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Those women were probably misogynistic too. What is your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/26 03:03 PM
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Get well soon!
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 02:20 AM
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Uggo:/
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 02:18 AM
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Lmfaoooooooo
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/26 01:27 AM
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If you can’t empathize with women period I don’t think dating women will ever work out well for you haha
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/26 06:32 PM
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God forbid we believe we as human beings inherently have value
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/26 06:50 PM
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The more gooners remove themselves from the dating pool and just go after escorts, the better
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/26 12:41 AM
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No one should be having kids unless they really want to and can afford it
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/26 05:00 PM
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Yup, same for me, got boba on our first date, now we’re living together lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/26 10:43 PM
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The average man in America is not rich enough to afford this. If you can’t afford a real woman, kids, or a marriage, idk what makes you think you’re part of the tax bracket these sex robots are targeting 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/26 08:32 PM
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This is usually reciprocal in any healthy relationship, and what you’re referring to as courting is “effort” and it’s what keeps a relationship alive.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/26 07:25 PM
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Agree with you, I keep my personal issues private and if I’m super annoyed or pissed I just go quiet. Can’t imagine being the person or dating the person who nags or attacks their partner in public.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/26 11:43 PM
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Right…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 02:40 PM
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They expose themselves every time it’s so funny. And yet men refer to themselves as the logical sex unironically
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 02:09 PM
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The relationship will last a few months maybe a year and then BOOM we will run out of water 🫩
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:33 PM
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Feminism has existed for so many years, like since the 19th century, and yet the modern man still can’t define it correctly huh
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 01:29 PM
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Typical mansplainer lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 02:42 AM
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And yet what you said doesn’t apply to me lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/26 12:42 AM
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Literally who are you talking to
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 09:25 PM
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Like I said, you’re referring to a very specific demographic of women, and what you said doesn’t apply to me so I’m not offended. I don’t see it as criticism of me. But the way you speak about women clearly shows you doesn’t see women as independent people, you only value them for what they can do for you - stroke your ego, fuck you, cook for you, clean for you, etc. It’s pathetic. Grow up.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 08:02 PM
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You’re clearly referring to a very small specific group of women and yet you phrased your argument in a way that sounds like what you said applies to all women, when it doesn’t. If you hate women so much stop interacting with them. 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 07:51 PM
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Very interesting point
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 07:05 PM
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I have a hard time believing this just based on, well, real life. Pretty girls date ugly dudes ALL the time. Literally just go outside and you will see this phenomenon everywhere. Whereas men reject women for not being their type right from the jump. These aren’t studies but some interesting articles: https://www.nationthailand.com/perspective/30313001 and https://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/8956056/Relentless-optimism-of-ugly-men-makes-up-for-unappealing-looks.html
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/26 04:43 PM
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Well they make their undesirability everyone else’s problem and attack women relentlessly for not wanting them. But yeah when women say “leave us alone we don’t want you” , THAT’S too cruel. Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 02:32 PM
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They base their worth on proximity to women, they’re hopeless
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/26 02:31 PM
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Literally this does not concern straight men at all
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/26 06:03 PM
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If you are too scared about being used for free food, just stop dating. Yall seriously create your own problems. Can’t court a woman, can’t pay for dates, can’t do anything. Good lord
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 09:47 PM
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Twice a week for a full year ? Bullshit. Maybe a few months but I would imagine after a slew of failed dates you’d give it a rest
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 09:29 PM
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Its not about the food smartass. Its about whether a man is generous. Thats what women are filtering out with the paying for dates thing. If you are too cheap to pay for dinner why would a woman believe you’d pay for expenses without complaining as a husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 09:28 PM
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Where are these stats coming from!! Omg. Before I got with my current boyfriend, I went on one, maybe two dates a year, and these were coffee dates so nothing expensive. I don’t even remember if the guy paid. Are you comparing what escorts do to the average woman? Because majority of the women I’ve worked with (who are in their 20s to 30s) struggle to even get a guy to commit to date plans. And they usually choose something super casual and inexpensive for the first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 08:34 PM
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Absolutely! Just don’t complain if that turns some women off and they exclude you from their dating pool 🤷‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 08:32 PM
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No it’s not what most modern women do. Yall seek out whores and complain when they act like whores. LOL
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 08:09 PM
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What you don’t seem to understand is that they could’ve gotten that food with or without you. Regardless of what they’re “bragging” about. So it doesn’t really make sense for you to act like they would’ve starved if you hadn’t paid for their meal lmfao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 08:05 PM
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Are you all secretly cucks? Why do yall seem to fantasize about women having rosters so much? It is so hard to find even one man to talk to consistently, forget commit to. How do you all think you are likable enough that women are talking to MULTIPLE men 🤦‍♀️
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 08:04 PM
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When I was in the dating scene I would just block the dudes who said shit like that. The average man isn’t rich enough to be used for their resources lol. If a man said that to me and he didn’t own a car or a house, I’d be so confused. Like what am I going to use you for buddy.. a plate of spaghetti?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/02/26 03:31 PM
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There are more women in college and higher earning professions now than ever before. It should not shock you that they’re searching for men closer to their economic bracket. This is common practice across so many cultures. You do not marry poorer, you marry up or in your same range. Regardless of political stance
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/26 07:11 PM
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Men get a personality outside of debating with women challenge
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/26 12:02 AM
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I swear almost every post about women on here is just projection
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/25 08:04 PM
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They just want to blame women for everything
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 05:24 PM
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Literally. They are so mediocre they don’t even stand out among their peers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/25 07:27 PM
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Holy yap
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/25 02:44 PM
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And your personal view has no relevance to what’s actually going on lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 07:08 PM
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No women I know are complaining about being single irl either
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 06:55 PM
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And why does it matter to you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 06:54 PM
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Well bodybuilding is more for the male gaze. Women are not into that crap
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 03:16 PM
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And they are allowed to complain. Why does that bother you?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 03:15 PM
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The thing is, women are not the ones complaining about being single on this subreddit 24/7. Men are…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/25 02:57 PM
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Men already do that. Are we supposed to care?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:42 PM
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You are not entitled to a woman’s affection. Cope
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 03:52 AM
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Someone’s bitter lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/25 12:11 AM
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There is a balance. You can be masculine without being misogynistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/25 09:53 PM
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You don’t feel silly typing that out? Lol. I don’t know why it’s so hard to believe that looks really don’t matter to some women. You see pretty girls with questionable looking guys literally everywhere. I tell my friends all the time that they’re dating dudes that are not at their level in terms of looks, aka they should be dating better looking dudes. It’s not that hard.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 01:35 PM
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“It hasn’t happened to me therefore it must not happen to anyone” ahh post
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 01:22 AM
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I think the other implication is that even if you had dated that person, the relationship wouldn’t have lasted long so in hindsight, it’s better that you weren’t too involved
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 12:38 AM
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Men back then were more masculine I think
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 07:21 PM
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Yup. When women give men advice they completely twist our words and misinterpret EVERYTHING. We are living in strange times where men take men’s advice on what women want and then tell women to shut up when we give advice on what we want……. Like ok. I’m starting to think they hate women and lowkey resent us because they are still attracted to us lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 05:08 PM
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Sorry 😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 01:09 PM
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They can please other women and people they have relationships with, like friends and family. Not random men they owe nothing to. Get over it loser
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 03:14 AM
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The post is about him worrying about how he’s perceived, as a 31 year old man approaching younger women in clubs or other public venues. He wouldn’t have this concern if he was hitting on women his own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 08:46 PM
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Basically
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 07:26 PM
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You can also choose not to approach young women but I guess that wasn’t an option to you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 06:33 PM
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It does though. Your whole stance is women failing at relationships with men. Failure according to who? What you consider to be “woman’s greatest downfall” most women are not thinking of as an issue at all. They are just living their lives and not concerned at all about men.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:28 AM
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Women don’t exist to please men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 02:25 AM
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Honestly I agree with you. I have seen so many of these “feminists” on Instagram and they are basically just preaching how you should use men for their money or they just view relationships super transactionally and I don’t understand how that is supposed to benefit women or men. It puts women in a position where they’re dependent on men and reduces them to an object of men’s desire. It’s just very unproductive.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 03:23 AM
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Absolutely! That’s why I periodically try to unplug and touch grass haha
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 02:02 AM
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You are def onto something, all the unhinged men gather here so our view becomes skewed, we think damn every man is like this.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 12:59 AM
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I agree that people throw words like grooming and pedo around so much that they’ve lost their meaning. I have certain boundaries for myself when it comes to age. At most if people in my life do some crazy shit I might comment on it. If it was super problematic I’d prob end the relationship. But what can I do about strangers online? At most I can give my opinion but they have the freedom to do what they want, whether I like it or not
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 12:20 AM
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If you’re gonna rage bait at least say something worthwhile… your heart’s not in it 🥱
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 02:44 PM
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Not all women, but some women want that, sure
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 07:52 PM
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I’m guessing that comes from women who want more of a traditional relationship in regards to gender roles and feel turned off by men who don’t put effort into pursuing women and instead want to be chased.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 07:14 PM
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Not once did I say I hate men. Stop putting words in peoples mouths and learn to read
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 07:13 PM
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No one said anything about women being superior. Women not wanting to engage with men has nothing to do with superiority . Why do you keep saying that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 05:03 PM
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That’s what you think it means
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 05:02 PM
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I think a lot of women are just fed up with men online and have taken an extremist stance after decentering men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 05:02 PM
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Women have a lot to worry about when it comes to sex in general. Aside from STDs there’s always the concern of pregnancy. Studies have also shown that people who engage in a lot of casual sex are less likely to form deep bonds with people (aka not as capable of serious relationships). Whether you’re a man or a woman, having a hooking up phase seems to make you a less desirable partner later in life
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 09:43 PM
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I don’t think you know what either of those words mean lol. I have seen plenty of women say they value looks, they just don’t say it outright because they don’t want to hurt men’s feelings. So I don’t really agree with your stance because I don’t have the same experience…. Most of the women I know are pretty up front that they won’t date a man they find ugly . Isn’t that common sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 05:06 PM
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Why does that bother you so much? This is such a nonissue omg. Yall have run out of things to complain about it seems
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 04:52 PM
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You are biased based on the small number of women you’ve interacted with
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 04:45 PM
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Have you considered that to some women, personality is more important, while to other women, both are equally important? Idk why this sub is always filled with miserable people trying to generalize to the extreme lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 04:40 PM
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Men when they realize women care about appearance and personality:
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/25 04:16 PM
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There is no ideal male partner that women fantasize about anymore. So there’s no blueprint for men to follow
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/25 02:46 PM
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God the men you put on this earth to be providers and leaders are complaining because women aren’t chasing them
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 07:04 PM
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Why are we comparing rich women to regular women with regular jobs who do not have the luxuries of Nannies, babysitters, personal chefs, beauty treatments to stay young and hot, etc….
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 10:24 PM
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If you have this mentality you spend too much time online. Go out into the real world and interact with real men and women. There are plenty of people putting in effort into maintaining their romantic relationships and trying their best. There are still a lot of romantics out there that believe in love. Honestly anyone who is this hostile towards the opposite gender is better off being single. You’re clearly are not in a position to put your best foot forward and actually make a relationship wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/25 10:22 PM
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Duh?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 05:09 AM
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I don’t !
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 09:26 PM
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Survival of the fittest man. Not everyone is meant to reproduce.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 09:14 PM
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The same can be said of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 09:51 PM
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This is a weird hill to die on
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/25 08:02 PM
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No one said older men can’t have kids. But after age 35 sperm quality does start to decrease, which means there’s higher likelihood of chromosomal abnormalities, pregnancy risks, and autism, bipolar disorder, and schizophrenia, among other mental health disorders. Male sperm replicates about every 16 days, so by age 50 for example the sperm may have replicated about 800 times. The more times sperm replicates the more opportunities there are for genetic mutations to occur. Of course there are exc…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/24 04:25 PM
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Ooh this is a tough one. I think it matters at what age this happens. I do believe time can heal everything so if that happened while I was relatively young, I think I would be able to heal and grieve, and maybe try dating again in the future? But who knows, I might also lose the desire to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/24 03:03 PM
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Hard agree a lot of them are cucks and deeply insecure. It’s what makes them so off putting
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:55 AM
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No. It’s not like they tainted me or something
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:35 AM
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I think it would change how I feel about them since I value honesty. I’d also find it disrespectful and deceitful. Regardless of whatever positive feelings I have toward that person, I’d break up with them if I found out they lied about their sexual history. I would never hold a man to a standard that I don’t apply to myself, so when I say I don’t like slutty men, it also means I don’t associate with slutty women, and I have never participated in hookup culture/casual sex. Hence why I desire to …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 05:09 AM
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Women DO care. We just don’t publicly shame men for having sex the way men do to women (we only talk shit about them behind their backs). I refer to guys as ran through all the time lol. The more casual sex a person has the less I trust their ability to form a healthy relationship and bond with me, simple as that. Plus when a guy is slutty I usually assume the folllwing: 1) he’s emotionally unstable, 2) he has poor self-control, 3) he lacks sexual discipline.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/24 04:52 AM
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The lights are on but nobody’s home I see 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 10:37 PM
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Probably should’ve replied with a different account lol that username tells me everything I need to know
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 10:10 PM
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That’s exactly how they think. It’s hard to argue with men lol they lack self awareness
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 12:50 PM
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Just say you don’t have what it takes to compete with women in workplace and wish you could have a sex slave/maid/personal chef, it makes things so much easier
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 05:13 AM
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You’re forgetting that America IS a patriarchal society. Misogyny is literally everywhere. So if American men are underachieving, then that’s a skill issue on their part - how did you find a way to blame women for that? Not to mention, with the way our cost of living is going up but salaries aren’t, how many men here can even afford to be sole providers? The average American is dependent on a second income (aka their spouse’s) to do things like buy a house and be able to raise kids. You can blam…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 05:12 AM
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Ahh… is that why men feel the need to humble women? In hopes that they lower their standards? Because they want to give women a “reality check”?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 03:18 AM
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You’re conflating different groups of women who have completely different opinions. And then you’re turning around and labeling all women as hypocrites when really you’re just making a bunch of assumptions on your own… Do you talk to women in real life?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 03:15 AM
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Are they not allowed to want a relationship that benefits them? I’m confused.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 01:07 AM
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I always get confused when I read stuff like this because American women’s standards are honestly nothing compared to African or Asian countries, where the society can be very patriarchal and a man is basically considered useless if he isn’t successful and able to provide. Like the standards are so much lower in America for men
/r/PurplePillDebate30/09/24 12:36 AM
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I agree and disagree with your post. Yes, there are bigger issues out there, but if we’re talking about problems that are more immediate to an individual, relationships and finances are probably more important than all of the others. That being said, I do agree with your other comments. It’s easier for men to blame women than to do some inner work on why they can’t find a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 04:36 PM
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No wonder women don’t approach you ☹️
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 03:43 PM
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Sweetie 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 03:13 PM
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Random women aren’t responsible for a random man’s mental health
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:32 AM
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We would do that if there were men worth approaching. Women make the first move all the time. You just haven’t experienced it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:29 AM
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They love to leave out the exploitation part. A lot of these men are more concerned with feeling personally offended rather than the actual danger young girls in poorer countries face. I think that’s why they’re so quick to go “wait, but women do it too!” whenever they have a chance.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/24 05:53 AM
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Comparing a man who is awaiting trial for human trafficking to women who say things you don’t like is definitely a choice.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 07:49 PM
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Touch some grass my guy
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 03:08 AM
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What world are you living in? Adult women are always judged for being emotional, even more so if they cry or scream or express their negative emotions in an obvious way. The literal stereotype about women is that they’re too emotional lmao. A lot of women tend to hide their negative emotions for this reason. I haven’t cried in front of anyone since I was a teenager because I know the general reaction is going to be “suck it up.” Why do men think they’re the only ones who get invalidated when the…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 02:01 AM
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Why waste your time worrying about what attractive people are doing?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 11:25 PM
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Yeah it’s also likely they’re just mocking the stuff men say lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/24 11:07 PM
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Bingo. That’s why they love going to poorer countries. These passport bros are not looking for women in Dubai - they can’t afford them
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 01:19 AM
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You know what, you’re right. Women prefer hot guys. Ugly dudes should just give up
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 01:13 AM
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The fact that you think something as shallow as looks is more of an influence than someone’s beliefs says a lot lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 10:25 PM
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Agreed!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 04:33 AM
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You’re complaining because women have basic human rights now and are more choosy with their partners. Did I get that right? You blame feminism and not misogyny, which is the real reason why women are increasingly refusing to have relationships with men. I know what you are 🫵
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 02:37 AM
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Y’all are such hypocrites lmfao you slut shame women constantly, call us expired and act like we should all drop dead after we’re 30, and then you turn around and complain because women aren’t as promiscuous as you want them to be?? When will you stop moving the goalpost to fit your narrative?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 03:01 AM
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Women have a life outside of relationships with men. Crazy concept I know. Call it weak-minded or whatever but not everyone’s life revolves around finding a partner. And once you have several shitty experiences with men (that you’ve met organically or found through dating apps), it just doesn’t seem worth it. I know a few women who were celibate for some months and then slept with a guy, and went right back to being celibate. Because pursuing a relationship (whether it was serious or casual) jus…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 02:48 AM
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It even being a job option is problematic and dangerous though. The risks far outweigh any perceived benefits. But I’ll entertain you for a sec. What’s the incentive for women to even take up this job?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 02:33 AM
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Physical affection isn’t exclusive to sex
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/24 12:23 AM
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Okay so you’re a misogynistic woman. My point still stands. Why do you want other women to be required to service men in such a dehumanizing way?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 01:01 PM
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No one needs sex. No one is going to drop dead from a lack of sex the way they would from no food or water. Please get a grip. You are using a lot of fancy language when what you actually want is a sex slave with no human rights. The UN defined paying for sex as a form of sexual abuse. All countries that have legalized “sex work” have also decriminalized pimping, running a brothel, etc. This ultimately means legalizing prostitution would also legalize a lot of sex crimes, and exploiting women th…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 06:05 AM
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