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5	Abortion Mega-Thread careful now sis the logics gonna trigger an existential crisis in their fragile minds 🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/05/22 06:50 PM
2	How big of a deal is it, dating someone who has different political beliefs than you do? Are relationships better when both people are on the same page, politically? Or do political differences make for more interesting interactions? Just curious what people think. No. It’s a description, and I’m not a leftist so save the crap.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/22 02:14 PM
2	How big of a deal is it, dating someone who has different political beliefs than you do? Are relationships better when both people are on the same page, politically? Or do political differences make for more interesting interactions? Just curious what people think. So you’re wanting them to settle for a bum man and take care of him just because they don’t want kids and want someone who isn’t a sexist bigot 😂 where’s the correlation?	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/04/22 01:33 AM
2	Most men would not date FDS women seriously if they were honest about sleeping with “F Boys” while telling the men they date that they want to wait until commitment While those are the extreme fears a woman faces, casual sex doesn’t provide much for a woman in terms of pleasure in itself. We aren’t sure if the man can even make us orgasm or going to take long enough and patience to do it and not just jack hammer for 5 mins. And given the majority of women’s experiences and the lack of intimate/personal experience and knowledge with the man the act of sex is a risk. A risk of not deriving pleasure, being hurt during acts, having a partner who cares about not…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/03/22 09:17 AM
2	Red Pill ideology isn't meant to be attractive to women A lot of women and men suffer from emotional and psychological abuse growing up esp in abusive environments that tends to manifest in adverse ways and in cases personality disorders. Most do the work to get better but some don’t. Ideologies such as RP is like light to a moth with such people. Apologies for being crude, but damaged people attract damaged people. If you are attracting such women I’d advice to take a step back and reevaluate yourself and your own values and what continues to appeal…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/22 02:12 PM
6	Red Pill ideology isn't meant to be attractive to women Now the very first paragraph you wrote, that’s just self help. Browse a library instead. As for the rest…. You do realise that no person with a healthily functioning brain would put up with something like that right, man or woman. The sad part is TRP strategies attract only a certain kind of people and these are the kind of people with personality disorders and worse who also react the way they think “all/most” women do unfortunately just reaffirming their beliefs and dragging them deeper in. It…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/02/22 12:05 PM
3	Do most men actually want to be with a traditional woman? She’s a troll don’t bother engaging. Yes Also what is this about “trad” while she brags about paying her boyfriend to be with her ?🤨😂	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/02/22 07:11 PM
17	How would you feel about a child support cap? As a woman, one month in there is a 90% chance she isn’t going to be aware of the pregnancy. However I support the idea, give it 4 months instead. This sounds fair for all involved, including the child rather than growing up with parents who resent each other and themselves.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/01/22 01:08 PM
2	If a woman has money, then starting to have children when she's 30 and over is mostly fine. Do you have credible peer reviewed sources to back that up or are you talking out of your ass?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/21 10:56 AM
2	If a woman has money, then starting to have children when she's 30 and over is mostly fine. And that is YOUR choice as it should be. Doesn’t mean people who can afford to get expensive medical treatments / outsource reproduction or straight up choose to terminate pregnancies that could cause more harm than good shouldn’t do it. The good thing about living in a modern world is women don’t have to make as much sacrifices as we used to and none can demand that of us. Isn’t it a beautiful thing?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/12/21 10:45 AM
4	Women, would you or have you ever competed for a man? Damn you broke em sis 😂💯	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/12/21 03:57 AM
1	Prostitution must be legalized in order to achieve men's rights Which they very well can do in the comfort of their mothers basement with a stash of vintage porno or if they’re feeling a bit in the mood for splurging on some luxe, a blow up doll.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/21 05:15 PM
1	41% of women would go on a date with someone who voted for the opposing candidate, compared to 67% of men. Why do you think this is? How will this affect relationships when a majority of men are republicans and a majority of women are democrats? Oh no it’s not for us women but it certainly is nihilistic if and when our choices and bodily autonomy are stolen away from us.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/21 02:17 AM
2	41% of women would go on a date with someone who voted for the opposing candidate, compared to 67% of men. Why do you think this is? How will this affect relationships when a majority of men are republicans and a majority of women are democrats? Unwanted fetus, is just that. A ball of cells no different than a growth or cancer. It’s parasitic by biological definition leeching on the woman’s body, nutrients, etc. Now when it reaches a point where the fetus could survive even with a little help medically upon removal, then yes it gains a status more than just a clump of cells but that would only be at about 6-7 months. But then, which woman carries a fetus for 5-6 months then decides to have an abortion? Only ones with medical complicatio…	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/21 12:13 AM
1	Men in marriages where the woman makes more money are more likely to cheat on their wives. What is driving these pressures? So.. low self esteem, mental issues and fragile egos then. Lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/21 08:03 AM
1	Why do Redpill and Mgtow guys care about degeneracy in women/society if they don't want to get married or have long term relationships? Here ya go kiddo. The man has all the right in the world to make a decision to finish inside of her or to wrap it up or refuse to have sex without protection. That is as far as it gets without harming someone else’s autonomy. Besides if the man does convince the woman to keep the child, despite her not wanting to, and she dumps it onto him, SHE is still liable to pay support to HIM. So see? No hidden agenda there, man or woman, if you’re a parent unless legal structures are in place for causes s…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/21 07:20 AM
1	Why do Redpill and Mgtow guys care about degeneracy in women/society if they don't want to get married or have long term relationships? That’s exactly what I’d described. The man has all the right in the world to make a decision to finish inside of her or to wrap it up or refuse to have sex without protection. That is as far as it gets without harming someone else’s autonomy. Besides if the man does convince the woman to keep the child, despite her not wanting to, and she dumps it onto him, SHE is still liable to pay support to HIM. So see? No hidden agenda there, man or woman, if you’re a parent unless legal structures are in p…	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/21 04:09 AM
1	Why do Redpill and Mgtow guys care about degeneracy in women/society if they don't want to get married or have long term relationships? It isn’t a person. It is a “potential” person. The correct term would be a fetus. And at that point up until significant development the fetus has much more in common to a tumour than a living being. But ofc the science wouldn’t fit your narrative to demonise women would it?	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/21 04:03 AM
-1	Why do Redpill and Mgtow guys care about degeneracy in women/society if they don't want to get married or have long term relationships? It’s HER body, thus HER decision. Whether the man decides to keep it or yeet it it’s STILL HER body that facilitates it and is the object of that “choice”. The mans freedom of choice ends where he chooses to ejaculate in her because after that any decision he could make infringes on her own bodily autonomy. Also abortion is not something that is a light decision to make or use as birth control. The process in itself is painful, traumatic and exhausting for both a woman’s body and mind. The same …	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/21 06:30 PM
-2	Why do Redpill and Mgtow guys care about degeneracy in women/society if they don't want to get married or have long term relationships? Right, so you hate how equal right movements made it illegal to rape women, esp ones wife? Got it!	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/21 01:12 PM
1	Why do Redpill and Mgtow guys care about degeneracy in women/society if they don't want to get married or have long term relationships? So.. you’re lamenting the privilege lost of getting women pregnant and leaving them? Not able to be a deadbeat father is such a vibe killer huh? 😂 Oh, but not only that also you want the privilege to dictate what happens to a woman’s body once your act of intercourse is done? Jokes. So a woman can’t have abortions and also can’t rely on social and legal systems to keep the man responsible for his actions LOL	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/11/21 01:01 PM
2	"Just look at all the average couples in walmart" - What, the couples who are not attracted to eachother? So… a woman would stay with a man through inconvenience is what you’re saying? Doesn’t this also contradict the theory of hypergamy where woman always have better luck in the market in comparison to a man of her looksmatch. Also doesn’t this contradict how women divorce on a whim?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/21 02:41 PM
-1	If high n count men are hypocritical for wanting low n count women - does the same apply to wealth preferences in women? But for him to have a standard for her implies that he objectively views such in a negative light. Now usually for things such as looks / features / even race, I’d say that could be labelled as preference because it is instant and visual. Though I’d have qualms about ppl preferring certain races which could be rooted in either racism or fetishes which isn’t a good indicator for a persons personality anyways. But for one to claim you aren’t “attracted” to women w high n-count while not holding on…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/21 02:37 PM
0	If high n count men are hypocritical for wanting low n count women - does the same apply to wealth preferences in women? Just to second this, this has always been the definition of an incel for me. Never heard it being used as ‘virgin’, incels are dangerous to society as a whole. Virgins are not, and in different cultures and traditions virgins may even be praised and held in higher regards.	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/21 12:52 PM
2	If high n count men are hypocritical for wanting low n count women - does the same apply to wealth preferences in women? Having a big butt compared to hypocrisy from a man when it comes to sleeping around is apples and oranges. One can’t change the size of their butt (typically) without intense workout/surgery. Now a better comparison would be, a man who’s on roids and got his abs sculpted wants a woman with a “natural” gym figure instead of a “fake plastic barbie”. That’s hypocrisy because he is holding her to a standard that he doesn’t respect for himself. Now infer this to n-counts. A man has the choice to keep…	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/11/21 12:46 PM
13	"Just look at all the average couples in walmart" - What, the couples who are not attracted to eachother? But a woman being “stuck to a man” who she isn’t, as you put it, “attracted” to. And as you established she’s staying with him for “convenience and utility” there’s always someone w better means even if he is ugly as balls than current guy. If she is not cheating/monkey branching/whatever yall call it- prove the theory of hypergamy and the entire premise of TRP false? 😳	/r/PurplePillDebate	16/11/21 04:18 PM
1	Online dating and modern hookup culture is not just a zero-sum game, it's a negative-sum game And then i go on reddit and IRL and thousands of women claim that being a virgin doesnt matter. What ages are most of these women? Most in their early twenties wouldn't care. But I can assure you most after that would definitely display disdain. Also, depends on cultures where you are from.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/21 09:08 AM
1	Online dating and modern hookup culture is not just a zero-sum game, it's a negative-sum game Right and we all only work in extremes. Not a healthy average 🙄 Being w someone w no experience is a gamble for us esp given how our orgasm works also, if no other person was ever interested in going far enough to sleep with you, then what's wrong that we aren't seeing? What are you hiding, are you a jerk, a misogynist, an abuser? Etc. Having high sexual numbers a.k.a >10 personally (given I am mid 20s that is) shows they take sex way too casually and wouldn't really be a good fit for me and my …	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/21 05:56 AM
4	Question for women: How do you view the Red Pill? Purple here as well. I always find this "only the good parts" funny bc one might say those are simply generic advises and common sense. Anyone who actually subscribes to Red Pill theory for those things, I must say ought to be a certain kind of people (mostly men) to find things put in the particular way that RP does for to relate to it. Red Pill attracts it's like- narcissists, sexists, misogynists. Those are the main things separating the "good" parts of RPT from common sense of just things yo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/21 07:04 PM
5	Q4ALL- What have you tried in a sexual context that you would never do again? Does you're opinion stand the same if the woman demands pegging?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/21 04:25 PM
18	Q4ALL- What have you tried in a sexual context that you would never do again? Damn don't use too much logic their brains would short circuit! 🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/21 04:18 PM
5	What is your advice to men on how to get the most sex? What is your advice to women on how to get the best relationship? All of this and to add on, make sure your libidos match	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/21 04:04 PM
1	[Q4A] You now have all 6 infinity stones, with the snap of your fingers you can make one drastic and permanent change to the dating marketplace. What do you do? How many single dads are there in comparison? If men stepped up and took care of their children then you'd see a more egalitarian divide of child support. It is NOT women's fault that men are deadbeat and child rearing falls upon the women. Child support is for the child. Alimony is for the partner. If you think your child should suffer just because a woman refuses to put up with an abusive/cheater/dead relationship or whatever reason she choose to leave, that speaks so much to you as a person. …	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/21 10:19 AM
2	Will women really make a guy waits months for sex in order to “develop an emotional connection”? Getting off Reddit and trying to have a life would be a good start I'd say but meh judging off your views I'd say your chances are bleak anyways, best of luck!	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/21 07:24 PM
6	Will women really make a guy waits months for sex in order to “develop an emotional connection”? Good for you, now go find em.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/21 07:11 PM
3	If TRP/MGTOW/Blackpillers hate women so much why don’t you leave women alone? Weren't you the one who brought up statistics? And now why you being so hurt hurt sweetie? Can't take logic is it? Don't worry maybe one day you'll be man enough to carry a decent conversation without being condescending or immature ♥️	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/10/21 05:45 AM
1	Being Vanilla Isn’t Attractive to Interesting, Quality Women This is funny actually. So y'all really do go on and on about how women are shallow only care about looks but when lo comes along a woman who is actually interested in personality (most normal women btw) enough to reject a person she is attracted to suddenly she is vanilla and "self centered" LOL.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/21 06:25 PM
4	Explain to monke Please read. If forced to keep a pregnancy she wanted to terminate and clearly doesn't want then yes, of course! It's HER body, remember? Not an incubator. That too at a hypothetical scenario which I clearly mentioned wasn't feasible esp to males if they insist on having an opinion of what should go on in a woman's body. Again, READ.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/21 04:02 PM
4	If you want women to care about your “virgin obsession” and alter her behavior to be “virgins” until marriage, you need to create a society that incentivizes that and tangibly punishes behavior outside of that. The truth is this 💯💀	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/21 01:55 PM
4	Explain to monke Point flew right over your head LOL	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/21 01:37 PM
2	Explain to monke No I do not just think I know better, I do KNOW that I definitely know better. I share the same features, parts and bodily functions with most women. I understand how my body functions, I've deeply researched it. I bet you're also one of those people who say "sex doesn't matter" lmao You will be losing this bet but am pretty sure you're used to being a loser ay? literally hundreds of thousands of them get abortions every year and are perfectly fine Where are your sources for this blatant stateme…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/21 01:36 PM
-2	Explain to monke Okay so we have established here that men and women have access to birth controls right? Good. Are you really suggesting that a boy entering puberty should go and get a vasectomy before he starts having sex at what like 13 14 15? Not at all. However, the boy should know better than to engage in sexual activities without condoms on. Let's not excuse poor decision making on a guys part and expect a woman to be "in full control" as you put it, which is another factor I shall be addressing. A female…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/21 01:30 PM
6	Explain to monke Let's "ASSUME" for argument's sake, you are right though am pretty sure you're pulling this out your incel arse. Anyways, let's talk. Maybe a woman may not give af about their fetuses. Maybe they do. Even so, the process of abortion does have huge toll on the female physique. Never had to go through this personally but I've taken care of friends who were going through abortions. One of them, with pills. The physical toll on it was enormous. Her hormones being whack cause of it sent her into depr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/21 01:14 PM
7	Explain to monke Tell that to all the women who use it as birth control Unfortunately, I do not happen to know any. If you do know any who do, please do educate them on the dangers and health concerns of frequent abortions! You might be saving a life :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/21 01:08 PM
11	Explain to monke I am 100% for signing away paternal & maternal rights if both parties consent without duress, just as I am for women signing away their maternal rights if the man insists in wanting a child. However, ofc something like compensation for duress and all the changes a woman's body and mind has to go through carrying a pregnancy she would've otherwise chosen to terminate. However, this isn't much feasible (in a man's pov at least tho I am all for it), let me give you an example: I believe abortion is…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/21 12:09 PM
26	Explain to monke Why is no one speaking about the physical aspects of either an abortion or pregnancy on women? Abortion isn't an easy thing and has a huge mental and physical toll. It isn't birth control. One does not simply decide to get an abortion wtf. It's usually a very thought out decision made after many factors considered. That's one of the main reasons why men don't get to have a say in it. Both of it, pregnancy or abortion affect only the woman and her body. A man gets to make the decisions about his …	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/10/21 08:37 AM
3	Women slut shame each other more than men As another women- other than the other who replied she gets slut shamed on a daily basis by men not women and you called her a liar and a brainwashed feminist in a now deleted comment- who experiences the same,, irregardless of whether I actually have lots of casual sex or not, the slut shaming I face which is a lot, comes from men NOT women. The very few instances it has come from women are with the ones who are visibly insecure in their selves and or have a plethora of self issues, not because…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/21 05:42 PM
4	Women slut shame each other more than men Please do link those studies. Preferably not outdated ones >10-15 years that haven't been disproven already.	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/21 05:14 PM
1	Increased promiscuity among women leads to a higher sexual inequality for men and less sex overall for the average man. Sex is in all of it. I'd argue the opposite. If anything TV shows and movies push the monogamous, get married to your one true love and make your Disney fairytale come true agenda rather than simply sex. And even when it does in the end, mostly the men / women even having sex in mass media settle down with their forever persons. Is that not true? How can you postulate that the act of showing sex in TV shows alone play a huge role in shaping society when even that sex shown is in the end portraye…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/09/21 12:47 PM
2	As a young red piller , can you please rate my behavior? It's.. legit common sense tho? I am a woman and I'd have thought/advised OP the same even before I knew what RP was.	/r/ExRedPill	27/09/21 12:10 PM
5	Men, how would you explain the obsession with K-pop stars? You might wanna have to learn the spelling for "religion" first :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/21 07:00 PM
3	Men, how would you explain the obsession with K-pop stars? never getting laid to getting laid consistently are just lying. Has this not been proven false and debunked ? Lol. Don't really care much about redpill stuff to learn names but wasnt a major "theory" guy discovered to be married to an older woman who then divorced him or sumn.. ? Along w the other couple redpill YouTubers being exposed asw ? But then lol I bet 10bucks you'd say "but they aren't REAL redpillers TM" huh	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/09/21 06:54 PM
1	Why are pick me girls criticised? What about indirect harm? Depends on the indirect harm honestly. So, did you lie that you were sick and got a day off? You go girl! Did you lie you didn't check something and now your co worker is physically hurt. Ofc you're gonna be held accountable. Being held accountable for actions of harm is VERY VERY different from SHAMING. You can he held accountable to the promises you make, on the other hand who the hell cares who you sleep with just because a preacher's wife can't keep her bigotry on c…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/21 12:52 PM
1	Why are pick me girls criticised? We both agree pedophiles and thief's should be shamed. Yes we do agree on that and here is a key on how to judge it. Does a pedophile/theif's "life choice" infringe on someone else's freedom of choice / right to exist? Is it legal? If you were convinced that gambling, cigarettes, porn are too addictive to be let loose on the general public you would shame people who engage in these behaviours or at least force them to get help if you believe shame isn't helpful to create change. No 👀 lol I do th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/21 12:26 PM
2	Why are pick me girls criticised? it felt like a pick me, since I'm used to girls not trying hard and I'm doing all the heavy lifting in conversation. Based off what you said, she doesn't seem like a pick me. Being a nice, understanding, open, person is the furthest from a pick me which she seems to be. Unless she's displayed certain narcissistic or a definitive I'm better than the rest mindset. Besides if she's a doctor she definitely is on a busy schedule and had rigourous studies which could explain why she's never dated befo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/21 11:53 AM
1	Why are pick me girls criticised? I think this is where we'd fundamentally disagree. Vegans who do shame others for having life choices that aren't compatible with their own are demonised as well, and rightfully so right? I do think porn addiction* is dangerous and unethically made porn is asw, but that only means I, me, would simply never date a man with weird fetishes, has a porn addiction or subs to someone's onlyfans. That'd make me a crazy woman. You see how there is a balance here between living according to your values an…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/21 11:29 AM
1	Why are pick me girls criticised? I wouldn't consider heartbreak as a risk, you're going to be heartbroken over many non-romantic things over the course of your life. I find people who put too much stock into heartbreaks are ones with kind of codependent tendencies and unhealthy coping mechanisms or not a strong support system . But you're right in a sense like it could lead people down dangerous paths such as Incels, MGTOW, RP, Man hating misandrist feminists, etc. if they are of weak minds and easily manipulated. However pregn…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/21 11:02 AM
1	Why are pick me girls criticised? It sounds like pick me’s at vocal anti feminists by your definition. I wouldn't say anti feminists though I once used to say that. I'd say pick me's are people perpetuating anti equal relationship dynamics in an almost harmful prone to abuse manner. Now even that would seem fine in a vacuum as long as she CHOOSES it (feminism is about freedom of choice and making educated decisions to aid that choice, unlike what the few but loud misanddists and man haters preach) but the pick me more than just …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/21 10:48 AM
1	Why are pick me girls criticised? There are guys who would buy their girl anything she asks for, they should pick a girl who doesn't abuse this Agreed. But if a broke or living paycheck to paycheck man is doing this for a woman whether she asks it of him or not, it still is unhealthy and is a clear sign of immaturity when it comes to finances. Now apply this to a woman who bends over backward for a man. She doesn't spend so much money, she is low maintenance what's the harm in giving her that. There's nothing to be bragged about…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/21 10:31 AM
1	Why are pick me girls criticised? Who are they impressing? Men? How does that affect you? If them insulting other women for male validation that is a problem because me nor any self respecting woman would want to be friends with or linked to a woman like that. If she shits on women she doesn't know for validation from men that speaks for her low self esteem and insecurity. I think that makes some women upset because they aren't attractive enough to be PickMes. Lol what. Pickmes by definition aren't "attractive" per se. No attrac…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/21 09:20 AM
1	Why are pick me girls criticised? I should've phrased it better, it's more of a learning curve 😅 if that makes better sense. And I've seen this in both genders, esp teenagers/adolescents. But this is definitely why a woman need a strong support group of friends esp other women to talk to, uplift, model behaviour after etc. Something pick mes don't necessarily have. Society is structured incorrectly if almost all girls are getting their hearts broken. There has to be better ways to teach our kids self respect. Heartbreak is a pat…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/21 08:56 AM
1	Why are pick me girls criticised? But this is done to the guy she likes in private right? If this is done in private I'd probably label her a terribly insecure woman, however "pick-mes" usually tend to make it their entire personality so it shows especially around other men to validate her. Do you mean they do this in public? Ridicule other women? Sounds like social suicide in that case… Yes. Yes. And yes. Well, why do you think pick mes barely have women friends? And only red-pill type men with a women hate boners around them? …	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/21 08:49 AM
1	Why are pick me girls criticised? Yes. And you should learn to love yourself a bit more maybe that would help with the projected self hatred of yours towards women <3	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/21 08:40 AM
2	Why are pick me girls criticised? Agreed. Also most attractive women go through the pick me phase very young and usually relationships of that age are rarely with kind, attractive guys, and attractive guys that age too want to mostly fuck around and have their cake and eat it too kinds. However, if and when lines are crossed/she comes across healthy portrayals of what a rs should look like etc, an attractive woman would leave. She has options, she's young she doesn't need to settle. And for most healthy ones, after that one toxi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/21 08:37 AM
1	Why are pick me girls criticised? But that's the thing tho, if you're a nice guy and a woman is recriprocating she wouldn't be a "pick me" by definition. The same as others TM Macho eat your feelings kinda guy might call you a "simp" but you're not, you're only showing care for women you care about and it's reciprocated so you're really winning if anything. Pick me's are defined as women who bend over backwards for men whereas other woman would call those terms unreasonable since it's done only for her own good. As in for e.g wo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/09/21 08:30 AM
1	Women's rewards from marriage are typically front loaded. Men only see the investment pay out over the long term. Thus, the glorified quickie that is modern marriage, breakable at any time for no reason or any reason, is a poor decision for men. Damn your Ctrl + V must be so tired. Anyways as someone else pointed out that study also accounts for divorced couples as well not exactly the kind of statistic that points to your claim. With that said, I'm all for hiring surrogates etc if having a child is what YOU want. But something about knocking up a woman you've clearly no intentions to stay through birth and child care with screams lowkey sociopathic. You want a part-time mother for your child? A co-parent who gets to be the fun one on t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/21 10:31 PM
2	Women's rewards from marriage are typically front loaded. Men only see the investment pay out over the long term. Thus, the glorified quickie that is modern marriage, breakable at any time for no reason or any reason, is a poor decision for men. Riiiiiiight... Cause caring for someone after they've gone through a life altering procedure that was the result of BOTH of your choices like stated in my comment, is PEAK TRADITIONALISM. Gotcha.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/21 10:16 PM
11	Women's rewards from marriage are typically front loaded. Men only see the investment pay out over the long term. Thus, the glorified quickie that is modern marriage, breakable at any time for no reason or any reason, is a poor decision for men. I wish I could give you an award for this but here take a poor woman's gold kind ma'am 🏅🥇	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/21 09:47 PM
5	Women's rewards from marriage are typically front loaded. Men only see the investment pay out over the long term. Thus, the glorified quickie that is modern marriage, breakable at any time for no reason or any reason, is a poor decision for men. It's genuinely funny and scary at the Same time how these men demonise women being independent and "liberated" and expect us to go back to the merry old days of yore AND with the same breath demonise women for wanting extra care and attention after she literally mutilated her body to grow and push out his kid 🙄 make it make senss	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/09/21 09:44 PM
2	Why do you think some women end up as "forever girlfriends"? What would you recommend to women in that position? Damn if y'all get together it'll be peak Reddit ♥️	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/09/21 12:43 PM
1	Feminists hate this school🤣 Oh so you do agree you're a hypocrite. You claim you want equality but when suggested ideas to be "equal" and encourage security and protections for women from men's behavioural patterns and systematic issues culminated and encouraged by ideals of toxic masculinity that damage women so much so even contemplating that lifestyle is a risk,, so they'd be able to CHOOSE to go the traditional path, you don't have anything to say, but you're rather quite loud on how women need to SACRIFICE whilst cate…	/r/AntiFeminists	22/09/21 11:26 AM
1	Feminists hate this school🤣 Hmm. Interesting claim and quite a display of displaced anger if I may add? I'm not the enemy amigo. No where did I mention anything about "dismantling men" only the certain toxic ideals and expectations of feminity and masculinity that contribute to much of the harm men and women go through. Neither did I attack all the good aspects of both of it for both the sexes. Besides if I recall, were you not the one who was dismissing and belittling u/Comprehensive_Fly350 for "appealing to emotions inst…	/r/AntiFeminists	22/09/21 11:15 AM
1	Feminists hate this school🤣 When you can't put forth arguments with good faith and intelligence,, ignore everything the other person says, insult, strawman, cry victim and divert! Good strategy. Have a nice day LOL.	/r/AntiFeminists	22/09/21 11:03 AM
2	please note: i am woman Man commit suicide more than women do. 80%. And guess what? They did a study on this and the main causes of man committing suicide were: sexual abuse, economic problems and psychological and/or physical abuse. Right! I'm not so sure about your statistics but I'll bite. As you'd agree women get more support when they're sexually, physically or mentally abused, forced to overwork than men, I do agree. But let's dig a bit deeper into the working of what facilitates that. Men are encouraged and rais…	/r/AntiFeminists	22/09/21 09:36 AM
1	Feminists hate this school🤣 Yep not surprising you did not understand a word I said. You never addressed a single point I brought up other than focusing on "the family unit" and women having to sacrifice things. You never replied any questions asked specifically nor other observations made, though I did address every single point of yours. None of my points were blanket hate statements without reason or justification nor clouded by emotions unlike yours. For e.g. you call feminism a "hateful" system, though I'd provided re…	/r/AntiFeminists	22/09/21 08:57 AM
1	Feminists hate this school🤣 Being a carer for a family is not a bad thing for anyone to do - let alone a women who is naturally inclined to do so. Agreed. Just that it isn't exactly wise. Two parent families are not to blame for assholes abusing their partners. Never said they were, actually I believe the opposite where it's more likely a person could end up abusive when they've no proper healthy role models to look up to. Abusive men expecting codependent submissive woman dynamic (which a lot of traditionally inclined wor…	/r/AntiFeminists	22/09/21 08:08 AM
1	Feminists hate this school🤣 Well every single decisions anyone in the poorer group makes is a risk This would be negligible statistically if it was only the "poorER" but even the largest group which is the middle class suffer from it. When and if only the top percentile alone enjoy benefits, it's something that broader and needs to be addressed I think. The family unit has served us very well for a thousand years or more. So not sure what you mean by we have already tried it and it did not benefit us. It has created the mo…	/r/AntiFeminists	22/09/21 07:03 AM
1	Feminists hate this school🤣 !! NOTE: deleted the prior comment because it got posted by mistake before I was done :) None of this means any inequality. Agree w your upper comments that it is fulfilling for women to be nurturing, except for the ones who do not want that lifestyle and they should ofc be free to choose it but this statement is exactly what I find to be unfeasible however. I personally feel giving up my career and becoming home maker might seem all nice on paper and if they are dating millionaires and able to …	/r/AntiFeminists	21/09/21 04:49 PM
1	Feminists hate this school🤣 Then please do help ease us on the journey. What else exactly is being a caregiver about? Because coming from a rather traditional background while I was a child this seemed the reality of women who chose that path in life and I am struggling to see any benefits to it except for men. Genuine question, hope you could answer in good faith btw.	/r/AntiFeminists	21/09/21 03:51 PM
2	[CMV] It’s unwise for women to invest in romantic relationships with men if they aren’t valuable to men past age 30. As someone in my late 20s looking back to my mid 20s I definitely was a few degrees more immature and lacking in experience and confidence. The more we live the more we learn about our lives and justify it all you want, older men being attracted to women in their 20s definitely has a predatorial vibe to it as in they do want someone who hasn't matured in comparison to his peers yet. You can deduce the "why" by yourself. This is even more apparent in these days where looks are given so much more …	/r/PurplePillDebate	20/09/21 07:08 AM
1	Pros and Cons of Marrying a Red Pill Man or “Red Pill Man” And what are those ideologies. A female safe space. Red pill men don't care and nobody is pressed Hmmm. If you say so, but judging on the comments on this esp the ones arguing and disproving w what's being said, I'd think otherwise ;)	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/21 04:27 PM
2	Pros and Cons of Marrying a Red Pill Man or “Red Pill Man” I've found mostly it's the men who do label themselves "Red Pill" and believes in terminologies such as "AFBB" that are the ones w toxic mentalities. Being traditional/wanting that kind of lifestyle isn't a bad thing in itself and some, though rapidly decreasing amount of women does want that as well- do exist. And as long as trad men find trad women instead of b!tching about other women who want things differently for their own safety and security.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/21 09:43 AM
2	Pros and Cons of Marrying a Red Pill Man or “Red Pill Man” That’s why there’s division of assets, spousal support and child support that heavily favors women. Well, make sure you catch a high earner and sign no pre nup. Actually I do. Career gaps are a thing and in an economy that's already saturated with am overflow of workers, I'd wish you the best.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/21 09:39 AM
1	Pros and Cons of Marrying a Red Pill Man or “Red Pill Man” As closely following Pink Pill though I'm not sure if I'd consider myself so, Pink Pill women's idealogies don't go w RPmen either, they're encouraged to stay away from Red Pill men. Heck, even Red Pill Women/Wives do not want Red Pill Men. Though I don't get why y'all RPMen are pressed? Isn't that what you want? For women to be casual and "spin plates" rather than be commited or marry? Ironically, that'd only leave them w the ultra feminist pro casual pro sex work esque crowd that they seem to …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/21 09:15 AM
3	Pros and Cons of Marrying a Red Pill Man or “Red Pill Man” Yea well, when you do grow up and get married make sure you have some cash stashed away for when your "HVM" by your definition that is, doesn't leave you high and dry because that would mean you're left w no technical skills w career gaps and no way to earn or support yourself afterwards.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/21 09:07 AM
6	Pros and Cons of Marrying a Red Pill Man or “Red Pill Man” Unfortunately most men of this sort do not want a woman to be a "partner". Apart from being a bang maid trophy, the only other purpose she'd serve is her submissiveness to enable the dude to feel a semblance of power and in control. Why should they want to marry an opinionated women when that would destroy their fragile masculinity?	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/21 08:54 AM
5	Blue pill thoughts that women typically have Glad to know these men are still represented on a forum as depraved as this haha ❤️	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/21 12:17 AM
1	Blue pill thoughts that women typically have Agree w the sentiment but believe it should be practical until beyond a certain point as in men demonising women for having >5 body count etc as opposed to a woman who's done porn, gang banged, etc. However still, if the person isn't being a hypocrite and holding themselves to the same standards I see nothing wrong it it. Obviously a generalization and some women can do it, but I do think those are the exceptions, not the rule. Agreed but w the normalisation of sex education and body positivity …	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/09/21 12:11 AM
2	Blue pill thoughts that women typically have I'd actually say most stable women do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/21 11:54 PM
5	Blue pill thoughts that women typically have Man I love it when these wanna be self oppressed men's stastics fall apart,, you go girl 💪🏻	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/21 11:47 PM
3	I don't think toxic masculinity will ever go away cause THIS. This the right take. Nobody is demonizing "masculinity" it's only the overdone stereotyped toxicity that comes w it. Also the same for "toxic" attributes of "feminity" asw. But then nah, most men would rather claim the victim card just to ensure the status quo rather than challenge their own beliefs that harm them more than do them any good. It's sad.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/09/21 10:40 AM
4	RP men, what do you want? How so? Why so?	/r/PurplePillDebate	17/09/21 10:48 AM
2	Is Female Dating strategy repackaged redpill? And? Demonizing something that is dangerous is rational. I believe this is more of a systematic issue than anything. Repression of female sexuality, as opposed to advocating for safe sex and etc are vastly different things with different outcomes and consequences. Especially when it comes to puritian culture it facilitates a negative feedback loop where not only society as a whole just demonizes sex but also couple it with most of such cultures being conservative and patriarchal and now you have…	/r/ExRedPill	16/09/21 11:40 AM
3	Is Female Dating strategy repackaged redpill? Agree with you at most however want to address this as I came from similar cultures: Why does advising women to protect themselves cause damage to women? Puritian views in culture use arguments such as the dangers of casual sex to demonise it rather than warn and further puts the onus of the problem on the women when affected or regardless of the situation they were in even. Sexual assault, harassments and even rape have been discounted as such. Only pointing this out, do not disagree that urgin…	/r/ExRedPill	15/09/21 09:39 PM
3	NYT article regarding SAHMs of the elite: would more women want to live like this if they could (but these are top women), or is it more of a self-selection that only these women aspire to this kind of life? This is the best take on here methinks. Wealth definitely plays an important factor to this, and most cases of this certain demographic of women, they mostly have help in raising the kids or maintaining the household as nanny's, maids etc whilst the SAHM takes more of a managerial role which there is nothing wrong with that kind of lifestyle but a vast difference from an average middle class SAHM. Also if you actually see, as OP had mentioned asw, most of them have advanced degrees and to an ext…	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/09/21 09:30 PM
0	How did the genders get to this point? Agree, w the other person saying it ought to be a humanity issue. To add on for a bit of perspective, systematically systems still favour men as in rape cases that have been thrown out / discounting women. Men also tend to be more violent in nature as society and social mandates promote toxic masculinity and "be a man don't cry" kind of thing that takes away an emotional outlet for men causing them to be physical whilst the opposite is true for women. This isn't only a "feminine"ist issue to be …	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/21 10:22 AM
7	How did the genders get to this point? This is the answer that makes the most sense	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/09/21 10:04 AM
7	Public life would be better without makeup, excessive beauty treatments, and overly sexualized clothing You might say let's "start" there but where does it end? Men who usually have views like this are rather radical in their views which are incel-like. And in a society that caters to men and the patriarchy until very recently and still does in many aspects, this is am extremely dangerous move and will for sure be radicalised to go right back to the oppression women in the West faced by puritian culture so far and women in the Middle East still do to this day. Repression is never the answer for pr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/21 11:23 AM
2	Public life would be better without makeup, excessive beauty treatments, and overly sexualized clothing And yeah, a tight knee-length skirt, perfectly done makeup, coiffed hair, jewelry and a tight blouse showing shoulder, arms and padded bra breast bumps. That all screams sex. Of course it does. OP, if you think a woman wanting to look good and professional is trying to be "sexual" I'm sorry but you need to go outside and touch some grass :) I'm talking about people wearing elegant, but loose clothing that doesn't expose skin unless the weather requires it. No makeup or jewelry. Hair back. No. Th…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/08/21 11:16 AM
–	Nothing screams ''insecurity'' more than fake boobs, lip jobs, botox and other ''upgrades''. Most people I know hate the height shaming of men and show lifts actually seem like a great idea tbh	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/21 09:10 AM
1	Blaming men for all the miseries of women is only causing more issues in society. When you understand you're able to see that when men have an issue they are looking first at a practical solution instead of having their feeling validated and venting about the whole issue. Good for them isn't it? Looking at things logically first instead of venting is a good process, one that I as a woman have trained myself to as well. But no, no one is trying to FORCE men into divulging their feelings or whatever. If processing things logically works for them and gets the job done instead of…	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/08/21 03:21 AM
1	Blaming men for all the miseries of women is only causing more issues in society. Patriarchal society is EVERYONEs fault belonging to past generations fault from the ones who enforced it to the ones who propogated it, men and women alike. In fact, it was a working model in a prior time however built on the oppression of designated gender roles. Now however with many factors changing such as technology simplifying most everyone's life's and the importance of autonomy, mental health etc we have more time to dissect the harmful aspects of the existing system and better it. Begin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/21 03:11 PM
4	Blaming men for all the miseries of women is only causing more issues in society. I concur! Not all men, goes unsaid ofc. And I find it even more promising for our coming generations to now be raised with the media they consume (for reals, most of the teen shows and series these days heavily propagate this, it's refreshing!) and their real life surroundings being an even healthier and conducive environment to have more equality oriented values.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/21 02:34 PM
0	Blaming men for all the miseries of women is only causing more issues in society. It's called toxic "masculinity" because its features that a patriarchal society would deem as masculine. Toxic feminity exists, it's about women taking features of typical feminine nature to an extent. And well, in my lived experience at least, toxic masculinity which is upheld by both genders is more harmful towards both the man and entire society than features of toxic femininity that's upholded by all genders. A person could die due to how toxic masculinity dictates a man bottle in his emotio…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/21 01:51 PM
1	Blaming men for all the miseries of women is only causing more issues in society. I'd also like to point out that society is very much the same as the previous replier pointed out in most if not all South East Asian culture, and they are all EXTREMELY patriarchal even in modern times and the blame almost exclusively is placed on women most times.	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/21 01:29 PM
8	Blaming men for all the miseries of women is only causing more issues in society. Agreed, and to add on, it is very much the same in South East Asian cultures as well. The woman is mostly placed the burden of upholding the entire family. Especially the, men are men you have to be malleable and adjust according to his needs and if something does go wrong, it is the woman's fault that she isn't compromising. Victim blaming is also ripe, girls are taught to not tempt men and even if they are assaulted in any way it's because they've done something. And something to be noted is t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	25/08/21 01:26 PM
–	Women want to be protected and for men to embrace all the beneficial gender roles to women all the while those same women can’t stay chaste, cook, clean, and all want to have kids at 30. If it's so easy why you complaining on Reddit about women not doing it instead of putting your big boy pants on and cleaning up after your own damn self	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/21 05:06 AM
–	Women want to be protected and for men to embrace all the beneficial gender roles to women all the while those same women can’t stay chaste, cook, clean, and all want to have kids at 30. The concept of chastity, virginity and other ideas such as monogamy, homophobia, etc were brought into SEA upon the British Empire conquering them. You only need to read ancient Hindu texts and history to confirm.	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/08/21 05:02 AM
3	How often do you actually see ridiculous dating standards in real life? How often are they actually followed? College-graduate who's not even much career oriented, and can confirm, even I am definitely "quarrelsome" by this person's standards 🤣 These men should just plainly put they can't handle a woman with opinion in anything other than making their whole life about tiptoeing around these men or risk it hurting their fragile egos. That's why they cannot handle someone with aspirations other than being a bang maid and can think critically. And a career woman... He can put it however he wants but there'…	/r/PurplePillDebate	23/08/21 03:29 AM
5	Then what should men do to get dates? If you're talking about push-pull tactics and etc, I think if you phrase em differently, without a RP context as in "playing hard to get" it'd be different. See, the thing is RP takes consistent advice, adds a dash of misogyny, manipulation.. and push it as THE way to go. Playing hard to get, actually works and is standard dating advice, but make sure you tone it down, don't lie, don't neg, actually make sure you're still interested in the her as a person, don't manipulate, RESPECT her. I think …	/r/ExRedPill	14/08/21 07:09 PM
15	Then what should men do to get dates? This x1000 OP! Listen to this, the RP tactics work on subset of women. I assure you any one with a healthy outlook towards love and relationships recognise the manipulation tactics preached in RP as red flags. The fallacy is, that RP categorises these women as too liberal / "gold diggers" / asking for too much (while they usually have only healthy standards) so it seems like from a quick glance, RP " works " but it truly is the furthest from the truth.	/r/ExRedPill	14/08/21 07:01 PM
4	The Best Advice From Red Pill Isn't Red Pill Specific OP you're making so many good points and that too so eloquently, be careful you're going to derail these men's entire worldview and send them into an existential crisis 🤣	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/08/21 09:04 AM
3	Here's a calculator for women to find how many men fit their criteria, and the results are not good You do realise that unless you're a shit student or have dirt rich parents an average college student may or may not work a side job for income. However they will have to work on internships right? And man, you really comparing waitresses, to everything that comes with college? Just the completing assignments and projects part lmao. As someone who actually did college with people who genuinely cared about grades and that sorta thing, I assure you it's not the same as a 16 year olds part time gig…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/08/21 05:00 AM
2	Recently found TRP, find it interesting wanted to hear the other side. Also former cult member, would like to know more about why some are calling it a cult -What does it mean to say "we want it all time" followed by "most men don't know how to please women." We want to please and be pleasured right back not be used as a sex doll just for men to get off. And yes you are correct, only a very few women can orgasm via PIV sex. But as someone who can, I still prefer clitorial stimulation to it. Also, a correction, No "sex" is not just insertion or just PIV in any form and frankly the men who think so I find them to be a bit immature and uneducated about…	/r/ExRedPill	10/08/21 04:53 PM
1	Recently found TRP, find it interesting wanted to hear the other side. Also former cult member, would like to know more about why some are calling it a cult Depends on a lot of factors. Frankly as a woman, at the first sign of emotional abuse I've been out the door in all my previous relationships and even though they were in my younger years I'd never get back together. Its definitely a huge no for me. But.. if you've genuinely, genuinely changed and actually have feelings for her.. I'd say attempt communication but make sure you respect it if she doesn't want anything further. Also please don't do this just because you feel you've missed out on a …	/r/ExRedPill	10/08/21 02:33 PM
2	Recently found TRP, find it interesting wanted to hear the other side. Also former cult member, would like to know more about why some are calling it a cult I'm sorry that none had bothered explaining it to you, but am pretty sure you could Google women psychology of sex or sumn on Google scholar and look for certain peer reviewed articles for unbiased opinions. I can explain this as my personal experience and that of women I'm surrounded by. Women LOVE sex. Trust me on this. Periodt. We wanna fuck all the time. However, for us to engage in it we cannot really be as careless as our male counterparts. Like OP mentioned, safety is definitely one of it…	/r/ExRedPill	10/08/21 02:23 PM
3	Do men want traditional relationships anymore? I don't see where he said anywhere that she gets to keep all of her money for herself or doesn't contribute to any shared responsibilites just that he makes most financial decisions 🤦‍♀️🙄 Ofc, not taking away agency from the woman but based on the way he talks so slightly about her on the internet, irrespective of however they choose to run their family, or be in an open marriage or wtv. I can pity her for it.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/21 01:27 PM
3	What do men have to offer women that is better than feminism? No it definitely is not. And I really do not know which branch of femi-nazi or misandrist you're dealing with for them to say "because men do" that's vile af and personally never heard those words from someone calling themselves a feminist. Abuse from either gender is ABUSE and deserve to be dealt with just bc it comes from a woman in no way diminishes it. In fact, I've seen more feminists stand for and advocate and educate for and about men's mental health, suicide rates, rape and etc than men …	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/21 12:33 PM
6	Do men want traditional relationships anymore? Hope that poor woman realises how entitled you talk about her rubbing how "stupidly" in love she is w you to strangers on the internet and gather some self esteem to leave man this is so sad tf.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/08/21 08:19 AM
2	Is attraction loss in a relationship alwsys inevitable? 1."Why bother getting married if sex, home maintenance and children are not on the table?" Um, for the reason most mentally healthy people get married for. For the want to spend their lives, the good and the bad in the presence of someone in mutual commitment, affection and love with. Definitely not to find a sugar daddy or a bang maid. Home maintainence: Get a cleaner once a week if u aren't willing to or don't know how to do normal adulting responsibilities such as clean your own shit, a simpl…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/21 10:12 AM
-1	RE: Why n count matters in women and the marriage analogy Damn you really have their whole world collapsing before them what have you done?!! I'd love to read a response to this now, but nah don't think any are willing to come off their echo chambers and face the real world	/r/TheRedPill	08/08/21 03:52 AM
7	Is attraction loss in a relationship alwsys inevitable? "in return he gets a partner who only fucks him to keep him around" Hmm.. almost like you need more than just a yes-sir bang maid to get married to huh.. A relationship is pathetic if all a man looks for in it is sex, housekeeping and a baby oven. "generally declines due to child rearing" Yes! Got it! Men NEED to pull their weight around and help with household and childrearing tasks rather than tire their poor wife's out all day and expect her to get on all fours for sex at night eh?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/08/21 03:30 AM
5	Society often forces men to become the worst possible versions of themselves to have dating success, if we want this to change Women have to change their dating preferences Bruh. You're delusional if you think in 2021 women wear makeup or get fat cause of men? Ever crossed your mind that excercising, being healthy, wanting to look neat, good looking, professional is all for the benefit of.. men? Yeah, cause dick is the sole motivator for all of woman-kind huh /s? 🤣 I bet you're the type that cannot fathom men working out to feel fit for themselves,, and not for oh a crumb of pussy please? Nor have met a man who wears casual makeup to look presentable and profession…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/08/21 08:43 PM
1	Why are single women happier than married women? If so, why do women even bother with men? Did you even read the article you linked? 🙄😭 Also, WHAT CHINESE LEADER? That article was written by 3 authors, I definitely can bet my inheritance on that none of em are a Chinese leader 🙄 Clearly not so I've taken the liberty to copy paste excerpts for you: "Boys don't need masculinity education," said Lü Pin, the founder of China's largest feminist advocacy media channel, Feminist Voices, which was banned by Chinese censors in 2018. "The concept of masculinity forces every man to be tough, whi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/21 07:16 PM
1	Why are single women happier than married women? If so, why do women even bother with men? Men like that** are bad, indeed. Agreed.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/21 12:12 PM
0	Why are single women happier than married women? If so, why do women even bother with men? "male reluctance to split chores and childcare" as in what OP said. More like men's reluctance to be decent and equal contributors to a relationship, if anything it's the opposite of feminism. And what I questioned to the other person who mentioned "feminism wanted those kinda men" and all you've proven is, s/he is wrong.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/21 11:11 AM
5	Why are single women happier than married women? If so, why do women even bother with men? How is calling degradatory mannerisms of clearly degradatory terms whether it is towards one or a blanket statement "out of context". According to your definition, "An unattractive woman" would suffice enough for any person to convey the picture but stooping low as to insult or find nothing wrong in insulting women in general shows ones mentality :) I wonder if you'd carry the same energy towards racial slurs, like "no I didn't call YOU specifically a degradatory term, I was referring to your en…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/21 10:10 AM
6	Why are single women happier than married women? If so, why do women even bother with men? Sure, link? Or least do you even know the names of the papers authors? Which "ChiNeSe lEaDeR" should I even be looking for? 🙄 Also, please if it's some bigoted shit by someone who doesn't believe in feminism as "equality" or subscribes to some patriarchal or authoritarian prejudices of what they think feminism is, I'd suggest you don't bother replying and wasting my time :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/21 09:29 AM
5	Why are single women happier than married women? If so, why do women even bother with men? Yes I do know how to read and I do also know very well to Google, deduce which of them are facts, decide which ones are worth my time and then read them. Still leads me to the conclusion you're talking out of your ass. Feminism is the furthest away from what you said, unless you wanna explain and clarify on your stance, brush up on your own reading and deduction skills, ay mate?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/21 09:08 AM
8	Why are single women happier than married women? If so, why do women even bother with men? Elaborate on this please.. how exactly does "feminism" or your version of it, "want those kind of men" ?	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/21 07:29 AM
11	Why are single women happier than married women? If so, why do women even bother with men? No it's not. Unless the person you call it consents and agrees to it being taken in a funny way but still is considered rude in front of anyone else. Sweeping generalizations of women using degratory terms are never funny.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/07/21 07:26 AM
7	People are underestimating the popularity of the childfree movement in Gen Z. I am vehemently child free, but seriously? Why do you care so much about that person having a child or not? If they can afford to provide it with a good life let them just go ahead. One child or heck even a 100 is not going to make much of any difference in the carbon footprint or save the world. Big corporations is the only thing to blame and unless you fix that the state of the planet is going to continue to detoriate. Pushing capable people to not have kids, borderline harassing them is NOT t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/06/21 05:16 AM
2	Are men in the aggregate putting less effort into themselves, into dating, into career, into life, etc. than they used to? If so, what might be causing it? HAHAHAHA I love how you somehow switched men not measuring up and lazying around IN THEIR OWN LIFE'S onto women like it's their fault. Damn son, is accountability and responsibility that hard of a concept? 🙄🥴💀	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/05/21 04:17 AM
1	Unpopular opinion: Women’s careers are overrated compared to men’s. And you're speaking like that responsibility falls only on women to raise up a child? It took two to make it but why do I not see more discussion around men being involved in this "lot of work" that is raising up small kids. Also please literally anyone can raise up a child raising them up GOOD is what's impressive. A sahm might asw make a v shitty parent (seen this happen a lot of times mostly when women regret giving up their entire life's to be "mother") whereas a career woman could be a very…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/05/21 06:54 PM
1	"Woman are not to blame about being raped, but..." And you're judging this off... Based on what you ASSUME of like their social medias or their outward personas, or do you KNOW these 20s-30s women close enough personally to make that judgement? BC trust me, almost every woman I know shares their live location w a trusted friend wherever they go and ESP if it's shady areas. I'm genuinely curious btw.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/21 08:33 PM
3	"Woman are not to blame about being raped, but..." Keeping the woman in your life who've led you to make this assumption, in my prayers definitely but I really don't think you're right here. Most if not ALL women are brought up with all that instilled in us from a very young age not to mention everything going on, in society. Please don't make broad statements like this to justify a certain worldview in your head :)	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/21 07:22 PM
4	What does 'taking responsibility' mean? No. The point is: Perps are responsible for their wrongdoing individual of what the victim did. If the victim locks all their doors the perp who really wants to steal, murder or rape is still going to find a way breaking into the house. But of course knowing you folk, it'll always be a: -"Why did you not have better alarm system?" -"There was an alarm system but it failed or the perp managed to by pass it?" -"Why did you not be more pro active and check on it?" -"You did any something still went…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/05/21 08:16 AM
3	Let’s talk about arranged marriages It more like depends on the society and family culture/background where they're based at. Unfortunately, not most of India is developed or women's opinions given importance. And as more of a collectivist society in general "what will the neighbours think?" would be a HUGE concern and factor. Like, if you have an unmarried daughter in your house by the age of 25, society would think "why haven't they married her off, how is she flawed?" So parents would seek to marry them off no matter what or to…	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/05/21 05:25 PM