rubysparks Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	How to deal with getting ignored? Yeah I guess if you don't send many messages then it's different. We don't text a whole bunch, but sometimes it's just not worth it. If it's asking me a direct question, I'll answer it, but sometimes I can't think of the write answer so I'll just ignore it. Or if it's something I don't want to reply to - like someone I don't want to say saying "come to town!" - I'll be like "meh".	/r/seduction	02/01/13 11:12 AM
6	How to deal with getting ignored? Sometimes you can't be fucked replying. You still want to be friends with them, you just don't want to reply to that particular text. Me and my friends ignore texts all the time, we all still like each other.	/r/seduction	02/01/13 10:48 AM
128	On AA: "Just approach! What's the worst that can happen?" This. A field report, sort of. I dunno...you may have thought you were being fine, but we're really just getting your side of the story. Maybe you were doing something to make her uncomfortable. I mean, getting the barista to call the cops seems pretty damn serious, I doubt someone would do that if they didn't feel threatened.	/r/seduction	30/12/12 12:24 AM
5	The pick up community has become pretty famous on the internet, has anyone ever tried to pickup a girl with canned routines and she knew exactly what you were doing? "Why aren't you smiling" makes me want to stab everyone in the eye with a fork. If I hear it one more time I will start throwing people into traffic.	/r/seduction	28/12/12 01:35 PM
1	The pick up community has become pretty famous on the internet, has anyone ever tried to pickup a girl with canned routines and she knew exactly what you were doing? It is soooo much about the situation. This is what pisses me off- dudes being like, "oh so I can't talk to girls on buses now? Well when CAN I talk to them? Am I just supposed to die ALONE?" And it's like, no. Just read the signs. A bus is an enclosed space. Girls feel trapped. We don't like it. Or if she's reading or listening to music, she's probably got other stuff on her mind. Their are times and places to meet and get to know people. A creep is someone who doesn't seem to understand this, a…	/r/seduction	28/12/12 01:33 PM
1	The pick up community has become pretty famous on the internet, has anyone ever tried to pickup a girl with canned routines and she knew exactly what you were doing? Does a guy have to be a sedittor to seduce a lady? I've been seduced, but only once or twice via pick up artistry, and even then I knew what they were doing, I just wanted to get laid. The two hottest seductions of my life have been much more natural than any of the pick up artist stuff I've ever had pulled on me, and by guys who openly make fun of this sort of shit.	/r/seduction	28/12/12 01:27 PM
0	[FR] - My first time out (with 3 married AFC friends, read:worse than alone), and I make AA my bitch. Yep. Those chumps who managed to get a lady to agree to marry them. You're right, you're the superior one here.	/r/seduction	25/11/12 03:22 AM
5	The defensive attitude women have when out is starting to wear so thin on me... Riiiight so if I don't want to get hit in I should just never leave the house? That sounds like pretty typical seduction mindset.	/r/seduction	24/11/12 06:16 AM
2	The defensive attitude women have when out is starting to wear so thin on me... You think a girl is just going to rock up to a club in sweatpants? When I was still going clubbing with my friends, even when I was in a relationship, we'd put on our best dress and heels and go dancing. Didn't mean I wanted guys coming up and hitting on me. She was probably just sick of hearing that shit and wanted to feel pretty and dance with her friends. Is that such a god damn crime?	/r/seduction	24/11/12 02:59 AM
-1	Females are attracted to men who have, or at least portray that they have a high social value. Seddit, what would be your tips on developing and portraying a high social value toward females? Women*	/r/seduction	23/11/12 12:48 AM
2	How to deal when she says she has a boyfriend? Yeah, I use the "I have a boyfriend" line to mean "please go away". And if they keep going, I think they're a fucking creep. Because either, I don't really have a boyfriend and what I'm saying actually means fuck off, or I do have a boyfriend and you should leave it the hell alone.	/r/seduction	15/11/12 07:15 AM
1	Approaching girls that show off alot of skin or show off their "assets" Maybe because they like the clothes?	/r/seduction	15/11/12 06:22 AM
5	How do you guys deal with last minute resistance? These sound so fucking manipulat-y.	/r/seduction	08/11/12 05:29 AM
2	How do you guys deal with last minute resistance? Oh my god thank you for being so reasonable and non-sexual-assaulty.	/r/seduction	08/11/12 05:29 AM
5	ITT: Men taking dating advice from women - why it's not a good thing They're not mutually exclusive. I'm a lady, and I have to say, you can be confident and "manly" without being a douchebag. And the cocky comment, at least, is spot on. If you're cute and cocky, you'll get a giggle out of me, but I'll immediately start making fun of you, and be leaving with someone who can be fun without being a wanker.	/r/seduction	06/11/12 01:39 PM
2	Women Who Own iPhones Lose The Ability To Love - Underneath the topic, you MUST keep gaming your SO, while in a relationship, or lose her. That was the most parade piece of tripe I've ever read. Christ.	/r/seduction	30/10/12 11:17 PM
1	I overcame the "I have a boyfriend" barrier. I have officially stepped up my game. I have seen that line a lot, and I fucking hate it. I get what you're trying to go for, but it's just an irritating, stupid thing to say.	/r/seduction	16/10/12 07:09 AM
-1	I overcame the "I have a boyfriend" barrier. I have officially stepped up my game. Is "I have a boyfriend" a barrier you need to get over? Either she does have a boyfriend, and you shouldn't be hitting on her, or she just doesn't like you, and it's time to try someone else, right?	/r/seduction	16/10/12 07:08 AM
3	How would you reply to this? "Only those of us that have friends, that's why I was asking."	/r/seduction	16/10/12 07:06 AM
1	What i always tell myself when I see the oneitis sneaking in... So the idea of oneitis is obsessing over a girl who doesn't like you back right? Because I've been reading it as "every girl is replaceable so never ever love one woman" which is...kind of a limited sentiment.	/r/seduction	16/10/12 07:02 AM
1	Lifestyle Guide (crosspost from /r/YouShouldKnow) Dude is obsessed with fat. Seriously, we get it, stay fit. You don't need to repeat it five times.	/r/seduction	16/10/12 06:33 AM
3	Girl friends Useless as in...having a cool female friend is useless?	/r/seduction	30/09/12 06:23 AM
1	[FR] Hilarious rejection. Maybe she wanted to be left alone and didn't want to be pestered her whole trip? I don't think it's funny, I think it's perfectly reasonable.	/r/seduction	14/09/12 04:40 AM
0	Is fucking a lot of new girls a phase or a person's nature? I think you're a creeper for saying you go for them becauseh they're "easier to seduce".	/r/seduction	11/09/12 03:17 AM
3	I got a girl's number on the bus and I asked her out a few days later. I got rejected, but it was such a nice rejection and the whole experience boosted my confidence a bit. For anyone who fears rejection and for any women who's unsure about how to reject a guy, this is the way it should go down: Rejection is sucky. Either to take or to dish out. So good on her for having the balls to be up front about it,	/r/seduction	02/09/12 08:40 AM
1	I got a girl's number on the bus and I asked her out a few days later. I got rejected, but it was such a nice rejection and the whole experience boosted my confidence a bit. For anyone who fears rejection and for any women who's unsure about how to reject a guy, this is the way it should go down: Had to reject a few boys for this reason - engaged to my ex now. It sounds like a cliche, but it's probably legit, and if it isn't, who cares?	/r/seduction	02/09/12 08:39 AM
2	What are the motives behind girls going out? I like dancing and talking to random people. I also like getting drunk with my lady friends and having an excuse to dress up.	/r/seduction	01/09/12 07:54 AM
1	Why Girls Flake - I asked a Friend, Here's her Response No, I find drunk guys tend to not take "I have a boyfriend" for an answer until unless said boyfriend is actually there.	/r/seduction	28/08/12 10:33 PM
2	Why Girls Flake - I asked a Friend, Here's her Response sigh ok. Misguided, yep. Let's go with that.	/r/seduction	28/08/12 10:59 AM
2	Why Girls Flake - I asked a Friend, Here's her Response I can only remember my phone number...I tried giving out the rejection hot line, but then I forgot my own phone number. Also usually when I get tipsy I just blurt out my number and then think "dammit." This is one of the millions of reasons having a boyfriend is great. No one asks for my number or to buy me a drink when he's around.	/r/seduction	28/08/12 10:28 AM
26	Why Girls Flake - I asked a Friend, Here's her Response Sometimes giving them your number is literally the only way to get a drunk, handy guy to leave you alone...that's not arrogance, that's just trying to get out of a situation you don't want to be in.	/r/seduction	28/08/12 09:49 AM
11	Stop seeking her approval, and you will notice a drastic change in how women will relate to you. You're aware alphas and bets aren't really a thing, right?	/r/seduction	27/08/12 08:00 AM
2	New lesson learned: Don't dream of the future too much. (one-itis) Totally right. I've found myself thinking wayyy too far ahead with guys and getting my heart broken for it. Also, if she was doing that, then maybe she just wasn't in the right mindset to be anyone's "one" anyway. At least the OP figured that out before he got too far in.	/r/seduction	13/08/12 04:29 AM
2	I know I'm not supposed to learn in to hear her, but being 6'3 I just look feel like an asshole. As a very small girl, I think it comes off as more attractive if a tall man leans down to hear me. It shows that they actually care about what I have to say. If you've already laid the groundwork, being gentlemanly can't hurt your cause.	/r/seduction	13/08/12 02:21 AM