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Honestly, this type of job sounds so much fun. It makes me frustrated with my programming & product management gig.
/r/RedPillWomen17/09/20 05:40 PM
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A lot of young men who get into the Church read their way into it, or are under the impression that it's an easy way to get their submissive waifu, without realizing that they still have to earn respect from Christian women. They do eventually grow up. Most Catholic / Orthodox men I know in their twenties are weak, but most in their thirties onwards are pretty masculine.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/20 03:20 AM
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Yes.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/20 06:08 AM
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If you're out of high school and college, the only ways to really make friends are through work, hobbiest clubs or church. If you become a regular attendee at a parish, you'll always have a tight-knit group of supportive people in your life.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/20 06:07 AM
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No, I understand. Women don't value sex as much. It's not as important to us physically or psychologically (unless the women is damaged and is using sex for psychological validation); we can go more easily without it. And men certainly are motivated to succeed because women push them to; I've seen both boyfriends I've had in my life be motivated to 'achieve more' because they knew I wanted it. I don't disagree with any of things you said about male-female relationships, and certainly secular / a…
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/20 06:37 PM
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I don't expect a monk. Nor do I want one, because monks are celibate. My boyfriend isn't a monk, and I'm well aware of what men with a marital vocation feel they get out of the arrangement and what they expect in return. I said your claims were blatantly untrue, because you said sex is a basic biological need, which it isn't. You also said that guys must have 'a release' every few days. You compared it to a non-conscious cycle like a period. This also isn't true. My claim was pretty innocuous.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/20 06:24 PM
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This is blatantly untrue. There are monks who have gone years without sex. Men can make the conscious choice to not touch their dicks or stick it in other girls; women cannot consciously stop their period.
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/20 05:20 PM
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Start going to Church.
/r/RedPillWomen11/06/20 03:22 AM
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Go to Church to make good female friends.
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/20 02:54 PM
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I don't particularly care whether something is subjective. You've already used 'subjective' to seemingly mean 'not real', positing science as 'not subjective' despite the fact that modern empirical science is empirical. The reality, as far as I can tell, is that apart from a priori truths like God, logic & math, most everything that we come to have knowledge on requires a meeting of the objective and subjective. And whether or not my social sphere agrees with your social sphere on what exactly s…
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/20 01:05 AM
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Okay cool. So I said just because virginity is a social construct doesn't mean it isn't real. For instance, I can just define virgin as someone who hasn't had sex before. That makes it a real concept that is applicable to our lives. It has reality, just like money.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/20 12:59 AM
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So your top comment said that virginity is a social construct with no basis in biology whatsoever. In this comment you say 'money isn't rooted in biological fact', seemingly contrasting it with virginity. I feel that either I'm misunderstanding you or you aren't being incredibly cogent in your claims. Perhaps you could lay it out simply and clearly so I can better respond.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/20 12:39 AM
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Just because something is a social construct does not mean that it doesn't exist. Money is a social construct but it certainly exists.
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/20 12:32 AM
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The first formulation of the Categorical Imperative is only applicable when stating which actions cannot be willed as universal. Noticeably, despite the common misunderstanding most undergraduates get that it is about testing general applicability via some sort of reductio ad absurdem test, it's actually about whether it is inconsistent as regards to the will. For instance, theft is analytically understood as taking what rightfully belongs to another. When you take it, you are saying, in effect,…
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/20 07:18 PM
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Yeah. Sure is nonsense.
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/19 02:24 AM
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Maybe. But then again, women don't really need to go to college, so...
/r/RedPillWomen20/12/19 12:47 AM
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No. I think that if my children are raised in traditionalist Catholic communities, they'll easily be able to find other children raised in the same environment.
/r/RedPillWomen19/12/19 11:41 PM
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My ex-boyfriend grew up in a bad environment but learned what not to be from it. I'd say he's an exception. Every other person that I seriously dated in the past grew up in bad environments and only learned to be like their parents. Something that I've come to value is coming from the same socio-economic background as my partner & my partner having married parents.
/r/RedPillWomen16/12/19 12:54 AM
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Are you a man or woman saying this?
/r/RPChristians07/12/19 11:03 PM
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Why are people downvoting you? You're right.
/r/RedPillWomen11/11/19 05:13 AM
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The letters written by the Apostle Paul in the New Testament. 22 Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything. 25 Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her 26 to make her holy, cleansing her by the washing with wat…
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/19 05:02 PM
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The type of relationship that the women in this subreddit shoot for is described in the sidebar. It's best equivalent can probably be seen in the Pauline letters. The goal here in not BDSM. The goal is to not have a hostile relationship in which both partners try to gain power over the other; it's recognizing the strengths of men and women, respectively, and trying to base relationships around each taking the helm in the area best suited towards them. It's also about recognizing what makes us at…
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/19 04:44 PM
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Are you a man?
/r/RedPillWomen19/10/19 01:27 PM
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Credits are eleven dollars. Buy it on your own Audible account.
/r/RedPillWomen11/10/19 07:52 PM
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For real. If men your own age aren't looking for this, try older men.
/r/RedPillWomen08/10/19 05:32 PM
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While true, there is also less genuine vitriol here than over there. While there are good posts over there from men who are focused on self-improvement, there is a lot of hateful stuff from guys stuck in their angry phase.
/r/RedPillWomen02/10/19 08:54 PM
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I highly, highly, highly recommend watching this video. If you feel it's relevant, you may want to pass it onto him.
/r/RedPillWomen01/10/19 04:39 AM
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I dunno, the absolute epidemic of radtrad Internet converts who never actually go to Church isn't something that ought to be supported.
/r/RPChristians30/09/19 01:56 PM
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Real Christians who don't go to Church?
/r/RPChristians30/09/19 04:11 AM
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You're collapsing two realities on top of each other and confusing terms. In one sense, yes, nature is the set of all things which are subject to the laws of nature, of which humanity has partially superseded. On the other hand, it means the essential properties and causes of individual things. Nature is the property or set of properties that make an entity of substance what it fundamentally is. When people talk about doing what is "natural" for women, they're likely talking about the latter. Te…
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/19 10:58 AM
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I think it depends on the man. Christian men likely prefer virgins. In nationwide surveys, the preferred number of previous partners that men prefer women to have is usually two.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/19 11:52 AM
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Oh, I don't believe in equality. People aren't equal. That's descriptively a fact. So I'm wondering what OP means by equality.
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/19 02:00 AM
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What does equality mean to you?
/r/RedPillWomen27/08/19 12:48 AM
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Try going to a religious community.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/19 11:15 PM
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Yeah, I hope this thread doesn't move towards r/AskWomen quality content under the guise of forgoing all judgement.
/r/RedPillWomen24/07/19 04:49 AM
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Yeah. I'd say politics is an outgrowth of ethics. You ought to look up the word 'axiology'. May be interesting.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/19 11:02 AM
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What's the distinction you're making between values & philosophy here?
/r/RedPillWomen15/07/19 07:20 PM
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If you're having sex, go ahead and be upfront about what you want. You've already given him sex; you may as well ask for commitment. Otherwise, I'd stick to this thread.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/19 03:28 AM
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Wow, I'm a single college student (so no kids anytime soon), but I just did a few Google searches and I didn't realize how expensive disposable diapers were.
/r/RedPillWomen10/07/19 03:58 AM
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Don't lie. Insincerity comes through. But like others have advised in this thread, keep suggestions to yourself on unimportant matters & focus on building him in ways that you believe. You saw him as strong & as good husband-material for a reason.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/19 09:43 PM
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People pick up on this stuff. He can absolutely sense it.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/19 09:36 PM
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I don't know about the rest, but I'm fairly certain that women have wet dreams if they don't have conscious sexual relief too.
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/19 08:54 PM
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I'm a 21-year-old who has been converting to Catholicism. I haven't masturbated in four months and haven't had sex for about three. Really hard to adjust to my new normal but it's getting easier every day, and whenever I end up moving forward with a Christian man in the future I hope to find all the advantages that you've talked about here.
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/19 04:13 PM
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Even worse: I'm a university student and once I was with my ex-boyfriend and some friends. I said that children statistically do better when one parent stays home, and some friends got mad at me for saying it.
/r/RedPillWomen29/04/19 04:59 PM
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I think that being vegetarian has allowed me to gain control over my eating habits & to ensure that I remain skinny.
/r/RedPillWomen11/03/19 05:44 AM
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My bad. Really wasn't trying to do so. It just seemed important to her concerns. I'll keep that in mind in the future.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/19 01:02 AM
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I don't think that you have to be alone for your entire life, and certainly as a Christian you know that you're never alone. My point here was not to denigrate you or try to hurt your feelings--to the contrary, it's a good sign that you're thinking seriously about you want and seeking out advice on how to best make it happen. I'd just encourage you to reconsider children. If you want the type of husband you're describing, he will likely want them. And if you want to get married it is the Christi…
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/19 10:37 PM
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You said that you were Christian. I'm not sure how seriously you take that, but here are some answers. The anecdotal answer is that if you aren't ready for a child, you aren't really ready for a spouse. The same kind of self-sacrificial love that is required for children is meant to directed towards each other. This isn't meant as a judgement, but more as a minimal criteria to judge your own readiness for marriage. The natural law answer is that marriage seems to be for the purpose of the better…
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/19 09:35 PM
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How would you suggest learning some of those things?
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/19 03:55 PM
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If you're a Christian but don't want children I'd encourage you to not get married. That's kind of what marriage is for. I'd pray on it, but in the meantime, why do you feel that you are called to marriage but not children? In addition, I'm not sure why you being a stay-at-home wife would be of much value if you weren't raising his children. What value would that bring to the relationship?
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/19 03:52 PM
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I met my boyfriend in high school. We've been dating for two and half years--nearly the entire time we've been in college. He's improved quite a bit, growing into being able to handle emotional turmoil and moving past being a polydrug addict. He's become more confident and sociable. And he will be joining the military this summer. I imagine he'll become more masculine there, because the answer that I've found for OP (as someone who is admittedly still very young) is that staying with someone as …
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/19 10:20 PM
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