Also, I lived for a while in a country where women's legal and social recourse to divorce were severely constrained, and I would not want to go back to that system in the industrialized postfeminist world. Higher divorce rates are a good trade-off when it avoids women (and men) being trapped forever in abusive or just loveless shams of a marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 11:47 PM
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What about Challenging and Generous?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 11:21 PM
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Well, maybe I'm just more selective than most, but I wouldn't quickly end up in a relationship with a woman who would behave that way to me, and if I did find myself in that position, I wouldn't threaten to leave or demonstrate that I could leave; I would leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 11:17 PM
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Idiots get to post on TRP right along with (and probably in much greater numbers than) the more sensible members. Which should tell you something about the nature of the TRP philosophy, don't you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 11:15 PM
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I would hope the emotional connection you have built up with your wife, and, cheesy as it sounds, the love for and trust in each other that you must have at this point, are disincentives which far outweigh anything else when it comes to the 'decision' to cheat on your wife. Also, I really don't think every M/F relationship works like this automatically. It makes no sense to think that all women have an easier time finding relationship partners. My first serious girlfriend has been in far fewer a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 11:14 PM
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As to your first point; just because it's hard, doesn't mean it shouldn't be done. Working through that and being able to have more and more serious conversations is also a sign and a facilitator of building better relationships. Your last point about dread actually makes some sense, and I've gotta give you credit for being someone on the TRP side who actually remains reasonable and somewhat sensible. The way you describe dread, I see little to argue with. Nonetheless, this is not the way I see …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 11:09 PM
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The paper looks interesting. It also says that men's happiness has increased. Unlike before, in the postfeminist industrial world, men's happiness exceeds women's. Doesn't that directly contradict everything TRP believes? Or are you really saying that TRP believes that feminism has improved the lives of men, but they are fighting it to improve the lives of women? Divorce rate has skyrocketed Subtle difference between 'divorce rate' and 'divorce rape'. To me, an increasing divorce rate isn't an e…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 10:02 PM
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They might lose weight, but their general philosophy does more harm to themselves and those around them, and all along there were much better methods to lose weight to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 09:46 PM
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Right, and that's my second point of critique (which I've pointed out in this thread before): a relationship that relies on fear, paranoia, and calculated dread does not sound viable or enjoyable. Why would a woman be more likely to stay with a man who actively manipulates her? I really can think of no scenario where one person in an adult couple does not have a better solution to a relationship issue than to resort to manipulating his partner into feeling dread. But then again, I think this is …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 09:44 PM
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Also, if fat people invented an entire alternative world history based on a superficial understanding of evolutionary psychology, infantilizing an entire gender in the process, just to blame the decaying fabric of society on their weight issues, I would probably mock them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 09:38 PM
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That's fair. I was snarky, and that doesn't contribute to debate. I just can't help it, because everything about that thread is so far from the way I experience things, but it is presented as if it is some sort of shocking eye-opener. I absolutely cannot relate to it, because why would I want to go back to a society where women's behaviour is severely 'socially constrained', and they do not have sexual freedom, where they are considered 'innocent' and 'to be protected' or simply to be raped and …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 09:35 PM
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I'm just saying, the words 'dread' and 'game' have a meaning which correspond much more closely to what the OP is saying: you actively game your woman to feel dread. I don't understand how understanding the concept that way makes me "offended".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 09:23 PM
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Whatever it is, it's what makes me keep coming back to PPD and TRP. It's just bizarre. Sophomoric evo-psych tripe as the basis of a life philosophy centered on the revelation that our collective masculine ideal of a traditional society of loyal men and women is just a shattered delusion. A forum where former betas can unite to stop briefly to mourn for all humanity and look back with nostalgia to a time when men were still in charge, free to roam the earth, provide, rape and kidnap wives, protec…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 08:38 PM
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it's about building an emotional connection Exactly. This is how normal relationships work. Dread game, like many other RP 'strategies' actively chips away at the ability to do so. Anyone following TRP philosophy isn't going to end up in an emotionally mature relationship, so I guess it makes sense that they continue to believe all their superficial AWALT stereotypes.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 04:17 PM
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dread game is a passive result but not the reason I do those things. I've seen this response a couple times now in this thread from TRPers, but you gotta admit that the words "dread" and "game" do imply an active strategy intended to cause misery..
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 04:10 PM
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Someone who does that is either a legitimate psychopath, a pathological liar, or someone who is blinded by desperation. Either way, I can just imagine the woman immediately figuring it out. I wonder what the Alpha response is to your wife confronting you about sending yourself flowers to dread game her.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 04:07 PM
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Exactly. It has been changing throughout human history, and it will continue to do so in the future. The legal implications for polygamous marriage are complicated and interesting, though.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 12:35 PM
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It's a strawman blue pill response to a nonsensical hypothetical situation, and you know it. I also don't really strongly identify with any kind of 'blue pill community', I just strongly disagree with TRP.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 12:32 PM
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Within that limited setting, it does make sense. As a broader relationship strategy, I still think it can be self-defeating and damaging. I'm not just talking about psychological damage to the woman, I'm talking about the relationship just dying off because you're using calculated dread game on someone you supposedly care about out of fear of abandonment. If it was just a piece of deadbedroom advice, it'd be fine, but within TRP I've seen many really terrible and idiotic applications of the conc…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 12:29 PM
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Red pill man flirts with a girl takes her home and has sex with her why do you think I would consider this emotional abuse? Sometimes people flirt and it leads to sex, sometimes people flirt just to flirt. Neither is a bad thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 12:25 PM
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Flirting without escalating to sex isn't a 'cuntish thing' to do. Sometimes flirting just for the sake of it is enjoyable to both parties. It's a kind of social lubricant.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 12:11 PM
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I wouldn't really want to be in a dedicated relationship with someone who doesn't have the maturity or self-awareness to have a serious conversation without feeling attacked. If dread game was just about keeping a casual hook-up interested, it wouldn't really bother me too much; the casual dating scene can just be a big game to all parties. I still think PUA methods can be overly analytical and creepy, but in the end it's not that harmful. However, it seems like Dread Game is often discussed pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 12:06 PM
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Why not just talk about her behavior, instead of resorting to using manipulation to make her feel bad without explaining your problems? If a woman is being 'a bad partner' and we can't resolve my issues through communication, I'd just walk away. Why would you want to stay in a relationship where you have to constantly remind someone not to be terrible to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 11:50 AM
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I'm really not doing it on purpose. For some reason lately I'm always double or triple posting on reddit. I press the 'save' button once and it keeps loading and loading. When it stops, I've suddenly submitted something three times. I thought it was an issue with reddit, since the 'servers are busy' message and long load times on threads are getting more common, but maybe it's my connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 11:47 AM
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Well, you gotta admit that 'Dread Game' does imply that the woman feels dread, which is a pretty strongly negative emotion. I've also never really felt the need to prove to any of my past girlfriends that you can't have a great guy and treat them badly without them walking away. like the inverse, that should just be common sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 11:43 AM
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I think they will definitely feel different depending on the intent. In my example, I made sure that the way I mentioned the girl messaging me made it clear that I wasn't interested in her, exactly so as not to upset my partner. TRP apparently advocates faking similar situations just to make their partner feel upset. I think once you are actively scheming to make your partner feel miserable, that will devalue the entire relationship and make it more, not less likely to collapse.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 10:50 AM
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How is that dread game? Clearly she's not doing it to make her partner feel dread; they both do it and they both get a kick out of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 10:46 AM
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Most men themselves however are in a constant state of dread because they're well aware of their own replacability. Yeah, I think this is definitely not the case. I think it's this kind of insecurity that drives men to TRP, but in the general population I doubt everyone is always full of dread in a relationship. My view is that all the manipulative mind games, such as DG, TRP advocates contribute to a self-fulfilling prophecy; of course a woman is more likely to leave you if you are paranoid, in…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 10:41 AM
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"Oh a guy hit on me today, isn't that funny?" is pretty serious dread game for a woman Surely it's about intent? Do you really think that every woman who says something like this is out to prove that they have options? I think if you're more secure about your relationship you'll just see this as paranoia. I have definitely never consciously employed dread game, but now that I look back on my current relationship, I can see a number of moments where I apparently employed it by accident. Just last…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 10:39 AM
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Sending flowers to yourself from a fake admirer sounds pretty pitiful. TRP really seems to have some strong abandonment issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/15 10:34 AM
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Scoring a ONS doesn't require TRP, so if that's all TRP can do for you,I don't see how it works
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/15 12:57 AM
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I'm not sure about that last bit. I've worked for UN women (maybe the largest women's rights organization), and as a feminist I am active about women's rights because I can see that it is simply the most effective and the most urgent cause in many parts of the world. If you think 'patriarchy' doesn't exist, I'd invite you over to Sudan to see it first hand. In most developing countries women are behind in pretty much every metric, including those where the figures are reversed in the west, such …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/15 12:48 AM
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I'm not upset, or bitter. You ask me to imagine some other guy watching an abusive relationship from the outside, and somehow feeling like the abuser won. Sure, the story could well be fake, but if we take it at face value, we are talking about a teenage child who is being raped and manipulated by a grown man. Why do you think all these imagine the two of them hanging out with mutual friends, including the good, decent guy - imagine the public displays of affection - imagine her laughing at his …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/15 01:28 AM
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that's vanilla, huh? I'm a chocolate man myself
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/15 12:52 AM
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well, /u/shitonmycock, you really don't like porn, huh?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/15 11:26 PM
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I'm definitely fascinated, or I wouldn't have continued to talk to you. My point, which you somehow seem unable to get, is that the part of the story you want to discuss is a figment of your imagination.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/15 10:50 PM
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because it genuinely frustrates me that you can read a story about years of abuse, and you focus on a guy who doesn't exist
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/15 10:07 PM
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That's true. And I suppose everyone involved does have an interest in glamourizing the situation. Nonetheless, I think you'll find that kinks are more common, even among the very successful. I really don't think 'alpha' or 'beta' social standing and sexual preferences align.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/15 09:39 PM
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I don't think the idea that the porn market collapsed because there was too much demand makes any sense. The porn industry is changing, fast, because it has had to deal with major technological changes. But there has always been demand for all kinds of eclectic erotic material. I can show you some centuries-old literature that's more extreme than most porn you can find online. But I guess I'm not a BP because I don't download TBs of hardcore shit, and I'm not a RP since I've never bought a Playb…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/15 09:36 PM
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It would be hard for me to find a proper academic source right now, but just look at something like this and see section 6. All the professional dominatrixes see men from 'all kinds of backgrounds', but since it's an expensive thing to seek out a professional to humiliate you, lots of clients are doing quite well: Most people would never be able to tell who is and who isn’t a submissive. I find that I can sense when a man hungers to be on his knees and he can sense Me. I’ve also found that the m…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/15 09:09 PM
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You think I need TRP because I don't immediately conjure up a rejected man in every possible scenario? Alrighty then
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/15 08:53 PM
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I'd never actually checked out the subs, and I gotta give you that one. Seems like it really is about the humiliation of your wife/gf being with a 'better man'. Interesting. Although, we can't all be agreeing up in this debate sub, so for the sake of argument; I've also read in some interview with dominatrixes and other sex workers that the men who are most into submission and humiliation, often tend to be the kind of guys who ordinarily seem like stereotypical alpha males. So, what do you think…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/15 08:46 PM
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I don't really care for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/15 08:30 PM
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It's a little different, I think. In the chimp situation the other animals wouldn't get laid either way, so they are just getting rid of their sexual tension the only way they can. Men who are in a dedicated relationship and like getting their wife fucked by someone else, could be fucking her, but get off on seeing someone else doing her. It's not my thing, but I kind of get it. Sex in a committed relationship is about lust and intimacy, but the strange man removes the intimacy and allows the wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/15 08:29 PM
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Watching porn is pussy worship? Interesting perspective. Is this a general RP concept?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/15 08:22 PM
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Yes, it is. Again, you are completely missing the point here and just projecting your own experiences onto this story.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/15 08:20 PM
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The question "you know that ... Right?" I didn't understand that sentence, tbh. Could you rephrase it?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 10:43 PM
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She ends up an emotional wreck after being manipulated and caught in an unhappy relationship. I don't see how you couldn't empathize with her
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 10:41 PM
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It's certainly an interesting perspective.. But an unusual way to look at the story, to me. The douchebag stole the girl from the nice guy, and that's the real tragedy? It's just another example of TRP myopia and objectification of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 10:39 PM
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Yeah when I read that story I saw the girl as the victim, and nobody as a winner. It didn't cross my mind, though, to invent another guy simply to make him the victim. The fact that you empathize the most with a fictional snubbed ' nice guy ' who missed out on sex makes me feel like you are projecting a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 05:56 PM
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The fact that you can read that story and consider it a 'success' because the man gets his sex is why I hate TRP. I don't want to get sex from a girl who I feel no connection with, against her will, who is then left feeling abused. Nobody except a complete psychopath wins in that scenario.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/15 02:29 PM
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