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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Am I doing online dating wrong? Fantastic idea! What exactly would be a good introduction line? “Hello! There is a sale on that book you are looking at personally signed with my number inside. Perhaps we can chat over coffee?” Option B, just take same book and write phone number in it and give it to her. Now she has a free book that im committed to buy. Maybe include a starbucks card too Seems like a one shot deal per visit. It would be kind of weird (and expensive) trying this on several women if I was rejected.	/r/Divorce_Men	14/03/25 10:40 AM
2	I’m thinking of making a dating profile, brutally honest like how the women do. That’s gold Jerry!	/r/Divorce_Men	27/11/24 05:06 PM
1	Does anyone get divorced because of the little things? Sounds like a combination of perimenopause and trauma response. Has she been seeing a therapist lately? They can inspire a spouse to rock the boat and “feel heard”.	/r/Divorce_Men	28/10/24 04:09 PM
8	Do you divorce if there's no attraction left because your spouse aged like milk? Perimenopause is tough for everyone. I can deal with the weight gain and brain fog but it’s her attitude and rage pinning everything on me that draws the line in the sand. It takes two to tango	/r/Divorce_Men	20/10/24 08:44 PM
2	Did you regret getting divorce? Apparently I didn’t sacrifice enough of my happiness which in turn impacted her happiness and motivation to call it quits. Basically her MO was, “If I’m not happy, neither will you”. Lesson learned: If you desire any sense of independence, have a busy lifestyle or occasionally seek some alone time, do not get involved with someone with an anxious attachment style. Your A game will need to be on 24/7/365 to soothe their constant fear of abandonment due to childhood trauma. It is mentally, emotion…	/r/Divorce_Men	19/10/24 01:31 PM
2	How I Saved My Marriage and Transformed Our Family Life – My Story Lol. I don’t i ever uttered that word in my lifetime	/r/Divorce_Men	18/10/24 09:40 PM
1	Dating and sharing expenses Kind of like a corporate sales vendor buying free lunch or dinner to get one’s attention and moment of their time. Eventually there is the expectation of reciprocation and equality. I only know of one manager who played the game with a vendor to get free meals with no sale until they eventually stopped trying.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/10/24 01:26 PM

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