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When I get a match now the first thing I ask is what city they live in. Damn I hope they get it fixed soon. It's a great concept but it sort of needs to work first...
/r/seduction25/06/13 02:12 PM
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The location part is jacked up for me. Got a match on a girl and it said 15 miles away and she said 1 mike away and in reality we were like 45 miles away!
/r/seduction25/06/13 05:20 AM
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Do you have a female friend with good decorating taste? Offer to take her to lunch/dinner if she'll go shopping with you and help you pick out accessories. It doesn't have to be expensive (Ikea is perfect if you have one nearby). That's what I did with my place and I get compliments on it all the time. Some women have even joked that they weren't sure if I was gay or not since it was put together so well. Don't let that phase you in the least since those same women will be biting the pillow as y…
/r/seduction10/06/13 09:34 PM
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The pushing through is always the hardest part. As for the guy just say something like "excuse me, do you do xyz martial art"? When he answers jump with with "cool, I used to do blah blah, how do you like it?" Most martial arts guys are cool as fuck and really interesting to talk to. Unless he's a first class douche (highly unlikely) he'll love to chat with you about his hobby. Getting your lips to move is the hardest part...
/r/seduction10/06/13 09:24 PM
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All of these only apply if I'm meeting her for the first time: Business setting or friend of friend or friend's girlfriend/wife: Handshake unless she initiates a hug. A first date (online or someone I've gamed prior to the date): A hug unless she comes in with the handshake and in those cases I may say "I'm a hugger" and go in. It's really a split second feeling I go with. Note: Out of all of my online dates I think maybe 1 or 2 led with the handshake and all the rest were huggers.
/r/seduction10/06/13 06:41 PM
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So much of game is recognizing attraction and not fucking it up. You played it masterfully. Great job man!
/r/seduction30/05/13 08:44 PM
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How many times have YOU invited someone to hang out or do something? Are you just sitting around waiting for someone to invite you? If that's the case, it probably will never happen. Put that alphaness to good use and organize a party, hangout or get together.
/r/seduction24/05/13 07:45 PM
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I have a similar problem and it seems to manifest itself with online dating. In "real life" I'll only approach women who I'm truly interested in and think there could be something long term with them. On the other hand, if I meet a woman from online and let's say she doesn't quite look up to her pictures but still passes the "boner test" I'll go for the bang even though I'm less than enthused.
/r/seduction23/05/13 06:43 PM
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Just make a lot of situational comments/observations about the artist's work. Don't focus on trying to pick anyone up. Most people are very open to chatting with someone who comments on the environment around them. Often times by doing this you'll end up with people who want to talk your ear off that you're not necessarily interested in continuing the conversation with. At any rate, just be open and nice to everyone and you'll have a lot more fun than you thought you would.
/r/seduction14/05/13 05:02 PM
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I like this idea. Many times you hear how pickup parallels sales but if this experiment were real it truly would be like commission sales.
/r/seduction02/05/13 06:58 AM
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Like the others said it sounds like it's not so much your accent as it is your overall frame. I don't recall any woman ever saying Pierce Brosnan's or Liam Neeson's accent is "cute".
/r/seduction20/04/13 12:53 AM
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Check out urbanist game on Youtube. I think he also has his own website. It's a guy based in London who has recorded tons of street approaches and the best thing is that he shows all of his blowouts as well.
/r/seduction16/04/13 02:25 AM
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I think you need to either A) Write a book on what you're doing or B) Sign with a modeling agency because I can tell you that I go for MONTHS without women making eye contact with me, let alone smiling.
/r/seduction15/04/13 11:06 PM
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That was my suspicion as well. I'll look up that video from Gambler, I love his stuff thanks!
/r/seduction28/03/13 10:04 PM
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I'm in the same boat as you and it's good advice to just go for the sole purpose of hanging out and getting comfortable in that environment. Even the best PUAs often suggest to find a high traffic area (example near where people walk up to the bar to order drinks) where you can just "post up" and chat with women as they come by instead of roaming around. The logic is that if you just stay in one place you can make many approaches without looking like that desperate guy who is constantly working …
/r/seduction27/03/13 05:22 PM
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In my experience I've tried it both ways and I've had better luck holding off on the first kiss until we're back at my place. I learned this technique from another forum and the reasoning for it is that if you make out at the venue and then suggest going back to your place the woman's ASD will kick in and your chances of a SNL go down. On the other hand, if you invite her back to your place without kissing she'll rationalize the situation as "the most that will happen is a makeout" and go along …
/r/seduction26/03/13 08:23 PM
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I see what you're saying and there is some merit to being observant of how we behave but I am cautious of always assuming it's something we did. After my divorce I went to regular therapy (which I highly recommend) and one of the things I learned is that in most circumstances it's not about us. Most people have so much crap going on in their lives wrapped up in their own issues and insecurities that most of the time we just happen to get in the way of it. I used to take the blame for everything …
/r/seduction22/03/13 07:59 PM
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Extremely well said. Through the years I've had my share of "dead ends" come back to life in one form or another. As a sidebar, when out at night, I've found it really helpful to start off by chatting up other guys in the venue as a way to warm up. It gets me over that hump of approaching a stranger in a very low risk, outcome independent (obviously) way.
/r/seduction22/03/13 06:38 PM
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I have the same experience. I'm white and for some reason white women (at least for me) give off a much more entitled, stuck up vibe. Maybe it's different for other guys...
/r/seduction21/03/13 06:44 PM
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I think all in all you did alright. Unfortunately in spite of your best efforts you won't always be able to control the logistics and instead you just have to improvise, which you seemed to do pretty good at. I know you mentioned it was cold out but one way to overcome the bad seating is to suggest going for a walk which allows you to casually "bump" into her arm and shoulder while you're teasing her...and of course from there it's a tiny little jump to grabbing her hand....and you can take it f…
/r/seduction15/03/13 05:17 AM
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The best way to sexualize an interaction with a woman is not through words but actions. Look up the DeCarlo escalation ladder and follow that. Once you've broken the kissing "threshold" things will already be sexual.
/r/seduction11/03/13 05:24 PM
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Ok, that's great that you're figuring out who you are but....was there a question somewhere in that declaration??
/r/seduction06/03/13 12:20 AM
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I think in a bar situation it's much easier for a woman to approach a man than the other way around. With that being said, the easiest way is to first get yourself in close proximity to the guy you're interested in and then make a simple situational comment about something nearby such as the band playing, the weird group of guys on the other side of the bar, etc. If the guy has any "game" or social skills and is interested at all he'll take the ball and run with it. Also, as mentioned by another…
/r/seduction05/03/13 06:02 AM
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You need to distance yourself from this so called "friend". When you know he's going to be around be somewhere else. Go to a bar solo, hang out in a coffee shop, go workout. People like that will suck your confidence and energy dry.
/r/seduction04/03/13 05:38 AM
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Treat it just like any other shit test, agree and amplify. Women say and do different things all the time. An undeniable truth about the player is that he has a lot of experience with women and even though she outwardly says she's repulsed by your rep she's internally curious about how good you really are. Embrace it!
/r/seduction04/03/13 05:35 AM
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This! This! And More this!! If she's asking you to come over late at night and you pass it up go ahead and go to the kitchen, take your sharpest knife and cut your balls off. Ok, I'm just kidding on that one (sort of) but you get my point. So what if you only get 1-2 hours of sleep, I can GUARANTEE you that it will end up being one of your most treasured stories looking back. "Yeah, I remember the time this really hot girl asked me to come over late one night. Shit, I ended up pounding her every…
/r/seduction28/02/13 06:28 PM
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Why not just ask her out on a date? Go get coffee, take a walk, have a snack at the cafeteria. Not trying to be harsh but the only thing that matters here is that YOU are attracted to her. You'll have every answer you've been looking for if you just ask her out and then escalate as usual if she agrees to the date. You're WAY overthinking this....
/r/seduction26/02/13 03:07 PM
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I just finished it and highly recommend it. Many of the author's points are unconventional and he openly challenges a lot of PUA tactics by making logical arguments against them. I especially like how he describes "real" alpha behavior as opposed to being "fake" alpha. Definitely worth the read.
/r/seduction14/02/13 09:18 PM
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It's an interesting read but I take issue with the premise that everything revolves around eye contact. When I go out and about I try to keep aware of my surroundings and of course any attractive women in the vicinity. In all of my years I would say I get about 1-2 looks a month tops from women. If pickup was as easy as opening all of the women who make eye contact I would be swimming in poontang. I think teaching beginning pua's to only act based on eye contact is setting them up for failure. A…
/r/seduction07/02/13 07:38 PM
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Hey 36 is a spring chicken compared to me! I'm 41 and just got back into the game last year as a 40 year old coming out of a 8 year relationship. I was absolutely clueless on how to approach women and had no idea where to start. Just speaking for myself, I found David Wygant's material to be really easy to use and implement. His approach is very natural and it's just an extension of what most people already do (i.e. friendly small talk with strangers in lines, supermarkets, etc.) He has a TON of…
/r/seduction30/01/13 07:48 PM
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I think it's been touched on a little bit already but what I typically try to do is wait until we're back at my place before I even kiss them for the first time. By using your "makeout token" at the date venue and then suggesting she come home with you, she knows you're expecting sex and her ASD will shoot you down every time. However, if you haven't even kissed her yet, she's thinking the most that will happen is you'll makeout...no big deal. If you end up having sex, in her mind, it's one of t…
/r/seduction28/01/13 05:55 PM
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I disagree. OP was clearly being cocky and funny and I actually laughed at what he wrote. Online the cardinal sin is being boring and predictable, which he was neither. Did she just not reply? It's very possible she got overwhelmed in messages and you were momentarily forgotten. I would wait a day or two and then ping her with something funny again. If no reply move on.
/r/seduction26/01/13 01:21 AM
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This may not be appropriate for a work environment but I think the best reply would be (if you're attracted to her) 'let's go back in a fitting room and find out' delivered with a cheeky grin...
/r/seduction21/12/12 06:31 AM
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Masterfully said! To share a personal experience with this, I met up with a really hot 40 something milf from POF at a bar walking distance to my apartment. Right from the beginning I began light kino and consistently escalating to full on making out at the bar. She also informed me that she was a Sunday school teacher which made me laugh inside. I invited her to come back to my apartment and at first she acted a little offended and said she didn't do those kinds of things...no problem I thought…
/r/seduction20/12/12 09:01 PM
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I had this exact same situation happen to me a few months back. It was a woman I met on OKC and I thought she was the perfect "girlfriend material" when I first met her. Of course, my old beta tendencies kicked in and I was overly cautious about being too sexual or escalating too quickly so as not to "screw this one up." On our second date, I tried to really go heavy on the comfort building and chatting her up just like a friend thinking the physical part would just happen. I didn't touch her, f…
/r/seduction03/12/12 06:56 PM
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Earlier this year I dated an American Asian woman who worked as a project manager in the IT field, mostly around men, and her personality was super alpha. I tend to be beta in a lot of my interactions with people but absolutely hate being bossed around by anyone. After her trying to order me around a couple of times I called her on it and asked (while smiling) "hey, what's with the bossiness?" At first it kind of took her by surprise and then she apologized and said she's had other men call her …
/r/seduction12/10/12 02:34 PM
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In my experience, being 10-15 minutes late is the new "on time". I only have an issue with it if they don't text me and let me know they're running late. It's now to the point where I can rely on the fact that they'll be late and build that into when I leave the house to go meet them.
/r/seduction18/09/12 04:51 AM
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Wow, that hit me harder than I ever thought it would...deep.
/r/seduction12/09/12 09:50 PM
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I was watching a YouTube video where a guy indirectly asked a group of women for directions and one of them called him out and asked if it was some kind of pickup line. Without missing a beat he replied "Absolutely!" The women loved it and one even said something like "and he owns it!" As long as you're confident they'll admire your guts and still respect you. If not, next!
/r/seduction12/09/12 05:19 AM
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What really worked for me is to pick easy situations like waiting in line for your coffee or something really mundane where you're in close proximity to other people. Then, just listen to those random thoughts you get and say them out loud (if appropriate). For example, you're in the Starbucks line and you see a pastry that looks good. Simply say to the person by you 'man that doughnut looks good'. Most of the time they'll agree, laugh or smile. Many times they'll comment on something else simil…
/r/seduction12/09/12 05:14 AM
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I'm fairly new to daygame myself and so far I've only used situational openers. With that being said for me its critical that I warm up first before even attempting to open any kind of a HB. To do this I'll go for a walk and simply say hello to everyone I pass. I also will go to the coffee shop in my apartment community and chat up the person at the counter and anyone else around me. After a little bit of simply saying anything to people I don't know I'm usually feeling pretty confident and good…
/r/seduction31/08/12 06:53 AM
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That's really solid advice. I'm in the same position you are and am just starting to go out solo. So far I've just done a few after work happy hours but I'm already getting more comfortable with sitting at a bar alone and chatting up those next to me.
/r/seduction30/08/12 03:07 PM
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Not to get all Dr. Phil on you but it sounds like you have some shame issues towards sex and are uncomfortable with being a sexual being and have some deeply ingrained beliefs that only slutty women like sex. I'm willing to bet you also have other typical "Nice Guy" issues that go hand in hand with this. I would highly recommend finding a good male therapist to talk to about this. I had much of the same shame about sex and therapy has tremendously helped me embrace being sexual around women. It'…
/r/seduction28/08/12 07:47 PM
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I totally second this tactic. I had a similar thing happen to me a while back. I was at a meetup in a bar chatting with this cute Asian girl acquaintance. After a while I got up to get a drink and she began to mingle and talk to other guys. I decided that I didn't want to wait around for her and calmly walked up, interrupted her and said I was leaving. She acted surprised and a little shocked. When I woke up the next morning there was an email from her asking me in a flirty way why I had left so…
/r/seduction26/08/12 08:13 PM
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Thanks again everyone for your comments. I definitely appreciate the 'tough love' and everyone keeping it real. A few additional pieces of info. Both of the women I had seen previously so neither was a first date. 2. Both dates were set for weeknights but I still don't know for sure if it was just a false time constraint or real plans. 3. I definitely agree that I didn't build enough attraction on the first date so I need to be aware of this and ramp things up with future women. Finally I need t…
/r/seduction24/08/12 05:22 AM
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Thanks everyone for the solid advice. I'm a recovering "nice guy" and when a woman tries to pull this kind of thing on me my reaction now is to try and take back control of the interaction and not let her lead. I also don't want to be seen as a the guy who buys her drinks/appetizers and then she bails so she can go do who knows what... I know now that I can't let this get to me and I need to just plow as usual and ignore her time constraints...false or otherwise.
/r/seduction23/08/12 04:33 PM
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