| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | How does one prevent oneitis without constructing a harem?You can have an emotional connection with a girl even if it's only for a night. If it turns into something more cool. The harem is in your mind. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/16 04:08 AM |
| 1 | Tinder experiencesYep. Get better pics. Something with you around friends having a good time, if you have any with girls, especially girls that are all over you physically in the picture. Also get in the gym and get a good physique pic on there. I got literally 10x more matches with a pic my friend took of me at the gym where I'm flexing shirtless. | /r/askTRP | 02/01/16 04:05 AM |
| 3 | [FR] 2015 in Review.I would have done the same haha or started apologizing like a dweeb. This girl texted me and said nothing will happen and I simply replied "Lol." I basically did the same when she said it again in bed. Just laughed said of course not while rolling my eyes and smiling. | /r/TheRedPill | 02/01/16 03:20 AM |
| 29 | The_Titleists’ Get Big GuidePics? I'm sure you're big but people have different physique goals and it'd be great to see what your physique is like based on your training. Block out your face and post? Or PM | /r/TheRedPill | 29/12/15 09:56 PM |
| 2 | Open LTR cried for an hour last night and I really felt like shit.Thank you. I really needed to hear it put this way. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/15 09:00 AM |
| 1 | Open LTR cried for an hour last night and I really felt like shit.I guess not. Still hurts to lose that connection though. I should try and look at it in a positive light if they're gonna just drop me like that. They truly think I'm a bad person for having an open relationship and plates on the side. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/15 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Open LTR cried for an hour last night and I really felt like shit.I've said this and usually it works for a while but then it just comes up again. It's partly my fault, I should just keep my phone off or something so she doesn't accidentally see a Tinder notification or something. I still feel bad that she's head over heels for me and I'm just not an exclusive relationship person anymore. Not right now at least. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/15 12:54 AM |
| 1 | Open LTR cried for an hour last night and I really felt like shit.Seriously man. Thankfully I still have a decent group of friends that stuck by me but the ones I lost were like best friends see them everyday kinda people. It just threw me and made me rethink if what I'm doing is "right" or not. I know TRP is amoral but it's still making me feel like shit. | /r/askTRP | 27/12/15 12:52 AM |
| 8 | Open LTR cried for an hour last night and I really felt like shit.Tell me about it. It just sucks having lost these friends when I thought I was improving myself. One of the friends I lost fucked a girl that was getting married the next week. Yet he has the audacity to give me shit over an open relationship that she agreed to.. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/15 08:27 PM |
| 5 | Open LTR cried for an hour last night and I really felt like shit.Yeah I guess I'm coming across as a selfish fuck. I've told her several times that if this isn't for her then she can walk away but she'll never do that. | /r/askTRP | 26/12/15 08:26 PM |
| 1 | After first date, potential plate invites me to birthday eventsI think this was my mistake. Think I can salvage this? | /r/askTRP | 15/12/15 04:18 PM |
| 2 | After first date, potential plate invites me to birthday eventsCould be. I didn't choose to escalate because I didn't want a same night lay though. Maybe that mentality is still a part of BP but my line of thinking was if we bang on the first date it'll feel more like a ONS or something to me and I'll lose respect for her and just see her as that. Maybe that's my mistake. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/15 04:16 PM |
| 1 | After first date, potential plate invites me to birthday eventsSure. Idk it seemed like a carefully selected list. It was only 20 people who were invited but you could be right. | /r/askTRP | 15/12/15 04:09 PM |
| 1 | AMA fitnessWell obviously lol that's why I'm here asking questions. He's also lifted 9 more years than me. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/10/15 03:51 PM |
| 1 | AMA fitnessDude, yes. I want to have pretty much your exact physique. I'm 5'9 172 lbs. Been lifting for a year and 3 months. I weighed 145 lbs. before I started lifting. 1REP max: bench = 235 lbs. OHP = 140 lbs. DL = 325. Squat = 375 I'm going for aesthetics more than strength. I started out doing some linear progression workout from BB called wolverine and just kept gaining in size and numbers. Then I tried 5/3/1 Big But Boring and now I'm doing PHAT. I don't eat enough and I think that's really why I'm n… | /r/TheRedPill | 09/10/15 02:36 PM |
| 11 | “The Red Piller’s Guide to Online Dating”I've followed your previous post's advice with great results so this is not a critique but more of clarifying questions. "you free any time this week" - to me that implies going into her frame. I've seen other people recommend starting with "I'm free ___." If your strategy is working for you, why do you think that is? To me it seems like you're placating to the times she is available. Same goes for "whenever" when being ask to meet up. To me this seems like it goes against the whole men are in c… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/15 09:59 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Persistence and frame during an uncommon situation lead to Tinder close.I'm a 7-8. Decent face. I'm not huge in terms of muscle but I'm pretty cut. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/15 01:09 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Persistence and frame during an uncommon situation lead to Tinder close.Yeah I uploaded them via mobile and lost patience trying to do that haha you guys can figure it out I'm sure but if there's any confusion PM me. | /r/TheRedPill | 01/09/15 12:52 AM |
| 2 | Feedback on text gameYep. Right away the little spoon thing caught my eye. It's funny but to women who don't have the best sense of humor they might not get it and see it as literal. Plus it makes them imagine you as a little spoon which is not an attractive visual for them. I disagree slightly with the suggested neg. Calling a very attractive girl cute can actually work as a neg. It depends on what this girl looks like. I personally didn't like the opener at all. It seemed to gimmicky. OP, I recommend using more bo… | /r/askTRP | 01/09/15 12:37 AM |
| 0 | [FR] Banged my first 10 off Tinder. Yes really.The lessons to me were that persistence works and maintaining frame in the face of unusual circumstances provides fruitful results in addition to the smaller lesson which is sometimes those fake looking profiles are real girls. If you didn't take anything away from this post it's cool man. Just thought id share a fr. | /r/TheRedPill | 30/08/15 04:22 PM |
| 1 | I still have a ton to learnI am literally going through the same situation right now with a potential new plate. This is an area where I'd like to improve as well. She had the day off. I said I'd pick her up. She texted a couple hours later saying can we make it later I'm stuck at m grandma's. And now it's been 2 hours and I'm not trying to wait around all night for her to decide when she wants to hang out. So I texted her "Let me know by 7 otherwise I'm just gonna make other plans." Not sure whether that will come across… | /r/askTRP | 08/07/15 12:33 AM |
| 1 | Can't tell if girl is trying to friendzone meShe's interested but waiting for you to make a man move. If it's true that you're not paying for her shit then she has an interest more than friendship with you but you need to do two things. Stop with the out of your league shit. You're the prize. I don't care if she's Kim Kardashian and you're Jared Fogel, you gotta believe that you're better and you're the prize. Polarize. Make a fucking move and put your cards on the table. Better to be rejected then stuck in the deadly friendzone forever wo… | /r/askTRP | 08/07/15 12:30 AM |
| 4 | How to deal with LTR fishing for compliments and saying I'm lucky to have her?"Whatever helps you sleep at night." with a shit-eating grin. | /r/askTRP | 08/07/15 12:26 AM |
| 2 | [FR] 4th of July Fireworks (terrible pun intended)That's a very good question. I'd probably text after the 4th of July weekend and ask how hers was. If I kept receiving shit responses I'd just go radio silent. | /r/TheRedPill | 08/07/15 12:24 AM |
| 9 | [FR] 4th of July Fireworks (terrible pun intended)haha I'm glad someone noticed. Now let's both go grind until our dicks fall off. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/15 10:25 PM |
| 1 | [FR] 4th of July Fireworks (terrible pun intended)Thanks for the feedback! I guess it could just be the confidence leaking through. With Tinder it's an interesting dynamic because I can envision an alpha saying those words with zero supplication, but I can also imagine a beta saying it and putting her on a pedestal. I'm sure my profile just clued her in through context that I meant it more as the former than the latter. | /r/TheRedPill | 07/07/15 10:23 PM |
| 1 | [FR] My year since taking the Pill.I don't know what to tell ya, I've got pics I can share if it'll help man lol | /r/TheRedPill | 26/06/15 08:30 PM |
| 7 | [FR] My year since taking the Pill.Thanks for the feedback! Yeah some of these we're from Tinder but the majority were just from the bar. The quality was never addressed but even if I told you they were x/10 you wouldn't believe me lol. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/15 10:38 PM |
| 2 | [FR] My year since taking the Pill.There's no way I'm top 10% lol. I have 180 matches on tinder. Maybe 25% have resulted in numbers. 5% resulted I'm dates. I've closed with like 5 only. EDIT: I'm 5'9. Willing to pm pics. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/15 05:22 PM |
| 2 | [FR] My year since taking the Pill.My apologies. I believe I fixed it. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/15 03:58 PM |
| 2 | [FR] My year since taking the Pill.Can you expand your feedback? | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/15 03:29 PM |
| 1 | [FR] My year since taking the Pill.These weren't one time lays. I still fuck most of these girls regularly so I am keeping the majority as plates. But you're absolutely right, I have room to improve from 10 in a year and I mentioned that in my post. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/15 03:28 PM |
| 4 | [FR] My year since taking the Pill.You're spot on. I was slightly above average. But the blue pill tendencies were exceptionally high. I can go into more detail about my previous blue pill personality if people are interested. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/15 02:33 PM |
| 9 | [FR] My year since taking the Pill.I completely respect your feedback. I personally saw it as "I'm the guy she's thinking about at 2 am." It could easily be the way you described as well. To be fair I hooked up with that bowling girl several times and she was only drunk once so I didn't mind honestly. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/15 02:29 PM |
| 1 | [FR] My year since taking the Pill.Hard work and not dirty bulking. Can't stress diet enough, I also played a decent amount of basketball. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/15 02:26 PM |
| 2 | [FR] My year since taking the Pill.Definitely not! It's the whole picture. Lifting, reading tees books on social interactions and the overall realizations of these truths like AWALT etc. Again my goal was self-improvement in general (almost to a fault) but here I wanted to focus solely on the effects with women that the pill had on me personally. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/15 12:14 PM |
| 42 | [FR] My year since taking the Pill.When you match a girl on Tinder/OKC etc. So does this mean we're boyfriend and girlfriend now? I'm very sarcastic so this line fits really well with my personality. It's pretty much Amplify the idea of dating apps and make the interaction seem less serious and sets you up with a casual tone. It also gets them to imagine you two dating if they decide to go along with the roleplay. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/15 06:21 AM |
| 5 | [FR] My year since taking the Pill.Thank you! I wish you all the best as well and hopefully this post can add to your strides man. Keep at it. I had a oneitis too. Honestly, I still think about her from time to time but the one thing I kept in mind about it is that things happen for a reason and the best revenge is a life well-lived. The revenge thing doesn't influence my motivation now because even that shows that you're doing it for them not for yourself, but the mindset did help in the short-term so give it a shot! | /r/TheRedPill | 25/06/15 06:18 AM |
| 1 | Women and EducationI just graduated with my degree in history and sociology with my teaching certificate. I don't know what to make of this post. I agree that there are severe flaws in the education system and I'm sure women have their role in its current poor state but as a RP man going into the education system: what the fuck do I do? Should I go at it with all my might and fucking own it like a RP man should and make teaching history my bitch? Or should I give up and pursue something else? Not sure what else I … | /r/TheRedPill | 08/01/15 09:24 PM |
| 2 | Being a Teacher and TRP?Also do you have any recommendations for podcasts/audiobooks? Never really got into any but I want to start. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/14 01:55 AM |
| 1 | Being a Teacher and TRP?Yeah I know I would be happy and broke. But I do enjoy teaching and so with that at least I'd be almost as happy and not that broke haha. Idk. It's tough. | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/14 01:54 AM |
| 1 | Being a Teacher and TRP?Definitely don't plan on mentioning it but your example is kinda what I was looking into. Just classroom demeanor and stuff like that, interacting with colleagues etc. Idk. I just feel like when people (not just girls) ask me what I do and I say (after being cocky/funny and deflecting the question for a bit) that I'm a teacher, my SMV takes a hit. Some people truly revere teachers but I don't think women necessarily would find that attractive? | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/14 01:52 AM |
| 1 | Being a Teacher and TRP?Yeah I can already see how stressful it's going to be. My goal is to flip the classroom as much as possible and make it easier on myself. But yeah, I love TRP but my only wish is that I'd found it sooner. I mean, I do have a passion for education but I feel like it's not empowering? I mean maybe that will change when I start really taking over the classroom and seeing kids understand things. Idk. I just feel like there's more out there for me but I also feel like I fucked up a bit because I'm so… | /r/TheRedPill | 15/09/14 01:50 AM |
| 2 | Being a Teacher and TRP?Yeah I know how flooded it is :/ another thing that's depressing me a bit. I'll have to look into that then. I was also thinking about what other careers might utilize my history degree, I also have a minor in sociology. There doesn't seem to be much. But really my specialty is analysis clearly so some people have suggested data mining and stuff. A friend of mine's dad had a history degree and ended up working for A.C. Nielsen as an analyst or something. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/14 10:25 PM |
| 2 | Being a Teacher and TRP?don't know what BC is haha | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/14 10:22 PM |
| 2 | Being a Teacher and TRP?So how would I go about doing that? Teach social studies (hopefully, depending on available jobs) for like a year and then start my masters program going for math? I would assume if I get hired to teach history they'd like me to stay there and not try to move into the math dept? not trying to be a dick just legitimately curious haha | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/14 10:21 PM |
| 4 | Being a Teacher and TRP?My ultimate goal is to be able to have a recording studio on the side. Music is my other passion and I just don't have the balls to pursue that completely because 1. I have paid for this degree and 2. the music industry is the fucking music industry. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/14 10:20 PM |
| 4 | Does anyone else sometimes feel bad about seduction in general?That's a great idea. I guess I never really made it clear that I wasn't looking for a relationship when these things started and I definitely should have. Thanks man. | /r/seduction | 27/07/14 02:19 AM |
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